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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Humchi(m): 10:43am On Aug 18, 2018 |
I have been visiting this thread reading about others, i saw alot of post on how to fit in. I tried my best, i couldn't. I think i am the worst introvert. I remember those days i move alone, stay all day at home, doing what i love without trying to fit in into perceptions. I see those days as peaceful and happy days. Now i am deeply depressed, because i want to be social, i saw my limits, blunders, and how people view me and how i do. It is very different. I have made up my mind to return to my true self. When ever i remember thoughs good and happy days, i feel like crying. I don't care what ever anyone is going to say about me being an asshole. I'm done. 3 Likes |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by myca: 1:21pm On Aug 18, 2018 |
Drizzle007: smiles... I was exactly you growing up. The feelings and fears you described I felt...but only a bit more. It gets better with time though but how soon depends greatly on when you are ready to face your demons. 2 Likes |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by myca: 1:30pm On Aug 18, 2018 |
Humchi: You are right to stop trying to fit in...it doesn't work, trust me. I did that for years but sadness and depression were my usual playmates each time I tried. Introverts should stop trying to be what they are not. One need not be a social genius to succeed and live a very meaningful life. Not being very sociable doesn't mean one should become anti social. You can be introverted and still relate well with people. 4 Likes |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by SeriousPartner(f): 7:21pm On Aug 18, 2018 |
Cool! 1 Like |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by ModestGal(f): 9:40pm On Aug 18, 2018 |
Am new here,am an INTROVERT, MY STORY Am an introvert, an extreme one. But I so so much love myself. As a girl,being introverted as made me become a better person in life. Am an extremely bookie type, the type that reads 24hours clock. Yea,I have read for 3days non stopping before and still doing it. I can be alone forever. But I had a problem,I was foolosh,not understanding the country I am, ""who book help"".After graduation,being the best in my department,and the youngest at age 19years going to 20. I wanted to have my phd by 25,not knowing I as decieving myself.Then I got to understand life isnt fair or maybe people arent. Before going to service,I spent a year at home waiting for NYSC enrollment,after Nysc I took MSC form,before I knew it time had gone,I saw I wouldnt ne able to have my Phd at age 25 anymore. Then I looked at the young doctors in my school, university of Ibadan, broke,haggard,with fine cars though,being sent an errand by the old proffessors. I looked at myself and I was like am still a broke girl. I hated it. I saw some young guys who are making money in business,then I thought to myself, if I had Used 50% of my time and brain for business all these years,I wouldnt be this broke,I mightbbe one of the youngest rich enterpreneurs by now,then I started shifting my brain to business,now am a business girl,not bookie.Although I still perform okay in my academics but in business am reaching high. Being an introvert doesnt supporr business that much,so I try to mingle,no be ghost go patronise me nah.But I still maintain my privacy though but being an introvert shouldnt stop you from making cool cash.I have learnt to smile, I have learnt to make others smile,I have learnt to help others and not be selfish with my time as I used to be. Right now am bored because I wish I could go to gym,do my favourite sport e.t.c. but i cant cx i dont like to be where too many people are 8 Likes |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by kolinton007: 6:55am On Aug 19, 2018 |
ModestGal:That's nice. I like girls with brain and vision. 1 Like |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Rubbiish(m): 7:52pm On Aug 19, 2018 |
ModestGal:Are u sure d listed are d only reasons for your boredom? 1 Like |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by ModestGal(f): 7:56pm On Aug 19, 2018 |
Rubbiish:Nope 1 Like |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Rubbiish(m): 8:14pm On Aug 19, 2018 |
ModestGal:Thought as much... |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by ModestGal(f): 8:35pm On Aug 19, 2018 |
Rubbiish:You want to hear,am ready to share 1. Tuesday is Eid,am far away from home,I miss my parent 2. Since am through with MSC,I have little to do,am kinda used to doing a thousand thing at a time,getting so tired at night and sleeping like a baby in the night 3. I wish I could go to a gym,but I hate to be in the gym with the opposite sex,and I hate to be where many people are. 4. I wish someone could cook for me like home 5. I only love to watch one movie,since my secondary school days, Vampire diaries and The originals,and it has just finished now.I feel there's nothing left to watch.I wish to have another "" Always and forever"*like in my movie. All of these make me feel lonely 2 Likes |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by ModestGal(f): 8:39pm On Aug 19, 2018 |
kolinton007:Thanks, everyone does. Did I say am with a good brain?can't remember but what I know I did was hardworking. So credit to hard work not good brain. 1 Like |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Rubbiish(m): 8:42pm On Aug 19, 2018 |
ModestGal:Don't u think d bold is responsible for something important lacking in your life? Which maybe largely responsible for your boredom? Why do u hate to be with d opposite sex? 1 Like |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Quaco(m): 1:16pm On Aug 20, 2018 |
As an introvert, i've realised i detest small talk however i can be a talkative when i'm in the mood and build rapport. But generally people who aint close to me view me as extremely quiet. I don't like following people and i'm very selective when making friends. I've got a few followers though, well they say i make them happy. I sense people feel very comfortable around me prolly because of my average joe look. 2 Likes |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by daremiarchs(m): 10:56am On Aug 21, 2018 |
am i the only introvert that cannot stay in a room with one person?
