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How Can I Control My Sex Craving Toward My Wife by ecgreb(m): 6:31am On Jun 23, 2018 |
Good morning nairalanders. I have been married to my wife for more than 10 years now and we have beautiful kids. She was the first and only woman I have ever had sex with. Averagely, we have sex 3 times weekly and it has always been fun. I ensure that I carryout my manly responsibilities by providing for the family and trying to make everyone happy. Few days ago, she decline my sexual advances. Later, I ask to know why she did that and she told me that I love sex too much. I was embarrassed. She sleeps nowadays in the children room or in the parlour just to avoid me though she refuses to accept that truth. Please I wish to know ideally how many times couples here have sex with their partners weekly and how I can control my sex cravings towards her. I just wish I can stay away from having sex with her even for two months. 61 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: How Can I Control My Sex Craving Toward My Wife by wunmi590(m): 6:34am On Jun 23, 2018 |
Coming back 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How Can I Control My Sex Craving Toward My Wife by Olalan(m): 6:38am On Jun 23, 2018 |
Your wife seems to have something bothering her to have lost interest in having sex with you, try to get her pour out her mind to you. You seem to have a loving family, pls don't allow this bring cracks into your union. 432 Likes 17 Shares |
Re: How Can I Control My Sex Craving Toward My Wife by Atlanticfire: 6:39am On Jun 23, 2018 |
I think there are other issues bothering your wife. 3 times a week is not too much, just that it should not be constant like clockwork. Some weeks fewer and some weeks more the 3 times. It should vary with the mood of both of you. Talk to your wife and get the real issue behind the reduced sex drive on her part. 172 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: How Can I Control My Sex Craving Toward My Wife by charijee(f): 6:40am On Jun 23, 2018 |
Story........ Carry your sex matter enter bedroom ![]() 14 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: How Can I Control My Sex Craving Toward My Wife by Amarabae(f): 6:42am On Jun 23, 2018 |
ecgreb:Let me advise you. Sex is good in marriage but overdoing it look odd and tiring. For some women, 3 times a week is too much, While for some, it's okay What she is trying to tell you is "sweetheart it's not everytime there will be a penetration, we can do some pre-intimacy and romance each other and have fun. It can be a good Mouth Action and then you both sleep without any penetration(if she likes Mouth Action) You can give her a good head and you both sleep. It must not end in penetration. Too much full penetration sex will make both of you burn out and get tired of each other, and the thoughts of cheating will come in. Give penetration sex some time gap so that you both can be refreshed and hungry for it again. . Oriaku Amara 393 Likes 14 Shares |
Re: How Can I Control My Sex Craving Toward My Wife by CChillz: 6:42am On Jun 23, 2018 |
Talk to your wife, there should be something really bothering her, or try to think of the promises you made to her before you got married to her, because the very moment you begin to look away from her, that will be the very moment the thoughts of cheating might set in. 23 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Can I Control My Sex Craving Toward My Wife by NokiaN8(m): 6:43am On Jun 23, 2018 |
she is seeing another man.. from experience... watch her steps... maybe her ex called her a d they having a nice time at ur back... or smthing with a neighbor... 71 Likes 10 Shares |
Re: How Can I Control My Sex Craving Toward My Wife by highqueen(f): 6:44am On Jun 23, 2018 |
tell to her to know whats actually wrong somewhere. you don't just take it as she told you,there might actually be something bothering her or what you have failed to do as a husby. 6 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: How Can I Control My Sex Craving Toward My Wife by IamPatriotic(m): 6:44am On Jun 23, 2018 |
Communication
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Communication ........ Communication. 30 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Can I Control My Sex Craving Toward My Wife by IamPatriotic(m): 6:44am On Jun 23, 2018 |
Amarabae: my point 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Can I Control My Sex Craving Toward My Wife by Ahmed0336(m): 6:44am On Jun 23, 2018 |
NokiaN8:Ah Ah!!! Pesin were no fit endure her husband Na outsider she wan do? Abeg o That woman ought to be grateful and if she isn't let her ask her fellow women who had been married for same number of years as she to hear complaints of them not seeing their husbands or their husbands flirt outside and hardly touches them. Maybe she ll appreciate you ![]() 50 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Can I Control My Sex Craving Toward My Wife by shortgun(m): 6:52am On Jun 23, 2018 |
