Massivedick:
I have known this girl for a while now, 7 years, we have never had sex because we rarely see see each other. The last time we almost had sex was when I invited her down to my base, South South Nigeria, but it didn't happen because I didn't insist much. Should I say we are dating? I think I shouldn't because I have not tasted her.I do sleep with other girls but I have not just slept with her. Right now, she is doing her housemanship in far away north and we still have this mirage that we are dating. After a while, I stopped calling as usual and just relaxed only for me to call one day, she just told me the I deserve to move on. I was shocked and I asked what happened only for her to say she has been sleeping with a colleague and she missed her period and was thinking she has taken in. She advised me to move on that I deserve a better person.
I have tried letting her go but I just get so emotional about her. I later made up with her and told her that I have forgiven her. And I advised her to stop seeing this guy and she said yes. I have not been able to travel down to Northern Nigeria to see her because of the distance. I am hoping she would respect herself and stay safe but I have a feeling that the guy is still"servicing" her. At times I feel bad, like I should just let go since she is far away but I still feel she is passing out by February next year maybe I should be patient. I really want to marry her but I am just scared that she is still fucking that guy. I know how hard it is for a guy to let go a "free chop". I was once like that in my nysc days, I mean I had " free chop" too. Someone please advise me whether to move on or not. Distance is really a bastard!

i wish i had the right words to qualify your stupidity, does being in love deprive you of common sense?

You don't deserve to be regarded a man, Your manhood should be chopped into shapeless bits and fed to the crocs for lunch!!!

moronic-sissy!!

AryEmber:
This your name get as it be oh!

Hahahahahaha. Forget the moniker.

edimolu:

i wish i had the right words to qualify your stupidity, does being in love deprive you of common sense?

You don't deserve to be regarded a man, Your manhood should be chopped into shapeless bits and fed to the crocs for lunch!!!

moronic-sissy!!

How bro? I don't understand you.

ImaIma1:
Both of you are just deceiving yourselves.

You are both in an distance unserious open relationship.

Open relationship? Yes, but unserious? I doubt. Thanks for your contribution.

Kids everywhere, mtchewww, nothing to comment either. You both are kids not mature enough for a relationship.

Massivedick:


How bro? I don't understand you.

You should be quick to move away from things that toy with your emotions!!!

Massivedick:

Try and make your points without using derogatory words. I am here for solutions not bullying. Thank you.

So we should praise and pet u. If u no fit deal with direct advice why not just f+ck off

Massivedick:

Even if I do, how are my sure I won't meet another one that is worse than her? Women are unpredictable. They say the devil you know is better than the angel you don't know.

your mind is already made up to stay with her, you are just looking for someone that will encourage you to stay with her Congrats bro...

edimolu:

You should be quick to move away from things that toy with your emotions!!!

Thanks, bro.

SmellingAnus:
your mind is already made up to stay with her, you are just looking for someone that will encourage you to stay with her Congrats bro...

I am not staying bro. I just want to hear from experienced dudes around.

akiOYIBO:

So we should praise and pet u. If u no fit deal with direct advice why not just f+ck off

Take it easy. There are better ways to make your point. Thank you.

This op sounds like kids..

You are just killing yourself over nothing. Beside, you have no feelings for this girl. You are just being jealous because you haven't taken your share.

Man up

enuk80:
This op sounds like kids..

You are just killing yourself over nothing. Beside, you have no feelings for this girl. You are just being jealous because you haven't taken your share.

Man up

Thanks for your contribution.I am however not a kid.
Secondly, In contrast to what you mentioned, I do have feelings for her. I may be jealous, but I really intend taking her serious because I have let go of many ladies because of her.

Massivedick:

The headache is that I am disappointed that I thought I found the one, never knew she is like the others. Perhaps she shouldn't have told me anything. Some say since she told me, I should forgive and continue with her but I feel she is still fucking that guy. I just have the feeling.

bro, I'll suggest you forget about the girl and don't even look back. Most ladies are disappointments

ImaIma1:
Both of you are just deceiving yourselves.
You are both in an distance unserious open relationship.

No mind op..
Kids in relationship.
Relationship is not for everyone that's what most people don't know.
Someone like me relationship isn't meant for me..
Can't regret being in few relationships though.

Ufok aba'diah?

damtan:
bro, I'll suggest you forget about the girl and don't even look back. Most ladies are disappointments

Thanks, bro.

mimimile93:


No mind op..

