dasparrow:


Well, what do you expect? Doesn't Nigerian society criminalize and jail homosexuals? At the end of the day, Nigerians are making things worse criminalizing gay people because it is heterosexuals that will suffer at the end of the day just like this lady is suffering now.

There is nothing worse than marrying someone who is not sexually, intimately or emotionally attracted to you. Such a marraige is doomed from the start. Since Nigerian society forces people to get married and same sex marraige is not legal, what option is left for homosexuals? Of course they will marry heterosexuals and then cheat on them and dump them eventually.

Anyway, what's my own? I am waiting for the day Nigerian bred men will stop sexually abusing children.

BlackManta:


Homophobic people are the ones putting pressure on gays to get married and stay undercover.

If you people allow gays the freedom to be true to themselves, we wont be having fake marriages.

Your homophobia is the reason why they pretend to be straight under the umbrella of marriage.

STOP HOMOPHOBIA if you dont want a closet gay to marry your sister.

Amberon:
I guess we should accept paedophilia then.

GavelSlam:
The internet is full of lies.

superlanny:
I still cannot understand why a man's anus will look attractive to another man. May God heal their brain's and eyes.

Atikusadvocate:


Does anyone’s anus look attractive? Maybe you should imagine being kissed and carassed by Justin Bieber or Mr Ibu then you may come close to knowing. Ask ladies what they see in men and look carefully, maybe you will also see it.

Akshow:
there's no consent in paedophilia. A minor is involved. What two consenting adults do in their bedroom shouldn't be ur headache

reingoff:

And who told you it isn't? What criteria did you use to include lgbt as sexual orientation and exclude pedophilia? Most of those engaged in pedophilia claim they are naturally attracted to children so what is your rationale for saying they are not included in sexual orientation? And lest I forget, we also have bestiality and incest, they should all be legalized too according to your logic

Kewtt:

Just wait and see.... How it makes front-page now it has!!

I don't want to shake any table yet...so I am gonna keep quiet .. if not I would have queried our NL landlord's sexual orientation.... But well gavelslam you can ask... I don't wanna be banned

BlackManta:


All these things you listed is not sexual orientations.

Do your research on google instead of basking in ignorance.

You dont know a single thing about sexuality.

superlanny:
I still cannot understand why a man's anus will look attractive to another man. May God heal their brain's and eyes.

Realname:


It's common knowledge he is gay

Are you just knowing ?

Akshow:
That's what you get when u criminalize homosexuals. That's what u get when you make them feel less human. That's what you get when you judge their lifestyle and keep reminding them they are the worst sinners.

They marry unsuspecting women to avoid ur judgement but still sleep around with men cos that there preference. Stop homophobia! It does a lot of damage to the society.

You will be surprised at the number of married men in Nigeria that are low key gay sleeping around and infecting their unsuspecting wives with diseases.

STOP HOMOPHOBIA! Let's avoid issues like this, its simple logic. Save our sis and daughters.

valx2:
I somehow agree with the OP. I marvel at the kind of love advances I receive on my Facebook inbox from my fellow men
and most of them are Nigerians.. There are much more gay Nigerian men living in Nigeria than you can ever imagine.

superlanny:
I still cannot understand why a man's anus will look attractive to another man. May God heal their brain's and eyes.

BlackManta:


Homophobic people are the ones putting pressure on gays to get married and stay undercover.

If you people allow gays the freedom to be true to themselves, we wont be having fake marriages.

Your homophobia is the reason why they pretend to be straight under the umbrella of marriage.

STOP HOMOPHOBIA if you dont want a closet gay to marry your sister.

reingoff:

I asked you a simple question, you that knows everything about sexuality, what criteria did you use to include homosexuality as a sexual orientation and exclude paedophila, incest and bestiality?

reingoff:

And who told you it isn't? What criteria did you use to include lgbt as sexual orientation and exclude pedophilia? Most of those engaged in pedophilia claim they are naturally attracted to children so what is your rationale for saying they are not included in sexual orientation? And lest I forget, we also have bestiality and incest, they should all be legalized too according to your logic

Auxtin85:


Go see Ayo of the Journalist hangout on TVC from here

reingoff:

Then incest should also be accepted if it's among two adults? A mom can decide to have sexual relations and marry her adult son? Likewise a father and adult daughter? Or two adult siblings? Will you shut up and stop promoting abominations!! Evil children of the devil

BlackManta:


Paedophilia and bestiality is a sexual orientation disorder.

The problem here is that you keep equating it with homosexuality and that is wrong.


The key question here is: why is pedophilia or bestiality not ethically equatable with homosexuality? The straightforward answer is that neither a minor nor an animal can consent. It isn’t that a child can’t produce the word, “yes,” or an animal can’t, um, enjoy the act of sex, but that those facts don’t make the encounter ethical. An inability to consent is not about being able to verbalize the word yes or no, but to understand and rationally decide whether or not to allow sex to happen. Neither an animal nor a minor can do that, whereas an adult person can. In short, pedophilia and zoophilia are sexual orientations disorders, cuz they can never be acted upon without harming someone.

Therefore, we should re-categorize these sexual orientations that should never be acted upon as “sexual orientation disorders,” and they should be treated as such. If pedophiliac or zoophiliac urges are indeed as biological and unchosen as hetero- or homosexuality, then we need to rethink our understanding of adults attracted to children as evil people. Do not mistake me, any person who acts on a sexual orientation disorder has, by definition, harmed someone and justice is necessary. But we need to understand that not finding a way to deal with—or, best of all, to cure—sexual orientation disorders condemns people to a lifetime of suffering.

This bright-line distinction between actionable and non-actionable sexual orientations will also help as we move forward into the brave new world of xenosexuality, or sexuality beyond our species. It’s not unbelievable to imagine responses to someone being sexually attracted to robots. And some cranky person with a large talk-radio audience will talk about how unnatural and bizarre and destructive that sexual orientation is. Instead of having the same fight for rights and acceptance over and over, it would be better to use the idea of informed consent to make a consistent definition to distinguish ethically permissible sexual orientations from harmful sexual orientation disorders.
Heterosexuality doesn’t quite seem to capture the sexual orientation of a human who is attracted to an artificial intelligence construct. But to say, “I’m a heterosexual” tells you that I like humans of the opposite gender of me .

Let’s say a genetically enhanced dolphin with a cybernetic voice box is capable of communicating “yes” or “no,” understands what an adult human is and what sex means (both definition and culturally), and groks the relationship implications of its decision (you live in the sea, I live on land, etc.). That super-intelligent cyborg-dolphin would meet the standards of personhood and the criteria of being able to meaningfully consent and reciprocate an adult human’s attraction. That means any consensual sexual relations would be ethical. Therefore, being attracted to uplifted cyborg-dolphins is indeed a sexual orientation.

I encourage you to use consent as a litmus-test against the permissibility of sexual orientations with which you are uncomfortable. How does it apply to polyamorous individuals? What about fetishes? How about incest? Unlike gut reactions or religious dogma, ethics demands we explain why something is wrong. Our future relationships depend on our ability to reason our way to what is right.

Akshow:
U are a coconut head idiot. When they ask u to read u will not read but will come online trying to sound intelligent. Who are you to dictate what two consenting adults should or shouldn't do ? Equating incest to homosexuality is lame and silly. Phuck off my mention pls

GavelSlam:
The internet is full of lies.

Kewtt:

Blood of Gazzuzz!!

reingoff:


So if I am to understand you and follow your logic, incest should also be legalized since it can occur between two consenting adults. A mom can decide to have sexual relations and marry her adult son? Likewise a father and adult daughter? Or two adult siblings? Please answer