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Man Earns 150k In Lagos & Wife Earns 750k In Kaduna, Who Should Resign? by stane007: 9:54pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
A Nigerian man and Twitter user @ayobankole is shaking the biggest table in Africa which is the 'table of patriarchy', as he recounted an experience in church today. https://lailasnews.com/patriarchy-causes-poverty-for-most-men-nigerian-man-shakes-biggest-table-in-africa/ 14 Likes 2 Shares
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Re: Man Earns 150k In Lagos & Wife Earns 750k In Kaduna, Who Should Resign? by pocohantas(f): 10:03pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
Alpha males won't like this ![]() They are on their way to counter and tell us how women abuse power. See them coming... 243 Likes 20 Shares
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Re: Man Earns 150k In Lagos & Wife Earns 750k In Kaduna, Who Should Resign? by Nobody: 10:08pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
Men think that it’s just being solely financially responsible in the home that earns a woman’s respect.They also think a wife earning more than them is a problem. Team small Johnson live by this mantra ![]() 35 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Man Earns 150k In Lagos & Wife Earns 750k In Kaduna, Who Should Resign? by donstan18: 10:09pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
A normal man with working brain will relocate if his wife earns 750k when he's earning 150k. But a wise man with so much wisdom will ask the following questions before deciding what to do. >Who is my wife? >Is she dominant and self-centered? >Will she rub it to my face? >How comfortable am I with my financial level? >Is she disrespectful or understanding? >What are the possibilities that her attitude will change? If you can give yourself answers to these questions, you'll be able to decide. Because it'll be a mistake to take such decision with a wrong woman. But wait ooo..…Where are the wives earning 750k while their husbands earns 150k, ![]() ![]() 451 Likes 33 Shares
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Re: Man Earns 150k In Lagos & Wife Earns 750k In Kaduna, Who Should Resign? by delugajackson: 10:11pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
Women don't take care of men. A man is supposed to be the most dominant gender, to protect and to provide for his home. It's okay to help, but women should know the difference between helping and a motherfúcker taking advantage. But I'm not in support of this, cause the moment a woman offers you anything, she expects double in return. And the fact is, women are more accountable than men. A woman will remember every little thing she has ever done for a man, while a man would care less. A little night of misunderstanding will blow the box open, and all the neighbours will hear the numerous tales of her financial support, making the man look weak and helpless! A man has to be firm and decisive and not to ever depend on a woman at any point, and at any period. You may see it as meaningless pride but it's just the way it should be. You call it ego, I call it dominance. 84 Likes 10 Shares |
Re: Man Earns 150k In Lagos & Wife Earns 750k In Kaduna, Who Should Resign? by XhosaNostra(f): 10:15pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
IMO, it's also irresponsible to leave your job to join your wife. Two salaries are still better than one. If we got bills to pay, there's no reason for anyone to leave their job to join the other just for cuddles. Sorry but to me that's emotional thinking. Unless you got a job lined up with a better salary, otherwise stay where you are! We'll make time for each other when both our schedules permit it. With less money coming in, you might end up fighting over finances anyway. 92 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Man Earns 150k In Lagos & Wife Earns 750k In Kaduna, Who Should Resign? by NwaNimo1(m): 10:18pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
Ok 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Man Earns 150k In Lagos & Wife Earns 750k In Kaduna, Who Should Resign? by omooba969(m): 10:18pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
I have already relocated to join my very own ibkkk. ![]() No time! ![]() ![]() 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Man Earns 150k In Lagos & Wife Earns 750k In Kaduna, Who Should Resign? by MANNABBQGRILLS: 10:18pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
Their choice! Common sense is not truly common! 9 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Man Earns 150k In Lagos & Wife Earns 750k In Kaduna, Who Should Resign? by Benblaq(m): 10:18pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
Had it been couples were faithful to each other, what would have led to this rubbish? On a normal day, they can still be working and be visiting each other regularly. IF THE MAN QUIT HIM WORK, HIM DON TURN USELESS LAZY MAN TO HIM WIFE, BIBLE GO CALL AM INFIDEL IF THE WIFE THROW AWAY 750K JOB, NA MUMU KNOCKED BRAIN DEY DO HER. 33 Likes |
Re: Man Earns 150k In Lagos & Wife Earns 750k In Kaduna, Who Should Resign? by fiercehillz(m): 10:19pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
Bros resign, package your belongings, hire bus, learn some basic Hausa, sew some caftan, call your wife, tell her you are coming to join her, and finally, dust your CV for a new job in Kaduna. If the job doesn't come on time, start a business biko. 97 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Man Earns 150k In Lagos & Wife Earns 750k In Kaduna, Who Should Resign? by pocohantas(f): 10:19pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
