Hardlife:
The day my life become glaring was in 2017, my friend gave me 30000 to hold for him. He was going for a party. Deep in my mind, i was happy. Before he came back the next day, i rushed to bet shop to play virtual. Dear reader, i lost 20000 out of the money. I didnt sleep in the hostel for two days. I slept at the bus stop at my school maingate.

I went back the next day with my remaining 10000 thinking of wining everything back and that was the end. All the money wiped away. Out of shame and embarrassment, i sneaked into the hostel at night few days later after being tired of running. I received the insult of my life that day, but still i never stopped, i continued playing and selling properties.

The way i got the money to pay back, only God will forgive me of that. I had to do what i did because my friend threatened to call my parents. I could not stand that.
I wish my parents were informed then maybe my life would have been much better now.

enshi:


Baba where are you... Which state are you in. Reply ASAP

Ranchhoddas:
The house always wins. Bear it in mind. It is IMPOSSIBLE to beat the machine. It is rigged to make the owners win.

Whenever you are tempted, think about how you'll feel after you lose. That thought will serve as a deterrent. Just try to recreate the feeling of loss. It works.

Forget your losses and move on. You can't get them back.

It's not bad luck. The machines are rigged to make you lose.

You keep going back because like all addicts, you enjoy the thrill that comes from anticipating the result of the matches and races. If you observe carefully, you'll notice that you feel euphoric whenever the dogs/horses are running or the 90 seconds it takes for the match to run its course.
This is the moment your brain is flooded with dopamine which translates in a euphoric feeling.
You are not really chasing money, you are chasing a high.
The feeling of loss is like the opposite of euphoria, it is painful and if you recreate it before you play, you will not want to feel it.

Doing this successfully is hinged on your knowing that the game is rigged and you have no chance of winning.

vikakuzzdrumzy:
bro I have been in almost the same situation ..i sold all i had , i sold my laptop, iphone ,properties lost alot of money ...i was so frustrated..see i understand perfectly what you are going through .I AM A LIVING TESTIMONY..and i can only tell and advice you on how to stop just the way i did ...its gonna be ok ...send me a message on instagram. (SWIT_OFFICIAL) OR ON FACEBOOK (SWIT VICTOR) . JUST KNOW THAT ITS ALL ABOUT GREED AND YOU LL NEVET RECOVER ALL YOU VE LOST ..TIME,HONOUR,INTEGRITY,TRUST IF YOU CONTINUE.. SEND ME A MESSAGE AND LETS TALK.

Hardlife:
i wish starting over was the only problem i have in my life right now, i would be so much happy.

I litterally have nothing in this life again except family. No good clothes, gadgets, no life plans at my age. Brother virtual has touched the deepest part of my soul. I have no emotions. I get very angry over little things. Nothing to show that i exist. I cant remember the last time my phone rung. All the friends i made in school have all graduated and moved on with their lives. Except for family, dear friend i am alone in this world right now.

Cursed be the day i started virtual gambling. i am ruined.

waleyp:
Dude you still have a future, you need to get busy
Doing something, get a job or something and maybe change your environment for a while

Ranchhoddas:
The house always wins. Bear it in mind. It is IMPOSSIBLE to beat the machine. It is rigged to make the owners win.

Whenever you are tempted, think about how you'll feel after you lose. That thought will serve as a deterrent. Just try to recreate the feeling of loss. It works.

Forget your losses and move on. You can't get them back.

It's not bad luck. The machines are rigged to make you lose.

You keep going back because like all addicts, you enjoy the thrill that comes from anticipating the result of the matches and races. If you observe carefully, you'll notice that you feel euphoric whenever the dogs/horses are running or the 90 seconds it takes for the match to run its course.
This is the moment your brain is flooded with dopamine which translates in a euphoric feeling.
You are not really chasing money, you are chasing a high.
The feeling of loss is like the opposite of euphoria, it is painful and if you recreate it before you play, you will not want to feel it.

Doing this successfully is hinged on your knowing that the game is rigged and you have no chance of winning.

MRSoftapples:
Good morning..
Yeah, You can ask your question..

Hardlife:
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BOBBYNIGUESZ. I have not played virtual for over a month now. My thread really helped me overcome the urge. But i still play normal ticket games. I am beginiing to think that one too is bad. Because today i lost 5k. I think i have to stop both virtual and board games. Were you addicted to virtual or normal games?

BOBBYNIGUESZ:


I was a big freak of dog race and colour especially. I couldn't live my life without it. Sometimes they'll allow me fund 50k and leave the system with me. The worst thing that can happen is when you boost the account to over 100k that's when you're in the real deal.

Hardlife:
for how long have you stopped playing

ImaIma1:


Dude your mind is too busy. You are worrying, thinking, trying to fight this and that. Relax. Just relax. Sit still for a while and imagine your life in 10 years where you will be.

Do you want to be roaming the streets desolate begging around...begging your peers who are doing well? Do you want your parents to see you as a waste of conception and a lost cause?

You need to discipline yourself and take charge of your life. Stop yourself from entering any betting shop.Make friends with people that will make your life better especially older friends.

Maybe your parents should pay your fees instead of giving you cash for now.

Discipline yourself now to avoid regret in the future.