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Being AS Genotype As A Man Is Affecting My Plans Of Getting Married / AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise / Possibility Of AA+AS Genotype Parent Give Birth To SS - Exper Opinion Needed (2) (3) (4)
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| Re: "We Are Both AS Genotype And We Don't Consider Break-Up As An Option" by gidjah(m): 5:49pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
charliboy654:yea true, very true, if dem get plenty money ,why not,it Is a go go and once dem get two kids ,make dem stop production sharp sharp.my neibir has d same genotype trouble,god favoured dem with d first 3kids no sickle cell gene among them ,but instead of dem to stop at that 3grown up kids wey no be sickle cell, they went ahead with two more kids,and low ...the last two came with heavy sickle cell trouble,they are still suffering from that last two foolish act they indulged in till date,tje last two children na witch dem be wallahi,waisting all their money one boy and the other gir, grow ,them no grow ,they looked like Aki and pawpaw!!!honestly , I do not pity them ,you dont toy with foolishness and try tempting god o.abeg tell them to decist from marrying o, by the time fem no go fit raise money for DNA TEST....all hell shall loose on dem,the traumatic experience no be here o.it xontinues until d child eventually dies and even after death sef ,d trauma continues in season 2 |
| Re: "We Are Both AS Genotype And We Don't Consider Break-Up As An Option" by Nobody: 5:50pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
mabelly: Consider which option? The option that involves flushing your fetus, if the genotype is SS? How many are you willing to abort to get your ‘desired’ genotype? Op I don’t think that love will be strong enough to weather the storm that comes with this. Love is not selfish! Let him go, God will provide a compatible man for you. 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: "We Are Both AS Genotype And We Don't Consider Break-Up As An Option" by basic23111: 5:50pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
don't be selfish, consider d unborn child.....u can always get another love. 1 Like |
| Re: "We Are Both AS Genotype And We Don't Consider Break-Up As An Option" by PasD(m): 5:50pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
when the time comes you will not remember love. aturu 1 Like |
| Re: "We Are Both AS Genotype And We Don't Consider Break-Up As An Option" by Nobody: 5:51pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
OP, don't intentionally bring kids into the world to suffer. Pleeeease! 1) Either find someone else you're compatible with, so you can give birth to healthy kids! 2) Or stay together and look into other options, like adoption! 1 Like |
| Re: "We Are Both AS Genotype And We Don't Consider Break-Up As An Option" by Nobody: 5:51pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
I don't wish death for either of you, but if one of you die, will the other one remain single for the rest of your life. Why do you decide to bring pain to innocent baby? If you've ever seen pain that associate with SS children, you'll never try to bring such children to this world. I have 2 as siblings, one is gone and God's grace is what's keep the other. Please be wise, avoid deliberate bringing of problems into your family. Look for other girls for betterment of both of you. This is just an advice.[color=#000000][/color] EmpresFIDEL: 1 Like |
| Re: "We Are Both AS Genotype And We Don't Consider Break-Up As An Option" by ologun01(m): 5:52pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
EmpresFIDEL: You don't need to break up.. Read more on 1. PGD ( Prenatal pregnancy test)CVS The foetus is tested about 10 weeks and if it's SS( you can decide to keep it or do as you wish) it's don at the sickle cell centre at idi-araba @ 280k as at Febuary this year, you can go there to find out more. 2. IVF + PGD This is more expensive as it's an IVF procedure plus test done on the fertlized egg before implantation and might cost upward 2m depending on the centre you decide to do it. Basically..you eggs are retrieved during ovulation and the husbands sperm is used to fertilize the eggs , afterwards the eggs are tested ( bare in mind during IVF , more than 10 eggs can be retrieved). After ferlization and eggs tested..you can discard the SS ones and request the AS or AA ones to be implanted back into you ( you can decide to have twins this way) and or freeze the remaining eggs( if you are lucky to have many that are AS or AA) so next time..you only come for implantation Mind you this procedure cost alot( budget 2m and above for this) And if you do none of the above and have a SS child Then you next option is bone marrow transfer ( this is still but a procedure already done at uniben and sickle cell centre @ idi araba planning to start soon) Above are your options medically. If you both love each other as you proclaimed..those above are the available options now and will involve sacrifice. All the the best and Good luck 7 Likes |
