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"We Don't Have Children Outside Of Marriage In Our Village" Is A Rubbish Reason by Nobody: 9:00am On Jul 09, 2018 |
"We don't have children outside of marriage in our village" is a rubbish reason to get married It's emotional blackmail and manipulation. If you know your family or village people don't 'use to born outside', then use a contraceptive or stop having unprotected sex! Because you're pregnant is not enough reason for anyone to marry you. Especially if the fellow doesn't want to. Get a job, pull yourself together, raise your child or work out an arrangement for shared custody to co-parent and stop manipulating these men into marriages they are not ready for, with pregnancy. So many people out there have been forced into an unfufil life wrecking marriage because of this norm mainly from our parents because of pregnancy. Lalasticlala take note 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: "We Don't Have Children Outside Of Marriage In Our Village" Is A Rubbish Reason by Oyindidi(f): 10:47am On Jul 09, 2018 |
Why are you angry? 2 Likes |
Re: "We Don't Have Children Outside Of Marriage In Our Village" Is A Rubbish Reason by LewsTherin: 1:18pm On Jul 09, 2018 |
Did someone use that line on you? ![]() ![]() ![]() Just kidding. But seriously, was it used on you? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: "We Don't Have Children Outside Of Marriage In Our Village" Is A Rubbish Reason by NoToPile: 2:50pm On Jul 09, 2018 |
LewsTherin: ![]() ![]() ![]() @topic - you don't want the pregnancy to lead to marriage then avoid the sex that will lead to pregnancy so that no one will say that to you. Life is very simple. ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: "We Don't Have Children Outside Of Marriage In Our Village" Is A Rubbish Reason by baby124: 3:25pm On Jul 09, 2018 |
Why not use a condom OP? Or did your boyfriend leave you for a woman he impregnated with that excuse? He simply did not want to marry you. Please move on with your life or marry the woman you impregnated. You sound so bitter and angry. |
Re: "We Don't Have Children Outside Of Marriage In Our Village" Is A Rubbish Reason by els0nm0rali(m): 6:25pm On Jul 09, 2018 |
Lilisticlili: Mogbe! Why are you saying that Lalasticlala should take note? Did he impregnate someone ni? Or you want him to ban you recklessly. Be kiaful o. 1 Like |
Re: "We Don't Have Children Outside Of Marriage In Our Village" Is A Rubbish Reason by izzou(m): 8:08pm On Jul 09, 2018 |
Thats why a man must be very careful with whom he decides to make a baby with |
Re: "We Don't Have Children Outside Of Marriage In Our Village" Is A Rubbish Reason by Prognose: 9:08pm On Jul 09, 2018 |
I don't even understand what you wrote up there. You have a responsibility to the child dammit. If you give a girl belle, take care of d belle pikin wey comot. It's your duty. It's what makes u a man! But who cares anyway. |
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