There is this guy i met on 2go long time ago when i was fourteen years old, we exchanged contact and since then we have been talking and he did usually call me everyday just to hear my voice,he is way older than i am.

After sometime we lost contact, and we reconnected back on facebook and we started talking since then, he has always told me he likes me blah blah but still waiting till i am mature enough.

So when i clocked 18, he told us to meet which i agreed and we actually met at a bar and he finally told me about his feelings physically and said he would love us to date but i declined because i actually had no feelings whatsoever for him but i said we can be friends.

So since then he has been calling me every single day, everyone in my family knows him because of his constant call and one day he told me he is at our area that he would love to see me i actually agreed even if i never wanted because people at my area will think i am dating this guy and i know he is not my type moreover after my first (unserious) bf that cheated on me because i didn't give him chochie i decided never to date Nigerian guy no more, but this guy that is crushing on me will not let me go.

After that first visit he now wants to turn to it to routine to always visit me whenever he is in Lagos which i am not comfortable with but i dont know how to tell him because he is really nice caring and has been there for me financially when i needed him but still it doesn't change my feelings.

Nw i gat a serious bf, although he is not Nigerian but he is also caring, honest, nice, very handsome and very tall and those are the features i like a guy to possess, especially I love when a guy is very tall because i am petite AKA portable
ND this non Nigerian guy has already talked to my mum and my mum seems to like him a lot although they couldn't speak well because my mum not so fluent in English.

So this guy crushing on me still wants to be visiting me again after i told him i have gotten a boyfriend but he insisted that he will still visit me which i told him okay.

So later he called me that he is almost at my area but b4 he could call me later i quickly blocked his number, he has probably called me many times with his number but later he called me with another number but the moment i had his voice i pretended as if the connection was really bad and we actually didn't see that day.

I know what i did was bad which i have been feeling quilty of bt i dnt wanna give him false hope that we can still date.

So later he sent me a message on whatsapp asking if i blocked his number which i deny because he would be really hurt if i had told him the truth.

Even after denying i blocked his number he has been calling me with another number and my boyfriend got to know this guy nd told me to tell him the truth bt i can't because i know it will very hurtful for him.

Nw i need advice on how i can let this guy to know my bf doesn't want him to be disturbing me with calls or try to visit me no more without his feelings getting hurt.

I only need mature advice!!!

I don't understand, the man you chat with dey type "k"?

"Your second number z not going"?


BLOCK HIM IMMEDIATELY

You are still a small girl in her Hoe-Phase.

Ask the nearest unmarried aged ladies around you, with time, reality and body go start to dey tell you, after the non-Nigerian guy is done with you.

He might even be the person behind the white guy's account.

u don want him but you want his money but if you have told him that you don't want him but he still decide to spend on you no problem u can empty his pocket until his real wife will come

Telll him ur getting married soon... Hope u did not collect any money from him

You will eventually look for him after your boyfriend must have enjoyed the coochie, and then break your heart.Girls only really start appreciating good guys after a series of bad experiences.
Sorry for the guy that allows an 18yr old gal treat him anyhow.

People make life complicated for themselves.

There is no way you can leave him without hurting him so you better leave him now so he can hurt and move on. Life is not all sugar and rain, there is also sun and lemon, bad things are part of life and it's not our duty to question what is a necessity even if it hurts bad.

BTW stop asking Nigerian guys you won't date to advise you, I see this as a marketting ploy to play hard to get. if it is, your gimmick will only attract FVCK boys once again.

Abfinest007:
u don want him but you want his money but if you have told him that you don't want him but he still decide to spend on you no problem u can empty his pocket until his real wife will come

I gave me willingly,nd i asked because i was broke nd had no boyfriend then
But since then i never collected anything from him no more,my bf do usually send me money nw.

All these kids with fantastic dreams: “Tall, dark/white, handsome, rich”.

It's not your fault abeg. It's the maga that can't take a hint. Causing us unbearable shame and embarrassment.

Your first boyfriend was wiser.

The truth is better sayed now before is too late my sister u for give dis guy sex o ...if u never give am sex ur owing him bcus u self chop en money..u ow de guy sex give him sex before u marry another guy

Newguyhere:
Guys that move with underage girls sef dey try.

Ah swear bro..I no fit imagine the stress involved

You broke up with your ex because you didn't give him some p ssy.
What makes you think the new bf won't do same if you're so stingy with your p ssy?