| Re: "We Are Both AS Genotype And We Don't Consider Break-Up As An Option" by Nobody: 5:52pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
EmpresFIDEL: who says it can't be treated to it's end, this genotype stuff is just been overrated due to ignorance, I know a lot of persons who have being treated with just foods. all she/they need is to be place on diet, change of lifestyle and watch wonders of God. I'm a witness! I NO DEH FEAR ANYTHING "GENOTYPE" IT'S ALL IGNORANCE IT CAN BE TREATED TRUST ME. ALL YOU NEED JUST VISIT THIS FOR YOURSELF https://www.nicholedietaryconsultancy.com/ |
| Re: "We Are Both AS Genotype And We Don't Consider Break-Up As An Option" by Nobody: 5:53pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
charliboy654: So you are encouraging the couple to commit abortion and kill a fetus because they are stu.pid enough not to marry some one else because of the irrational love each other. I wish they aborted you. |
| Re: "We Are Both AS Genotype And We Don't Consider Break-Up As An Option" by nkbeauty(f): 5:54pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
It is better 2 quit the relationship than u bringing those kids 2 suffer,a broken engagement is better than a broken marriage,because i have seen couples who are nt happy becos of this issues....my dear your happiness and ur guys happiness is paramount nt ur selfish interest ,when the pressure starts ur both love will wax cold...u have a decision 2 chose right ..i lost my counsin just becos of these issue,just 2 months after his wedding....just be wise.. 1 Like |
| Re: "We Are Both AS Genotype And We Don't Consider Break-Up As An Option" by Nobody: 5:54pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
ETHIX:what the fuk?  |
| Re: "We Are Both AS Genotype And We Don't Consider Break-Up As An Option" by mysteryman2014: 5:54pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
Manufor: Understand that the SS foetus that is being destroyed after each check is life. God hates abortion. Can you withstand the emotional trauma that comes with each abortion. Reflect deeply before u adopt this option. |
| Re: "We Are Both AS Genotype And We Don't Consider Break-Up As An Option" by Nobody: 5:55pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
Nnamdiojukwu:Will you take the responsibility if she goes ahead with the relationship and gives birth to a stickler . If your answer is no . Then shut the fukk up 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: "We Are Both AS Genotype And We Don't Consider Break-Up As An Option" by tunjilana: 5:55pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
charliboy654:...Not just this IVF is also another option but the reality is cud start the journey and discover how stupid u were...firstly u may not get the financial support for IVF...ur wife wey u think say go work aggreasively with u in solving this may not even care...she may be all about being the regular Nigerian woman waiting to be collecting from u sef...As for genetic testing, wait till after the first abortion she gets cold feet, or starts dreaming about being dead or even ur pastor or whatever spiritual kead u have calling u that he sees danger ahead of u and advise ur wife to ensure she takes care of herself if she gets pregnant and never abort...my brother live for peace of mind 1 Like |
| Re: "We Are Both AS Genotype And We Don't Consider Break-Up As An Option" by jhadu: 5:58pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
agreeing to the use of cookies in line with our cookie policy. Learn more about how we use cookies. Home Blog How to Prevent Your Baby from Inheriting Sickle Cell Disease How to Prevent Your Baby from Inheriting Sickle Cell Disease How to Prevent Your Baby from Inheriting Sickle Cell Disease 03:53 25th September 2017 | Sickle Cell Prevention SCD PGD Sickle Cell Disease Sickle Cell Anemia Genetic Conditions Embryos Sickle Cell Prevention The last thing loving parents want for their children is suffering. Grazed knees and broken hearts are essentially inevitable, but almost all parents will do everything they can to protect their children from anything even remotely threatening. UNFORTUNATELY THERE ARE SOME THREATS LURKING AROUND, EVEN BEFORE BIRTH. Sickle cell disease (SCD), also known as sickle cell anemia, is a condition inherited from one’s parents and therefore not contagious. Unfortunately, this genetic condition has serious effects including vision problems, delayed growth, frequent infections, painful swelling of the hands and feet and fatigue caused by the anemia (shortage of healthy red blood cells). The worst and main symptom, however, is severe pain (sickle cell crisis). Repeat