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Re: Things Every Lady Should Do Before Getting Married by harriet412(f): 7:44pm On Jun 19, 2018 |
When there's a list for what men should do before getting married, comman call me... It can't be a one sided thing 1 Like |
Re: Things Every Lady Should Do Before Getting Married by sarahade(f): 10:19pm On Jun 19, 2018 |
2buffagain: Sir why did you mention me in this thread now. I will postpone your insult. Let me tell you I'm a feminist which means I don't take bullshit and I don't give out bullshit. Im also in love like crazy in love with my partner I cook,clean tell me what I don't do for him. I'm loyal you know Why? Because he deserves it like he is my dream come true. Being a feminist doesn't teach you to be rude or you should misbehave or have a nasty attitude. it teaches you to have self respect and appreciate your self irrespective of your gender. Thanks |
Re: Things Every Lady Should Do Before Getting Married by Rukkydelta(f): 11:09pm On Jun 19, 2018 |
HARDDON: I'm suprised by the way you are speaking here.I do follow that thread of yours dating drills and I saw where you advise guys to get as many options as possible and not to be with only one girl Or has a girl finally gotten your balls ? |
Re: Things Every Lady Should Do Before Getting Married by jolyment: 11:14pm On Jun 19, 2018 |
Elder001: When you marry,tell that to your husband. |
Re: Things Every Lady Should Do Before Getting Married by HARDDON: 11:58pm On Jun 19, 2018 |
Rukkydelta: Don't get it twisted. I stand by every word of mine: the greatest mistake a man can make is Having just one gurl at the centre of his life. If you follow me aptly, you would have obviously come across the terms ROSE and FLOWERS and their respective purposes. Hawt Ladies are very balanced around guys and easily swing them because they, never, at a point, narrow in fully to one guy unless he is exceptional. Besides, there is a difference between being Single and Prepping seriously for Marriage. Lastly, follow, follow bumbum. I would have checked you out( see if you are worth my while) but now, my hands are full. Sorry. |
Re: Things Every Lady Should Do Before Getting Married by Nobody: 12:58am On Jun 20, 2018 |
2buffagain: No woman can make you a traditional man or sole provider. Being the sole provider is a choice many Nigerian men make because of their worthless ego not because of any woman. Your life, your choice. If you want to share bills, you share. Don't tell me a woman forced you to foot all the bills. |
Re: Things Every Lady Should Do Before Getting Married by Nobody: 1:00am On Jun 20, 2018 |
sarahade: Feminist is now the most abused word on social media. In Nigeria feminist and the word “broke” have turned into national anthem. Even people that can't fend for themselves without depending on a man will be calling themselves feminist. 1 Like |
Re: Things Every Lady Should Do Before Getting Married by jaksmillioniar: 1:45am On Jun 20, 2018 |
Pataricatering:will u shut ur dirty mouth are we mate.did i blog for u |
Re: Things Every Lady Should Do Before Getting Married by sarahade(f): 2:11am On Jun 20, 2018 |
Elder001: So feminism is how much you have smh You are not ok |
Re: Things Every Lady Should Do Before Getting Married by Nobody: 2:14am On Jun 20, 2018 |
sarahade: Define feminism.. I can bet your type don't even know the different types of feminism. If you aren't independent you're not a feminist Read up the meaning of feminism again and stop disgracing real feminists. Goodnight. |
Re: Things Every Lady Should Do Before Getting Married by 2buffagain(m): 2:23am On Jun 20, 2018 |
sarahade: LOL I don't think you know what a feminist is. |
Re: Things Every Lady Should Do Before Getting Married by donjobill: 5:47am On Jun 20, 2018 |
Pataricatering: A dominant lady doesn't necessarily have to be earning much to dominate a man. They're many ladies who dominate their wealthy men yet they ( the ladies themselves) are not rich. A dominant lady being rich is just a bonus. The fact that some men don't seem to realize, and those who have realized, don't want to accept, is that being dominant is a natural trait. Dominant women are being constantly forced by our male-dominated society to suppress the dominant urge within them which is constantly seeking expression through them. As a result, they're being forced to live a life that is alien to to their true nature. Now that women have been so pushed to the wall by men to the extent that they are forced to come out of their shells to struggle to liberate themselves, the very men who are forcing them to live unfulfilled life are crying foul. Of course, liberation always doesn't come without struggle of some sort. |
Re: Things Every Lady Should Do Before Getting Married by sarahade(f): 6:31am On Jun 20, 2018 |
2buffagain:Enlighten me please. |
Re: Things Every Lady Should Do Before Getting Married by sarahade(f): 6:38am On Jun 20, 2018 |
Elder001: Lol I'm not a feminism(Please correct yourself) So even if I don't know the definition of feminism I cannot Google it abi. You are not ok and I'm sure I'm more independent than you and your sorry ass ego. Good morning. You should know what feminism is all about before attacking it and it's movement like an ignorant fool. If I'm disgracing real feminist how does it add an inch to your penis. Stop using panadol for someone else's headache. |
Re: Things Every Lady Should Do Before Getting Married by Nobody: 2:38pm On Jun 20, 2018 |
Both lists from the OP and the other gentlemen were actually pretty good. The thing is that both can/should be used by both genders. |
Re: Things Every Lady Should Do Before Getting Married by YelloweWest: 9:14pm On Jun 20, 2018 |
Elder001: I'M not a housewife. Im proud of those who raise their children themselves. I can tell u are not married or have a child... |