or is mine a worse case? |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by daremiarchs(m): 10:56am On Aug 21, 2018 |
. 1 Like |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Ibrahim505(m): 11:11am On Aug 21, 2018 |
daremiarchs:Me also 1 Like |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by vitmax(m): 12:21pm On Aug 21, 2018 |
Ibrahim505:same here 1 Like |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Rubbiish(m): 12:36pm On Aug 21, 2018 |
daremiarchs:Lolzzz...Don't u have siblings sir? 1 Like |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Rubbiish(m): 12:47pm On Aug 21, 2018 |
Ibrahim505: vitmax:Una no get siblings? 1 Like |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by vitmax(m): 2:28pm On Aug 21, 2018 |
Rubbiish:I get, they know and respect my space. We only hangout during dinner or when watching soap operas/movies 1 Like |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Rubbiish(m): 2:52pm On Aug 21, 2018 |
vitmax:Na wa ooo This is serious How old are u? 1 Like |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by vitmax(m): 2:57pm On Aug 21, 2018 |
Rubbiish:early twenties 1 Like |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Rubbiish(m): 3:09pm On Aug 21, 2018 |
vitmax:Hmmm...This level of shyness is bad for a man honestly. Meaning relating with d opposite sex with this level of shyness maybe suicide for u... 2 Likes |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by gidjah(m): 3:43pm On Aug 21, 2018 |
Hmmmm its been a while ,shout out to this humble amiable personalities I call my fam, may this season bring you all the desired dreams you all been having. 1 Like |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by daremiarchs(m): 4:20pm On Aug 21, 2018 |
Rubbiish:I do bro, but none stays with me 1 Like |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by vitmax(m): 8:10pm On Aug 21, 2018 |
Rubbiish:maybe Sha As long as I can fake the confidence I shouldn't run into any probs 1 Like |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Rubbiish(m): 8:17pm On Aug 21, 2018 |
vitmax:With this your level of shyness, there is no way u will be able to muster any fake confidence with d opposite sex...lie! lie! U really need to come out of your shell...It's too extreme & absolutely bad for a guy... 3 Likes |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by vitmax(m): 10:10pm On Aug 21, 2018 |
Rubbiish:lol! I'm trying my best! 1 Like |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Rubbiish(m): 10:34pm On Aug 21, 2018 |
vitmax:Hope u know u can't come out of this by staying indoors? U need to join a group in your church or school(not whatsapp group oo)...It is a very important step in fighting shyness. It's gonna be hard, but just try & u will be the final beneficiary for it. U really need a little group where u can relate with other people, especially d opposite sex, it will bring down d shyness...Joining d grp is just for d sake of meeting other people, because if u continue like this, u might up being afraid of conversing with people, especially d opposite sex in your 30's...& it's gonna seriously affect your way of life... 2 Likes |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by vitmax(m): 11:20pm On Aug 21, 2018 |
Rubbiish:thanks fam! I'll take heed to your advice 1 Like |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by gidjah(m): 3:20pm On Aug 22, 2018 |
ModestGal:yea right dear, I recall like 5 of us in my class finishing with a first class in school way back, most of us were product of hard work and gene gift.But me different shall, if not for my laziness i know say I am quote gifted , but son of man is too draggy, I k ow I can't failn, even without studying ,that's what keeps me on and on. Good braims dear sister.And as an intro, one has lots of advantage getting heads on with the books, no distractions or rather less distraction and what have you.I for one get can only gets swayed by good music and movie, the rest (ladies booze )na wash ,you can't get me smackked down using such 1 Like |
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