gbenyi:


I am a man and you know nothing about me. I am only trying to broaden the conversation so as to draw multiple perspectives and learn something new. If you don't have anything meaningful to contribute, keep mum!

You are lazy to take care of your woman =idiot nor a man. Men know their duties and it is not spending women's money.

Runalong333:




Hahaha your hatred for progressive thinking societies is embarrassing. Other women are shying away from being dependent on men and earning their respect, people like you think that's a curse what a shame. Naija will never progress with so many women thinking like you do.

So those idiotic SA are progressive because they pay bills ? what a dumb fck, then what's the duty of a man over there ? Drinking, sex and murder ? . Which tribe are you? I suspect flatty cus they are usually the idiots.

Timewilltell3:
You are either a South African lazy idiot, only them let women pay for everything. Or you are a stupid uncultured igbo boy.

wrong and wrong again....try harder.

btw, where did you see me saying that i want a woman to pay for everything?! do you have English comprehension issues?!

MrBrownJay1:


wrong and wrong again....try harder.

btw, where did you see me saying that i want a woman to pay for everything?! do you have English comprehension issues?!

Do you let your woman pay or not ? If yes , then you are a lazy idiot and clearly not a classy naija guy.

Timewilltell3:




So those idiotic SA are progressive because they pay bills ? what a dumb fck, then what's the duty of a man over there ? Drinking, sex and murder ? . Which tribe are you? I suspect flatty cus they are usually the idiots.

Yes , they are progressive and independent and something to celebrate in Africa. My friend , it is the duty of both the women and men to take care of the family bills , not putting the pressure on men only as we do in naija , resulting in the high suicide rate among men as is currently the case. When my wife pays a bill I don't feel like less of a man, because it's her duty too and she does it willingly. That's something foreign in Nigeria. Our women see you as less if they use their own salaries , backward if you ask me. There is a reason why we are always marrying SA women , they are exciting and supportive partners not parasites . I won't entertain your tribal bait, it's childish and of course unprogressive.

Runalong333:




Yes , they are progressive and independent and something to celebrate in Africa. My friend , it is the duty of both the women and men to take care of the family bills , not putting the pressure on men only as we do in naija , resulting in the high suicide rate among men as is currently the case. When my wife pays a bill I don't feel like less of a man, because it's her duty too and she does it willingly. That's something foreign in Nigeria. Our women see you as less if they use their own salaries , backward if you ask me. There is a reason why we are always marrying SA women , they are exciting and supportive partners not parasites . I won't entertain your tribal bait, it's childish and of course unprogressive.

Lol, you are really an idiot. Is man not the head of the house again . Why you want to disgrace your self online?. You are not ashamed that you married a stupid slave, you go as far as letting her immasculate you as they do their men. You make me want to puke. Burn that nigerian passport and never step foot here, with your adopted shytty culture. Nonsense lazy pig, using his wife salary without shame. Good thing you didn't marry a classy naija woman, you would have ruined her life with your laziness.

Timewilltell3:


Do you let your woman pay or not ? If yes , then you are a lazy idiot and clearly not a classy naija guy.

bwaaaaaah! listen to this confused brainwashed man. there is NOTHING classy about paying for a woman's needs (if you dont want to do it). if i specifically invite a woman for DINNER then i will certainly pay for it, but going on a date is not such instance. there are many ways to go on a date without going for food...and therefore, if we go on a date and a lady decides she wants to go to an eatery then let HER pay for HER food.

there is nothing lazy/classy about paying for a woman's food, it is simple common sense!

here is for your education: next time a woman ask you to pay for her food, simply ask her "WHY?"

MrBrownJay1:


bwaaaaaah! listen to this confused brainwashed man. there is NOTHING classy about paying for a woman's needs (if you dont want to do it). if i specifically invote a woman for DINNER then i will certainly pay for it, but going on a date is not such instance. there are many ways to go on date without going for food...and therefore if we go on a date and a lady decides she want to go to an eatery then let HER pay for HER food.

there is nothing lazy/classy about paying for a woman's food, it is simple common sense!

here is for your education: next time a woman ask you to pay for her food, simply ask her "WHY?"

