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Re: Is It Wise For A Man To Marry A Divorcee Who Has 3 Little Kids? by Nobody: 7:44pm On Jul 05, 2018 |
onyekabe:Let The Bible Guide Ur Brother On That Pls Read 1CORINTHIANS 7:10-16, 39&40 GOD BLESS 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Is It Wise For A Man To Marry A Divorcee Who Has 3 Little Kids? by TonyeBarcanista(m): 7:47pm On Jul 05, 2018 |
SapphirePRINCEX:I put it to you that you are being economical with reasoning 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Wise For A Man To Marry A Divorcee Who Has 3 Little Kids? by Flye: 7:48pm On Jul 05, 2018 |
cococandy: @ bolded, sometime something is wrong with them, some times something is not wrong with them. We can't just defend or castigate them. However many marriages that lasted for ages doesn't come without challenges, some are ready to confront the challenges to make it work (some times for the sake of the kids) while some really don't care, they are ready to move on. My question is if a man or a woman refused to make his/her marriage to work for the first time, what guarantee they he/she will put in enough effort to make it work the second time. I'm having same issue with a friend of mine, he married a divocee who claimed she was emotionally totured and violently abused but the woman is in the court now seeking another divorce from the man. In fact I can say the woman is the one who is really torturing this said man to the extent that she claimed everything they built together. Funny that the man was amused that his wife of 10 years just finds it easy to seek for divorce while he was trying to cope with the marriage for the sake of those children. What I'm saying in essence is that some Poeple don't just have that patience to make things work and they jump from one marriage to another. 5 Likes |
Re: Is It Wise For A Man To Marry A Divorcee Who Has 3 Little Kids? by TonyeBarcanista(m): 7:48pm On Jul 05, 2018 |
kingkakaone:Thanks bro... The most important is that you vote your conscience |
Re: Is It Wise For A Man To Marry A Divorcee Who Has 3 Little Kids? by Jabioro: 7:49pm On Jul 05, 2018 |
Ageku ejo! |
Re: Is It Wise For A Man To Marry A Divorcee Who Has 3 Little Kids? by Moukandjo: 7:52pm On Jul 05, 2018 |
onyekabe:He should marry her na! Three kids no plenty! If to say na like 17 pikin now, I for say problem fit dey! I no know when una start all these rubbish "liberal" thinking for this country! You see problem for front still wan chook head! So woman don finish for this country, ba? Your brother need hot slap to reset his head! Nonsense!!! 8 Likes
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Re: Is It Wise For A Man To Marry A Divorcee Who Has 3 Little Kids? by boxer022(m): 7:55pm On Jul 05, 2018 |
milemimi93:Can you prove that the children do not belong to her ex husband? 1 Like |
Re: Is It Wise For A Man To Marry A Divorcee Who Has 3 Little Kids? by LyfeJennings(m): 8:05pm On Jul 05, 2018 |
Logical and not emotional decision is key I almost got trapped with a single mum of 2 But I had talk to myself if I was ready for the aftermath Thank goodness I didn't fall for it 3 Likes |
Re: Is It Wise For A Man To Marry A Divorcee Who Has 3 Little Kids? by franchasng: 8:10pm On Jul 05, 2018 |
cococandy:lol, how single never married before young men fall in love with an after one or two lady baffles me sha. A woman that has given birth to not just one, but two, three ![]() I thank for the way He created me. The mere imagination that a lady has given birth makes me lose sexual interest in her talk less of marrying her, odiegwu ![]() 4 Likes |
Re: Is It Wise For A Man To Marry A Divorcee Who Has 3 Little Kids? by Pearllait(f): 8:14pm On Jul 05, 2018 |
onyekabe: uhmmmm, I am very confused. please can we talk about this privately. i don't knw how to send u a private msg here. thanks |
Re: Is It Wise For A Man To Marry A Divorcee Who Has 3 Little Kids? by BabaRamota1980: 8:24pm On Jul 05, 2018 |
eyinjuege: That guy must not be Yoruba sha. I trust my Yoruba demons....ehhn, three kids ke, Olorunmaje! Woman wey get one kid sef, mttcheeew....she must be stunningly fvckable to be accepted for marriage, not talk of 3! 1 Like |
Re: Is It Wise For A Man To Marry A Divorcee Who Has 3 Little Kids? by greggng: 8:26pm On Jul 05, 2018 |
onyekabe: There is nothing wrong in that what matters is if they love each other genuinely. Does kids could be they ones God sent to further enhance his work on earth. This issue of biological kids are rubbish . Everything na vanity. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Wise For A Man To Marry A Divorcee Who Has 3 Little Kids? by Pearllait(f): 8:27pm On Jul 05, 2018 |
eyinjuege: Awwwww, very touching. God bless u. Marry for companionship and not necessarily for procreation.... NICE 3 Likes |
Re: Is It Wise For A Man To Marry A Divorcee Who Has 3 Little Kids? by milemimi93(m): 8:29pm On Jul 05, 2018 |
boxer022:those kids are no longer infants accordin to op. So why are there still unda d woman's costdy? PS; make sure u carry out DNA on all ur kids. Don't trust women. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Wise For A Man To Marry A Divorcee Who Has 3 Little Kids? by Nobody: 8:29pm On Jul 05, 2018 |
DAMILAREY85: I wonder why your post didn't get any "like" until I liked it. You made a lot of sense. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Is It Wise For A Man To Marry A Divorcee Who Has 3 Little Kids? by BabaRamota1980: 8:30pm On Jul 05, 2018 |