Kids in relationship.

Relationship is not for everyone that's what most people don't know.

Someone like me relationship isn't meant for me..

Can't regret being in few relationships though.


Ufok aba'diah?

Mmo do. Mbok Afere. Di dia mkpo

ImaIma1:

Mmo do. Mbok Afere. Di dia mkpo

sosung'oh. Lol. Neyem ndia ekpang

ImaIma1:


Mmo do. Mbok Afere. Di dia mkpo

sosung'oh. Lol. Neyem ndidia ekpang

mimimile93:
sosung'oh. Lol. Neyem ndidia ekpang

What are you guys saying?

ImaIma1:
Both of you are just deceiving yourselves.

You are both in an distance unserious open relationship.

they are both penpals

Massivedick:

What are you guys saying?

We are saying that the op and his girl are not matured for a relationship..

mimimile93:
sosung'oh. Lol. Neyem ndidia ekpang

Nke bok ekpang mfen. Eyaaaa

ImaIma1:

Nke bok ekpang mfen. Eyaaaa

Hmm! Mma mbon. Dia uwem mfo

mimimile93:


We are saying that the op and his girl are not matured for a relationship..

How mature could one be again after accepting the apology? I really forgave her when she apologized.My concern now is that, she might still be bleeping the guy. I may be wrong though because I have not been able to ask. Even if I ask, she could tell me anything or the truth.

Massivedick:

How mature could one be again after accepting the apology? I really forgave her when she apologized.My concern now is that, she might still be bleeping the guy. I may be wrong though because I have not been able to ask. Even if I ask, she could tell me anything or the truth.

Actually we were not discussing about the op and his girl..

We were having a private convo

Massivedick:
I have known this girl for a while now, 7 years, we have never had sex because we rarely see see each other. The last time we almost had sex was when I invited her down to my base, South South Nigeria, but it didn't happen because I didn't insist much. Should I say we are dating? I think I shouldn't because I have not tasted her.I do sleep with other girls but I have not just slept with her. Right now, she is doing her housemanship in far away north and we still have this mirage that we are dating. After a while, I stopped calling as usual and just relaxed only for me to call one day, she just told me the I deserve to move on. I was shocked and I asked what happened only for her to say she has been sleeping with a colleague and she missed her period and was thinking she has taken in. She advised me to move on that I deserve a better person.
I have tried letting her go but I just get so emotional about her. I later made up with her and told her that I have forgiven her. And I advised her to stop seeing this guy and she said yes. I have not been able to travel down to Northern Nigeria to see her because of the distance. I am hoping she would respect herself and stay safe but I have a feeling that the guy is still"servicing" her. At times I feel bad, like I should just let go since she is far away but I still feel she is passing out by February next year maybe I should be patient. I really want to marry her but I am just scared that she is still fucking that guy. I know how hard it is for a guy to let go a "free chop". I was once like that in my nysc days, I mean I had " free chop" too. Someone please advise me whether to move on or not. Distance is really a bastard!

Young man,why are you scared? Besides,you had free chops too and Karma is just serving you a nice lunch. Relax and allay your fears man,for you still got dinner to take

Hybridz:

Young man,why are you scared? Besides,you had free chops too and Karma is just serving you a nice lunch. Relax and allay your fears man,for you still got dinner to take

Bro. I don't want it. I want to settle now. I need someone that can do that.I am just confused. Help with a direction.

Massivedick:

Bro. I don't want it. I want to settle now. I need someone that can do that.I am just confused. Help with a direction.

I'm not cursing but maybe whoever you eventually settle down with will be the one to serve your dinner hot by cheating while married. Perhaps,we youths should learn that no matter what,our past,present and future is always connected. It has always been no matter what?. We should also redefine dating not to mean having sex all in the name if getting to know each other. Doing that doesn't have to involve sex.
As for the Op,it's your ball,play it the way you feel it's gonna earn u some praise.

Hybridz:

I'm not cursing but maybe whoever you eventually settle down with will be the one to serve your dinner hot by cheating while married. Perhaps,we youths should learn that no matter what,our past,present and future is always connected. It has always been no matter what?. We should also redefine dating not to mean having sex all in the name if getting to know each other. Doing that doesn't have to involve sex.
As for the Op,it's your ball,play it the way you feel it's gonna earn u some praise.

Thanks for your contribution.