Please I want to settle down in marriage, but I hear or read news about ladies who sleep with their ex few days to their wedding day. Please I am hoping to settle down not too long in marriage, and I need to be sure of this news; if it is a fate all guys must accept or there are some ladies that do not sleep with ex before their wedding day. Again, it is good i know the percentage.

I was kind of weak when I heard someone tell me he slept with a lady that goes to a living church, even after her traditional wedding. Should we guys see it as a normal thing for ladies to sleep with their ex before wedding or can something be done? I need assistance from the ladies on if these are really true or it is mere exaggeration. Because I truly cannot be in love with someone and such a person will sleep with ex before wedding day.

I saw a statistics reading 17% of ladies sleep with ex before wedding day. I felt relieved because the statistics was small. I will indeed be grateful if it is even lower.

Please ladies, what can we guys do to prevent you people from sleeping with your ex before wedding day. We can be of help if you ladies want.

Thanks.

there should be some that wont do such

op, it is not starting today that some ladies if not most of them sleep with their ex some days or weeks to their wedding. I know of a person that slept with her ex on the wedding night while the husband was in the room. we got to know after the ex was asking for his baby

Was your mother one of the 17%? Honest question - no disrespect.

I dont understand ladies that do that, if someone is termed ex, whether you part ways on friendly terms or not, anything body contact with that person should nauseate you, allow old things to pass away for good,

Some exes have tried talking terms thingy with me to no avail, when you allow that, talking turns to laughing, then "i miss you", then "when can we see", then stupid feelings comes in, then you imagine the sex you both had, then you long to experience it one last time, that is when shiit like this happen, can never happen to me though

17% is not small because the sample size was 50 ladies

What will statistics do for you. Lol

The real question to ask yourself is if your partner is faithful to you........... you do your background checks yourself.

Personally, I have had about five such encounters..ladies who felt I was on their to do list before marriage, most of em was past flings...the only one I had a bif of affair with was during service and being form warri, said her husband will die if she cheats, so she rather visit me a week before marriage. Long story short, I was already dating and turned her down.
Girl still calls to ask me for money even now..
It happens...but its wrong as a man, no lady should use you for sex.

Check my profile. And op, Good luck on your wedding

OP is having sleepless night over what will eventually happen. The percentage is not 17%. It's close to 99%.

We should rather be talking about sexual liberty. We'll be better off:

Get married (if you must). Have kids. Divorce or liberate each other to pursue sexual pleasures.

We keep denying and hiding the obvious and murder, suicides, partial/permanent disabilities, and bumps and bruises keep being the characteristics of our marriages.

Biglittlelois:
I dont understand ladies that do that, if someone is termed ex, whether you part ways on friendly terms or not, anything body contact with that person should nauseate you, allow old things to pass away for good, some exes have tried talking terms thingy with me to no avail, when you allow that, talking turns to laughing, then "i miss you", then "when can we see", then stupid feelings comes in, then you imagine the sex you both had, then you long to experience it one last time, that is when shiit like this happen, can never happen to me though

Actually, it's purely sexual that's why they do it. As a guy, the worst thing you can do is fu uck a girl with a bf, talk less of fiance. She might get addicted to the D

99% is not possible...What of those that marry as virgins??

Biglittlelois:
I dont understand ladies that do that, if someone is termed ex, whether you part ways on friendly terms or not, anything body contact with that person should nauseate you, allow old things to pass away for good,

Some exes have tried talking terms thingy with me to no avail, when you allow that, talking turns to laughing, then "i miss you", then "when can we see", then stupid feelings comes in, then you imagine the sex you both had, then you long to experience it one last time, that is when shiit like this happen, can never happen to me though

never say never

I'm here to learn though...

Oi

olsome:
Please I want to settle down in marriage, but I hear or read news about ladies who sleep with their ex few days to their wedding day. Please I am hoping to settle down not too long in marriage, and I need to be sure of this news; if it is a fate all guys must accept or there are some ladies that do not sleep with ex before their wedding day. Again, it is good i know the percentage.

I was kind of weak when I heard someone tell me he slept with a lady that goes to a living church, even after her traditional wedding. Should we guys see it as a normal thing for ladies to sleep with their ex before wedding or can something be done? I need assistance from the ladies on if these are really true or it is mere exaggeration. Because I truly cannot be in love with someone and such a person will sleep with ex before wedding day.

I saw a statistics reading 17% of ladies sleep with ex before wedding day. I felt relieved because the statistics was small. I will indeed be grateful if it is even lower.

Please ladies, what can we guys do to prevent you people from sleeping with your ex before wedding day. We can be of help if you ladies want.

Thanks.