ibkayee:LOL, I know them na. I won't even advise my husband to resign in such scenario, because it is not something I see myself doing easily. There are so many things that should be considered, not just the difference in their pay. Lagos has more job opportunities, probably 'safer'... So, I think it is a better option. The relocation doesn't have to be immediate. He made other points that I strongly agree with. 7 Likes |
Re: Man Earns 150k In Lagos & Wife Earns 750k In Kaduna, Who Should Resign? by EmekaBlue(m): 10:19pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
![]() like d woman will agree to spend. Women stingy die 13 Likes |
Re: Man Earns 150k In Lagos & Wife Earns 750k In Kaduna, Who Should Resign? by stefanjaeger: 10:19pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
What kind of question is this? The man should better drop his resignation letter tomorrow. That is N9m to N1.8m. Though I don't normally believe all these twitter bullshit. 9 Likes |
Re: Man Earns 150k In Lagos & Wife Earns 750k In Kaduna, Who Should Resign? by brixton: 10:19pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
The man but he has to look for a job in kaduna 1 Like |
Re: Man Earns 150k In Lagos & Wife Earns 750k In Kaduna, Who Should Resign? by ibkayee(f): 10:19pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
pocohantas:When I scrolled down and saw the pic on top the already funny comment, I lost it buahahaha ![]() 7 Likes |
Re: Man Earns 150k In Lagos & Wife Earns 750k In Kaduna, Who Should Resign? by ZACHIE: 10:20pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
Wished the answers were that straight forward. Unfortunately.they are not . More information is needed. What's the nature of the Lagos job? Are there sideshow?, Where is the business location of the Kaduna office?, is it in an area susceptible to riots? What manner of WIFE? 2 Likes |
Re: Man Earns 150k In Lagos & Wife Earns 750k In Kaduna, Who Should Resign? by deebsman1(m): 10:20pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
The obvious is clearly stated, Kaduna here I come 2 Likes |
Re: Man Earns 150k In Lagos & Wife Earns 750k In Kaduna, Who Should Resign? by Fesomu(m): 10:20pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
Which kind foolish question be this? Okay let me be as foolish as the question... The woman 3 Likes |
Re: Man Earns 150k In Lagos & Wife Earns 750k In Kaduna, Who Should Resign? by Lionesss: 10:20pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
What kind of Question is this? Isn't the answer answer obvious ![]() 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Man Earns 150k In Lagos & Wife Earns 750k In Kaduna, Who Should Resign? by wildcatter23(m): 10:20pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
Plain simple Oga resigns and becomes a live in husband plus home maker 2 Likes |
Re: Man Earns 150k In Lagos & Wife Earns 750k In Kaduna, Who Should Resign? by Cladez(m): 10:20pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
Although women tend to abuse power whenever they have the upper hand. But in this case the man should jejely relocated. This is a thin line between poverty and wealth 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Man Earns 150k In Lagos & Wife Earns 750k In Kaduna, Who Should Resign? by Gerrard59(m): 10:20pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
The man should resign, it's the most logical decision to be taken. But then, Twitter lies are outrageous. Apart from international NGOs, what kind of jobs pay 750K in Kaduna? That's more than a million naira job in Lagos. 9 Likes |
Re: Man Earns 150k In Lagos & Wife Earns 750k In Kaduna, Who Should Resign? by Nobody: 10:20pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
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Re: Man Earns 150k In Lagos & Wife Earns 750k In Kaduna, Who Should Resign? by Bossontop(m): 10:21pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
![]() 150k to 750k.........ah wee resign oo since i know mysef very well dat i will make sure i marry a very good and respectful wife and there will be no issues.....no time ooo As pesin don talk "ogun kill nature there" 10 Likes
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Re: Man Earns 150k In Lagos & Wife Earns 750k In Kaduna, Who Should Resign? by silas24(m): 10:21pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
Neither they're should both work and manage the long distance relationship. Every penny is important in Naija thanks to Buhari. So unless you're a herdsman with no value for anything but cow you better keep your jobs. You and your wife both 1 Like |
Re: Man Earns 150k In Lagos & Wife Earns 750k In Kaduna, Who Should Resign? by allanphash7(m): 10:21pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
Why would ask this sillly question Ain't an enemy of progress I resign straight without an option of dialogue 1 Like |
Re: Man Earns 150k In Lagos & Wife Earns 750k In Kaduna, Who Should Resign? by ybalogs(m): 10:21pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
His 150k in Lagos is not even enough in Lagos meanwhile the 150k in Kaduna is still manageable. Won't still advice the hubby to resign though unless something comes up in Kaduna. 8 Likes |
Re: Man Earns 150k In Lagos & Wife Earns 750k In Kaduna, Who Should Resign? by Teewhy2: 10:22pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
Is the man the breadwinner, so why should the woman relocate, the man better relocate sharp sharp and if he no see job for there that will pay him up to 3/4 of his wife salary, he should look for the one that will give him time to enable him help the woman with some home duties. 4 Likes |
Re: Man Earns 150k In Lagos & Wife Earns 750k In Kaduna, Who Should Resign? by OBAGADAFFI: 10:22pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
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Re: Man Earns 150k In Lagos & Wife Earns 750k In Kaduna, Who Should Resign? by mysteriousman(m): 10:22pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
Elayi gidi gan 2 Likes |
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