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How Do I Leave A Single Mother Without Hurting Her? by HappyCanadian: 10:48pm On Mar 25, 2021
Hey guys,

I met this Canadian girl online we started talking, all was casual till we vibed well and she developed massive love for me. Each day she confesses how she liked me, think about me and all that. The thing is that she is taking it too far thinking we are dating or maybe I will marry her but I never asked her out we have just been friends.

The girl respects me, does anything I asked her and even promised to assist bring any member of my family to Canada don't know if she is serious though.

But the thing is that I have my own spec when it comes to girls and don't intend marrying her..

Please how do I leave her without her getting hurt, as it seems am trapped cry cry

Note: I never asked her out.. attached is a message she just sent now and I laughed..

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Re: How Do I Leave A Single Mother Without Hurting Her? by Xenry: 10:50pm On Mar 25, 2021
Always run from those girls that use to act as if you guys are dating even though you haven't asked her out, they usually crave for attention and are always distractive (talking from experience).
Never be taken away by a girl's loyalty at first because most girls are actresses and they retire when they get married. (I've seen it happen.)
You can't leave most girls without making them feel bad. You can't be an ex and still be friends with her (it rarely happens). Just tell her the real deal and avoid her, at first she's gonna make it look like you are hurting her, but don't give a fvck because toxic women have been scattering men's future from the beginning of ages. Na so Eve take scatter Adam's future. So you better RUN!!

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Re: How Do I Leave A Single Mother Without Hurting Her? by HappyCanadian: 10:51pm On Mar 25, 2021
Xenry:
Lol
cry It's not a laughing matter.. I need help bro

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Re: How Do I Leave A Single Mother Without Hurting Her? by Beckham14: 10:51pm On Mar 25, 2021
God has literally prepared a table for you in the presence of your enemies (Village people) but you say you wan prepare the table for yourself..


Look here bro, a single mom in Canada is better more preferable than most Nigeria girls.

Link me up abeg. grin

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Re: How Do I Leave A Single Mother Without Hurting Her? by Xenry: 10:51pm On Mar 25, 2021
She's a Distraction! Beware!
Say No to dating such girls, they ain't worth it!

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Re: How Do I Leave A Single Mother Without Hurting Her? by HappyCanadian: 10:52pm On Mar 25, 2021

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Re: How Do I Leave A Single Mother Without Hurting Her? by HappyCanadian: 10:52pm On Mar 25, 2021
Note: We both live in the same city in Canada for those of u speculating another thing cry

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Re: How Do I Leave A Single Mother Without Hurting Her? by pascalbenz: 11:00pm On Mar 25, 2021
Uganda tales grin

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Re: How Do I Leave A Single Mother Without Hurting Her? by MufasaLion: 11:01pm On Mar 25, 2021
Start preparation for marriage. Don't forget to grace the FP with your pre-wedding pictures grin

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Re: How Do I Leave A Single Mother Without Hurting Her? by HappyCanadian: 11:03pm On Mar 25, 2021
pascalbenz:
Uganda tales grin
This is serious not joke abeg

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Re: How Do I Leave A Single Mother Without Hurting Her? by HRHQueenPhil(f): 11:10pm On Mar 25, 2021
Since u have never asked her out, continue being friends with her and let's see if with time, u will get to like her..or is there another woman u are online with?

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Re: How Do I Leave A Single Mother Without Hurting Her? by HappyCanadian: 11:16pm On Mar 25, 2021
Xenry:
Always run from those girls that use to act as if you guys are dating even though you haven't asked her out, they usually crave for attention and they are always distractive (talking from experience).
Never be taken away by a girl's loyalty at first because every girl na actress and they retire when they get married. (I've seen it happen.)
You can't leave a girl without getting her hurt. You can't be an ex and still be friends with her (it rarely happens). Just tell her the real deal and avoid her, at first she's gonna make it look like you are hurting her, but don't give a fvck because women have been scattering men's future from the beginning of ages. Na so Eve take scatter Adam's head. So you better japa!
So you mean I shud tell her the real deal shocked I don't want her depressed.. no other way?
Re: How Do I Leave A Single Mother Without Hurting Her? by Nobody: 11:17pm On Mar 25, 2021
chai see what most naija guys are wishing for...