Stop focusing on statistics

Focus on understanding the women you are dating

Whether she cheats eventually you have tried your best, you can never stop someone if they really want to cheat

Women call man dogs becoz they cheat but women are still getting married today why becoz they aint focusing on numbers of cheating man

Clubs are full of female prostitutes and man call women bitches and have cheating wives and girlfriends but man are still marrying

Becoz the focus on what u have (girlfriend) and not what your hearing from outside

ZIMDRILL:
Oi

Stop focusing on statistics

Focus on understanding the women you are dating

Whether she cheats eventually you have tried your best, you can never stop someone if they really want to cheat

Women call man dogs becoz they cheat but women are still getting married today why becoz they aint focusing on numbers of cheating man

Clubs are full of female prostitutes and man call women bitches and have cheating wives and girlfriends but man are still marrying

Becoz the focus on what u have (girlfriend) and not what your hearing from outside

true

every stage of life with him wahala

Cumtroller:
Was your mother one of the 17%? Honest question - no disrespect.

my brother op no worry yourself with dis comment day break everywhere burst

Cumtroller:
Was your mother one of the 17%? Honest question - no disrespect.

My mum married as virgin

I must marry correct

Biglittlelois:
I dont understand ladies that do that, if someone is termed ex, whether you part ways on friendly terms or not, anything body contact with that person should nauseate you, allow old things to pass away for good,

Some exes have tried talking terms thingy with me to no avail, when you allow that, talking turns to laughing, then "i miss you", then "when can we see", then stupid feelings comes in, then you imagine the sex you both had, then you long to experience it one last time, that is when shiit like this happen, can never happen to me though

I wish everyone else can reason fro. I this perspective, I personally consider it an ignoble act for someone who's engaged and about to wed to do such thing. Guys who having a foreknowledge of that and still get involved should also not be absorbed of blames. It's so disgusting how much people have lost sense of moral propriety

ZIMDRILL:
Oi

Stop focusing on statistics

Focus on understanding the women you are dating

Whether she cheats eventually you have tried your best, you can never stop someone if they really want to cheat

Women call man dogs becoz they cheat but women are still getting married today why becoz they aint focusing on numbers of cheating man

Clubs are full of female prostitutes and man call women bitches and have cheating wives and girlfriends but man are still marrying

Becoz the focus on what u have (girlfriend) and not what your hearing from outside

oooooh u too much, 1 crate of girlfriends for u.

this is the solution to our major problems today.
as for the percentage

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it's more than 50percent. they see it as letting go.... one of them. actually begged me to allow her carry my baby.....
with what I've seen in this life I always advise guys to not expect much from ladies. when u expect too much, u get dissapointed...... it's a must..... all u need to hook up a lady; single or married.... is the right mood..... u r alone with her somewhere and u get pretty confident...... it will happen.

many experienced ladies know this and they make themselves unavailable to the core to avoid such encounters cos they know that there is no such thing as self control when it comes to natural urges. u may delay it but it must happen.... as long as u make available, the right mood.

we guys should learn to under expect, this way... if u get a loyal woman.... fine if u don't..... fine..... it's a game of fortune really and we should be focused with other things other than emotions.

so many married women today..... CHEAT.... it's the misconception and misguided reality that only married men cheat that has continued to ravage our economy.... for every single married man that cheats, u have 5 cheating married women. it's inevitable!!! but many hide it well.... some cheat with drivers, security, colleagues, bosses, exes, strangers(safest), husband's friend (best friend), husband's brother, lesbian partner etc the list is endless

Biglittlelois:
can never happen to me though

Never say never! people with a greater resolve than you have said this and how epic has their fall been. It is only by HIS grace that we can overcome temptation and not by our will power.

iLUMeN8:
can never happen to me though

Never say never! people with a greater resolve than you have said this and how epic has their fall been. It is only by HIS grace that we can overcome temptation and not by our will power.

na those kain people dey do pass!

Should this be bothering you?

Partnerbiz3:
Should this be bothering you?

Yes & no

Any lady that sleeps with an ex some weeks or days b4 marriage will still keep on sleeping with that ex even when married to u and she has kids for u. If u have a girl and u notice she still has some sort of secret liason with ex or exs...then its best not to marry her.

Oma307:
op, it is not starting today that some ladies if not most of them sleep with their ex some days or weeks to their wedding. I know of a person that slept with her ex on the wedding night while the husband was in the room. we got to know after the ex was asking for his baby

a lady slept with her ex on her wedding night?

lefulefu:
a lady slept with her ex on her wedding night?

life

ZIMDRILL:
Oi

Stop focusing on statistics

Focus on understanding the women you are dating

Whether she cheats eventually you have tried your best, you can never stop someone if they really want to cheat

Women call man dogs becoz they cheat but women are still getting married today why becoz they aint focusing on numbers of cheating man

Clubs are full of female prostitutes and man call women bitches and have cheating wives and girlfriends but man are still marrying

Becoz the focus on what u have (girlfriend) and not what your hearing from outside

Festus! Bring one cold stout for this ninja

Wife fall on you ... you deserve it

Don’t mind some guys ...... they won’t focus