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Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by Jackbell17: 11:06pm On Jul 20, 2018 |
Am in this with you my brother. I don't think she is into this attitude alone. She must have had some friend with this selfish character. But I thank God for the exposure. That's what i can say about her. On the other hand, you too have a problem. You are allowing the mundane achievement (house = sand, wood and water) to create a crack in your marriage. God's own instruction of sanctity. If you love her more than the house, take her and her error as you personal cross. You must be man enough, if you are the 'husband' carry your cross. "with man", it may be impossible but not with God. Find a space of forgiveness. Call her, hear her. If she repents, correct her and let God reign in your house. Even if in her name, along as you own her, everything she has is yours. Your marriage is the target of this attack because better and great greatness is about visiting your family. If you could trust and forgive her, she would gain that confidence in you, which is the basis of the divisive suspicions. Be wise. God bless you and your wife. 19 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by Nobody: 11:07pm On Jul 20, 2018 |
appsdope:LMAO This one really got to you. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by TonyeBarcanista(m): 11:07pm On Jul 20, 2018 |
oloyede252:I concur 5 Likes |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by Plolly(f): 11:07pm On Jul 20, 2018 |
tabithababy:it's obvious u are not in good health condition with this ur stupid comment. Must u talk 11 Likes |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by Nobody: 11:09pm On Jul 20, 2018 |
OP, I really don't care about what two grown ups do emotionally and romantically. If you two no gree anymore then divorce each other. However what you suggested to her as in putting the property only in your name is fraud. Madam, please don't let him browbeat you into doing that. It makes no sense. 55 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by Marvel1206: 11:09pm On Jul 20, 2018 |
sisisioge:1. She got the property (landed) - One 2. She did the paper works - Two 3. She started building - Three 4. He spent it on his Dad's ailing health 5 Used the the remaining cash to complete the house they both had agreed to equally build after she has built the most part. 6 Since the almost completed building required little funds to complete, he spent it on his parents' house [s]4. You spent your own money on your parents's house 5. The remaining money, which you admitted isn't much was used to finish the house[/s] What would you (being the man) have done in such a situation? An illness that requires being flown out should be considered serious and for me, treatment should be top priority 7 Likes |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by TheKingIsHere: 11:10pm On Jul 20, 2018 |
folly22: Exactly. She knew the man can try something like that. @heseesall , I stand with you, make sure u don't change the name. 34 Likes |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by tartarus(m): 11:11pm On Jul 20, 2018 |
And some nairaland males will hop on this thread and support this "husband" cos they see every marital issue as males vs females SMH. Please guys say the truth and shame the devil! Women are human beings for crying out loud! 51 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by Nobody: 11:11pm On Jul 20, 2018 |
Na wa o. Well, let me say this: While I don't fault you for using the money for your parents, I partially do for asking her to leave the house, since you knew that you didn't build it with your money ONLY. Now, your wife truly knows how to cook-up a story. She neglected to mention that she insulted your family, a very serious offense in my book. I know I won't take it easy with any woman that insults any member of my family (that's why your action may be a bit justified, because it was probably said in the heat of anger). But seriously, I see no reason you shouldn't have seen the documents before now. No excuse is justifiable! I retract my comment in the previous post. 3 Likes |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by Chrischidera: 11:11pm On Jul 20, 2018 |
Get out of the house is not the issue but lack of understanding many of us have told our loved once things more harsh than that. I suggest you reflect on how you both started the first love and the future of your kids more people have faced chaallenges greater than this in marriage BRO don't give up thou is not easy but think of what you both can achieve especially your kids. 2 Likes |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by Respect55(m): 11:13pm On Jul 20, 2018 |
tabithababy:Home breakers everywhere 3 Likes |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by pocohantas(f): 11:14pm On Jul 20, 2018 |
tartarus: If that house wasn't in that woman's name, by now she will be on her knees with her whole family begging this man. FACT! 62 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by TonyeBarcanista(m): 11:15pm On Jul 20, 2018 |
Jackbell17: Easier said than done my brother! Do you know how betrayed he is feeling? Why didn't she inform him from the onset that she bought the property in her name? Was she expecting him to abandon his family and his parents? Was she expecting him to abandon his father when he was ill? You see, the issue though may be triggered by property but it goes beyond it. It is now a matter of betrayal of trust and treachery. The sensible thing for him to do is to allow her have the house and get his own (for his family). She can move in with him if she wishes... 10 Likes |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by sisisioge: 11:16pm On Jul 20, 2018 |
Marvel1206: No one is saying he shouldn't have spent on his family, all I'm saying is that he should be very fair by putting his mouth where his money is! I'm guessing the eventual contribution is around 85% to 15%...why in the world would he want his name alone on the deed? Pure greed ...pure undiluted fraudulent greed! He should go and lay claim to his parent's house, after all, he built it. 53 Likes |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by Nobody: 11:16pm On Jul 20, 2018 |
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Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by Desloaaa(f): 11:16pm On Jul 20, 2018 |
You reek of pride!!!! I pity that woman if she allows herself fall victim of your stupid sob story 48 Likes |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by Saff(f): 11:18pm On Jul 20, 2018 |
