Wilfredpat22:
You men are really trying but you guys use women alot. The best thing is to find your footings (financially) before asking any of us out. During your hustle or struggle days don’t be in any serious relationship.

Remember we women have nothing to lose. We got our Poosie to help us in any situation.

May God help you all

Wilfredpat22:
You men are really trying but you guys use women alot. The best thing is to find your footings (financially) before asking any of us out. During your hustle or struggle days don’t be in any serious relationship.

Remember we women have nothing to lose. We got our Poosie to help us in any situation.

May God help you all

Wilfredpat22:
You men are really trying but you guys use women alot. The best thing is to find your footings (financially) before asking any of us out. During your hustle or struggle days don’t be in any serious relationship.

Remember we women have nothing to lose. We got our Poosie to help us in any situation.

May God help you all

Viking007:
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You don't have sense.

donbachi:
This is the reason why anytime i borrow money from my wife i don't pay back...i even borrowed this morning.

Archangels2:
Very true... Im just starting out life as a man and its being to feel like that

pcguru1:
Scenario when you marry an unreasonable wife. But there are a lot of unreasonable women out there lol

Wilfredpat22:
You men are really trying but you guys use women alot. The best thing is to find your footings (financially) before asking any of us out. During your hustle or struggle days don’t be in any serious relationship.

Remember we women have nothing to lose. We got our Poosie to help us in any situation.

May God help you all

Wilfredpat22:
You men are really trying but you guys use women alot. The best thing is to find your footings (financially) before asking any of us out. During your hustle or struggle days don’t be in any serious relationship.

Remember we women have nothing to lose. We got our Poosie to help us in any situation.

May God help you all

donbachi:
This is the reason why anytime i borrow money from my wife i don't pay back...i even borrowed this morning.

CapitoneMax:
I would suggest you have a heart to heart discussion with your spouse. Your marriage seems quite young and you shouldn't have to feel like this. Having an understanding family is the greatest gift a Man can get. Please do not feel any pressure.

pcguru1:
Scenario when you marry an unreasonable wife. But there are a lot of unreasonable women out there lol

tatibillion:
No wonder our men no dey live long

Wilfredpat22:
You men are really trying but you guys use women alot. The best thing is to find your footings (financially) before asking any of us out. During your hustle or struggle days don’t be in any serious relationship.

Remember we women have nothing to lose. We got our Poosie to help us in any situation.

May God help you all

LordKO:
A situation of such happens where a man married his frenemy as a wife - marry a self-centered and/or greedy woman at your own peril. A marriage devoid of oneness isn't a healthy marriage - where there's oneness there'll be mutual conscientiousness (altruism, kindness, selflessness, sincerity and goodness in general).

Meanwhile mutual conscientiousness is quite different from thoughts and actions of selfishness and self-centeredness glossed with garb of equality. I mean a situation whereby a selfish, greedy and self-centered man, in the name of being a proponent of equality (or feminism), tries to evade bearing responsibilities that comes with leadership in the house by resorting to a wack thought process and action like "we will always share all responsibilities in equal measures." Equality doesn't mean a man "sharing" house bills with his wife - the most buoyant, in case where the wife has a good job, ought to cheerfully do what's needful at any point in time - or allowing his wife to take up heavily physical tasks. As an egalitarian, equality to me means mutual conscientiousness.

Thoughtlessness, selfishness and self-centeredness are products of vices. Couples should strive to master how to be cheerful givers and grateful receivers - reciprocation of goodness (not necessary in equal measures) is the soul of every healthy marriage/union/relationship.

As a man try to know what you need and go for it; don't go for a partner or tormentor when what you need is a wife - a wife should be a keeper and helper. When you marry a wife in this settings you automatically have a submissive woman - submissiveness isn't evil. Submissiveness in this context shouldn't be mistaken for either submission or slavery, because it recognizes self-dominion. Egalitarianism doesn't negates leadership, and there's no kingdom without the king - leadership (headship) neither mean subjugation nor mastery.

Hanseel1:



You're right, sir. This happens to men who allow ego to control their sense of reasoning.

In a bid to become head of the house they enslave themselves.

They want women who are submissive and will be dependent on them so that they can control them like slaves yet cry out over financial burden.
Some even refuse to tell their wives to contribute because of
ego.
The only way to stop this is to marry a woman who'll
contribute even if it's 30% and you also share house chores
but no ,they want to form head of the house while they're
dying from burden.
You'll see a Nigerian man who was fair in complexion when
he got married turn into a black complexion because of too
much burden.


In this 21st century, no matter how rich you are don't marry a woman that wouldn't contribute because nobody knows tomorrow.

Grupo:


It is obvious you are not married

Wilfredpat22:
You men are really trying but you guys use women alot. The best thing is to find your footings (financially) before asking any of us out. During your hustle or struggle days don’t be in any serious relationship.

Remember we women have nothing to lose. We got our Poosie to help us in any situation.

May God help you all

frankkydee:














The manipulated man,go and read it

Wilfredpat22:
You men are really trying but you guys use women alot. The best thing is to find your footings (financially) before asking any of us out. During your hustle or struggle days don’t be in any serious relationship.

Remember we women have nothing to lose. We got our Poosie to help us in any situation.

May God help you all

donbachi:
This is the reason why anytime i borrow money from my wife i
don't pay back...i even borrowed this morning.

pcguru1:
Scenario when you marry an unreasonable wife. But there are a lot of unreasonable women out there lol

Grupo:


Whether reasonable or unreasonable, the naija woman is trained to believe that her money belongs to her and while the man's money belongs to the immediate family.

My mom is a woman you could qualify as being reasonable. She is a civil servant and still in active service. My dad retired as a civil servant too. Growing up, I watched my mom "lend" money to my dad. Same money would be used for the upkeep of the whole family and my dad would pay back later.

African men are really underappreciated. Chai