op abeg link me up with her friend na!!! I promise to be loyal grin

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Re: How Do I Leave A Single Mother Without Hurting Her? by HappyCanadian: 11:17pm On Mar 25, 2021
HRHQueenPhil:
Since u have never asked her out, continue being friends with her and let's see if with time, u will get to like her..or is there another woman u are online with?
Ok, as per that I don't play around.. thanks
Re: How Do I Leave A Single Mother Without Hurting Her? by MickzyDonald: 11:23pm On Mar 25, 2021
i smell a Gee guy forming the canadian moniker, wait until they command you to send aza before your brain resets

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Re: How Do I Leave A Single Mother Without Hurting Her? by Xenry: 11:25pm On Mar 25, 2021
HappyCanadian:

So you mean I shud tell her the real deal shocked I don't want her depressed.. no other way?
You are just her friend, not her boyfriend. If you are afraid of saying it, then start making some fake calls in her presence as if to say you are talking to your Gf, tell her she's ur Gf when she asks you who it's. If she's interested in you, she would get jealous, from there she would realize/know her place.
Like I said before, you likely won't be separated from her without making her feel bad.

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Re: How Do I Leave A Single Mother Without Hurting Her? by SavageResponse(m): 11:28pm On Mar 25, 2021
HappyCanadian:
Hey guys,

I met this Canadian girl online we started talking, all was casual till we vibed well and she developed massive love for me. Each day she confesses how she liked me, think about me and all that. The thing is that she is taking it too far thinking we are dating or maybe I will marry her but I never asked her out we have just been friends.

The girl respects me, does anything I asked her and even promised to assist bring any member of my family to Canada don't know if she is serious though.

But the thing is that I have my own spec when it comes to girls and don't intend marrying her..

Please how do I leave her without her getting hurt, as it seems am trapped cry cry

Note: I never asked her out.. attached is a message she just sent now and I laughed..

Cc Lalasticlala, Mynd44, Seun, Obinoscopy, Oam4j, Dominique abeg make una come to my rescue cry


Just go ahead and ghost her!

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Re: How Do I Leave A Single Mother Without Hurting Her? by HappyCanadian: 11:30pm On Mar 25, 2021
MickzyDonald:
[s]i smell a Gee guy forming the canadian moniker, wait until they command you to send aza before your brain [/s][s][/s]resets
What is this one saying .. bros abeg use your head be like u just joined Nairaland

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Re: How Do I Leave A Single Mother Without Hurting Her? by HappyCanadian: 11:31pm On Mar 25, 2021
Xenry:
You are just her friend, not her boyfriend. If you are afraid of saying it, then start making some fake calls in her presence as if to say you are talking to your Gf, tell her she's ur Gf when she asks you who it's. If she's interested in you, she would get jealous, from there she would realize/know her place.
Like I said before, you likely won't be separated from her without making her feel bad.
shocked shocked shocked
Re: How Do I Leave A Single Mother Without Hurting Her? by Ladylite: 11:35pm On Mar 25, 2021
HappyCanadian:
Hey guys,

I met this Canadian girl online we started talking, all was casual till we vibed well and she developed massive love for me. Each day she confesses how she liked me, think about me and all that. The thing is that she is taking it too far thinking we are dating or maybe I will marry her but I never asked her out we have just been friends.

The girl respects me, does anything I asked her and even promised to assist bring any member of my family to Canada don't know if she is serious though.

But the thing is that I have my own spec when it comes to girls and don't intend marrying her..

Please how do I leave her without her getting hurt, as it seems am trapped cry cry

Note: I never asked her out.. attached is a message she just sent now and I laughed..

Cc Lalasticlala, Mynd44, Seun, Obinoscopy, Oam4j, Dominique abeg make una come to my rescue cry

What site did you meet her

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Re: How Do I Leave A Single Mother Without Hurting Her? by technicallyrich(m): 11:38pm On Mar 25, 2021
What most guys don't know is that their girlfriend is still with them because they have not found someone better than them.
Even if they see is that person Willing to take them seriously.
I Bleep different girls every week and most beg me to take them seriously,that they will gladly dump their boyfriend's for me.
Of cause why won't they,a cute,rich guy from the richest,bravest and strongest black tribe on Earth

Now imagine if I m interested.
Finally foreign use goods are always better than Nigerian use.these also include girls.
That Canadian baby mama is far more better,sweeter and even tighter with more home training than an average girl in these zoo.