The fact you would let a woman reach for her purse in your presence, says it all. Lazy, uncultured, unclassy and unromantic. You don't deserve a good naija girl. No wonder weak idiots like you and that fool Runalong333 run away from responsible naija women to marry slowpoke slaves who pay for men. Lazy pigs

Timewilltell3:

The fact you would let a woman reach for her purse in your presence, says it all. Lazy, uncultured, unclassy and unromantic. You don't deserve a good naija girl. No wonder weak idiots like you and that fool Runalong333 run away from responsible naija women to marry slowpoke slaves who pay for men. Lazy pigs

lol listen to your brainwashed self. such a pity! this is the exact reason why so many foolish women in Nigeria treat mugus (like yourself) as ATMs. there is nothing remotely ROMANTIC/CLASSY/CULTURED about being forced to pay for something that you didnt offer to do. again, if you invite her to a restaurant, then by all means pay for the meal, but IF YOU DID NOT INVITE HER THERE, then let her pay for her damn mea (50/50)l. too many brothas are used and abused by these clueless women who go on dates just for food, while giving zero fukcs about these same men.

sadly many Nigerian men have got NO Game so paying for food is the only thing they can offer to attracts these deluded women.

btw, a responsible woman would NEVER go out without money, and would certainly see NOTHING wrong with paying her own share of the meal. its the lazy good for nothing broke aaasss ones who would see something wrong in this act.

MrBrownJay1:


lol listen to your brainwashed self. such a pity! this is the exact reason why so many foolish women in Nigeria treat mugus (like yourself) as ATMs. there is nothing remotely ROMANTIC/CLASSY/CULTURED about being forced to pay for something that you didnt offer to do. again, if you invite her to a restaurant, then by all means pay for the meal, but IF YOU DID NOT INVITE HER THERE, then let her pay for her damn mea (50/50)l. too many brothas are used and abused by these clueless women who go on dates just for food, while giving zero fukcs about these same men.

sadly many Nigerian men have got NO Game so paying for food is the only thing they can offer to attracts these deluded women.

btw, a responsible woman would NEVER go out without money, and would certainly see NOTHING wrong with paying her own share of the meal. its the lazy good for nothing broke aaasss ones who would see something wrong in this act.

You are a poorly brought up idiot. What kind of responsible man speaks this way ? . Is it not your job to take care of your woman? You weak nigerian men ,go to all these shytty countries and start adopting their culture forgetting yours. You are immassculated lazy pigs now who want women to pay in dates, smh. Next you will come back here and expect free sex from nigerian women because you are used to free givers, rubbish.

Timewilltell3:
You are a poorly brought up idiot. What kind of responsible man speaks this way ?

a man with a brain who certainly is NOT a maga like yourself, paying for food to attract deluded hungry women

Is it not your job to take care of your woman?

my job is to take care of MYSELF, and certainly NOT to take care of deluded strangers.... but hey, even the day this lady becomes my significant other, she still will have to fend for her own self and bring her share to the table. there are NO free rides in my world!

You weak nigerian men ,go to all these shytty countries and start adopting their culture forgetting yours. You are immassculated lazy pigs now who want women to pay in dates, smh.

I, MBJ, will never use money to attract a woman, NEVER! let my character/game be the reason this woman want to spend any amount of time with me. its useless Nigerian men (like yourself), who have zero game and cant entertain a woman, who will ask women on date to sit and eat without saying a damn word. ARRANT NONSENSE!!!! men like you deserve to end up with these good for nothing useless liabilities that want to be fed everytime you meet them.

Next you will come back here and expect free sex from nigerian women because you are used to free givers, rubbish.

isnt sex suppose to be FREE?!? bwaaaaah, so you actually pay for sex?! and you have the AUDACITY to call yourself a M A N?!

MrBrownJay1:


a man with a brain who certainly is NOT a maga like yourself, paying for food to attract deluded hungry women



my job is to take care of MYSELF, and certainly NOT to take care of deluded strangers.... but hey, even the day this lady becomes my significant other, she still will have to fend for her own self and bring her share to the table. there are NO free rides in my world!



I, MBJ, will never use money to attract a woman, NEVER! let my character/game be the reason this woman want to spend any amount of time with me. its useless Nigerian men (like yourself), who have zero game and cant entertain a woman, who will ask women on date to sit and eat without saying a damn word. ARRANT NONSENSE!!!! men like you deserve to end up with these good for nothing useless liabilities that want to be fed everytime you meet them.



isnt sex suppose to be FREE?!? bwaaaaah, so you actually pay for sex?! and you have the AUDACITY to call yourself a M A N?!

You have proven your self to be a broke and useless guy. Real men will do anything to woo a woman , unlike the gays like your self and those filthy South African fools like miseducations who are conditioned to make women pay for dates and bills. Bastard culture that is. I hope you never come back to Nigeria with that shyt , we don't like your kind here. Brainwashed by stupid western culture.



