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Help: Breaking Up A Distance Relationship -- Peacefully by AntiIncognito: 11:59pm On Sep 03, 2018 |
I'wd be brief. So.. We met during the last month in sch.. Fell in love.. Graduated, we stay in same town so we always saw each other weekly. 2months later I had a job and travelled out of town... Became a distance love thing.. Its been a year now, am losing it, shes still home doing a low income job.. I work in a far town away from home... The problem is: there love is dying on my own side, its really hard doing a distance love, shes still very into it but I want out.... Though we neva had sex, but we having plans to. So pls how do I let loose without hurting her, She has all a man needs in a woman but believe me the from my end has died... Shes seeing a future for us but I dont want, How do I let go... Peacefully |
Re: Help: Breaking Up A Distance Relationship -- Peacefully by milemimi93(m): 12:10am On Sep 04, 2018 |
Fvck her then dump her stylishly just like Miracle did to Nina. |
Re: Help: Breaking Up A Distance Relationship -- Peacefully by milemimi93(m): 12:12am On Sep 04, 2018 |
When I said dump her stylishly, I meant don't tell her you are over with. Just fvck her, leave. Blacklist her number, block her on your social networks and leave her to her feelings. When she can't have access to you, her feelings for you will die then she will go look for someone else. Bro don't waste your precious life on women.. |
Re: Help: Breaking Up A Distance Relationship -- Peacefully by AntiIncognito: 12:20am On Sep 04, 2018 |
milemimi93: Well.. Honestly she dont deserve the "Bleep and dump" thing, shes good at loving and spending for her man(me). But I dont just wana hurt her, I feel like just calling her and be like: [b]bae, I dont think this is working out for us any more[b/]…… but I just can't stant the pain she'll get |
Re: Help: Breaking Up A Distance Relationship -- Peacefully by nanauju(f): 12:20am On Sep 04, 2018 |
Op, That shit someone above u typed is the most ridiculous rubbish I've read in a long while. Why don't you tell her how you feel and end it, might take awhile for her to get over it but she will. Whatever the case, don't manipulate her feelings, end it and go your way peacefully 5 Likes |
Re: Help: Breaking Up A Distance Relationship -- Peacefully by IsaAbubaker: 12:24am On Sep 04, 2018 |
nanauju:Op Make sure you fuck_ that pussy and dump her silly ass. |
Re: Help: Breaking Up A Distance Relationship -- Peacefully by milemimi93(m): 12:27am On Sep 04, 2018 |
AntiIncognito: If she's good, why wanna brk up? You seeing someone else? What's with you and long distance rela? Our parents stayed in long distance rela in a time when there was only letter writing. And most letters take months to get to the receiver. Technology has made things easier for you. What happens to video calls? Call her up often. Go meet an elder to tell you what they did in their days to keep a long distance rela. I won't be glad if I discovered that you broke up with her. I love than part you said she spends on you. I need such girls in my life not leeches. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help: Breaking Up A Distance Relationship -- Peacefully by milemimi93(m): 12:31am On Sep 04, 2018 |
nanauju: So you called my write up "poo"? Didn't you read that part he said the girl is cheating on him with her ex? Women are all the same.. SMH |
Re: Help: Breaking Up A Distance Relationship -- Peacefully by nanauju(f): 12:41am On Sep 04, 2018 |
milemimi93: Cheating on him? No mention of any ex on this thread. I think you should read again 4 Likes |
Re: Help: Breaking Up A Distance Relationship -- Peacefully by milemimi93(m): 12:55am On Sep 04, 2018 |
nanauju: I guess he edited his post.. Now read my previous post I quoted him and tell me how you feel about that. And if that post rhymes with the first post |
Re: Help: Breaking Up A Distance Relationship -- Peacefully by nanauju(f): 1:21am On Sep 04, 2018 |
