HARDDON:


U Dominant or Demonized?

What happened to this instruction by HE who instituted marriage? "... WIFE SUBMIT to your husbands?"

jaksmillioniar:
useless animal are u ban

Casemiro:


learn to be loyal and submissive to your husband. Don't listen to bad advice from outside, they just want to ruin your home

adamasmag:

VERY TRUE

HARDDON:


Because the mind controls life and living. The intangible controls the tangible and the seen, unseen.

A single lady that really values the institution of marriage should rather work on her mind and almost every other thing shall fall in place.

It is only then also that these your list can stand.
Please be realistic. All men cheat


AREAS LADIES NEED MIND MENDING

1. WRONG Mind Set About Guys: " all men are dogs, cheats and unfaithful". You can't go into marriage with this consciousness lurking at the back of your mind. If you do, even if you meet a faithful guy, your thoughts would make a random sampling dog outa him.

The Bible is quite clear about that; " you shall have whatever you say." And " life and death are in the power of the tongue". Wonder how the mind is related to the tongue? well, "out of the abundance of the heart(mind), the mouth speaketh"

A lot of married ladies are actually responsible for their men cheating.
How can your Prince charming, the man you've waited and prayed to God for all your life be reduced to nothing but a dog in your mind? And you expect him not turn out as one?

don4real18:

20k... If a man that earns within that range stays single, so should a woman
I'm only preaching equality

ominiriches2016:
Which one be, "a submissive man will make a good husband"? Don't turn the Bible upside down please.

TonyeBarcanista:

I put it to you that you are looking for a weakling and a she in the skin of a "he".

Woe be that man that will submit his nature given authority to his wife...

Colourich:
A submissive man will make a good husband unlike their dominant counterpart.

Colourich:
I don't like dominant men, they turn me off, is it that hard to understand given to the fact that I am dominant.

Colourich:
A submissive man will make a good husband unlike their dominant counterpart.

HARDDON:
All these are superficial

Pataricatering:
submissive for what ? Submission ko , subtraction ni !

XingXhang:


Most Ladies is most suited.

Very few are willing to develop their minds.

Elder001:

What's stopping you from cooking? must women be the ones to cook for you?

Many misogynistic men are actually on this forum

YelloweWest:

What of a woman who is pregnant or taking care of her baby at home?
I can tell u are still single...

Unik3030:
submissive man... Wetin person no go hear.y not put it simply as slave husband.so if a man is submissive what will a woman do

YelloweWest:
I did not go to shrine to marry my husband.
My husband is currently the sole breadwinner of the family.
My husband and I are partners in just about everything.
My husband I submit to one another.
My husband is therefore submissive.

Brightgem:
Well maybe so. When I do a thing I sometimes assume others do same. I read a lot anyways...

Pataricatering:
men now want women who earn but they want the woman to be still be submissive ! The two don’t go together ! You can’t eat your cake and still have it !

Colourich:
So its better for a woman to be the slave abi?

jolyment:


It is the wife responsibilities to cook but the husband can assist.

Unik3030:
so Bible is shit.u must be sick upstairs n I guess u need to visit a psychiatrist

YelloweWest:

I did not go to shrine to marry my husband.

My husband is currently the sole breadwinner of the family.

My husband and I are partners in just about everything.

My husband I submit to one another.

My husband is therefore submissive.

YelloweWest:

What of a woman who is pregnant or taking care of her baby at home?
I can tell u are still single...

don4real18:

[s]Being submissive has nothing to do with one's earning. The husband is the authority in the home and the wife should submit to him. There can't be two bosses because there will be problems[/s]

Tellemall:


This is a case of Nigerians trying to be more westernized than the West.

Out in the West men try as much as possible to have a house wife, because she will take care of her kids properly. Unless they both agree they need money or that she should pursue her career. Sometimes if she is ambitious the man will become a house husband, and believe me, he cannot work once he's taking care of that child.

But by Nigerian logic he should be able to take care of the child and bring the wife money to show that he is important in the Union, while all she has to do is go to work, have drinks after work before coming back to run a finger along surfaces to know if such a man did his duties as a good house husband.

Nigerians want a robot or dog, not wives. They want her to bring them money and do everything, while they just bring money without doing anything. That is the Nigerian definition of equality between the genders. It means that a woman will fulfill all her responsibilities in addition to bringing money while the man only brings in money. He has no responsibility outside that. If she takes her job seriously he begins to get jealous or accuse her of being incapable of being a good robot.

A very wrong understanding of sustainability in marriage.

The wrong things you see here are reflective of very damaged single men who will eventually look for dogs or robots to marry.

Elder001:


They think they're too big to wash plates and cook.

Dump his sorry their sorry asses.

Elder001:

Seems you think we're still in 1930..
This is a civilized world.

The earlier you awaken from the drunken privileges of patriarchy the better for you.

Elder001:


Is this an excuse? that you've a kid doesn't stop you from working..

Hire a nanny.

housewife in the 21st century and you're not ashamed.