So your main point is to flaunt your so called foreign boyfriend while belittling Nigerian men because one guy broke your heart because you no give an Toto?

You keep showering praise on the guy throughout the thread and at a point I got confused if I was in the right thread.

Lemme tell you the truth, u like that your childhood Nigerian friend, else you would have cut him off. You clearly realize he wanted a relationship which you can't give him but yet you haven't made it clear with him since...

And another thing, hope you didn't still give your new boyfriend Toto too I'll be waiting for your next thread

Newguyhere:
Guys that move with underage girls sef dey try.
I just pray that white guy that is propping you up isn't a human trafficker.
Polish and eastern European guys are now big in the sex trade.
The issue has gotten so bad that they even have African syndicates all over the continent.

Honestly..I hate it!!! I do warn my friends whenever they try making sexual comments about a minor. I mean serious warning!

Kingsteve:
You broke up with your ex because you didn't give him some p ssy.
What makes you think the new bf won't do same if you're so stingy with your p ssy?

We see once in a blue moon because he is not living in Africa
He is also helping me me in every possible way
Nd he doesn't pressure me for sex because he want me as partner nd mould me fully.
Moreover why the rush?not every guy has Nigerian mentality!!

Pettyprincess:

We see once in a blue moon because he is not living in Africa
He is also helping me me in every possible way
Nd he doesn't pressure me for sex because he want me as partner nd mould me fully.
Moreover why the rush?not every guy has Nigerian mentality!!

He is fvcking someone else, small girl like you.

Newguyhere:
Guys that move with underage girls sef dey try.
I just pray that white guy that is propping you up isn't a human trafficker.
Polish and eastern European guys are now big in the sex trade.
The issue has gotten so bad that they even have African syndicates all over the continent.

Lol you must be stalking my post enough to know i am dating a polish
Anyways he is best guy any lady will ask for
Always interested in my future nd i literally know everything about him!!
We have been together for a year now
So i dnt think any of what you mentioning exist!!
Nd Poland is in Central Europe not Eastern!!!

All this young ladies on Nairaland I wonder what their parents are doing .Focus more on your career .

themonk:

He is fvcking someone else, small girl like you.

Geez!!! I am 21!!!
Hw is 21 years old lady a small girl?

Pettyprincess:

Geez!!! I am 21!!!
Hw is 21 years old lady a small girl?

Doesn't matter your age if you think a Polish Guy that doesn't ask you for sex is suddenly impotent because of you.

Enjoy your youth.

lilmax:
I don't understand, the man you chat with dey type "k"?

"Your second number z not going"?


BLOCK HIM IMMEDIATELY

I don't think he's a mature guy, if he is then she did right by blocking him, I have no patience for people who replies me with "k".

hehehehe
make una comment the more jare
the stingy pvssy and the mumu guy

Tell us the truth, you already like him and dream about him all the time. You only came here to lie to us that you have a tall white boyfriend in order to elevate your lowly status. Just say the truth because local man knows.

Pettyprincess:

We see once in a blue moon because he is not living in Africa
He is also helping me me in every possible way
Nd he doesn't pressure me for sex because he want me as partner nd mould me fully.
Moreover why the rush?not every guy has Nigerian mentality!!

Anyway, let's see how it goes when he visits and finally demands for your p ssy.
You think say em no dey fantasise about eating your kpomo on a regular?

You go soon believe in the Nigerian mentality!

lilmax:
I don't understand, the man you chat with dey type "k"?

"Your second number z not going"?


BLOCK HIM IMMEDIATELY

Lool as in shaperly....

If U tell him with ordinary mouth U ain’t interested he will just think you are playing hard to get cos u are young... and will keep using ur mum to get to u.. but there’s one language every one understands... and that’s money...
Try and break down all the money u have hungrily collected from him..collect it from ur new boyfriend call him and return it to him..tell him just once...you don’t wanna owe any one, that u ain’t interested, he will get it sharp sharp.......

but I know u... u like money too much....u want to keep him, and keep collecting money but u don’t want his disturbance...òrí è tí dààrù...olè, adòjùtíní omo

Newguyhere:


she will eventually regret her actions trust me. By the time that white guy starts peddling her pussy all over the brothels in Europe

Don't worry. We've seen her future already