Moukandjo: I don tell am send that boy to me. I get fresh girls...they need a man. Instead spend his whole salary on school fees for children wey no be hin own kuku spend on these girsl to do hair and nail and get sexy for you so you mount her and upgrade ya manhood. Easy arithmetic. 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Wise For A Man To Marry A Divorcee Who Has 3 Little Kids? by paulsan(m): 8:30pm On Jul 05, 2018 |
Very traumatizing, i only hope he will not one day start the blame game... Because that will be the begining of the worst days of his life. |
Re: Is It Wise For A Man To Marry A Divorcee Who Has 3 Little Kids? by Nobody: 8:34pm On Jul 05, 2018 |
TonyeBarcanista:Yeah. But I'm rooting for a person, not the party per say. |
Re: Is It Wise For A Man To Marry A Divorcee Who Has 3 Little Kids? by Ogbenisoft28(m): 8:34pm On Jul 05, 2018 |
It depends on the man’s bank accounts and he must be sure that he’s very ready to take all the responsibilities because Na jeje wahala dey wey hin go tickle am o |
Re: Is It Wise For A Man To Marry A Divorcee Who Has 3 Little Kids? by Nobody: 8:37pm On Jul 05, 2018 |
onyekabe: That is what they say when they begin to cheat on you and want an exit. |
Re: Is It Wise For A Man To Marry A Divorcee Who Has 3 Little Kids? by milemimi93(m): 8:39pm On Jul 05, 2018 |
Swint: whether she has 3kids or zero kid, she is not good enough for marriage. All naija women born from the 80s are not wife materials. It could be that the reason she is in costdy of those kids is because her ex isn't the real dad of those kids and that might even be the reason for d divorce. Trust naija women at ur own peril. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Is It Wise For A Man To Marry A Divorcee Who Has 3 Little Kids? by springtech(m): 8:40pm On Jul 05, 2018 |
This is serious. 3 Kids that are not his? Seriously ![]() My honest opinion is let that your brother calm down. He is definitely not seeing straight. He is definitely enjoying the love of a married woman. Such love is infectious and deep. But by the time the love fades his eyes will be open. He will see reality. He would Suddenly come to think he was hypnotised. My thought is, no rational and sane single man would ever want to settle down with a woman with 3 kids, not even 1. I tell you he will become bald headed in less than 5 years. That responsibilty is too much. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Wise For A Man To Marry A Divorcee Who Has 3 Little Kids? by Nobody: 8:41pm On Jul 05, 2018 |
franchasng: That is one of the effects of a large population of today's ladies forming Slay Queens rather than training themselves to become a responsible wife. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Is It Wise For A Man To Marry A Divorcee Who Has 3 Little Kids? by milemimi93(m): 8:44pm On Jul 05, 2018 |
SapphirePRINCEX: I don't termed this kind of ladies as 'strong'. She is with the kids probably because her ex isn't d fada of those tins. This might even be the reason for their divorce. Naija women are very terrible and trickish. 3 out of 5 children given birth to by a naija woman do not belong to her husband. The 3 kids are away match while the 2 belong to her husband. Let very man carries out DNA on their children. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Wise For A Man To Marry A Divorcee Who Has 3 Little Kids? by cystem(m): 8:44pm On Jul 05, 2018 |
It's totally wrong |
Re: Is It Wise For A Man To Marry A Divorcee Who Has 3 Little Kids? by Nobody: 8:46pm On Jul 05, 2018 |
Moukandjo: Sometimes, I like the way we correct our own for Naija. No sugar-coating or undue pampering, serving it raw... ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Is It Wise For A Man To Marry A Divorcee Who Has 3 Little Kids? by franchasng: 8:47pm On Jul 05, 2018 |
angelbulksms:I don't want to judge; God forgive me but I don't think guys that do such do it on a clear eyes. Most get lured into it with monetary favours from the single mother, some its sex, some they get trapped with jazz. But I can't imagine myself having sex with a lady that I know has given birth, my kingpin won't stand at the thought of it. I don't know why I am wired that way, but pls it doesn't mean single mothers are unmarriageable, just that I don't see myself doing such sha 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Wise For A Man To Marry A Divorcee Who Has 3 Little Kids? by franchasng: 8:49pm On Jul 05, 2018 |
BabaRamota1980:maybe she is prettier, hotter and richer than Bianca Ojukwu and Kim Kardashian combined, aside that, it must not be ordinary |
Re: Is It Wise For A Man To Marry A Divorcee Who Has 3 Little Kids? by emonkey(m): 8:51pm On Jul 05, 2018 |
onyekabe: Yes, if you are impotent and unable to father children of your own. |
Re: Is It Wise For A Man To Marry A Divorcee Who Has 3 Little Kids? by wehgunit: 8:52pm On Jul 05, 2018 |
Capital No |
Re: Is It Wise For A Man To Marry A Divorcee Who Has 3 Little Kids? by ladyverere(f): 9:11pm On Jul 05, 2018 |
majamajic: Such a man may be lazy, a ne'er-do-well, selfish and jobless. Or he may simply not want the kids now because of their tender years. And as for the Op, that is your friend's decision alone. If he is not man enough to make that decision without his family's interference then he is not man enough to get married. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Wise For A Man To Marry A Divorcee Who Has 3 Little Kids? by Nobody: 9:13pm On Jul 05, 2018 |
onyekabe:My brother please don't pass that road ![]() |
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