JoannaSedley:
See them. You work hard for it you OWN it. You can sleep under the bridge for all I care, bunch of destiny swindlers. Your type will never pray for your wife to succeed. Read what you wrote up there. Why won't gold diggers and slay mamas come your way since you do not value hardworking women who make things happen. You can even prevent your wife from having a PhD when you do not have. Egomaniacal bunch.
You stay back doing unsuccessful things a d when she comes back with goodies, your backward traditional mindset will crawl outta the woodworks that she ain't supposed to have her name on it becase you are the horseband. Remember to tell Fulorunsho Alakija that. She is the richest woman on the planet earth today not her horse band.

JoannaSedley:
But it is right for the man to use his name alone? Yeye dey smell. That's for all the jobless women littered all over the world.
Say that to Patience Jonathan, Allison Madueke and Folorunsho Alakija.

adubiay:


Even if the man is the sole owner of both the land and house, it is wrong of him to have asked the wife to leave the house, we all knows that, but the issue here is the wife trying to paint the husband bad starting from the topic of the tread, absorbing herself of any wrong doing, she is here to feed her ego, and she's getting what she want from kids here who didn't even study the tread and details b4 telling her to call her husband bluff. Do we know how long it took the husband before he finds out. The husband has not bother to check when he was investing on the land(maybe he has the lion share) because he trust his wife believing it is there land. The husband didn't just dash his money to his parents, he spent it on there health. She has to mock her husband that the house belong to her at the heat of argument. hmmmm what a wife. Women always belief that husband money is OUR money but her own money is her money. Me can't stand such woman either

CrazeMan69:
Your type can not have a successful relationship/Marriage except you are dating/married to a “Horse-band” (permit me to use your words).
In marriage the two people work together as one it is not right to own a property individually except you both agree on such; the car should be ‘our’ car, the home should be ‘our’ home.

Please change your mentality even the westerners agree on this that’s why on the event of a failed marriage everything that is acquired during the marriage is split into two.

Remain Blessed

Oklander:
Thing? I have chosen to not go the path you are pushing me, I clearly stated my opinionated contribution up there, you should really mind the push.

Eketem:
I am confused as to why you are begging him.

You both got paid from a business
He used his own share for his parents, you used your own to build a house now he got angry and decided to kick you out of your own house, you told him it wasn't possible.

He gets angry and moves out
Let him stay out, he is a wicked man that would have been happy to see you out on the streets with your kids begging him up and down.

I don't understand why you are now begging him.

I don't know why Nigerian women are so desperate to keep wicked men

HEseesall:



He doesnt want that, i suggested it he said no, he has to be in charge fully not jointly

HEseesall:


I used my part of the money which is not wrong, i expected him to know that

HRHQueenPhil:
wow, dis is serious
1. invite ur pastor or someone he highly respects and a lawyer.

2. kneel down and beg him in their midst and ask d lawyer 2 change it 2 his name.( this is if u want peace}

now, if u are scared he would turn around and throw u out l8a,
1. call a lawyer and file for a divorce
2. sell d house, invest d money and move 2 a smaller house

It is well with u

divinelove:


Calm down
Husband and wife ordinarily are supposed to be one, all these are caused by lack of trust and firm believe in oneness. The man married the woman and not the other way round. The husband is head to his wife n DTS not hard to figure out.

Any woman who cannot stay under a man should not consider marriage, after all marriage is not a must

JoannaSedley:
Unless we are reading different threads here, where they are advising the woman to change the property to only HIS name. Who does that? Unless you are a nonentity as I am not which makes it unlikely for things like that to happen to me. I earn money, I buy things for myself. If you want me to buy for you I buy it in your name. I dont want someone sticking to me because of some property.