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Re: How Do I Leave A Single Mother Without Hurting Her? by GreaterFuture(m): 12:13am On Mar 26, 2021
HappyCanadian:
Hey guys,

I met this Canadian girl online we started talking, all was casual till we vibed well and she developed massive love for me. Each day she confesses how she liked me, think about me and all that. The thing is that she is taking it too far thinking we are dating or maybe I will marry her but I never asked her out we have just been friends.

The girl respects me, does anything I asked her and even promised to assist bring any member of my family to Canada don't know if she is serious though.

But the thing is that I have my own spec when it comes to girls and don't intend marrying her..

Please how do I leave her without her getting hurt, as it seems am trapped cry cry

Note: I never asked her out.. attached is a message she just sent now and I laughed..

Cc Lalasticlala, Mynd44, Seun, Obinoscopy, Oam4j, Dominique abeg make una come to my rescue cry
Has she seen your Picture or what you like
Re: How Do I Leave A Single Mother Without Hurting Her? by GreaterFuture(m): 12:14am On Mar 26, 2021
OK give us the full story so as to know where and how to help you
where did you know her from
how long have you known her
And what platform did you get connected together from
What brought/connected the both of you etc.

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Re: How Do I Leave A Single Mother Without Hurting Her? by valentineuwakwe(m): 1:00am On Mar 26, 2021
hmmm..N.a. sidon I come don here
Re: How Do I Leave A Single Mother Without Hurting Her? by Michelle55: 3:40am On Mar 26, 2021
Just ghost her.. She will get the message clearly after trying to connect with you for a while.
I don't know how to say it's over, I start by not picking your calls and staying off grid for a while and by the time I'm back you've moved on.
We can still be friends or you can decide to erase me by yourself, whichever one you choose is super okay with me.

Op, simply tell her the truth or ghost her.. Your choice!

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Re: How Do I Leave A Single Mother Without Hurting Her? by wizdomnzube(m): 3:49am On Mar 26, 2021
My guy hurt her, make una stop all dis rubbish una dey do. If na she one leave you she go use mouth finish u 2seconds.

Make una sef dey dey brutal like them vaginal people. Na wa oh! Hurt her. If u like go turn simp for ontop single woman matter.

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Re: How Do I Leave A Single Mother Without Hurting Her? by ChiefSosa(m): 4:45am On Mar 26, 2021
Wow, that's sad. So sad that i've been weeping all day. My dear brother in the Lord, the Goodnews is that I have the solution to the problem you're facing. Tell her I'm one of your family members, let her bring me to Canada, I will give you the solution when I get there.

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Re: How Do I Leave A Single Mother Without Hurting Her? by Thegamingorca(m): 4:53am On Mar 26, 2021
Lol
Re: How Do I Leave A Single Mother Without Hurting Her? by HappyCanadian: 5:02am On Mar 26, 2021
Michelle55:
Just ghost her.. She will get the message clearly after trying to connect with you for a while.
I don't know how to say it's over, I start by not picking your calls and staying off grid for a while and by the time I'm back you've moved on.
We can still be friends or you can decide to erase me by yourself, whichever one you choose is super okay with me.

Op, simply tell her the truth or ghost her.. Your choice!
If I start ghosting her she begins to complain that am trying to avoid her cry
Re: How Do I Leave A Single Mother Without Hurting Her? by HappyCanadian: 5:03am On Mar 26, 2021
ChiefSosa:
Wow, that's sad. My dear brother in the Lord, the Goodnews is that I have the solution to the problem you're facing. Tell her I'm one of your family members, let her bring me to Canada, I will give you the solution when I get there.
How? shocked
Re: How Do I Leave A Single Mother Without Hurting Her? by Michelle55: 5:12am On Mar 26, 2021
HappyCanadian:

If I start ghosting her she begins to complain that am trying to avoid her cry
You never ready to leave her na. lipsrsealed

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Re: How Do I Leave A Single Mother Without Hurting Her? by Paulpaulpaul(m): 5:32am On Mar 26, 2021
HappyCanadian:

How? shocked

If you're truly in Canada, you are in a deep shit if you're not careful. Since you have been enjoying her company and she is equally enjoying yours, she can sue you. Girlfriends can sue their boyfriends in Canada for "time wasting". You will be forced to care for her for life, gringringrin. You better be tactical before your village people win you in away match.

Don't be aggressive in putting her away, all you need now is tact. Feminist Coven are the heads of Canadian Judiciary; Dgringrin

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