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Re: "Nigerian Bedwench" Fiasco | Interracial dating Nigerian women under attack by Nobody: 10:02pm On Jul 21, 2018
NewzLady:


Nigeria mostly (see maps). African Americans are children of Nigerians and other Africans combined. "Akatas" are Nigerians by blood. Plus slavery happened in west africa too there were also plantations so the young man who mocked AAs about slavery clearly does not know about the history of the enslaved africans who remained on the continent and that is unfortunate.

besides, he is paying taxes to and dominated by a government that itself is governed by the United Nations in essence he is a slave of slaves grin wink
I'm sorry are you a Nigerian

African American

Or

What?

Let this thread end habeg too much insults
has been thrown already.

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Re: "Nigerian Bedwench" Fiasco | Interracial dating Nigerian women under attack by khiaa(f): 11:38pm On Jul 21, 2018
NewzLady:


I don't like Tariq Nasheed one bit. This is the same man who refer to another black man with dark skin as "crispy"

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fTbXBBapSTw

and the childishly made a page youtube channel mocking the man because of his complexion

https://www.youtube.com/user/itsthecrispyshow

Tariq Nasheed also said black men should go after mixed women raised by white mothers because the women will be "better behaved". He is a hypocrite.

As much as I don't like Tariq I dislike the man whom he called crispy 100 times more. He is a demon spawned from hell. The demon that Tariq

called crispy put out a message on his Youtube channel for all white people to kill black people, so I support Tariq when it comes to Tommy

Jerome Harris AKA, Tommy Sotomayor. undecided He is the most hated black man in America right now. Most of his followers are racist white

supremacists and black self-haters like himself. This guy is really mentally messed up and dangerous. He cries for sympathy now because

threats have been made against his life but nobody cares and to be honest I don't know why he's still here he should have been taken out a

long time ago.

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Re: "Nigerian Bedwench" Fiasco | Interracial dating Nigerian women under attack by Phut(f): 9:04pm On Jul 22, 2018
QueenSuccubus:



It's like ur saying those people who has a degree but didn't practice it, so it means they are not eligible undecided

A lot of comedians failed on that field but at least they tried.. It may didn't work for him but still he is a stand up comedian.

Stop with the false equivalencies.
Did he go to school to become a comedian? Does he have a degree in “comedeology”? The answer is No.

For a field where anybody off the street can just get off the street and try their hand at it (e.g Comedy), you must have some success at it before I will acknowledge you as being part of that profession. Failing that, I too and every Tom Dick and Harry that has ever told a bad joke, are comedians

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Re: "Nigerian Bedwench" Fiasco | Interracial dating Nigerian women under attack by Phut(f): 9:10pm On Jul 22, 2018
LivingFree:


I can't cope grin grin

I take back my second comment because I was misled to believe he was a comedian, turns out after a Google search that he isn't/wasn't a comedian. *Last man standing* isn't stand up comedy it's the equivalent of going on x-factor and calling yourself a singer. If he ain't a paid comedian, he's an ignorant fool who's bs caught up with him. I'm not going to call him a racist personally because he states he isn't a racist and he apologised for the offence he caused. I'd call his 'jokes' distasteful.

We need to stop the separation mentality, and stop looking for any excuse to separate Humans. We are 1 species, and there's enough hate and divisions in the world.

Please say it louder, so Queensuccubus and others in the back can hear you.

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Re: "Nigerian Bedwench" Fiasco | Interracial dating Nigerian women under attack by Phut(f): 9:18pm On Jul 22, 2018
LivingFree:


What you just typed is disgusting because after all this; you'll bow down to your white washed Jesus...

Christianity and Islam as packaged and brought to us were tools of imperialism conquest and imperialism.

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Re: "Nigerian Bedwench" Fiasco | Interracial dating Nigerian women under attack by Favor99(m): 9:33pm On Jul 22, 2018
Phut:


Christianity and Islam as packaged and brought to us were tools of imperialism conquest and imperialism.
What is the religion we as Africans should use then?
Re: "Nigerian Bedwench" Fiasco | Interracial dating Nigerian women under attack by Phut(f): 9:36pm On Jul 22, 2018
Favor99:

What is the religion we as Africans should use then?
Our traditional religions and spirituality.

