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Re: A Lady's Comment On Women's Financial Status Before Marriage by romenna: 9:26am On Aug 10, 2018 |
Rooneyboy:too big to be downplayed on or underestimated |
Re: A Lady's Comment On Women's Financial Status Before Marriage by romenna: 9:30am On Aug 10, 2018 |
Acidosis:keep contradicting urself. and u go like argument well well. the op advised her fellow females to work hard and become financially independent not me oh. mumu man |
Re: A Lady's Comment On Women's Financial Status Before Marriage by Tamakay(m): 9:31am On Aug 10, 2018 |
Re: A Lady's Comment On Women's Financial Status Before Marriage by romenna: 9:33am On Aug 10, 2018 |
spiceadole:i am a man and i say dat ur ex is a big time hypocrite! as a successful man, i love and respect successful women. no intimidation at all, respect is reciprocal, i dnt need anyone respecting me because of my money. thats a no no 2 Likes |
Re: A Lady's Comment On Women's Financial Status Before Marriage by romenna: 9:36am On Aug 10, 2018 |
spiceadole:u'r very sincere as a person. i like 1 Like |
Re: A Lady's Comment On Women's Financial Status Before Marriage by Nobody: 9:57am On Aug 10, 2018 |
romenna:Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm |
Re: A Lady's Comment On Women's Financial Status Before Marriage by Nobody: 9:59am On Aug 10, 2018 |
davillian:So what's with the complaints? |
Re: A Lady's Comment On Women's Financial Status Before Marriage by Nobody: 10:01am On Aug 10, 2018 |
nellyelitz:My dear I won't answer this insulting question which seems to be the mantra of male gold diggers this days. |
Re: A Lady's Comment On Women's Financial Status Before Marriage by Nobody: 10:02am On Aug 10, 2018 |
nellyelitz:I have the right to type my comment as anyone so plzzz |
Re: A Lady's Comment On Women's Financial Status Before Marriage by Nobody: 10:06am On Aug 10, 2018 |
nwanneni:You have to reply for us to be able to communicate |
Re: A Lady's Comment On Women's Financial Status Before Marriage by Nobody: 10:09am On Aug 10, 2018 |
NwanyiAwkaetiti:i did reply.i sent you a pm saying hi |
Re: A Lady's Comment On Women's Financial Status Before Marriage by Nobody: 10:10am On Aug 10, 2018 |
Rooneyboy:Dont take my comments here too seriously. I'm well aware relationships is all about support and I support my man. So no go think say as I dey write am here na so e be for real life. |
Re: A Lady's Comment On Women's Financial Status Before Marriage by Nobody: 10:14am On Aug 10, 2018 |
ZIMDRILL:Ill keep that in mind. I don't think any ladies willingly wants to be broke or burden a man. My thoughts though |
Re: A Lady's Comment On Women's Financial Status Before Marriage by spiceadole: 10:43am On Aug 10, 2018 |
romenna: Lol... Exactly what I typed earlier. Nigerian men only see ladies who made it via sugar daddies.. They hardly recognize the legit ones. Btw, I am a medical doctor. I work in a federal teaching hospital. Hence, its only normal that I pay my bills without depending on any man. I remember when I relocated to a new state to start my new job. After months of squatting with colleague, I decided to rent my own apartment. The landlord upon realizing that I could afford to pay for a 1 bedroom flat, said " Abeg ooo.. I no want ashewo for my compound ". To him... Only a prostitute could have money to afford such apartment. I didn't blame him. As I quietly walked away, the agent who happens to be an old school mate admonished him and told him what I did for a living. Landlord immediately changed his mind and called me back. What I am saying is : Nigerian men do not like independent women. For obvious reasons :Either, you are a wh.o.r.e or you are "proud" and won't be easy to manipulate, hence no feeding of male ego. I have gotten to the stage that I meet a guy and pretend I don't have a job. That's what they appreciate. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: A Lady's Comment On Women's Financial Status Before Marriage by Delivar(m): 10:55am On Aug 10, 2018 |
pocohantas:If everyone sticks to that beautiful advice many people will never get married and that will do the society so much good by slowing down the dangerously rising population growth and ensuring that only couples with the means to care for children are the ones procreating. 1 Like |
Re: A Lady's Comment On Women's Financial Status Before Marriage by romenna: 10:59am On Aug 10, 2018 |
spiceadole:My dear, it has little or nothing to do with the mentality of Nigerian men, it is more of reality. Take SARS harassment issue for example, many flashy looking guys get harassed by the police due to the excesses of Yaboo+ boys. In the same vein, many ladies are termed prostitutes due to obvious reasons. In summary, all of these are consequences of a morally bankrupt society. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: A Lady's Comment On Women's Financial Status Before Marriage by Acidosis(m): 11:14am On Aug 10, 2018 |
romenna: Sha don't allow her money drive you insane and don't date her because of her money.. If you must marry, be ready to be responsible for your family. |
Re: A Lady's Comment On Women's Financial Status Before Marriage by Nobody: 11:18am On Aug 10, 2018 |
nwanneni:Done |
Re: A Lady's Comment On Women's Financial Status Before Marriage by romenna: 11:18am On Aug 10, 2018 |
Acidosis:u can not dciv us, u'r a woman using a male moniker |
Re: A Lady's Comment On Women's Financial Status Before Marriage by Dearlord(m): 12:21pm On Aug 10, 2018 |
That's my girl.
