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Re: How Can I Control My Sex Craving Toward My Wife by 1stNumeroUno: 11:37am On Jun 23, 2018 |
Amarabae: Since na woman talk this one, I concur. |
Re: How Can I Control My Sex Craving Toward My Wife by Nobody: 11:42am On Jun 23, 2018 |
Ahmed0336:Baba if u know women at all u will not rule out the possibility.. Communication is the key here |
Re: How Can I Control My Sex Craving Toward My Wife by TurakinNaija: 11:44am On Jun 23, 2018 |
My candid opinion is that 3 times a week may be way to much for your wife to bear for now. It's possible that she has other issues bothering her outside the comfort of her home or even in her home that may not have anything serious to do with you. It could be work related stress, or issues from her parents cum siblings, or even her multiple work roles as a wife, a mother, a sister and employee etc but open communication with her could unravel the mystery behind her sudden change of bedroom attitude. Secondly, women at times prefer to cuddle and not necessarily asking for sex, but we men often interprete it as leading one on to have sex. You also need to check your sex style and mannerism. If you are always doing it to get climaxed while she is left hanging, she may not be interested in sex anymore. It take two to tango, give her the pleasure that she deserves. 4 Likes |
Re: How Can I Control My Sex Craving Toward My Wife by LordReed(m): 11:45am On Jun 23, 2018 |
ecgreb: Does your wife climax every time you make love? 2 Likes |
Re: How Can I Control My Sex Craving Toward My Wife by CriticMaestro: 11:46am On Jun 23, 2018 |
sassysure:You are very funny, his own story is more realistic than yours sef...he drills his wife even after given birth...lie of the century |
Re: How Can I Control My Sex Craving Toward My Wife by meobizy(f): 11:58am On Jun 23, 2018 |
ecgreb:You are in a marriage. Things like this are bound to happen. I can not give you solid advice because I have never gotten married nor engaged before but I'll guide you from my relationships. Sometimes in my relationships when a girl gives me too much sex I carry my big head and tell her "I can't cope with you. You love sex too much.". Do you know what happens next? She withdraws all forms of intimacy. We'll stay in the room both n-aked and she'll make no advance towards me. Any form of advance I make gets rebuffed, her repeating my too-much-sex words verbatim. Two weeks of witholding any form of touching feels like Hell opened and I fell in. Many times I beg and beg, going on my knees to show how serious I am but she locks up. This lasts -- depending on the girl -- from two weeks to almost two months. I learned a lesson after two different girls did this to me to never question a woman's sexual habits. One thing with women ironically is they can never take what they dish out. The problem is not you or your sex drive. If you reduce physical affection she may cheat on you, claiming you weren't giving it to her enough making her not feel sexy. Try the same thing my girls did. Make hers about two weeks or so for a start. Hold yourself, you're a man. Look forward only to the end goal: the respect she'll show you for witholding intimacy for so long. When you finish and you guys are back on you can then confess to her how hard it was controlling yourself despite temptation -- my girls always did the same. I hope this helps. 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Control My Sex Craving Toward My Wife by obajoje: 12:02pm On Jun 23, 2018 |
Prepare to get second wife, the load is too heavy for her to carry, Threats her with issues of second wife ,she will sit up. |
Re: How Can I Control My Sex Craving Toward My Wife by egoldman(m): 12:02pm On Jun 23, 2018 |
CriticMaestro: Oga leave matter, ooh, I been with my wife for over 10 years with two kids, and till today once she passes my side unclad or even with only panties, something must stair up in me, though I try to control it. 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Control My Sex Craving Toward My Wife by frozen70(f): 12:03pm On Jun 23, 2018 |
ecgreb: Learn to remove your mind from sex and focus on some other things that will make your family great. Socialize with her and engage her in other things that will keep sex away from both of you. Women attach emotions to everything including sex and most times their thoughts about sex is always off especially the married ones. PAY attention to her and assist her in house chores always, permit her to always go in and rest whenever the kids are disturbing her. Take her for outing and give her a treat such will make her have urge for you. Women like cuddling it turns them on. 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Control My Sex Craving Toward My Wife by Sparkies85(m): 12:05pm On Jun 23, 2018 |
Amarabae: Different stroke for Different folks |
Re: How Can I Control My Sex Craving Toward My Wife by Duru009(m): 12:09pm On Jun 23, 2018 |
