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Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by bezimo(m): 12:53am On Jul 21, 2018 |
Zoharariel: That is why i say the woman is a sneaky snitch..she paints the picture as the victim without saying everything..These women ehn..if you dont put your feet down strongly you will be yeyerised before you know it.lol 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by mark2sunny(m): 12:53am On Jul 21, 2018 |
naob: He trusted her completely. Again, a man owning a house isn't the reason for 'leave my house'. It's not always what is meant. It's used by men who don't hit their woman in the heat of an argument. 2 Likes |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by Platony(m): 12:54am On Jul 21, 2018 |
NoToPile: Yes oo,....Him better go settle wit d woman,...grah grah wil nt help. He shld jst put pride aside, i believe she loves him......infact, dey love each other. ![]() Anyways, dey shld allow Love Lead d way!! 2 Likes |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by nipeks001(m): 12:56am On Jul 21, 2018 |
I think It's high time Verbal abuse in relationships is looked more into. These form of abuse is a phantom clone of physical abuse........... the effects of verbal abuse are well capable of shortening one's lifespan, provoking violence, extreme damage to self worth/ confidence, aggravating Psychological and even physical illness. It's just because the scars are not visible, that's why people get away with it. A man physically abuses a woman and causes a minor bruise which heals in max 5 days is ostracized by the society and risks Jail. Whereas a woman verbally attacks a Man, affecting is psyche, which impacts on his office job negatively, he loses his job.................. More verbal attack, he sinks into depression......... and nothing happens to that kind of woman!!. Women and the world at large should know that, coz the scars of verbal abuse are not visible does not mean they are not worse than Physical form . An Argument could say why don't you just attack back verbally........ but same could be said of physical attack which ridicules the argument coz a specific gender is naturally better skilled in each form of attack If racial slurs or sexual remarks can be punished coz of the effect on one's psyche, I think it's high time Authorities puts forward a law that Punishes spouse for words that try to provoke violence or berates one's spouse esteem 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by declaro(m): 12:57am On Jul 21, 2018 |
I see no reason a wife will be concerned about having a property on her name if not insecurity. If you feel insecure, Satan must test you with this kind of temptation. It will fill your ego with the thought that "nothing will happen if I do this or say that, " "after all I am secured. You may turn a Good husband to a bad man unknowingly, properties are nothing to a man. If you respect your husband you will always have them. |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by Evathyst(f): 12:57am On Jul 21, 2018 |
Acidosis:Bros, na how many mouth only you get nau? See as you dey shift blame up and down. At first, you technically blamed the woman for the whole brouhaha. Now, you're faulting the foundation of the marriage. Just say the truth, the man no try at all. It's obvious he's trying to cheat the woman period. Any other thing is tantamount to speaking from both sides of the mouth. It's funny how men can easily open their mouth to utter words like; 'It's over between us'. 'Get out of my house'. Which kind yeye statement be that one? Shuo! 13 Likes |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by Nihilstjnr: 12:58am On Jul 21, 2018 |
mark2sunny: sharrap. He asked her to leave the house, and only moved out when he realised that he wasn't legally entitled to kick her out of the house. Why do you think he's now asking for the deeds of the house to be transferred to his name only? 16 Likes |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by mark2sunny(m): 12:58am On Jul 21, 2018 |
folly22: You are sensible 1 Like |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by tartarus(m): 12:58am On Jul 21, 2018 |
utenwuson: So in other words she should give the man sole ownership of the house she built with her lions share?!. If he doesn't agree to joint ownership then he should go to hell!! Such effrontery! ![]() ![]() 8 Likes |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by cococandy(f): 12:59am On Jul 21, 2018 |
Respect55:interesting. How do you suppose you could help me? 2 Likes |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by Nobody: 1:00am On Jul 21, 2018 |
keepingmum: You always comment like a fool, A bitter feminist that has been hurt to death. May God heal your bruised soul. |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by Evathyst(f): 1:03am On Jul 21, 2018 |
declaro:Bros, abeg pass me that thing wey you dey smoke wey make you dey mistype. Why on earth should one register his property in his children's name? Children that might decide to sell it while the parent is still alive? Abeg no repeat that statement o. Just like I advised a friend who just had a baby out of wedlock, she was like I'll struggle, make money and give my baby the best life. Then I asked her, you nko? Have you given up on yourself? You haven't completed your education talk less of living your dreams, na your 1 month old baby you wan give the best life. Which kind play be that one? My point is, everyone has their life to live. Nobody should be a cog in the wheel to another person's progress under any guise; be it marriage or parenthood. Last last, it is all man for himself o. 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by Nobody: 1:04am On Jul 21, 2018 |
Nihilstjnr: Are u a divorcee? |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by Ikpongiton: 1:04am On Jul 21, 2018 |
keepingmum:shut up.the woman said that,her husband is a good man.point out in the story where she said that her husband is arrogant or keep quiet 1 Like |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by Nobody: 1:05am On Jul 21, 2018 |
