UyaiIncomparabl:
One thing;

Smite his ass.

MRSoftapples:
Do you even think before typing?
Or maybe you didn't read the writeup?

So you uploaded your picture on your dp, so that ass lickers can lick your ass but your brain is lower in proportion to that of a foetus in a pregnant stomach..

UyaiIncomparabl:

You have no point.

MRSoftapples:
Hmm my brother,, you have to really asked yourself if this girl really loves you or not..
From the look of things, her ex really loves her and still loves her, so it's best for you to let the lady go,, advice her to go back to her ex..
its not like he cheated or he is a woman beater,, just smoking and bad friends didn't stop him from loving her..
What she should have done, was to report him to his mom and family members, so that they can advice him to dump the dangerous lifestyle and be focus on life..

The lady overreacted by going into another relationship with you because her ex had done nothing wrong,, all he needed was an elderly advice..

So my brother, let go of the girl, tell her to go back to her ex,, wish her well in life, advice her to talk to elders in her family and move on with your life..

dominique:
Not everybody handle break up well. We have seen cases of people drinking poison because their boy/girlfriend broke up with them. Your girl's ex must have invested very much in the relationship and had plans for the future with her only to be dumped like a piece of hot coal. That can make person depressed to the point of being suicidal. Your girlfriend has to be there for him at this point. She has to let him heal a bit before moving on completely.

Galaxydon1:
Girls and overseas based guys. Please break up with that girl.she is a gold digger. Pity the guy. If you were in his shoes nko. I were the guy and I will never be him. I will just move on with my life. I believe in karma. What goes around comes back around. my ex dumped me for a rich man. few years later. she is begging me for money. that she is very broke..

kingxsamz:
Just wondering what "Sksdld;d'd'ddd)" means.

lawnreigh:
Hmmmm all you said is nothing but truth, they were commited with eachother for so long and the guy wanted to commit suicide by poisoning himself, but as a lady, what advise do you have for me and how do you see the wholething playing out? I'm looking upto your reply

lawnreigh:
Good afternoon Nairalanders, Let me start talking about how we started, I have known this lady for a long time(Just Friends) but we started talking again few months ago after about 6 years without communicating, she is the type that I really love and want to make my wife, but an issue started coming up as a threat in between us lately. To start with, she was dating a guy when we started talking again and I was out of the country then. We got along very well and things started getting serious overtime, she told me she has a boyfriend then but she doesn't really go into much details at first, when I came back, I asked about her boyfriend issue and she told me he is a cool guy but things are getting bad between them because she has been having issues with the kind of friend he keeps, their lifestyle of smoking etc and he isn't serious with any life plans which was before she found out due to long distance relationship.
She ended the relationship after we met (she has always emphasize this to know how real I am about her), the problem now is that the Ex keeps resurfacing using different strategies like begging, crying and other childish act and was always like no one can take her from him, the worst that happened recently now is that the guy wanted to commit suicide, the mother and some of his family members had to call my girlfriend to please reverse her decision on the break up so that he wouldn't end his life etc. I need suggestion on how to resolve this issue once and for all. Its getting out of hand and I cant keep continuing like this, likewise herself too. All ideas, insults and suggestions are welcome.


Note: She has done all her part to persuade the guy stop the lifestyle and plan toward the future and stop keeping friends that are into smoking and all those lifestyle many times before I met her to no avail, thinking she cant leave him simply because he disvirgined her and has been the only guy she had known all of her life. I know all this details personally through a friend that attended same University with her, personal background check and her words too. No one is perfect but I don't see her as the lieing type and she open up to me on everything. Thanks