You like sex thy complain, you don't like sex they complain........ wowen women women women eheeeee ! |
Re: How Can I Control My Sex Craving Toward My Wife by omoelerin1: 12:11pm On Jun 23, 2018 |
RiyadhGoddess:Though you looked like a muslim but it seems you dont know the islamic doctrine about marriage. What you said is forbid in Islam. In Islam, whenever your husband demand for sex, you must not deny him, even if you're sick, unless you're having your monthly flow. It is only him that can decide whether or not to have sex with you. Woman has no say in determining when to have sex. In fact, if your husband decide to punish you for a particular offence and he refuse to sleep with you, you are going to see the wrath of Allah. Not because of the offence in question, but because he stop having sex with you. That's what your religion teaches. I am not a moslem. |
Re: How Can I Control My Sex Craving Toward My Wife by okorojonah(m): 12:15pm On Jun 23, 2018 |
Really...? U don't have sense you this woman |
Re: How Can I Control My Sex Craving Toward My Wife by Reference(m): 12:15pm On Jun 23, 2018 |
K ecgreb: Idle man. Is that your vision. Please find work that places a proper demand on your reaources and sex will become as secondary as it is meant to be. |
Re: How Can I Control My Sex Craving Toward My Wife by Bsideboi(m): 12:21pm On Jun 23, 2018 |
eleojo23:oma igala e se? |
Re: How Can I Control My Sex Craving Toward My Wife by CriticMaestro: 12:23pm On Jun 23, 2018 |
egoldman:another fat lie |
Re: How Can I Control My Sex Craving Toward My Wife by IMASTEX: 12:28pm On Jun 23, 2018 |
Amarabae:You made a valid point. Imagine eating fried chicken daily. You will definitely get tired of it. The bolded is key. Most people fails to realize that it is not frequency of sex that matters but the quality satisfaction in the few times. 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Control My Sex Craving Toward My Wife by felixawe(m): 12:31pm On Jun 23, 2018 |
Its psychological problems, calm her down on your knee and talk to her humbly. Let there be coutesy |
Re: How Can I Control My Sex Craving Toward My Wife by kilojoDesigns: 12:46pm On Jun 23, 2018 |
Love is cursed by monogamy- Kanye West |
Re: How Can I Control My Sex Craving Toward My Wife by MarieSucre(f): 12:54pm On Jun 23, 2018 |
samguru: You're going to ruin his marriage and your with this advice. People are more than sacks of meet where we get our sexual pleasure. Marriage is not just about policies all the time. Communication is key. |
Re: How Can I Control My Sex Craving Toward My Wife by MarieSucre(f): 12:56pm On Jun 23, 2018 |
tyup: Bride Price is not slavery. It is bond cementing them proscribed by culture. She is his wife not an olosho. Let them hash out their issues. |
Re: How Can I Control My Sex Craving Toward My Wife by MarieSucre(f): 12:58pm On Jun 23, 2018 |
XingXhang: Funny thing, he was also a virgin. |
Re: How Can I Control My Sex Craving Toward My Wife by MarieSucre(f): 1:00pm On Jun 23, 2018 |
CorGier: That's not how marriage works sir. Marriage is not about your policies all the time. Learn to resolve issues with sense and communication. Remember you will not always be young and strong. It is the relationship you have painstakingly built with love and understanding not force that will see you through your old age. Ask elder and they'll tell you. |
Re: How Can I Control My Sex Craving Toward My Wife by Ahmed0336(m): 1:02pm On Jun 23, 2018 |
dairykidd:I am talking from experience bro. Been married for almost 13yrs now, except yours is longer than mine I think I know what I'm saying. |
Re: How Can I Control My Sex Craving Toward My Wife by MarieSucre(f): 1:03pm On Jun 23, 2018 |
Speakdatruth: Earlier on the comment a guy said that when he is having financial issues, he avoids sex with his wife because he is mind is too weighed down to be h*rny. It's not gender specific. I guess his wife, might not know but she tries not understand. Marriage issues are solved by communication not ordering, threatening or force. |
Re: How Can I Control My Sex Craving Toward My Wife by Nobody: 1:03pm On Jun 23, 2018 |
Ahmed0336:Alright boss... |
Re: How Can I Control My Sex Craving Toward My Wife by MarieSucre(f): 1:09pm On Jun 23, 2018 |
CriticMaestro: It's like you don't want to give birth to children when to marry. If that is your decision good on you. Ride on. |
Re: How Can I Control My Sex Craving Toward My Wife by MarieSucre(f): 1:15pm On Jun 23, 2018 |
Duru009: How many times have you given a woman orgasm? |
Re: How Can I Control My Sex Craving Toward My Wife by MarieSucre(f): 1:16pm On Jun 23, 2018 |
debedebe: I'm so sorry about your situation. Have you spoken to your wife about it? What was her reply? |
Re: How Can I Control My Sex Craving Toward My Wife by Ategberoson(m): 1:19pm On Jun 23, 2018 |
I'm not married yet but I believe you should work on your romance. no matter what could be bothering a Lady, if she have a romantic man, asking for sex shouldn't be a big deal nonetheless |
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