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Re: "Nigerian Bedwench" Fiasco | Interracial dating Nigerian women under attack by Favor99(m): 9:58pm On Jul 22, 2018
Phut:

Our traditional religions and spirituality.
How do people like you and I who haven spent the majority of our lives in America turn to African traditional religion and spirituality? That’s the main obstacle I have. If I was in Nigeria it would be much easier
Re: "Nigerian Bedwench" Fiasco | Interracial dating Nigerian women under attack by Phut(f): 10:08pm On Jul 22, 2018
khiaa:



No, it's not true, the op is upset because the truth is coming out about the behavior of Nigerian women in the diaspora. No matter how much venom he wants to spew about AA doesn't take away the truth on the disgusting behavior of these women whoring themselves out to white men all over the diaspora. They are making a mockery of your culture, or is this part of the great Nigerian culture? undecided

Ami’s behavior is part of swirl culture, not Nigerian culture. African American swirlers exhibit it, African swirlers exhibit it, Caribbean swirlers exhibit it. In order to tackle the problem, we have to start from the root and not the head.

All these bile from Dynast is pointless. He is just trying to create a negative and untrue picture about Nigerians and Africans seeing as most AA’s haven’t been to Africa. He is also trying to state an intra-race war between AA’s and Africans (kind of like the black gender war on YouTube) while profiting off the proceeds of that battle.

Dynast is coming to Nigeria is August 2018. Like a snake in the grass, he will mingle with the people (who will welcome him with open arms) only to gather fodder with which to forment strife amongst Afro people. His whole YouTube platform is a lie, because he seeks to do the exact opposite of his stated purpose.

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Re: "Nigerian Bedwench" Fiasco | Interracial dating Nigerian women under attack by Favor99(m): 10:11pm On Jul 22, 2018
Phut:


Ami’s behavior is part of swirl culture, not Nigerian culture. African American swirlers exhibit it, African swirlers exhibit it, Caribbean swirlers exhibit it. In order to tackle the problem, we have to start from the root and not the head.

All these bile from Dynast is pointless. He is just trying to create a negative and untrue picture about Nigerians and Africans seeing as most AA’s haven’t been to Africa. He is also trying to state an intra-race war between AA’s and Africans (kind of like the black gender war on YouTube) while profiting off the proceeds of that battle.

Dynast is coming to Nigeria is August 2018. Like a snake in the grass, he will mingle with the people (who will welcome him with open arms) only to gather fodder with which to forment strife amongst Afro people. His whole YouTube platform is a lie, because he seeks to do the exact opposite of his stated purpose.
You sure? He seems to be pro-African. He has been critical of things he disgruntled by.
But then again I haven't seen all of his videos. But he seemed pretty clean to me
Re: "Nigerian Bedwench" Fiasco | Interracial dating Nigerian women under attack by Phut(f): 10:17pm On Jul 22, 2018
Favor99:

How do people like you and I who haven spent the majority of our lives in America turn to African traditional religion and spirituality? That’s the main obstacle I have. If I was in Nigeria it would be much easier

Since the beginning of time, man has always wondered about his purpose on earth, the meaning of life etc. Through the passage of time, they discovered a lot of truths. But all has not been discovered. In fact it is impossible to discover all. These discovered truths can be seen in the fabric of Igbo, Yoruba, Edo, other African African and Eastern religions. Then 10 commandment, for the most part, were already present in these religions. The Romans just gathered all these discovered truths from more ancient religions and put it in a book, while telling us this ancient religions were demonic. Islam copied from christianity. Christianity as we know it today is a tool of imperialism for the Western world, while Islam is a tool of imperialism for Saudi Arabia.

