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Re: My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home by wordbank(m): 6:35am On Jul 15, 2018 |
HEseesall:From what you wrote, it means you really have trust issues. For your husband to discuss what his money will be used for and you agreed mean he's open. You also agreed your share will be used to buy a LAND, then both of you will jointly build on it which is the case. So should you assume without discussing with your husband that your intention is to have the land and house all to yourself. Deep down you know you are wrong. Marriage is no joke, it's much more than the stock market where every penny counts. You simply spearheaded your misfortune. Probably, you did that hoping for a day like this, well that day has come, I wish you well. 4 Likes |
Re: My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home by CrazeMan69(m): 6:35am On Jul 15, 2018 |
emelda86: ![]() ![]() Only Igbo will understand Sis no be so oo, you should understand he is still pissed, when things calm down he might not even want it again. But the marriage is already sour |
Re: My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home by swuftz: 6:35am On Jul 15, 2018 |
But the solution is very simplle.if he felt his Ego bruised because the house is in your name and he decided to pack out.....The best solution is for him to go and rent an apartment and move you and the kids there while he make plans to build a house in his own name.......if there is genuine love between the two of you especially from him to you there should be no reason for him.ro pack out in the first instance.. Asking you to pack out with your kids because of a misunderstanding, is quite wrong not withstanding how big the issue is. But whatever the case don't change the document to any other name except yours..if he truly loves you and your kids ,he should be man enough to get a new apartment for all of you while you put the house on rent..afterall is the house not meant to be inherited by your children? no matter who it belongs to, except od course he has a hidden agenda. It is well 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home by emelda86(f): 6:36am On Jul 15, 2018 |
keeenee: How fly no go support shit ![]() U want her to start writing all the quarells they've been having...why are you people like this 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home by BestDude: 6:36am On Jul 15, 2018 |
CrazeMan69: Oga shut up. Out of the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaketh. You cant give what you don't have. Personally I have a strong hatred for people who use the word "pack out of my house" I don't forgive such people. 6 Likes |
Re: My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home by LexngtonSteele: 6:38am On Jul 15, 2018 |
CSTR1005: Shut your mouth with your tribalistic post. I don't wanna go tribal, but an Igbo guy would have cut and put her in a bucket. From the greed and selfishness shown over property, it's obvious they are both Igbos. |
Re: My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home by cutediva87(f): 6:38am On Jul 15, 2018 |
change that name at you own peril, don't tell me your husband is a good man because he's not. he already spent his money on what he wants and still want to claim ownership to your own, he's selfish and wicked. if you change it to his name one day he will throw you out. why are we even talking about this? if the reverse Was The case will he consider it. Pls stop pampering unworthy men. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home by olalat(m): 6:38am On Jul 15, 2018 |
Sterope:You really make good points here but I need to ask some questions. Why do you think the man did not inquire or bother to inquire whose name is on title of the property before now? Do you think the just ask her to pack out of the house based on one or two exchange of ideas words rather a prolonged argument and utterances which depicted some level of disrespect? Do you a man who doesn't bother to have custody of their property can chase his wife out just like that? 1 Like |
Re: My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home by CrazeMan69(m): 6:38am On Jul 15, 2018 |
eyinjuege: You are making an empty argument based on assumptions. If he had another woman I bet you the OP won’t be asking wether to add his name she will be asking wether she should apologize for cutting of his joystick ![]() |
Re: My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home by Helju: 6:38am On Jul 15, 2018 |
Congratulations my dear. You listened to the ministering of your guardian angel at the beginning and bought the property in your name. At this time, you should be thanking your God and ask for his will to be done in your life. One rarely wins the battle against her husband & his family, so prayerfully hand the battle over to your God & watch what happens. 4 Likes |
Re: My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home by Born2Breed(f): 6:40am On Jul 15, 2018 |
HEseesall: You made a wise decision. Why will a sane man threaten his wife with eviction? He can get a new wife if He's tired of the marriage but trying to evict his wife and kids its the lowest of low for any scumbag. Under no circumstance must you change the name to his, rather change it to your eldest child with the parents as next of kin. 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home by nazablossom(f): 6:40am On Jul 15, 2018 |
HEseesall:But he wanted to kick you and the kids out without thinking of the kids welfare. Change the name to his name and you will live to regret it for the rest of your life. Why didn't he use his money to what you guys agreed on in the first place rather he used his for his parents. If you had used yours for your parents as well, would you be talking of property by now. This is your sweat and no man should take it away from you. My sister was thrown out of her matrimonial home,her children collected from her because of a side chick, the husband went ahead and married the side chick without looking back . She had no money, nothing because she was busy being a dedicated housewife. Yeah! That's how mean men can be if they want to. So,think carefully before you make the mistake of your life. 8 Likes |
Re: My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home by Kenkaniff(m): 6:41am On Jul 15, 2018 |
Don't change the name and please maintain your stand about it cos same thing would have happened to us too. Guess it's a similar situation if it wasn't for my mom's name on the documents,my dad would have sold the house by then leaving us homeless. It's better to rent another house cos of his ego and keep your own property. 4 Likes |
Re: My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home by Amberon11: 6:41am On Jul 15, 2018 |
Careful about what exactly? Didn't he already leave her? Stop acting like someone is dying. Losing a useless man should be a testimony, not something to be sorrowful about. CSTR1005: 5 Likes |
Re: My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home by Carinaflo(f): 6:42am On Jul 15, 2018 |
HEseesall:If I were in your shoes, I would never change the name but since you have decided to compromise and go for joint owernership, please do not go for "Mr and Mrs Charles Edem" rather go for "Mr Charles Edem and Mrs Seyi Sandra Edem". Be wise, this was how my aunt was deceived and the husband brought in another lady to come and answer " Mrs Charles Edem" 7 Likes |