Re: Things Every Lady Should Do Before Getting Married by Nobody: 12:07am On Jun 21, 2018 |
sarahade:Lol. Insulting like a 13year old kid. I'm sure you don't even know the meaning of financial independence. Do you think there's one type of feminism? Feminism has 8 different categories/types. I'm not surprised that a typical kid will try to argue things that are way higher than her intellectual faculty. |
Re: Things Every Lady Should Do Before Getting Married by Nobody: 12:08am On Jun 21, 2018 |
YelloweWest: Stop quoting me. Go out there make money and contribute to the family. |
Re: Things Every Lady Should Do Before Getting Married by YelloweWest: 6:56am On Jun 21, 2018 |
desiregold:Its not a crime to be single dear, however it's clear you are ignorant. A pregnant woman who can't work due to the stress of pregnancy is not lazy. You won't know this maybe because you've not experienced it. A nursing mother also can't work because a new born till 2years usually requires 24/7 care. Again you won't know this maybe because you've not experienced it! When the baby turns 2, a lot of women are pregnant again so the cycle continues until she is done baring kids. A woman who is raising her family is not lazy and works 24/7. Don't worry you'll experience it. She must be take care of by her husband UNTIL she is post delivery and nursing. |
Re: Things Every Lady Should Do Before Getting Married by YelloweWest: 7:02am On Jun 21, 2018 |
Tellemall:Well said. I'm shocked by some comments from women honestly. If a woman is pregnant and nursing why won't the man step up and be the sole breadwinner of the family? It's crazy. One even said who does not work should not eat! So a wife raising her husband's children is not even entitled to food... smh 1 Like |
Re: Things Every Lady Should Do Before Getting Married by YelloweWest: 7:05am On Jun 21, 2018 |
mypassions:My brother that's exactly the way the word submissive offends me as a woman too! My husband and I submit to one another. So it's 50/50. We live by the principle don't do what you wouldn't want to be don to you. Shikena. |
Re: Things Every Lady Should Do Before Getting Married by sarahade(f): 7:27am On Jun 21, 2018 |
Elder001: At least I'm 13 and I use my head unlike you our great grandfather. I don't know what financial independence is? I don't know what feminism is what do I know? Well one thing I know is I should stop arguing with my grandfather about who I am. You don't define me and what I do. If financial independence makes a person a feminist then I'm done with you. You know nothing so my children can't be feminist because I feed them or my parents or cousin can't be feminist because I take care of them. You Are dump sir. Feminism is equal right for both sexes lame man definition o. So if I don't have money I should not be treated fairly You are sick. Please don't quote me again. And I'm sure I earn more than your hungry ass you think typing grammar makes you rich empty vessel. Mtcheew |
Re: Things Every Lady Should Do Before Getting Married by Nobody: 11:14am On Jun 21, 2018 |
YelloweWest:I wont quote you again after this post. You keep shouting ignorant all over this thread because we have different opinion from you. there are bizness pregnant and nursing mothers can still be doing even at home. Cant a pregnant woman or nursing be selling drinks and snacks from her home? Cant she be selling recgarge cards from her home? Cant she work as paga /quickteller agent from home? My point is a woman who is healthy should not be waiting for her husband for every cent and kobo. There is dignity in labour. And what do you mean by a "woman raising her husband's children" Madam, are they not her children too? Raising of children is not a one person thing, both couple are doing it together in their own way. yet, the husbands is still bringing in money even with him partaking in raising those children. why then should we make excuses for the woman? |
Re: Things Every Lady Should Do Before Getting Married by YelloweWest: 5:08pm On Jun 21, 2018 |
desiregold:What of those not internet inclined? It's easier said than done for women who fall sick or is taking care of multiple infants. Yes there is dignity in labour. Nursing and raising infants is full time labour. |
Re: Things Every Lady Should Do Before Getting Married by 2buffagain(m): 5:15pm On Jun 21, 2018 |
desiregold: You be betta human being 1 Like |
Re: Things Every Lady Should Do Before Getting Married by Nobody: 1:57am On Jun 22, 2018 |
sarahade: With this kind of grammer I'm sure you're not through with university not to talk of having a job. These kids though! |
Re: Things Every Lady Should Do Before Getting Married by Nobody: 2:01am On Jun 22, 2018 |
YelloweWest: Your comments are very ridiculous and primitive! Thinking like someone living in 1955 smh That you've a kid doesn't stop you from working, stop giving baseless excuses. If the man's mom or your mom can't do omougwo then hire a nanny and continue with your job. Nanny is cheap in Nigeria. You just want to be a lazy stay at home wife not anything else. Pregnancy doesn't stop you from working . Lazy woman. C'mon go and work and contribute to the family wellbeing. |
Re: Things Every Lady Should Do Before Getting Married by sarahade(f): 8:25am On Jun 22, 2018 |
Elder001: Sorry o ancientof days. I'm sure I earn more than you. And I have more degree and certification than your hungry self I'm a terrible writer especially when I'm angry. But as long as you get the message I'm good. Don t ever quote me again. Pathetic fool. |
Re: Things Every Lady Should Do Before Getting Married by Nobody: 12:47pm On Jun 22, 2018 |
sarahade: How old are you? |
Re: Things Every Lady Should Do Before Getting Married by sarahade(f): 1:55pm On Jun 22, 2018 |
Elder001: 5 |
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