As to you question, we have to start little by little and piece it together. I am not saying that the traditional beliefs of one culture is perfect. But we take all that is good from one, supplement with the good from another and come up with our own spirituality and belief system

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Re: "Nigerian Bedwench" Fiasco | Interracial dating Nigerian women under attack by Phut(f): 10:21pm On Jul 22, 2018
Favor99:

You sure? He seems to be pro-African. He has been critical of things he disgruntled by.
But then again I haven't seen all of his videos. But he seemed pretty clean to me

He pretends to be pro-African. He is either very sly (pretending to be the very opposite of what he is) or he is emotionally unstable. Kind of like a person who has good intentions but is so dysfunctional that he makes a mess of everything.

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Re: "Nigerian Bedwench" Fiasco | Interracial dating Nigerian women under attack by Phut(f): 10:28pm On Jul 22, 2018
Favor99:

How do people like you and I who haven spent the majority of our lives in America turn to African traditional religion and spirituality? That’s the main obstacle I have. If I was in Nigeria it would be much easier

I visit Nigeria from time to time. I do know one person from my ancestral home that is very knowledgeable about the old ways. I intend to begin to learn from him. This is not an easy path. But once a persons eyes and you know, one cannot because of fear and other factors decide to remain willfully ignorant.

You know it’s fear that is driving a lot of the Nigerian Christians, right? That fear is so strong that it prevents them from questioning anything. However, when you see the way some of them live their daily life, it leaves a lot to be desired. Basically continuously sin while pleading the blood.

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Re: "Nigerian Bedwench" Fiasco | Interracial dating Nigerian women under attack by Favor99(m): 11:08pm On Jul 22, 2018
Phut:


I visit Nigeria from time to time. I do know one person from my ancestral home that is very knowledgeable about the old ways. I intend to begin to learn from him. This is not an easy path. But once a persons eyes and you know, one cannot because of fear and other factors decide to remain willfully ignorant.

You know it’s fear that is driving a lot of the Nigerian Christians, right? That fear is so strong that it prevents them from questioning anything. However, when you see the way some of them live their daily life, it leaves a lot to be desired. Basically continuously sin while pleading the blood.
Oh ok. What part of Nigeria are you originally from?
The best African traditional religious people
are in the villages and haven’t been corrupted by western exposure. We need to be learning from them.
A lot of them are very old, so we have to learn from them and save our culture and religion.
Re: "Nigerian Bedwench" Fiasco | Interracial dating Nigerian women under attack by Phut(f): 11:33pm On Jul 22, 2018
Favor99:

Oh ok. What part of Nigeria are you originally from?
The best African traditional religious people
are in the villages and haven’t been corrupted by western exposure. We need to be learning from them.
A lot of them are very old, so we have to learn from them and save our culture and religion.

I’m Igbo. Imo State. What about you?

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Re: "Nigerian Bedwench" Fiasco | Interracial dating Nigerian women under attack by Favor99(m): 11:45pm On Jul 22, 2018
Phut:


I’m Igbo. Imo State. What about you?
Oh nice, one of my friends is from Imo state. I’m Esan.
Yea I’m going to try my best to learn my traditional religion and language. You should also get in touch with musicwriter here on nairaland, he has a real good informative book called “intellectual slavery: the worse legacy of colonialism”

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Re: "Nigerian Bedwench" Fiasco | Interracial dating Nigerian women under attack by eyinjuege: 11:56pm On Jul 22, 2018
I would just advice you as an African not to take African Americans seriously, and try not to join issues with them
Most of their women hate you - Africans with a passion, ( except the fine rich African man sha) as a lot cannot understand why you should come into their country and do so well. Some feel you are taking up their scholarships and jobs. Some feel you are getting too close to their oppressors.
Majority hate you because your ancestors sold their ancestors to the oppressors- white man.
As I said earlier, don't join issues with them, and just feel pity for them. Hate only eventually consumes the hater.
Most of those comments are from a place of hurt, as they believe Africans feel superior to them, and Africans come to enjoy the benefits of their struggles and wars as a black American.
I really wish them well, but a lot are bitter and are against Africans, Mexicans, whites and basically the whole world, forgetting they are a small group of people (about 40million black americans) in the grand scheme of things, and you cannot win these wars by annhiliating people that could be your allies.
Re: "Nigerian Bedwench" Fiasco | Interracial dating Nigerian women under attack by eyinjuege: 12:04am On Jul 23, 2018
Bidobado:


So the main thing missing in my comment is "some".. When we generalize you lot, we definitely know what's going on. The same way women say all men are scum, minus their dads. And this has nothing to do with emotions, it's just fact, things I've seen at home and abroad. The way black women celebrate bagging a white man is just embarrassing, they even coined a term swirlers. And when I say black women, it's black women of all nationalities involved.