episodes, of varying intensity, can last for hours or even weeks. In time, it leads to organ damage which may or may not include the skin, bones, joints, brain, eyes, lungs, heart, spleen, liver, kidneys and penis. FORTUNATELY, THANKS TO PGD, BABIES DON’T HAVE TO BE BORN WITH SCD. Preimplantation genetic diagnosis (PGD) is a procedure during which fertility specialists can test embryos for genetic conditions, before assisted implantation and conception. By doing this, babies don’t have to inherit certain conditions from their parents and suffer the consequences. PGD is done through the biopsy of day 5 embryos generated through the In Vitro Fertilization (IVF) process. IVF is not necessarily needed to help couples who request PGD as some of them do not have infertility challenges, but to test for genetic conditions, an IVF needs to be done. Once the fertilized eggs become embryos, cells are biopsied to test for specific genetic conditions like Sickle cell. Healthy embryos can then be selected for implantation. Preimplantation genetic screening (PGS) can also be performed on embryos during IVF treatment to screen for numerical chromosomal abnormalities. Bridge Clinic’s fertility specialists can test for 13 genetic disorders and chromosomal abnormalities. https://www.thebridgeclinic.com/blog/how-to-prevent-your-baby-from-inheriting-sickle-cell-disease 1 Like |
| Re: "We Are Both AS Genotype And We Don't Consider Break-Up As An Option" by Aoebn: 5:59pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
So I joined nairaland to reply to this. Everyone would say It's a foolish thing to do. Marry someone when you know that you could end up birthing children that could die because you chose to ignore common sense. But everyone is not in love with your partner. And that's love. Only you can see what you see in him that makes this worth it. There are medical options out there. It's 2018. Google choronic villus sampling (CVS). It's quite expensive. But it's an option. These are life choices. I don't think you need the whole world to give you advices except you can deal with the kind of confusion you'd find yourself in. Cheers. 4 Likes |
| Re: "We Are Both AS Genotype And We Don't Consider Break-Up As An Option" by Atm2004(m): 5:59pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
From All Indication You're Learned, And Its Back Benchers Like You That Would Come And Be Disturbing Our Data Subscription With Your "Binta & Friends" Story Lines. Die For There Since You Can't Leave Each Other. GOATS! 1 Like |
| Re: "We Are Both AS Genotype And We Don't Consider Break-Up As An Option" by trustedward(m): 5:59pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
Admin should plz close the thread, she's already somewhere crying  1 Like |
| Re: "We Are Both AS Genotype And We Don't Consider Break-Up As An Option" by brainhgeek(m): 5:59pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
EmpresFIDEL: Though this is a tough case but you are not without options. However, the onus lies on you to decide which of the options to take. If you believe in miracles, good for you. However, I will advice you should pray for a miracle that will change your genotype before marriage rather than gp through though times praying nothing happens to the child. Again, I am 100% sure the two of you can go ahead, get married, have 100 children and all of them turn out AA. The chances are very slim but that doesn't mean it can not happen. It is all about probability and not certainty. Only God can help you sort this out naturally. Good luck in your decisions though. I join my faith with yours to declare that all is well with you both and you are made whole in Jesus name. 2 Likes |
| Re: "We Are Both AS Genotype And We Don't Consider Break-Up As An Option" by 989900: 6:00pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
Amniocentesis that's the process, it's done in the US. If you both can let go, that'll be better . . . easier said than done though. We couldn't let go, we risked it and we were lucky, but I swear that's the dumbest and most wicked thing a couple could do (risking it). You can't have kids without amniocentesis that would be evil! Separation is better by far, no one needs such devastating situation in his/her life. |
| Re: "We Are Both AS Genotype And We Don't Consider Break-Up As An Option" by shekauvsbuhari: 6:00pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
Babygirl, pls just let him go. My late best friend while in high skul came from a family with ss issues. Three died in a straigh row in a space of four years. All died while in final year in the uni. Then came my friend as we finished high skul n were about to enter uni. His own crisis started. My friend begged for death but death refused to come fast. It was eating him slowly.the pain was excruciating.Their parents, I cnt describe what they passed thru. The pains of losing kids almost every year and always in their finals sent the two of them to their early graves due to heartbreak. My dear dnt try this bcs when it starts this ur love will turn to resenment and hatred and regret. MAY GOD'S WISDOM PREVAIL. let him go pls. 4 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: "We Are Both AS Genotype And We Don't Consider Break-Up As An Option" by hijodedios: 6:01pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
