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Re: He Forcefully Took My Virginity, Wants Marriage. I'm Hurting. What Should I Do? by queenbetsy(f): 10:24pm On Aug 11, 2018 |
This is serious... Just cut ties with him. See your mentor if you have one. Note: Don't talk to just anybody about it, they can hurt you even more. But, be secretive to an extent. Please, to an extent... Shalom. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: He Forcefully Took My Virginity, Wants Marriage. I'm Hurting. What Should I Do? by obi4eze(m): 10:24pm On Aug 11, 2018 |
Hmm |
Re: He Forcefully Took My Virginity, Wants Marriage. I'm Hurting. What Should I Do? by AkpatiOzu1: 10:25pm On Aug 11, 2018 |
MartinCorridon: |
Re: He Forcefully Took My Virginity, Wants Marriage. I'm Hurting. What Should I Do? by Orchid45: 10:26pm On Aug 11, 2018 |
smileing:You are welcome. |
Re: He Forcefully Took My Virginity, Wants Marriage. I'm Hurting. What Should I Do? by Kellyrichp: 10:26pm On Aug 11, 2018 |
Just agree
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Re: He Forcefully Took My Virginity, Wants Marriage. I'm Hurting. What Should I Do? by sapeleboi(m): 10:27pm On Aug 11, 2018 |
long story ,pls cut it short |
Re: He Forcefully Took My Virginity, Wants Marriage. I'm Hurting. What Should I Do? by TimeManager(m): 10:27pm On Aug 11, 2018 |
How old are you?.. If I tell you what's on my mind eh.. I dislike slow ladies. kiss the truth! 1 Like |
Re: He Forcefully Took My Virginity, Wants Marriage. I'm Hurting. What Should I Do? by Abfinest007(m): 10:27pm On Aug 11, 2018 |
is it not human that get married to those prostitutes .just forget d did has already been done encourage urself n move .a husband that will respect u will respect u weather virgin or not.my sincere advice is for u to pray for ur future husband since u said it has been revealed he is not ur husband 3 Likes |
Re: He Forcefully Took My Virginity, Wants Marriage. I'm Hurting. What Should I Do? by AkpatiOzu1: 10:27pm On Aug 11, 2018 |
onye alalala alago ya 1 Like |
Re: He Forcefully Took My Virginity, Wants Marriage. I'm Hurting. What Should I Do? by StillX10(m): 10:28pm On Aug 11, 2018 |
Why would people just sit down and start posting anything 5 Likes |
Re: He Forcefully Took My Virginity, Wants Marriage. I'm Hurting. What Should I Do? by AkpatiOzu1: 10:29pm On Aug 11, 2018 |
MartinCorridon:you mean Muhammed as in saw read again 1 Like |
Re: He Forcefully Took My Virginity, Wants Marriage. I'm Hurting. What Should I Do? by otherway: 10:29pm On Aug 11, 2018 |
smileing: You must be one of those who live their lives by "the prophet said" Please ask those who say he is not your husband to tell you who your husband is,his name,tribe,house address,skin colour etc. This is how women destroy their marital lives with my pastor said.Mumu 13 Likes |
Re: He Forcefully Took My Virginity, Wants Marriage. I'm Hurting. What Should I Do? by joceey(m): 10:30pm On Aug 11, 2018 |
You seem confused the only reason you re trying to let go of him its because 5 different pastor, prophet or what soever told you he is not your husband. Assuming it was the opposite what could you have done think deeply 10 Likes |
Re: He Forcefully Took My Virginity, Wants Marriage. I'm Hurting. What Should I Do? by Sterope(f): 10:30pm On Aug 11, 2018 |
You need some counselling. He should be the last person in this world you should be speaking to. He is a bigger idiot to be talking to you about marriage. smileing: |
Re: He Forcefully Took My Virginity, Wants Marriage. I'm Hurting. What Should I Do? by HajimeSaito(m): 10:31pm On Aug 11, 2018 |
thorpido: 1 Like |
Re: He Forcefully Took My Virginity, Wants Marriage. I'm Hurting. What Should I Do? by Nobody: 10:32pm On Aug 11, 2018 |
Sometimes people in love do crazy things. Rape isn't a small crime, if u want to report him, do so. Don't be so hard on yourself. |
Re: He Forcefully Took My Virginity, Wants Marriage. I'm Hurting. What Should I Do? by blackaxe78: 10:32pm On Aug 11, 2018 |
Use him for money rituals |
Re: He Forcefully Took My Virginity, Wants Marriage. I'm Hurting. What Should I Do? by indodon(m): 10:32pm On Aug 11, 2018 |
;Ddid you enjoy it? 2 Likes |
Re: He Forcefully Took My Virginity, Wants Marriage. I'm Hurting. What Should I Do? by Nobody: 10:32pm On Aug 11, 2018 |
Sometimes people in love do crazy things. Rape isn't a small crime, if u want to report him, do so. Don't be so hard on yourself. I don't understand why most men feel entitled to a lady's body. So annoying. 1 Like |
Re: He Forcefully Took My Virginity, Wants Marriage. I'm Hurting. What Should I Do? by honeyjoyce(f): 10:33pm On Aug 11, 2018 |
I perfectly understand how you feel dear, pls follow your heart, if u can't forgive him for violating u, just let go, but search your heart well before making your decision 1 Like |
Re: He Forcefully Took My Virginity, Wants Marriage. I'm Hurting. What Should I Do? by hollyray2016: 10:35pm On Aug 11, 2018 |
Baby just call my number 08163708005, My d*ick is not too big. 1 Like |
Re: He Forcefully Took My Virginity, Wants Marriage. I'm Hurting. What Should I Do? by foreshore(m): 10:35pm On Aug 11, 2018 |
