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Re: My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home by michaelwilli(m): 7:16am On Jul 15, 2018 |
CSTR1005:Why would a husband make such threat? 4 Likes |
Re: My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home by Melonny(m): 7:16am On Jul 15, 2018 |
Heseesall, don't ever, like never ever change the house document to his full name. Even if you have to submit to your husband, don't be stupid. Speak to a lawyer not a pastor. Lawyers are professionals. Again, don't change the document to his name. Please do if you want to cry later. Seek advise from a lawyer not a pastor 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home by dafemnet: 7:18am On Jul 15, 2018 |
Daeylar:She will learn to submit to her next husband or she remains single.A woman must submit to whoever she's married to else she will be single. Even in LGBT world, there must be a submissive partner. Don't fool ur selves. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home by madridguy(m): 7:18am On Jul 15, 2018 |
Your oga did same to you? anyerhovwo: 1 Like |
Re: My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home by dafemnet: 7:18am On Jul 15, 2018 |
Amberon11:She will learn to submit to her next husband or she remains single.A woman must submit to whoever she's married to else she will be single. Even in LGBT world, there must be a submissive partner. Don't fool ur selves |
Re: My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home by dafemnet: 7:19am On Jul 15, 2018 |
adieora:She will learn to submit to her next husband or she remains single.A woman must submit to whoever she's married to else she will be single. Even in LGBT world, there must be a submissive partner. Don't fool ur selves |
Re: My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home by Nobody: 7:19am On Jul 15, 2018 |
CrazeMan69: Most married men has cars, right? How many were in joint family names? The car most wives drive bought by the husbands,how many were in the wives names? I know that most times husbands and wives have problems and he is the o e who bought car for the wife,he usually collects car key as he send her packing. Lets start from there. I'm happy some Nigerian women are catching up. Mumuism has made them an object of caricature should the marriage go south. Nobody prays for unhappy marriage but it happens. More than 70% of Nigerian men use their children and brothers as next of kin. It's a fact. At a point some government establishments call their workers for sensitization cos the wives usually take them to court when and if the man dies and the issue is brought up. And in most occassions the ladies usually win. That motor u bought for him and registered in his name will be used to carry anther woman the day he drives u and the kids out. This has nothing to do with feminism but common sense 6 Likes |
Re: My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home by Helju: 7:20am On Jul 15, 2018 |
don4real18: Pls correct me if I am wrong. I think she bought the land in her name (from her share) & they built the house together. The owner of the land owns the property. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home by Franklyspeakin: 7:21am On Jul 15, 2018 |
no!!!!! don't any woman he marries automatically becomes his Mrs. don't change anything. he used his own profit for his parents just imagine. sholatech: 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home by Igba123: 7:21am On Jul 15, 2018 |
[quote aut MODIFIED For those viewing this, i have made some clarifications down to page (1)you said good man? Which good man throws his wife and children out of his house? Just b wise woman. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home by Berankis: 7:23am On Jul 15, 2018 |
You got kids for your husband (I appreciate that), you both work together (wornderful!). But what is the SERIOUS MISUNDERSTANDING you both had? (Nobody seemed to be asking). Something tells me you are not completely truthful, you were never totally honest & submissive from the beginning (...why you would use your name only for what you both worked for). You said he is a "good man", so what happened? Why would he want to suddenly separate from you? I dont encourage separation or abandonment in any way but sincerity, faithfulness are very key here. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home by buchilla: 7:25am On Jul 15, 2018 |
Woman,u have to use that free gift called "common sense" to handle this issue. If you had not built the house in your name you would have been the one feeling the heat of rejection, humiliation and homeless. Never you change the name of ownership or including your husband's name because he may still throw you out in future after doing his wish.A man who loves his family so much cannot try to send even his children away. Be very careful. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home by akwunomy(m): 7:25am On Jul 15, 2018 |
[quote author=Olabestonic001 post=69387046] Most of you are really easily deceived. Women are good wordsmith and knows how to get the narrative to favor their desired end. I've a feeling that she's not telling us alot. She said from the proceeds of the business, the man used his 'own part' (I'm damned sure they both agreed) to save the life of her father-in-law. The other was used to purchase a land and she (thinking she's smarter) bought it in her name. The husband never knew such. The man apparently thought he had a great wife- began to judiciously pumped money into the land and a house 'germinated' outta it. One day, they had a sharp disagreement and she reminded the man that he had no portion in the property. He became angry and left the house. She tried to 'give the olive branch' but he was still stunned. The issue wasn't looking good. She most likely reminded him that he 'squandered' his own share on his 'family' and that caused him to wonder what his wife was driving at. He annoyingly and foolishly asked for a transfer away. She got wind of it and discovered that that man some of you foolishly called wicked for his 'stupid' request wasn't nearly as bad. He still provides for the family and leaving her in the 'big house' she is claiming is too much for her to bare. A divorce is looming! Worst still, even with the house, she still doesn't have the upper hand. So, she came here, gave her version so that people will queue behind her. And boy, are they? Woman, let me tell you; you definitely know you betrayed and have wronged that man. He used a part of your deal to take care of his father and felt your agreement meant you loved his father! Your action to make the land in your name and you saw him dancing that he's building a family house not knowing he isn't is a bad choice ma. He himself is a man that needs wisdom. Kindly go back to your man and ensure you show remorsefulness for betraying him while he takes care of his parents (remember, they're yours too). Don't mind those cheering you on here. Many of them don't understand marriage but takes it for agitation. And if you want to remain married, show genuine repentance and you'll be shocked he won't even ask you to change it to his name again. God will save your home.