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I Have A Crush On My Course Rep, He Comes Close But I Ignore Him by Jamariwolff(f): 6:35pm On Jul 03, 2018 |
First, i want to be clear that this isn't a case of forming hard to get. I've been broken once before by a crush and I had to learn the hard way of keeping it all secret. So I'm a 100 lvl student in a Nigeria university and my course rep is extremely handsome, friendly, tall, and very dope- he walks like a God, dresses with aĺl prestige, and smells like fresh dew. He has nice smile, what i love most is his skin, which is always glowing and very beautiful to look at. He turns me on like stupid. But here is a problem I DON'T WANT HIM TO KNOW I HAVE A CRUSH ON HIM. it never ends well, I'll enhance his self esteem at the end and he'll start to avoid me altogether. I also do NOT want to stop crushing on him. Yes, I know 90% that it'll not work out at the end. Thus, to avoid him knowing I'm crushing. I do the following 1. Avoid looking at him, ever. On the streets, i pretend to look at my phone when passing him. Although I take a peek with my peripheral side vision sometimes, that's that. 2. I sit faraway in class, where I can focus 100% on myself. I sit in front of him normally and I never look back. Ever. 3. We are just "greeting" friends, we don't talk much, just greet once in a while. And I try to act as uninterested as possible. 4. I once tried getting him a gift (candy)last semester to make him know I exist, and that's how the friendship started, i havent given him any gifts since then. In fact, i simply ignore him. but he doesn't know I like him and I must be really careful. I don't know what to do. PS: don't tell me to confess my crush or give him GREENLIGHTS, because I would rather die than do any of the above options. 23 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: I Have A Crush On My Course Rep, He Comes Close But I Ignore Him by MANNABBQGRILLS: 6:36pm On Jul 03, 2018 |
100Level? Okay, keep to your number 3 for now........ We are just "greeting" friends, we don't talk much, just greet once in a while. And I try to act as uninterested as possible. That is the Best I can tell you now. Make your course rep your platonic friend. Your Books first my dear: That is the most important thing for now. See ya! 274 Likes 12 Shares |
Re: I Have A Crush On My Course Rep, He Comes Close But I Ignore Him by Nobody: 6:37pm On Jul 03, 2018 |
Lemme book space |
Re: I Have A Crush On My Course Rep, He Comes Close But I Ignore Him by Jamariwolff(f): 6:41pm On Jul 03, 2018 |
post=69053536:thanks. I'll keep this in mind 21 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Have A Crush On My Course Rep, He Comes Close But I Ignore Him by bdsm: 6:42pm On Jul 03, 2018 |
So why are u writing to us? What advice do u seek? U better toast him or suffer in torment 43 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Have A Crush On My Course Rep, He Comes Close But I Ignore Him by Nobody: 6:43pm On Jul 03, 2018 |
Jamariwolff so you are in 100 level? ![]() Chai, see children I have been playing with on Nairaland ![]() 391 Likes 18 Shares |
Re: I Have A Crush On My Course Rep, He Comes Close But I Ignore Him by MANNABBQGRILLS: 6:44pm On Jul 03, 2018 |
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Re: I Have A Crush On My Course Rep, He Comes Close But I Ignore Him by Jamariwolff(f): 6:46pm On Jul 03, 2018 |
GODPUNISHUNA:children keh. I'm 20, definitely not a child. 102 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: I Have A Crush On My Course Rep, He Comes Close But I Ignore Him by Nobody: 6:46pm On Jul 03, 2018 |
Focus on your books! 23 Likes |
Re: I Have A Crush On My Course Rep, He Comes Close But I Ignore Him by H2Ossss(m): 6:46pm On Jul 03, 2018 |
All these pikin pikin dem 26 Likes |
Re: I Have A Crush On My Course Rep, He Comes Close But I Ignore Him by amaniro: 6:54pm On Jul 03, 2018 |
Jamariwolff:firstly, wanna say I feel you sis. and am currently dealing with the same problem, thus, we're in a delema, not ready to let go and not ready to form a "relationship" instead, my Ernest advice is that you guys become friends, lower your ego become close friends eventually .... couples one day. 6 Likes |
Re: I Have A Crush On My Course Rep, He Comes Close But I Ignore Him by Onyiridike(f): 7:20pm On Jul 03, 2018 |
@OP You may end up losing him to a serious girl who is more courageous than you. Every man respects a woman who behaves like a woman but thinks like a man. In-as-much as you don't intend to have sex with him, you will not lose anything eventually. 1. You can find a way of establishing the closeness with him by discussing a difficult course with him. Please don't argue with him, talk less and listen more but ask intelligent questions. 2. In the course of the discussion ask him personal questions so that you can get to know him better. All that glitters is not gold. He may be ungodly, in a relationship or have questionable character. This is all I can say for now. And I pray his goodlooking has not beclouded your sense of reasoning? All the qualities you mentioned are not enough to consider starting a relationship with someone. Unless you just want to brag before your friends that you are dating the most handsome guy in your class. You should start thinking of getting a man that could be your husband eventually. Meanwhile, your studies should be giving priority now. 144 Likes 10 Shares |