...come give Daddy a big hug |
Re: A Lady's Comment On Women's Financial Status Before Marriage by Tundeobama(m): 12:36pm On Aug 10, 2018 |
spiceadole you speak like a responsible lady lets be friends. |
Re: A Lady's Comment On Women's Financial Status Before Marriage by faithsystem(f): 1:48pm On Aug 10, 2018 |
My dear brother, you've spoken well that most men chooses dependent ladies over the opposite shouldn't affect individual decision. it's a thing of choice and perception for a lady to either be dependent or supportive. my mum always advised and encouraged me to end up a supportive wife, and i see life in that same perspective of her's so i graduated and got a banking carer and a salon hair business at my 26years. but then you see guys are now scared. it all boiled down at Some men love dependent women because they know that only those dependent women can be afraid to leave the marriage. Elder001: |
Re: A Lady's Comment On Women's Financial Status Before Marriage by Arobake: 1:51pm On Aug 10, 2018 |
This is NOT only among Nairaland women, sorry. Igbokiller:
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Re: A Lady's Comment On Women's Financial Status Before Marriage by Nobody: 1:53pm On Aug 10, 2018 |
faithsystem: I don't know how this might sound to you. Women are being allowed to do everything they're doing today because of civilization.. If you want to be civilized and liberal then you've to embrace all aspects of civilization. If men are afraid of approaching you simply because you've money which I believe is a mentality limited to Africa, then you should try talking to a man. Not necessarily wooing him but giving him green lights . Mix with people who share the same ideologies with you, guys who mean well for women. Truth is, only broke men are afraid of approaching independent ladies. |
Re: A Lady's Comment On Women's Financial Status Before Marriage by Arobake: 1:55pm On Aug 10, 2018 |
No, dear, you are wrong. It isntonly in Nigeria. nlanded:
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Re: A Lady's Comment On Women's Financial Status Before Marriage by Nobody: 2:01pm On Aug 10, 2018 |
spiceadole: Lol.. so all you care about now is how to impress men? I don't really know where you people meet those men who hate independent women oh. Even the ones forming alpha male would want you to have a job just that they won't want you to contribute, so I'm confused if men who don't want ladies to have jobs really exist. You're a medical doctor.. You see An average Nigerian man will be afraid of approaching you for fear of being disgraced. Only rich men will approach you if you're rich unless you want to do the approaching yourself. I don't really blame them, imagine a man earning 100k with a 2m Hyundai car approaching a lady who's using a 5m jeep and won't be afraid. 1 Like |
Re: A Lady's Comment On Women's Financial Status Before Marriage by Nobody: 2:28pm On Aug 10, 2018 |
Arobake:we are Nigerians not british, sorry Let's deal with our own shii |
Re: A Lady's Comment On Women's Financial Status Before Marriage by CrazyPros: 4:16pm On Aug 10, 2018 |
spiceadole: I understand your pain, but you still didn't answer my question, but by inference let me assume you mean, you will from now onward act dependent and let the guy pick the bills. May I let you know, I find nothing wrong in this arrangement, so long as the guy is cool with it. But for me, I believe an independent lady who sticks with me means I have more to offer than money, and I believe that's what an ideal relationship should portray. And I know there are many guys like me too, who's value are beyond their financial capability and who don't feel emasculated by independent women. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: A Lady's Comment On Women's Financial Status Before Marriage by faithsystem(f): 4:20pm On Aug 10, 2018 |
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Re: A Lady's Comment On Women's Financial Status Before Marriage by Nobody: 4:25pm On Aug 10, 2018 |
faithsystem:Lol.. just do as I advised you. Try talking to a man if you can't then give green lights. |
Re: A Lady's Comment On Women's Financial Status Before Marriage by faithsystem(f): 4:36pm On Aug 10, 2018 |
you sounds nice, i could start with you. think i like you please i'm not being sarcastic here Elder001: |
Re: A Lady's Comment On Women's Financial Status Before Marriage by Nobody: 5:32pm On Aug 10, 2018 |
faithsystem: I got married in November 2015. BTW, the best social media platform to find a real man is twitter. So real. I won't hesitate to inform you if a friend is interested in marriage (people are scared of marriage these days). |
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