Sex is free only to hoes. Rubbish

Timewilltell3:





You have proven your self to be a broke and useless guy. Real men will do anything to woo a woman , unlike the gays like your self and those filthy South African fools like miseducations who are conditioned to make women pay for dates and bills. Bastard culture that is. I hope you never come back to Nigeria with that shyt , we don't like your kind here. Brainwashed by stupid western culture.



Sex is free only to hoes. Rubbish

adorable. you're now obssessed with ubunja and have started mentioning Him everywhere. ooowww. join the queue. you not the first and last. you're the new Deji63:

Meet Deji63, Ubunja's Biggest Hater

its sad when a niggah goes crazy and obssesses over Ubunja and his Miseducations and takes to insulting him all over Nairaland:

crime section

Deji63:
This is what we need to see in Nigeria. I can't imagine anyone do this to my child and this is why deadrats like Ubunja who boast of sleeping with underage girls is going to be fired by thunder his blokus will not be rescued. My wife is on your case

Deji63:
Ubunja must not see this ones vjay. He will knack and die. The paedophile.

celebrity section

Deji63:
Welcome to the club dude. Yea! The thirties ladies league. Ubunja 69 years old come and see your sons mate. The prince of England is 33 recently married to a 35 year old. You see why you are wifeless? My wife is on your case.

Deji63:
God will give you guys another beautiful fruit. I know it was painful beautiful woman. Meanwhile Ubunja this must be your sons agemate married to a 36 year old woman. Tell me you wont hit that if you could afford. Like I always say love is all that matters mehn. If you got dumped by a 30s woman . Don't rant sh*t to us for loving our wives. Get you one first

romance section

Deji63:


This is why your hoe mother raised you under another mans roof. You were not raised by your father. Mummy Ubunja jumps from one dick to another. Different men doing her leaking punnah and getting her pregnant like a pig. I thought itold you to stop being a nuisance.

Deji63:

Deadrat i asked if you are the ritualist they say that you are. Trackings say you are doing this from the Mainland. The National Assembly will help take your matter public.

Deji63:

Ubunja are you a ritualist? Some people are aware of your person
Are you truly an old man coming on here to spread hate? Have you been using our women for money rituals? The way you attack women is suspicious. We will get you tracked down and expose you on this platform. If you are also doing money rituals and sex in hell? Is that true?

Deji63:


Ubunja does not worship women. He worships pvssy. Even if he sees his mothers dry pvssy he will knack it and put shi,t inside

Deji63:

5 years running. I love my baby. Are you not going to Mama Basira food canteen to buy dinner? You know how we have nick names for our old folks like iya elewa and mama ologi? Yor name will be baba onike in the next 5 years. ;DYou are DEF Ubunja. Baba I say go and stand before a moving trailer.

Deji63:

Ubunja is deadrat. He is upsetgirll too. You think say we no know. We go soon tell Seun to track you so we go see the face behind these monikers. Then we will understand why you always sound so frustrated. Na dat time you go no wetin dey. He creates threads pointing to his frustration on his wifeless situation. Ubunja and his lonely di.ck. Chronic bachelor. E fit be one old baba wey don day get hallucinations o.

many have come before you. many will come after you.

MISEDUCATIONS:

adorable. you're now obssessed with ubunja and have started mentioning Him everywhere. ooowww. join the queue. you not the first and last. you're the new Deji63:

Meet Deji63, Ubunja's Biggest Hater

its sad when a niggah goes crazy and obssesses over Ubunja and his Miseducations and takes to insulting him all over Nairaland:

crime section




celebrity section




romance section













many have come before you. many will come after you.

How is hunger and aids down south ?

Timewilltell3:

You have proven your self to be a broke and useless guy. Real men will do anything to woo a woman

CORRECT!!!!! and any man who pays to attract women around them are deluded useless weak men. buying a broke aaass hungry and desperate woman food so that she can unwillingly come and date you (because she is hungry) has nothing "manly" about it. if a woman does NOT want to come and date you (if food is not offered to her) then that deluded woman has NO business being in your life, to begin with!

unlike the gays like your self and those filthy South African fools like miseducations who are conditioned to make women pay for dates and bills. Bastard culture that is. I hope you never come back to Nigeria with that shyt , we don't like your kind here. Brainwashed by stupid western culture.

you see, the above is the kind of rubbish these deluded good for nothing liabilities (aka miserable women) are quick to say! if you are a woman and looking for a man to take care of you then just say so, instead of hiding behind some foolish moniker trying to bring your low life miserable point accross.