Black men have been celebrating swirling since time immemorial. They are the original swirlers.
That really shouldn't be a problem though, as you can find love anywhere. Provided you are enjoying that union, then swirl away.
Re: "Nigerian Bedwench" Fiasco | Interracial dating Nigerian women under attack by Phut(f): 12:38am On Jul 23, 2018
Favor99:

Oh nice, one of my friends is from Imo state. I’m Esan.
Yea I’m going to try my best to learn my traditional religion and language. You should also get in touch with musicwriter here on nairaland, he has a real good informative book called “intellectual slavery: the worse legacy of colonialism”

Yes you should definitely learn you language. Our language, religion and culture were closely interwoven like a piece of cloth. Religion was the first string the was pulled loose from the cloth, leaving it weakened. The other strand of the cloth (language and culture) are slowly coming undone, as well.

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Re: "Nigerian Bedwench" Fiasco | Interracial dating Nigerian women under attack by Nobody: 12:49am On Jul 23, 2018
eyinjuege:


Black men have been celebrating swirling since time immemorial. They are the original swirlers.
That really shouldn't be a problem though, as you can find love anywhere. Provided you are enjoying that union, then swirl away.

Show me one single place where you can find a group of black men calling themselves swirlers and making YouTube videos to celebrate their success at bagging a white woman.
Please just show me or mention it and I'll research it.
Re: "Nigerian Bedwench" Fiasco | Interracial dating Nigerian women under attack by Nobody: 1:08am On Jul 23, 2018
eyinjuege:
I would just advice you as an African not to take African Americans seriously, and try not to join issues with them
Most of their women hate you - Africans with a passion, ( except the fine rich African man sha) as a lot cannot understand why you should come into their country and do so well. Some feel you are taking up their scholarships and jobs. Some feel you are getting too close to their oppressors.
Majority hate you because your ancestors sold their ancestors to the oppressors- white man.
As I said earlier, don't join issues with them, and just feel pity for them. Hate only eventually consumes the hater.
Most of those comments are from a place of hurt, as they believe Africans feel superior to them, and Africans come to enjoy the benefits of their struggles and wars as a black American.
I really wish them well, but a lot are bitter and are against Africans, Mexicans, whites and basically the whole world, forgetting they are a small group of people (about 40million black americans) in the grand scheme of things, and you cannot win these wars by annhiliating people that could be your allies.
just one question.

Are you Male or Female? undecided
Re: "Nigerian Bedwench" Fiasco | Interracial dating Nigerian women under attack by Citizenshelm: 1:31am On Jul 23, 2018
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Re: "Nigerian Bedwench" Fiasco | Interracial dating Nigerian women under attack by Sparky223: 1:46am On Jul 23, 2018
Bedwench. What a horrible name. I could never refer to my wife that way. These people are sad hateful people. Good forbid my video of our traditional gets out so these people can call my wife these hateful names. Pity them.
Re: "Nigerian Bedwench" Fiasco | Interracial dating Nigerian women under attack by Nobody: 2:30am On Jul 23, 2018
Sparky223:
Bedwench. What a horrible name. I could never refer to my wife that way. These people are sad hateful people. Good forbid my video of our traditional gets out so these people can call my wife these hateful names. Pity them.

One question for you. As a white man in America, do you think that Justin Mcclure is racist. Do you think the things he said were insensitive or racist?
Re: "Nigerian Bedwench" Fiasco | Interracial dating Nigerian women under attack by BabaRamota1980: 3:36am On Jul 23, 2018
Not only do we worship whiteskin....we even worship their mixed racial children. Is this lie?

Go to any school in Nigeria where you have a mixed race child...they are treated like gods, get privileges and favors above their brown skinned classmates.