Re: My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home by CrazeMan69(m): 6:43am On Jul 15, 2018 |
BestDude: I agree that phrase “pack out of my house” should never be used but if not acted upon the case is different. Oya now she has the house shey baba don dey plan move to another state without complaining? Is she not the one still pained now? Please don’t use your think through your anus, a broken home is very bad. You can try it if you want |
Re: My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home by Gboy5050: 6:45am On Jul 15, 2018 |
please madam you guys can settle it amicably but not on changing of document and if he refuses on that kindly go on with your life... 1 Like |
Re: My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home by CrazeMan69(m): 6:45am On Jul 15, 2018 |
Helju: People like you are the reason pastors are buying private jets. How will you open your stink hole to say God broke her home? ![]() |
Re: My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home by Gboy5050: 6:45am On Jul 15, 2018 |
please madam you guys can settle it amicably but not on changing of document and if he refuses on that kindly go on with your life...[color=#990000][/color] 1 Like |
Re: My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home by eyinjuege: 6:46am On Jul 15, 2018 |
CrazeMan69: Hah, but you also made your assumptions about their relationship. That's why i quoted you with my own assumptions . You and many others believe the man didnt mean it when he asked her to pack out, that's an assumption. I choose to believe his statement, as i know I'm no mind reader. And like I said earlier, the Bible says out of the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaketh. The man has always had it at the back of his mind to send her packing, hence the statement. He won't send her out and live his life as a bachelor. I'm definitely safe to assume he plans to bring another woman in. 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home by CrazeMan69(m): 6:47am On Jul 15, 2018 |
Amberon11: ![]() |
Re: My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home by bixton(m): 6:47am On Jul 15, 2018 |
HEseesall: Let me assume, your side if the discuss is true. Now, no matter the argument between you and your husband to the instant of him wanting you and the children to leave the house but incidently only for you to inform him that the house which he believes to be his is actually yours. Thank God you're also working. This is just an eye opener. The best you can do is get a good lawyer and put the names of the children as true owners. And that you're only a custodian on behalf of the children. There is no such thing as Mr & Mrs owning any property in law. Even a joint account is operated by one signatory and only in the instance due to ill health or death that the other person becomes active user of the account. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home by emelda86(f): 6:49am On Jul 15, 2018 |
Orgym: What are you even saying, they did joint business it paid big time, they shared the money he used his on his family, she used hers to build a house on her name now after a very big misunderstanding, the man wants her to leave the house with her kids plz which sensible man does that ![]() What would have transpired between the both of them that made him ask her to leave with their kids,,,that been said the wife now suggested for her to change the name to Mr/ Mrs her declined saying it should be in his name fully Inoru ebe na'akor ajanbele n'puo gi ehn.... 4 Likes |
Re: My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home by Nobody: 6:50am On Jul 15, 2018 |
U better face your kids and forget about that man,dnt know y some women behaves like vegetables, imagine,he does not even want joint names,dats evil,don't u try change dat name to his,if u do,u are on a loooooooooooong thing 5 Likes |
Re: My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home by igwe44(m): 6:50am On Jul 15, 2018 |
You Only told us you and your husband had big misunderstanding,you did not tell us the cause because I believe you are at fault,you only focus strongly on the part he told you park to out of the house and he moving out because the document of the house is in your name. Madam you can't just have a misunderstanding and he told you to park,you did something very wrong that warrants that. Please when given information,gave a complete information and don't bend it to play victim. I wish you and your husband a happy reunion. Safe your home,stop listing to home breakers. |
Re: My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home by wordbank(m): 6:51am On Jul 15, 2018 |
JoannaSedley:Well, I don't know about the love-life of my forefathers, but for the woman owns this thread to profess deceit coated with love and when things go south is still trying to adopt the traditional archaic mindset of the forefathers is dilutional. Its wakeup call. It's easier to profess love during sex, not when money is involved and if you can't play dirty all the way, why the notch? She's in for a ride but not in a park, and when the ride is over she'll be the one counseling younger fellows who are yet to experience such in business marriage. |
Re: My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home by ab1x: 6:51am On Jul 15, 2018 |
sholatech: I bet to disagree. Anyone can be Mrs. You have to do it in such a way that your name and his name will appear on the document. If he is sola and you are Ruth and the surname is Ibah. It has to be something like Mr and Mrs Sola and Ruth Ibah. |
Re: My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home by Elthugnificent(m): 6:51am On Jul 15, 2018 |
oloyede252:The most annoying part is that she even mentioned it clearly from the first page. I was just reading people comments in total dismay hoping to see someone that caught that part, I finally saw that at 7 or 8 page. Unbelievable. Was totally surprised or disappointed though, because some seven years back I used to see nairaland as a fountain of knowledge to the extent that most of my references comes from here. But know just imagine this arrogance display of intellectual laziness. |
Re: My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home by divinelove(m): 6:52am On Jul 15, 2018 |
Amberon11: Who allowed this kid into this thread, son this thread is for mature people not kids like you. Now get lost |
Re: My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home by BestDude: 6:52am On Jul 15, 2018 |
CrazeMan69: She did not ask him to leave. You reap what you sow. He used his own share to dash his people and she used her own to build a house. So what is her crime there? 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home by don4real18(m): 6:53am On Jul 15, 2018 |
HEseesall:Are you trying to tell us that his money is not in the property at all... That is, you did the foundation to the roofing on your own |
Re: My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home by divinelove(m): 6:54am On Jul 15, 2018 |
cococandy: Lol is that all ok get lost already |
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