Well you did better start considering it....seriously. |
| Re: "We Are Both AS Genotype And We Don't Consider Break-Up As An Option" by Nobody: 6:01pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
Philpham:It's better than birthing a child that would fall sick often. That's my personal opinion. 1 Like |
| Re: "We Are Both AS Genotype And We Don't Consider Break-Up As An Option" by Compliant(m): 6:02pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
EmpresFIDEL: You like to hear the bitter truth right? Few days ago i lost a friend and do you want to know what killed her? She is SS and around 22years , Her parents are both AS, people warned them but since they were badly in love they simply went ahead with the wedding and are paying for it today IF YOU DONT WANT TO POSTPONE YOUR DAYS OF AGONY PLS KINDLY BRAKE UP NOW Mind you I was into a relationship for 3 years or so when we got to know we are AS, we broke up the very week we got the news and today we are still best of friends I PRAY IT WILL NOT BE TOO LATE BEFORE YOU ACCEPT THE TRUTH |
| Re: "We Are Both AS Genotype And We Don't Consider Break-Up As An Option" by prinxel(m): 6:03pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
The only advice and solution is JESUS CHRIST if you believe in Prayers then go ahead and marry him. Only GOD can do the impossible, he can change SS to AA 1 Like |
| Re: "We Are Both AS Genotype And We Don't Consider Break-Up As An Option" by mysteryman2014: 6:03pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
Nnamdiojukwu: The options are AA,AS,AS,SS. The probability is 1/4. So you were lucky that your child escaped, what if she is not that lucky. Do not put your God to test. You have been Warned. Take informed decision. 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: "We Are Both AS Genotype And We Don't Consider Break-Up As An Option" by Unity19(m): 6:03pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
EmpresFIDEL: please can you contact me. I think I can help. I have a sister with similar situation but today the children are all fine. |
| Re: "We Are Both AS Genotype And We Don't Consider Break-Up As An Option" by mabelly: 6:06pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
ROSYL: Well according to biology and science SS don't come in successions. That's is if you get SS now the next baby won't be an SS. So yes flush one fetus and birth the next one. |
| Re: "We Are Both AS Genotype And We Don't Consider Break-Up As An Option" by Nobody: 6:07pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
EmpresFIDEL: I just sent a mail, you don't need any treatment aside being place on diet by a professional dietician, along side advice on how to Change you lifestyle. If I had idea about this genotype stuff I wouldn't waste my time commenting. |
| Re: "We Are Both AS Genotype And We Don't Consider Break-Up As An Option" by FIDELITY24(m): 6:08pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
I don't think staying together is the best option for both of you. I know it's painful letting go but you will be saving your future generations from endless pain. |
| Re: "We Are Both AS Genotype And We Don't Consider Break-Up As An Option" by peegirl(f): 6:08pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
EmpresFIDEL: SEE BABE, RUN! run now that ur legs can still carry you o because you are the one that will that will suffer with the SS kids The suffering is financial, emotional, physical and mental. Forget this ADDICTION talk my dear. When you your six months old baby cries endlessly because of joint aches and whatnots (God forbid ) you'll remember today and wish you did the right thing. |
| Re: "We Are Both AS Genotype And We Don't Consider Break-Up As An Option" by Swtfruitzrecord(m): 6:08pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
I WILL WRITE IN CAPITAL LETTER MY DARLING, PLEASE IF YOU WANNA BE HAPPY FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE.. PLEASE LET HIM DESOLVE THE RELATIONSHIP PLEASE, AND PLEASE I BEG OF YOU.... HAVE YOU EVER LOST THE ONE YOU LOVE SO MUCH? OKAY..... GOD FORBID, LET SAY AFTER BIRTH THEREAFTER SOME YEARS YOU LOST YOUR CHILD, AND U KEEP LOOSIN THEM... HOW WOULD YOU FEEL, A CHILD YOU BORNE? PLEASE DESOLVE AND GO FOR SOMEONE WHO'S OPPOSITE YOUR GENOTYPE.... DON'T BRING A CHILD INTO THIS WORLD TO SUFFER, DON'T TORMENT YOURSELF TILL YOUR LAST BREATH.. THANK U |
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