Sex is free only to hoes. Rubbish

you see, here above, is the confirmation that you are one of them LAZY GOOD FOR NOTHING BROKE AAASSS MISERABLE women who feels entitled because you have a coochie between your legs. poor you. why dont you go to the bank and see if you can hand your coochie and get a loan in return, ARRANT NONSENSE!

sex is (and will always be) FREE, no matter what you deluded women think! if you think a man should pay for your coochie, then fair enough hoe, but dont expect to be treated any different than whores at street corners. men will use and abuse your toto till its "supposed" value is next to garbage, and then move to the youngest freshest babe for satisfaction.... and if your price is dinner, then fair enough!

Timewilltell3:





How is hunger and aids down south ?

predictably, the insults evaporate.
you see now that your hate is not special? i have been hated worse.

MISEDUCATIONS:
predictably, the insults evaporate.
you see now that your hate is not special? i have been hated worse.

Hungry slave forming class and fame

MrBrownJay1:


CORRECT!!!!! and any man who pays to attract women around them are deluded useless weak men. buying a broke aaass hungry and desperate woman food so that she can unwillingly come and date you (because she is hungry) has nothing "manly" about it. if a woman does NOT want to come and date you (if food is not offered to her) then that deluded woman has NO business being in your life, to begin with!



you see, the above is the kind of rubbish these deluded good for nothing liabilities (aka miserable women) are quick to say! if you are a woman and looking for a man to take care of you then just say so, instead of hiding behind some foolish moniker trying to bring your low life miserable point accross.



you see, here above, is the confirmation that you are one of them LAZY GOOD FOR NOTHING BROKE AAASSS MISERABLE women who feels entitled because you have a coochie between your legs. poor you. why dont you go to the bank and see if you can hand your coochie and get a loan in return, ARRANT NONSENSE!

sex is (and will always be) FREE, no matter what you deluded women think! if you think a man should pay for your coochie, then fair enough hoe, but dont expect to be treated any different than whores at street corners. men will use and abuse your toto till its "supposed" value is next to garbage, and then move to the youngest freshest babe for satisfaction.... and if your price is dinner, then fair enough!

Nigerian men are real men not like you. They know their responsibility. They don't expect free sex like your kind and those lazy Zulus. I wouldn't be surprised if you were one of them the way you sound.

Timewilltell3:




Hungry slave forming class and fame

c'mon you can do better.
im compiling my next list of insults to show to the next hater who'll come after you. im copying and saving to my phone. so, please, let rip!!!

Timewilltell3:
Nigerian men are real men not like you. They know their responsibility. They don't expect free sex like your kind and those lazy Zulus. I wouldn't be surprised if you were one of them the way you sound.

again.... ANY man who pays for sex is LESS THAN A MAN, and should never be called a man. ANY man who is solely valued because of how much he spends on a woman is LESS THAN A MAN, and should never be called a man. any woman who solely puts value of a man upon how much he spends on her is simply a two bit LovePeddler like the many we have at street corners everywhere.

the important question would be: why should a man date a deluded woman whom he pays for sex?!? just fukc the hoe and tell her to get the fukc out. then go fukc the next freshest babe LovePeddler out there. EOD!

MrBrownJay1:


again.... ANY man who pays for sex is LESS THAN A MAN, and should never be called a man. ANY man who is solely valued because of how much he spends on a woman is LESS THAN A MAN, and should never be called a man. any woman who solely puts value of a man upon how much he spends on her is simply a two bit LovePeddler like the many we have at street corners everywhere.

the important question would be: why should a man date a deluded woman whom he pays for sex?!? just fukc the hoe and tell her to get the fukc out. then go fukc the next freshest babe LovePeddler out there. EOD!

You are very foolish if you are a nigerian. You are cursed .

MISEDUCATIONS:

c'mon you can do better.
im compiling my next list of insults to show to the next hater who'll come after you. im copying and saving to my phone. so, please, let rip!!!

That's what joblessness does. Saviour22 come see this jobless lazy Zulu

Timewilltell3:
You are very foolish if you are a nigerian. You are cursed .

cursed or WISE?! sadly, you are now starting to get educated on your whorish ways...lol!

if you want to sell your coochie for sex then FAIR ENOUGH, but then you certainly shouldnt expect your customer to stick with you and start dating you, would you?! as soon as he's fukced you, then he should go and seek better/fresher/sweeter toto to mount. thats what most people who pay for sex would do, as i never heard of a man going for the same ashewo for the rest of his life, NO MATTER HOW GOOD HER COOCHIE IS.

Timewilltell3:



That's what joblessness does. Saviour22 come see this jobless lazy Zulu

i hate this new gentle you..
bring on the insults demet!