When you try to explain yourself but still end up sounding ridiculous anyways. Your thread proves to us that your wife is right. Drop your ego, it won’t get you far in life. Biggest downfall of a man is his ego. It blocks so many blessings, and it’s blocking yours. You’re blessed and you don’t even know it smh. 54 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by Respect55(m): 11:18pm On Jul 20, 2018 |
sisisioge:Trash 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by TonyeBarcanista(m): 11:21pm On Jul 20, 2018 |
tartarus:Pls this is not about male Vs female. If my sister do this I will scold her. If she must build in her name what stops her from informing her husband FIRST? She is not a straightforward woman 11 Likes |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by Ziggylady(f): 11:21pm On Jul 20, 2018 |
@op your wife said the same thing you are claiming to 'expose' ..You are really a very wicked,proud and self-centred fellow from your write-up....Your wife was wise enough to put her name on a project she clearly contributed more to,that is why your 'leave-my-house threats suddenly became a joke.. .Your subsequent insistance on her changing the names on the papers to yours ALONE smacks iof massive fraud Grow up and go fix your martiage..stop trying to distabilise the life of your kids! 43 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by utenwuson: 11:21pm On Jul 20, 2018 |
sisisioge:feed a woman for 50 years, no one will know, she feed u for one day, the whole world will know, he has taken a manly decision, he should relocate to a far state and rebuild his ego, his new home and leave the nagging woman, who reminded him of his poor parents and conditions. he should let her be.... I love being a man. 14 Likes |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by Ziggylady(f): 11:22pm On Jul 20, 2018 |
utenwuson: Really??..and do you know the number of women feeding their husbands??....I dislike broken marriage except on grounds of domestic violence,but if the selfish man insists,i hope his wife stands strong and moves on with her life.. The man on the other hand should do well to stay single and not saddle any other woman with his idiosyncrasies 31 Likes |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by mfm04622: 11:23pm On Jul 20, 2018 |
She caused the quarrel with her insecurity, lack of trust, insulting your parents. That last one is a NO NO. You have the right to be angry. However, when it comes to that property, it is hers. You used your own share of the money to take care of your father which is very good. You also used part to complete your parent's house. Then contributed the rest to finish the house. What you used your own share of the money for are commendable. Very commendable. I will advise you to forget that property. You are wrong in demanding that she give up that property. If she has apologized and you still love her, take her back but don't live in that house. As a man, you need to live in a house where you have control. Wish you the best 18 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by TonyeBarcanista(m): 11:23pm On Jul 20, 2018 |
sisisioge:Did she inform him from the onset that she bought the property in her name? She fraudulently concealed it and rubbed it on his face years after. PS: He said she should keep the apartment, I'm sure he'll get a place for the family... 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by Nobody: 11:23pm On Jul 20, 2018 |
ExtraExtra: That's exactly what i suffered in my own marriage wife betrayal, you give someone all your heart then she do thing secretly 3 Likes |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by Respect55(m): 11:25pm On Jul 20, 2018 |
sisisioge:Maybe he should have bn screaming "sisoge's house" Now her marriage is about to hit the rocks, hope u an more e in with her in that house. Nonsense 4 Likes |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by Respect55(m): 11:25pm On Jul 20, 2018 |
sisisioge:Maybe he should have bn screaming "sisoge's house" Now her marriage is about to hit the rocks, hope u an move in with her in that house. Nonsense 3 Likes |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by Eyedea(m): 11:25pm On Jul 20, 2018 |
What is wrong with this nigga, you're bringing your family issues to Nairaland like it's some sort of divorce court. Swallow your foolish pride and fix your marriage. 37 Likes |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by metro10: 11:27pm On Jul 20, 2018 |
Mr. Man, you are very deceptive. I won’t buy your lies. I know the game you were playing on your woman. My dad did play that same game on my mother, until she wised-up. You used your part to take care of your dad and used the rest to build a home for your parent and still expect to be treated as co equal in the real estate? Others can lie to you to inflate your ego, I won’t. You did tell her to leave the house, mistake number one. We wouldn’t be talking about this this way today, if she was dumb and stupid not to have used her name. The lady would be on the street today with no where to go. You’re here telling us it was a joke. Stop lying. I believe you have an affair. You want to push her out, bring in another lady and treat her like a fool. She was wise and thank God for that. My dad did the same thing to my mother. He will use her cars, trash them and still push her out. She built a house, he drove her out, sold the house and messed her up. Finally, she got some common sense, built another house and gave me the documents as her first son. That he couldn’t take. My dad was like take my mums money, squandered them on the other woman and still come to trash her. Ladies, please be wise! Imagine he saying she should change the documents to his name ONLY. Thief. Ole. Be a man, go build a house, bring them all in there. Let her rent her house for investment purposes. The true test of your love for her is to do this and prove to her, your kids and US that you truly love your FAMILY! Don’t deceive this man to deceive the wife. God is watching you all! 81 Likes 12 Shares |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by spongeisback: 11:27pm On Jul 20, 2018 |
pocohantas:Of course! How can he even say "he didn't know the property wasn't in his name" did he sign any documents? He was looking for a free ride since he believes women are responsible for building 99% of the home, I wonder why his mother or sisters didn't build his father's house. 40 Likes 2 Shares |
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