Re: I Have A Crush On My Course Rep, He Comes Close But I Ignore Him by Nobody: 7:38pm On Jul 03, 2018 |
this is hard reality but age won't make you accept it easily. this crush u feel will fade, then you'll crush on another and another and...I just hope u don't spread as the crushes keep coming. you must learn to suppress and kill it. find something of hire desire than a guy...ask a lot of the ladies here they'll tell u that's how it starts. take the last sentence of the poster above as your best advice 27 Likes |
Re: I Have A Crush On My Course Rep, He Comes Close But I Ignore Him by Nobody: 8:42pm On Jul 03, 2018 |
Jamariwolff:see fine girl is dying for course rep when I can love you for free...save you off all these stress. Nawa oh 8 Likes |
Re: I Have A Crush On My Course Rep, He Comes Close But I Ignore Him by majorgr: 9:14pm On Jul 03, 2018 |
PS: don't tell me to confess my crush or give him GREENLIGHTS, because I would rather die than do any of the above options. [/quote] and the moment you mistakenly do any one of these things, you will end up dead. our mouth, we have been cursing our selves with our mouth without knowing this ! you don't have to say this part. 23 Likes |
Re: I Have A Crush On My Course Rep, He Comes Close But I Ignore Him by Jamariwolff(f): 9:19pm On Jul 03, 2018 |
Rayhandrinni:I'm sorry but he's just so hot. I can't forget him ever |
Re: I Have A Crush On My Course Rep, He Comes Close But I Ignore Him by Jamariwolff(f): 9:20pm On Jul 03, 2018 |
MariaLavina:so books 247 right? In your uni days, u didn't flex a little? You didn't enter a relationship? Just books? 11 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Have A Crush On My Course Rep, He Comes Close But I Ignore Him by Jamariwolff(f): 9:21pm On Jul 03, 2018 |
amaniro:you know how guys can behave. If I try forming friends, my crush can surface easily |
Re: I Have A Crush On My Course Rep, He Comes Close But I Ignore Him by Jamariwolff(f): 9:22pm On Jul 03, 2018 |
Onyiridike:well noted. Thank you 1 Like |
Re: I Have A Crush On My Course Rep, He Comes Close But I Ignore Him by Jamariwolff(f): 9:23pm On Jul 03, 2018 |
OneSentence:all right. Thanks 2 Likes |
Re: I Have A Crush On My Course Rep, He Comes Close But I Ignore Him by amaniro: 9:26pm On Jul 03, 2018 |
Jamariwolff:firstly am sorry not telling you i am a guy. girls naturally have this feeling that guys are meant to do the work of starting a relationship. well if he figures out your feelings, he might eventually fall in love to. I know guys, be surprised he's already in love with you....... hi hi greetings are just underrated. be friends okay. and let love lead ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: I Have A Crush On My Course Rep, He Comes Close But I Ignore Him by Nobody: 9:27pm On Jul 03, 2018 |
Jamariwolff:Not when I just started. Emotions and Intelligence repels, one increases while the other decreases. Focus on your intelligence first, Wonder why a beauty without brain suffers? 45 Likes |
Re: I Have A Crush On My Course Rep, He Comes Close But I Ignore Him by amaniro: 9:31pm On Jul 03, 2018 |
Jamariwolff:for those telling you to read your book. Good advice but in such matters is counterfeit, eventually your crush will fade if you don't actualize it. good luck girl mine has already failed ![]() |
Re: I Have A Crush On My Course Rep, He Comes Close But I Ignore Him by daben1(m): 9:31pm On Jul 03, 2018 |
The world has totally changed, we're no more in the 70s... Let him know you like him, not that you'll tell him though.. Use your head!! |
Re: I Have A Crush On My Course Rep, He Comes Close But I Ignore Him by Nobody: 9:34pm On Jul 03, 2018 |
Rayhandrinni:you do know that's person u are crushing on is a man right ![]() ![]() 4 Likes |
Re: I Have A Crush On My Course Rep, He Comes Close But I Ignore Him by bizzy500: 9:47pm On Jul 03, 2018 |
![]() ![]() Jamariwolff:so you are 20 .... anyway don't hide your feelings from him |
Re: I Have A Crush On My Course Rep, He Comes Close But I Ignore Him by yasolan(m): 9:53pm On Jul 03, 2018 |
If you don't want what you put in "PS" Then what's the point of this post.. ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: I Have A Crush On My Course Rep, He Comes Close But I Ignore Him by phr0nesis(m): 10:10pm On Jul 03, 2018 |
After bats, girls are the most confused creatures on earth 43 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Have A Crush On My Course Rep, He Comes Close But I Ignore Him by akeentech(m): 10:10pm On Jul 03, 2018 |
Tell us the truth, you don't want to be paying class dues 14 Likes |
Re: I Have A Crush On My Course Rep, He Comes Close But I Ignore Him by zicoraads: 10:11pm On Jul 03, 2018 |
Lalasticla.la, why do you lot like promoting the lies that this guy, who us claiming to be female, is always spreading. 1 Like |
Re: I Have A Crush On My Course Rep, He Comes Close But I Ignore Him by akeentech(m): 10:11pm On Jul 03, 2018 |
yasolan: |
Re: I Have A Crush On My Course Rep, He Comes Close But I Ignore Him by Dacronym(m): 10:11pm On Jul 03, 2018 |
We can do it guys the power is in your hands It must not pass page 0! Just jump and pass 9 Likes |
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