Have you ever heard that yourwedding-night sexwill be even hotter if you cut yourself off before the big day? “Keeping the sense of specialness by hitting pause with sex before the big day can add mystery and added value to the act, as a sacred ritual,” explains Dr. Patti Britton, co-founder ofSexCoachU.com. “After all is said and done, your wedding day is not just another day with another round of sex.”But is putting a two-week or even month-long cease-fire to yoursex liferight for you? Read on to find out.“Couples may find that their self-imposed ‘dry spell’ helps increase their desire for their partner,and may encourage them to really want sex on their wedding night,” says Debra Herbenick, PhD, associate professor at Indiana University and author of The Coregasm Workout. “So, the primary advantage is to increase arousal. Forothers, it’s about reconnecting on anemotional or spiritual level.” Other brides-to-be report that removing one thing from their super-long to-do lists as they plan the wedding is a huge stress relief, Herbenick says.“Relax. Stop expectations for perfection, even in bed,” suggests Dr. Patti Britton.ShutterstockOn the flip side, a self-imposed sex break can put additional pressure on your wedding day. “Performance anxiety— about erections and orgasms — can affect both men and women, making them so anxiety-ridden that they cannot feel pleasure from sex,” warns Britton. “I always coach couples to take themselves off the pressure-cooker burner. Relax. Stop expectations for perfection, even in bed, and find joy, fun and humor if things don’t work well the first time.”If you’re still on the proverbial sex fence, have an honest chat with your fiancé. He may have strong feelings either way. “This really should be a mutual discussion and decision — nothing that someone puts on their partner, without their partner’s buy-in,” says Herbenick. “If a womanwants to try this, I’d encourage her tolet her fiancé know why this is important to her. Maybe she wants to reconnect in a special way on their wedding night. Maybe she wants to really increase their desire and arousal and have an unforgettable night. People can be sensitive about sex, so she should make sure he doesn’t feel undesirable or unattractive — in other words, it’s not him and it’s not a bad thing. In fact it’s the opposi

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You are back? Thank God.

Preshy561:
You are back? Thank God.

I love u baby girl am on ban I just hate naira land too much kids. now and work things.hows schl

Sex is overrated, it shouldn't be a factor - give it freely and gladly if you're willing.

Preshy561:
You are back? Thank God.

So you're Libra too ehn?

jakandeola:
I love u baby girl am on ban I just hate naira land too much kids. now and work things.hows schl

aww!!love you too Jacks.
sorry for the ban.
I have graduated.

omooba969:

So you're Libra too ehn?

Yeah. You are?

Preshy561:

Yeah.
You are?

Yup. Very funny sturvz about Libra.

Preshy561:

aww!!love you too Jacks.
sorry for the ban.
I have graduated.

gosh! I feel so happy for u queen am proud of u

omooba969:

Yup. Very funny sturvz about Libra.

woow!!Cool.
nice meeting you here.

jakandeola:
gosh! I feel so happy for u queen am proud of u

thanks so much Jacks.

Preshy561:

woow!!Cool.

nice meeting you here.

Same here, let's not derail the subject matter coz Op fit vex.

So what's your take on sex b4 marriage & in marriage, is there any difference really?

omooba969:


Same here, let's not derail the subject matter coz Op fit vex.

So what's your take on sex b4 marriage & in marriage, is there any difference really?

on the topic, what works for one may not work for another.
so,i'd rather say,to each their own.

Preshy561:

on the topic, what works for one may not work for another.
so,i'd rather say,to each their own.

My question was - what's your take on sex b4 marriage & in marriage, is there any difference really?

I quite understand that we all have preferences.

omooba969:


My question was - what's your take on sex b4 marriage & in marriage, is there any difference really?

I quite understand that we all have preferences.

nope,no much difference except the both parties are virgins.

Preshy561:

thanks so much Jacks.

I pray in nysc dey take u to west in Ogun Ibadan or Lagos cos DAT my base. so we hang out and visit shop rite. u cook ibo food for me lols. also cos I know have bad mind against Yoruba cos ur in owerri and Neva mix wit us to show we are nice.

jakandeola:
I pray in nysc dey take u to west in Ogun Ibadan or Lagos cos DAT my base. so we hang out and visit shop rite. u cook ibo food for me lols. also cos I know have bad mind against Yoruba cos ur in owerri and Neva mix wit us to show we are nice.

lol.

omooba969:


Same here, let's not derail the subject matter coz Op fit vex.

So what's your take on sex b4 marriage & in marriage, is there any difference really?

not at all!!! I believe after the wedding the couple should rest gist and hv fun until they r arose to hv sex,, not pressure themselves

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Calm down bro.

No sex until I'm very sure

omooba969:


Calm down bro.

tnx bro