smileing: Being a virgin is not an indexes to success in life. |
Re: He Forcefully Took My Virginity, Wants Marriage. I'm Hurting. What Should I Do? by IME1: 10:36pm On Aug 11, 2018 |
This is truly sad But let the Spirit of God heal you and lead you Stay strong and positive The guy no try sam sam, kai 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: He Forcefully Took My Virginity, Wants Marriage. I'm Hurting. What Should I Do? by igala1(m): 10:36pm On Aug 11, 2018 |
Truth is that the sin is upon him. Bit may I ask some partinent questions. Do you often ask him for money or material gifts I.e recharge card, transport, money 4 hair etc? I'm not condemning it 100% but men often give & want something in return. On the part of up to 5 persons determining your relationship, I say a no no. You should make your mistakes & learn from them. People shouldn't determine your affairs. Lastly,pick up yourself. Don't self condemn. Return to God in prayers 4 mercy. 4give the man& move on with your life. If you don't want him, it shouldn't be because of some misguided false prophets. Consult God. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: He Forcefully Took My Virginity, Wants Marriage. I'm Hurting. What Should I Do? by redangel2017: 10:38pm On Aug 11, 2018 |
smileing:the man is so stupid.. I hate him already.. A man who doest respect his companion.. His third leg is very active.. Its simple If u want to clear ur concience.. Nd tell the world.. The raper is ur husband.. Ur choise... If u wanna hold on to the right man who will respect you.. Peace nd loving marriage.. Still ur choise.. But if u take choice two.. Make sure u report that dog to the police.. 1 Like |
Re: He Forcefully Took My Virginity, Wants Marriage. I'm Hurting. What Should I Do? by Nobody: 10:38pm On Aug 11, 2018 |
He isn't your man. His actions proves that(not to talk about 'prophecies') Let it go. 1 Like |
Re: He Forcefully Took My Virginity, Wants Marriage. I'm Hurting. What Should I Do? by Humility017(m): 10:39pm On Aug 11, 2018 |
smileing: Dear...Every one has a past.your husband to be will love and appreciate you not because you're a virgin but because he loves you. religion makes some men selfish...always wanting to marry a virgin. it down on me long time ago...the reason why I am abstaining from sex till marriage is not to marry a woman who has done same... a virgin per se but because I love God....I don't mind if mywife be a virgin or not...I will love her still... just like Christ Loved the church. I have a virgin friend who will be getting married these month end but his bride to be...is not a virgin...and he never minds. likewise me I don't mind won't even ask..... all that matters is her faithfulness and commitments when we starts dating. so relax your mind and leave that relationship... it is not God's desire we keep living in sexual sin. 5 Likes |
Re: He Forcefully Took My Virginity, Wants Marriage. I'm Hurting. What Should I Do? by farem: 10:39pm On Aug 11, 2018 |
smileing: Daughter, arise from y your bed of self guilt and move on. Why should you feel less when you were not partof the rape (unless you are thinking of your naivety that have you away as prey. Even at that, you are still intact in the eyes of. God) Do not allow emotion. to force you into a violent soul tie. Different men of God said NO. You too are not feeling peace with it. How and why are you considering someone who is not godly? 1 Like |
Re: He Forcefully Took My Virginity, Wants Marriage. I'm Hurting. What Should I Do? by farem: 10:40pm On Aug 11, 2018 |
smileing: Daughter, arise from y your bed of self guilt and move on. Why should you feel less when you were not partof the rape (unless you are thinking of your naivety that have you away as prey. Even at that, you are still intact in the eyes of. God) Do not allow emotion. to force you into a violent soul tie. Different men of God said NO. You too are not feeling peace with it. How and why are you considering someone who is not godly? hh |
Re: He Forcefully Took My Virginity, Wants Marriage. I'm Hurting. What Should I Do? by moneychannel: 10:42pm On Aug 11, 2018 |
smileing: From my understanding, most people here didn't understand you. What he did from the way you presented the issue wasn't rape, reason why you didn't report him to officials or your parents. Even though you weren't ready for the act, he led you into it. One question you asked no one has answered, "those that married non virgin how their spouse took it"? To be honest with you dear, no one cares about virginity in marriage to the best of my knowledge. What men need is a woman that can respect them, love them, understand them, don't nag. No one has ever mentioned virginity as one of the qualities in a woman he wants to marry in my over 30 years in Nigeria. So live your life and go ahead and marry that guy if you love him. Forget God fearing, God will use because of you and have mercy on him if you're God fearing. (It's biblical). Finally, in as much as I hate to say this but I have to, virginity is over rated. Committing suicide cuz you got disvirgined is worst than prostitution. 15 Likes |
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