[/quote And your narrative is based on what! Evidence or fact: You can speculate all you want. We are reaching our various conclusion based on the information available to us. We are not going to alter anything because here is not the court of law and we are not passing judgement. We only heard from one party to this issue and do we care to hear the full story from both side of course but that won’t be possible or necessary...if Op decided to come here and tell us such a nice story and unjustly faulted her husband...that is her problem. Just as we have unreasonable men in the society...we also have women...however...instead of trying to paint her a liar where you don’t know the full detail...just give her an advice she requested and leave the fallacy hasten conclusion you are positing. 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home by Rejoice5000(f): 7:26am On Jul 15, 2018 |
HEseesall:Atimes its good to talkless in marriage jst learn to apply wisdom my mum taught me dat and it has been helping me.men behave like babies but it depend on how u treat them.our investments,companies are all in my Name.ad we did court wedding too but attitude ad the way u approach issues matters,@post since he already ask u ad ur kids to leave thinking the documents are in his name but atlast reverse is the case pls don't change it to his name because poo will happen ad try to involve ur family members because from his actions u won't know wat will happen next or wat he is upto.stand ur ground ad talkless because according to u he started the drama of u leaving his house at first place. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home by nazablossom(f): 7:26am On Jul 15, 2018 |
wordbank:He said he wants to use his share for his parents, she said OK. If she had disagreed,she would be criticized for it and her disagreement wouldn't have stopped the man from doing his wish. Maybe she should have told the husband that she wants their house in her name since the money is hers, her husband would have refused, and by now,she would have been homeless because as usual she is dispensable and the man gets to own the house blah blah blah. Yeah! I know how it would have played out, Yeah! She made a wonderful decision. Move on. I read it very well and I stand with the woman. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home by ashjay001(m): 7:26am On Jul 15, 2018 |
michaelwilli: Thank u, jare. Making ur kids, homeless fa ![]() Op, u knew, this day was coming, yet u didn't reason all d variables ![]() U can't be half-smart. Change d name or forget d marriage(in d short or long run), dazzol! 1 Like |
Re: My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home by ebukamen(m): 7:26am On Jul 15, 2018 |
Hmmmmmmmmmmmm!!!!! After God fear women! So, you bought a land in your name and didn't tell your husband and the BOTH of you built on the house in your own name. You didn't even see a reason to tell him then until now. I also think that the man isn't a good man but you are BOTH SCAMMERS. Chai!!!!!! 1 Like |
Re: My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home by wordbank(m): 7:29am On Jul 15, 2018 |
paulynpen:Ogaaa, take your time to read all her posts on this issue to understand why the man you quoted said that. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home by Amberon11: 7:30am On Jul 15, 2018 |
Shut up with your silly advice. The woman did nothing wrong and you're here blaming her. chris31: 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home by paulynpen(m): 7:30am On Jul 15, 2018 |
Obason22: Then you can live under the brigde, I hope your ego would be adequately nursed there. Hahahaha. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home by wordbank(m): 7:30am On Jul 15, 2018 |
ashjay001:Dazzol |
Re: My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home by paulynpen(m): 7:31am On Jul 15, 2018 |
wordbank: Yea I saw it but he try to add spices |
Re: My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home by benedictac(f): 7:32am On Jul 15, 2018 |
HEseesall: Pls pls don't try it. don't allow any pastor or anyone make you do that. instead let it be in the name of your first son or daughter if he doesn't want it as joint but having his name only is a NO NO. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home by Alwayzasking247: 7:32am On Jul 15, 2018 |
HEseesall: Wetin you gain eventually? |
Re: My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home by olalat(m): 7:32am On Jul 15, 2018 |
Sterope: |
Re: My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home by IFNOTGOD(m): 7:34am On Jul 15, 2018 |
don't change d name beg him to come back but b wise so u don't lose ur life get both families to settle dis issue but don't ever change d name if u n others beg him n he refuses leave him, Karma will bring him backwards 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home by Amberon11: 7:34am On Jul 15, 2018 |
She owns at least 75% of the house since she also bought the land. oshe11: 1 Like |
Re: My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home by paulynpen(m): 7:35am On Jul 15, 2018 |
Oklander: Another weak man spotted. You do not ride on a woman to massage your ego. Strong leave by the consequences of their actions. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home by mykelly(m): 7:35am On Jul 15, 2018 |
You must be sick dingbang: 1 Like |
Re: My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home by ShenTeh(m): 7:36am On Jul 15, 2018 |
Martinez19: You are obviously not married yet! Marriage is more complicated than that. |
Re: My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home by Amberon11: 7:36am On Jul 15, 2018 |
She is not wrong. Her husband is wrong for wanting to be the sole owner of a property his wife contributed more to. adubiay: 1 Like |
Re: My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home by buchilla: 7:37am On Jul 15, 2018 |
HEseesall:Do you think that if you eventually does his wish he will never kick you and the kids out of the house. Woman,be wise and careful. 2 Likes |
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