Amarabae:He is talking about sex with his wife, not that they want to act a porn movie. ![]() Haba kilode 241 Likes 12 Shares |
Re: How Can I Control My Sex Craving Toward My Wife by Nobody: 7:00am On Jun 23, 2018 |
shortgun:I was thinking about that too. ![]() ![]() 58 Likes |
Re: How Can I Control My Sex Craving Toward My Wife by oshe11: 7:16am On Jun 23, 2018 |
Lolz..... Just 3 times a WEEK? ![]() I was giving my girl twice on a daily basis back then in school ![]() Maybe you are no longer satisfying her, like after first round you just go flaccid. So to her, sex is more like a chore to satisfy you and something she no longer enjoys ![]() But ask her sha, na she dey wear the shoes and obviously knows wear it hurts 50 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: How Can I Control My Sex Craving Toward My Wife by eleojo23: 7:35am On Jun 23, 2018 |
This matter pass me... 5 Likes 1 Share
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Re: How Can I Control My Sex Craving Toward My Wife by Tychamps(m): 7:35am On Jun 23, 2018 |
Before you use sex kill her, make she run 8 Likes |
Re: How Can I Control My Sex Craving Toward My Wife by Frankyboy1(m): 7:36am On Jun 23, 2018 |
Change in mood swing,biological and psychological adjustments, mental fatigue,over familiarity can make one get tired of sex.there is no time table for sex, sometimes play d waiting game,give her some space,let her long for it, look good,smell nice nd sexy, tantalise her with care affection nd romance, when she thinks d next line of action os sex, withdraw! Sex sometimes is mental, stimulate her mind,nd let her not know wat next is coming, play d bad boy waiting game,bring some suspense and fun back, bring back those smiles nd let her eye lit up with ur suspense nd guessing whats coming next!nd bang when.it happens! It explodes like a tornado!sometimes it becomes lovemaking,sometimes rough fucking,it just comes in differnt shades and unexpected colors, Stop making it routinous and boring, like a drug u must take three times a week! 72 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: How Can I Control My Sex Craving Toward My Wife by queensera(f): 7:36am On Jun 23, 2018 |
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Re: How Can I Control My Sex Craving Toward My Wife by owomida1: 7:36am On Jun 23, 2018 |
This guy must be a scorpian. Carry ur pen is go meet am where she dey. If u get a sidechick now we no go hear word again. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How Can I Control My Sex Craving Toward My Wife by soberdrunk(m): 7:36am On Jun 23, 2018 |
Just 3 times a week? What a wicked wife!! ![]() ![]() 11 Likes |
Re: How Can I Control My Sex Craving Toward My Wife by MARKone(m): 7:36am On Jun 23, 2018 |
10 years of marriage? 3x a week seems demanding. On the other hand, Maybe because she is your first. Train your mind OP, you won't die, allow her sleep with the kids for now, na that body contact and seeing her nude body all the time dey arouse you. She'll come back relax 11 Likes |
Re: How Can I Control My Sex Craving Toward My Wife by wildcatter23(m): 7:37am On Jun 23, 2018 |
Ideally, this might not bode well with certain people. Let me get to it. You should give the lady a break and try out the services of these pay as you go on the net. 10years of 3times a week, you are a stud and shouldn't keep drilling that woman. Then learn to communicate, communicate and communicate with her. Seems something is on her mind. It's not all the time one is in the mood for sex. I didn't advise you to get a side chick o. You can get a intimacy gadget o if hitting a lady outside compromises you marital principles. Or you get soap and m********* But Guy seriously, after 10years of active service, you suppose retire that lady with pension and gratuity 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Can I Control My Sex Craving Toward My Wife by CriticMaestro: 7:37am On Jun 23, 2018 |
Extraordinary lie....after 10years of marriage you still have the urge to have sex with the same woman three times a week? So you must have had sex more than 1500 times over the years...what you deserve some accolades for that extraordinary lie 21 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Can I Control My Sex Craving Toward My Wife by Nobody: 7:37am On Jun 23, 2018 |
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Re: How Can I Control My Sex Craving Toward My Wife by Nobody: 7:38am On Jun 23, 2018 |
shortgun:that lady brain is full of fart... no sense at all ![]() 25 Likes |
Re: How Can I Control My Sex Craving Toward My Wife by Groovenaija360(m): 7:38am On Jun 23, 2018 |
Amarabae: Him dey learn work only 3times We do it every day. Except when she's seeing her menses But be sure to respect when she says I don't want today 6 Likes |
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