Reason skin bleaching is popular is because brown skinned girls dont feel accepted in our society. They feel to be accepted they need to look white or nearly white. Our standard of beauty is based on the white skin.

Its a shame and im glad it came out in this ugly incident to raise awareness. Dont blame African Americans for their comments, we need to look inward to the damage we have done and continue to do in our communities.

In Nollywood to get acts, male or female, you have to be light skinned.

When was last time a prominent entertainment magazine featured a dark skin on front cover?

Brothers and sisters, wake up!

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Re: "Nigerian Bedwench" Fiasco | Interracial dating Nigerian women under attack by BabaRamota1980: 3:41am On Jul 23, 2018
eyinjuege:
I would just advice you as an African not to take African Americans seriously, and try not to join issues with them
Most of their women hate you - Africans with a passion, ( except the fine rich African man sha) as a lot cannot understand why you should come into their country and do so well. Some feel you are taking up their scholarships and jobs. Some feel you are getting too close to their oppressors.
Majority hate you because your ancestors sold their ancestors to the oppressors- white man.
As I said earlier, don't join issues with them, and just feel pity for them. Hate only eventually consumes the hater.
Most of those comments are from a place of hurt, as they believe Africans feel superior to them, and Africans come to enjoy the benefits of their struggles and wars as a black American.
I really wish them well, but a lot are bitter and are against Africans, Mexicans, whites and basically the whole world, forgetting they are a small group of people (about 40million black americans) in the grand scheme of things, and you cannot win these wars by annhiliating people that could be your allies.

They are not wrong in feeling a sense of entitlement to the American success. Do you know what their fore fathers went through to get where they are now?

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Re: "Nigerian Bedwench" Fiasco | Interracial dating Nigerian women under attack by Favor99(m): 3:43am On Jul 23, 2018
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Re: "Nigerian Bedwench" Fiasco | Interracial dating Nigerian women under attack by Sparky223: 3:48am On Jul 23, 2018
HypocriteNazi:


One question for you. As a white man in America, do you think that Justin Mcclure is racist. Do you think the things he said were insensitive or racist?

Well I think what he tweeted was pretty stupid. Is he racist? I don't know. He married a black woman. That's not typically something a racist would do.
Re: "Nigerian Bedwench" Fiasco | Interracial dating Nigerian women under attack by BabaRamota1980: 4:01am On Jul 23, 2018
Sparky223:


Well I think what he tweeted was pretty stupid. Is he racist? I don't know. He married a black woman. That's not typically something a racist would do.

You missed the point!

There are Muslim terrorists married to Christians. Does that change their doctrines about Islam?

Does massa screwing the young black girl on his plantation and fathering her children make him more compassionate about the slaves listed as properties?

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Re: "Nigerian Bedwench" Fiasco | Interracial dating Nigerian women under attack by Phut(f): 4:47am On Jul 23, 2018
LordSaints:
are you not that Filipino lady,who's I'mJ release her nudes. Oh yes you are.

Your Opinions do not count.
grin grin lol!
Re: "Nigerian Bedwench" Fiasco | Interracial dating Nigerian women under attack by Nobody: 5:17am On Jul 23, 2018
I have no pity for gold loving Nigerian women
Re: "Nigerian Bedwench" Fiasco | Interracial dating Nigerian women under attack by Nobody: 5:21am On Jul 23, 2018
Sparky223:


Well I think what he tweeted was pretty stupid. Is he racist? I don't know. He married a black woman. That's not typically something a racist would do.

You have missed the point completely. A person can claim to care/love/respect an individual but meanwhile detest have no regard for that person's race. The perfect example is Thomaa Jefferson. Surely being in America you know that he procreated with his black slave, all the while had hundreds of other slaves.
Justin Mcclure said himself he is from the south, and that he was trying to appeal to a certain demographic because of low self esteem.
The discussion was and is about people who enter into relationships with people who knowlingly have little to no regard for people who share the same skin color and why they would do such.
You have entered into this conversation based on your emotions. It was said very early that the issue was not about interracial marriage but those who do so because of a supposed superiority of the other race.

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