Take your blessings sir. This right here is pissing me off

wordbank:

In your opinion, marriage is a business for hyenas.

divinelove:




My submissions are based on eternal truths as enshrined in the holy Bible which is the factory manual for Godly marriage

weavesquad:

My Dear Sis/bro, U Just Adviced Her Wrongly, Am So Sorry Oo. Its Normal For The Man To Feel That His Ego Has Been Bruised On. She Needs To Make Her Self Submissive Because Of The Kids Future, Though We Didnt Hear Ur Husband Part But Here Are Ur Mistakes. 1. U Shouldnt Have Used Ur Name Without Ur Husband Consent, Its Shows U Also Have Plans Of Treatin Him Like Wife In D Future. 2. During D Heated Argument , Ur Husband May Not Really Meant U Pack Out, It May Be Masculine Authority(when He Doesnt Feel Respect Frm U Again, And Dts Woman Stunt.). You Shouldnt Ve Mentioned Who Owns D Ppty. No Responsible Man Wl Accpt Ur Plea & Continue To Sleep Under Same Roof Afta Such Statement.

weavesquad:

My Dear Sis/bro, U Just Adviced Her Wrongly, Am So Sorry Oo. Its Normal For The Man To Feel That His Ego Has Been Bruised On. She Needs To Make Her Self Submissive Because Of The Kids Future, Though We Didnt Hear Ur Husband Part But Here Are Ur Mistakes. 1. U Shouldnt Have Used Ur Name Without Ur Husband Consent, Its Shows U Also Have Plans Of Treatin Him Like Wife In D Future. 2. During D Heated Argument , Ur Husband May Not Really Meant U Pack Out, It May Be Masculine Authority(when He Doesnt Feel Respect Frm U Again, And Dts Woman Stunt.). You Shouldnt Ve Mentioned Who Owns D Ppty. No Responsible Man Wl Accpt Ur Plea & Continue To Sleep Under Same Roof Afta Such Statement.

CSTR1005:
The woman is terrible and I understand the husband's point of view.

He asked her to pack out like any average Nigerian man threatens when they are very annoyed. He was probably never going to see it through on the long run.

Only to have his wife deflect his ego that the property he thought was a family asset belonged to his wife.
A massive treachery.

I am sure he is never going to stay in that house again. He'd rather rent his own house than live there.

If the woman knows what is good for her, she'd better retrace her steps and change the ownership to a family name or in the children's names.

If not, That guy would go out there and get a new wife in time and rent a new house, and she would be stuck with three children.

dingbang:
How did you manage to put your name as the owner or the house without letting him know? You are a snitch

Sterope:
What? you don't think with your manhood

Acidosis:
Let's get something straight here;


1. You did not buy a house with your own proceeds. What you acquired is the land.

2. Are you saying from the foundation to the furnishing of that building, your husband did not contribute at least 60% of the building funds?

3. If your husband has a very significant contribution to that building, then his grievances are well justified. How can he contribute to a building and not have his name on the property? What's the ratio of cost of land to the actual building?

Before you follow the recommendations on this thread, ensure you clarify your post.. Don't go and destroy your home based on the half truth you have here.

It is unfortunate that in law, the owner of the land is assumed the overseer and owner of any building, property or items on the land. Buildings don't come with a name, only the land does, so I totally understand your husband's fears. Your acquisition of a land shouldn't give you the absolute authority over the entire property. This is family affairs please, not property law.

Amberon11:
I wonder wear such men are bred, God help us.
No wonder boacken have the worst IQ in all of humanity. Someone asked his wife and kids to move out and they could've been out if not for the smartness of the woman and you're here saying thrash.

Pls receive sense because at the moment you have none.

Daeylar:




There are so many reasons why I hate that book of many ridiculous stories. This is one of them


Op, my advice to you is since he has gone, let him go, but...... People don't like divorce sooooo.... No comment.

oloyede252:

are you intelligent at all.. he said that during an argument So the man never kicked out the woman from the house...

HEseesall:



He doesnt want that, i suggested it he said no, he has to be in charge fully not jointly

HEseesall:



He doesnt want that, i suggested it he said no, he has to be in charge fully not jointly

CrazeMan69:

Did she say what provoked him?
I put it to you that if you hear the reason you would not blame that man
I also stand to tell you that whatever it was would not have esclated if she didn’t mention the ownership of the house.

Both men and women have to learn to be himble in a relationship

CSTR1005:

Alright then.

At least she has a house to sell or lease to take care of her children and then hope some man somewhere finds her interesting enough to come in and play the role of a father for her children and a companion.

By then, the husband would have moved on, rent a new house, find a new woman he trusts to respect him and build a family with him.

Win -win.