CASTOSVILLA: The husband n wife have already told u that they shared the money 50/50 |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by ojabel(m): 1:06am On Jul 21, 2018 |
[quote author=cruchenutii post=69566338] Naaaa, how can you even think like this. He wanted to defraud her? How? Are they not supposed to be couples? I'm not saying he did wrong by asking her to leave the house which is the typical African mentality Man would do, but to say he wanted to defraud her is far fetched please. Also note that the Man is from a less richer home & also the First born, the responsibilities are a lot. Both made a lot mistakes, Instead of you to focus on that, you mainly focused on the Man defrauding her. You are economical with the truth. Because he is the firstborn now he should abandon his family? What if the wife didn't bring the business in the first place, will he go and borrow to fly his dad abroad for treatment because of the firstborn that he is? Then he also built a house for them when he has not built one for his family. Why couldn't he build the house for his family and bring his dad to come and stay with him pending the time he have enough to put up a structure for him ? You see, he deliberately did that because he new his wife was willing to release her share for the building project but he didn't know that the woman will be wise enough to do the documents in her own name. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by MizMyColi(f): 1:06am On Jul 21, 2018 |
Nihilstjnr: Is this Airborne.... You are saying the things I didn't have the liver to say initially. I really wish to ask the OP this question... Oga, are you a thief? 8 Likes |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by Nihilstjnr: 1:06am On Jul 21, 2018 |
PrecisionFx: nope. |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by Nihilstjnr: 1:07am On Jul 21, 2018 |
MizMyColi: at all. that's Griffon |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by Nobody: 1:07am On Jul 21, 2018 |
Nihilstjnr: so why are u easily urging for an end to someone's marriage as if it's just a bf n gf relationship between primary 4 pupils? |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by MizMyColi(f): 1:08am On Jul 21, 2018 |
Nihilstjnr: I know nau. I also know he's a huge fan of nihilist. Didn't know there were two of you, or more, I suppose. 1 Like |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by Platony(m): 1:08am On Jul 21, 2018 |
PrecisionFx: See dis one.... U're nt married,...u knw notin abt marriage. Soon dey wil reconcile ok. Dats d beauty of marriage, wen olofofo lyk u dey wish mk dem scatter wit ur comment wey no gt head. Learner!! ![]() |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by folly22(f): 1:09am On Jul 21, 2018 |
mark2sunny:Sincerely it shows how they run their home right from time. May be they always lay claim to their possessions. Some men you can't touch their car, even wen they are looking for the car key, they will be shouting dear do you know where MY car key is A reasonable woman could even give up all in order to take care of the husband's dad under an ideal condition or part of it and it will still bear both names but in this case, they have shared it. What are we now talking about |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by Nihilstjnr: 1:10am On Jul 21, 2018 |
PrecisionFx: not all marriages are worth saving. This one is a clear example. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by declaro(m): 1:10am On Jul 21, 2018 |
Evathyst: Anyway, you are right. |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by MizMyColi(f): 1:11am On Jul 21, 2018 |
Platony: True o. Very true. Married couples quarrel like the marriage will end the next minute, but if you now see them loved up, you will be somehow regretting why you shook mouth in their palava. Hehehehehehe. I am happier for them if they rise above this issue. At least some of our comments here will be instrumental in resetting their brains. 2 Likes |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by Nihilstjnr: 1:11am On Jul 21, 2018 |
MizMyColi: my main account got locked for good because Seun decided to block all accounts opened with temporary emails. I've been using this one ever since ![]() |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by Nobody: 1:11am On Jul 21, 2018 |
Nihilstjnr: And who are u to advocate that a marriage having a small issue should not be saved? |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by Platony(m): 1:14am On Jul 21, 2018 |
Ikpongiton: Dnt mind dem,....... A whole bunch of mofos dat knws notin abt marriage or didn't read d first article which she posted, wil jst be spewing thrash. Soon d hubby & wifey wil reconcile, dat i knw for sure becos frm der both write ups, dey stil luv each oda. D mata no reach anywer!!, Na beans!! 2 Likes |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by MizMyColi(f): 1:14am On Jul 21, 2018 |
Nihilstjnr: So you are my Guapo..or.... |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by Nobody: 1:15am On Jul 21, 2018 |
Platony: "" Soon dey wil reconcile ok. Dats d beauty of marriage, wen olofofo lyk u dey wish mk dem scatter wit ur comment wey no gt head."" It seems u are bipolar. Point out where I said they shouldn't reconcile. Point out where I wished them to scatter. Ezigbote Nkapi ala ka ibu |
Re: "My Husband's Pride Wants To Ruin Our Home" The True Story by Nihilstjnr: 1:16am On Jul 21, 2018 |
PrecisionFx: and who are you to question my opinion? if you don't have anything relevant to say, just keep it moving. The man himself, apart from being a thief, has already moved out of the house, and is in the process of moving to a different state....and is literally demanding a house as the price of continued marriage. I hope for her sake, that the woman is more sensible than you... 12 Likes 1 Share |
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