Timewilltell3:





Lol, you are really an idiot. Is man not the head of the house again . Why you want to disgrace your self online?. You are not ashamed that you married a stupid slave, you go as far as letting her immasculate you as they do their men. You make me want to puke. Burn that nigerian passport and never step foot here, with your adopted shytty culture. Nonsense lazy pig, using his wife salary without shame. Good thing you didn't marry a classy naija woman, you would have ruined her life with your laziness.

O.m.g , you just keep getting dumber by the day. I'm really not ashamed of being married to a "slave " . She works for her money and is a classy , progressive thinker who adds value to her nation. What value are you to Nigeria? You are nothing but a couch potato waiting to be fed by a man. You are the slave here , if you don't do as he wants you wont have food or a place to live , so like a slave you must bow down to him. Women in other nations don't use sex as an poverty alleviation skim, they know it's to be enjoyed by both , unlike in naija where you think selling sex for food is being classy. Mrbrownjay1 is trying to educate you on how women from outside of our shores behave and you being ignorant ad always. It is only nigerian men who throw money at hoes for affection , because they are used to a society like ours, where hoes like you think men are a meal ticket. You see when we leave and go to sane countries, we never look back and choose to marry where we are , because it's always refreshing to meet women who value equality not by opening their dirty mouths but by their actions. The only nigerian who return to marry villagers are the ones who don't want partners but slaves like yourself to abuse and control. You sound bitter, I bet your men makes all the money and you are nothing but his cum bucket.

MrBrownJay1:


cursed or WISE?! sadly, you are now starting to get educated on your whorish ways...lol!

if you want to sell your coochie for sex then FAIR ENOUGH, but then you certainly shouldnt expect your customer to stick with you and start dating you, would you?! as soon as he's fukced you, then he should go and seek better/fresher/sweeter toto to mount. thats what most people who pay for sex would do, as i never heard of a man going for the same ashewo for the rest of his life, NO MATTER HOW GOOD HER COOCHIE IS.

You have am inferiority complex issue. Gay dog.

Runalong333:




O.m.g , you just keep getting dumber by the day. I'm really not ashamed of being married to a "slave " . She works for her money and is a classy , progressive thinker who adds value to her nation. What value are you to Nigeria? You are nothing but a couch potato waiting to be fed by a man. You are the slave here , if you don't do as he wants you wont have food or a place to live , so like a slave you must bow down to him. Women in other nations don't use sex as an poverty alleviation skim, they know it's to be enjoyed by both , unlike in naija where you think selling sex for food is being classy. Mrbrownjay1 is trying to educate you on how women from outside of our shores behave and you being ignorant ad always. It is only nigerian men who throw money at hoes for affection , because they are used to a society like ours, where hoes like you think men are a meal ticket. You see when we leave and go to sane countries, we never look back and choose to marry where we are , because it's always refreshing to meet women who value equality not by opening their dirty mouths but by their actions. The only nigerian who return to marry villagers are the ones who don't want partners but slaves like yourself to abuse and control. You sound bitter, I bet your men makes all the money and you are nothing but his cum bucket.

Shut up you hiv bastard.

Timewilltell3:




Shut up you hiv bastard.

You have been schooled, angry bytch .

How can you ask me out on a date and expect me to pay?
Unless I initiate the date perhaps I'll contribute but truth be told some guys don't wanna see a girl pay.

Timewilltell3:
You have am inferiority complex issue. Gay dog.

instead of thanking me for educating you, here you are spewing more nonsense.....ungrateful child!

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
How can you ask me out on a date and expect me to pay?
Unless I initiate the date perhaps I'll contribute but truth be told some guys don't wanna see a girl pay.

the important point here IS: if a man ask you out on a date then HE (and only HIM) should decide where you guys go on a date. if a babe suddenly decide that she want that this "date" happens in a restaurant, then let her pay for whatever she orders in that food joint.

there are many great romantic places where you can bring a babe out on a date, without spending a single Kobo... if a woman's idea of a romantic date is synonymous with spending money, then only god can save this lost soul!

there is NOTHING wrong with having a babe pay for what she ordered, nothing at all! there is nothing romantic about paying for something you are not willing to pay for.

MrBrownJay1:


the important point here IS: if a man ask you out on a date then HE (and only HIM) should decide where you guys go on a date. if a babe suddenly decide that she want that this "date" happens in a restaurant, then let her pay for whatever she orders in that food joint.

there are many great romantic places where you can bring a babe out on a date, without spending a single Kobo... if a woman's idea of a romantic date is synonymous with spending money, then only god can save this lost soul!

Yea one can have a romantic getaway without spending much