milemimi93: In ur first post, u told the op to fùck and dump the girl. In ur post whr u mentioned the op, u told him u won't be happy if he breaks up with her. I think this is the op's decision to make though. because the love has to be mutual for both of them, and if one person isn't feeling that way it's better to go separate ways in order to avoid hurting the one who is doing the loving alone |
Re: Help: Breaking Up A Distance Relationship -- Peacefully by Mr7gWIRELESS: 1:23am On Sep 04, 2018 |
Just be bold and tell her. You will be surprised she too has been contemplating it |
Re: Help: Breaking Up A Distance Relationship -- Peacefully by Mr7gWIRELESS: 1:26am On Sep 04, 2018 |
milemimi93:it's not worth it since the girl in question has not exhibited any sign of disloyalty. If he does what you advised, he will be making a monster out of the girl. These are actions that makes girls wild |
Re: Help: Breaking Up A Distance Relationship -- Peacefully by milemimi93(m): 1:27am On Sep 04, 2018 |
nanauju: My second post should show you that my first post was based on the op first post. His first post talked about his girl cheating. I don't support cheating. So now, I want you to edit that your post where you told the op sh!t about my post. |
Re: Help: Breaking Up A Distance Relationship -- Peacefully by milemimi93(m): 1:31am On Sep 04, 2018 |
Mr7gWIRELESS: Do I care if a girl is WILD or not? All I care about is how to add cents together and make a dollar. |
Re: Help: Breaking Up A Distance Relationship -- Peacefully by nanauju(f): 1:38am On Sep 04, 2018 |
milemimi93: Take your grievances to the op for editing his post or you can as well force me to edit mine. I'm not a superhuman that should know what op first posted and how it relates to your comments. I commented based on what I came and met. If you don't mind please, I don't engage in NL fights and rants, hence my signature. Do excuse me! |
Re: Help: Breaking Up A Distance Relationship -- Peacefully by sweetilicious(f): 6:20am On Sep 04, 2018 |
milemimi93:Stop all this preaching. Allow him to experience life and mark the result. That's what is done to a stubborn kid.Op leave that girl alone.You will be a mistake she will regret in future. Or better still,delete her on every social media let her get it. Your type will run in circles all your life because of immaturity. And no woman needs such men because emotional road is far.You will keep wanting more till you give her diseases. Emotionally unstable people are the worst to marry.When things are not going well,they tend to loose control,accuse somebody, dip their third leg into any hole just to feel good and by then,get diseases and spread it on to their wife and others. Let her be.Mbok |
Re: Help: Breaking Up A Distance Relationship -- Peacefully by sweetilicious(f): 7:04am On Sep 04, 2018 |
Mr7gWIRELESS:Its irrelevant for people to turn wide. |
Re: Help: Breaking Up A Distance Relationship -- Peacefully by Nobody: 7:32am On Sep 04, 2018 |
Stop Playing GOD and leave. daht y i love trump |
Re: Help: Breaking Up A Distance Relationship -- Peacefully by Nobody: 8:11am On Sep 04, 2018 |
you don't have to break it off, give it some time. just because the love grew cold dosent mean it's no longer there. you could make out time to spend some time together and talk about your feelings , it would do the magic. long distance relationships has it's advantages. and I would never give up a distance relationship for a closer one. best of luck. |
Re: Help: Breaking Up A Distance Relationship -- Peacefully by milemimi93(m): 9:00am On Sep 04, 2018 |
nanauju: Next time learn not to judge people by the page you walked into their lives.. Scurvy B! |
Re: Help: Breaking Up A Distance Relationship -- Peacefully by AntiIncognito: 7:07am On Sep 05, 2018 |
milemimi93: Thanks a lot for being concerned.. But u see my friend, shes nursing this belief and having fantacies of we being together in the future, but truth be told I dont wana marry her.. I never did fell that much in love with her, we were just friends that stepped it a bit further.. So instead of wasting her time with the love thing why not end it in time.. But am afraid she might do somthing stupid, cos this girls love is a 101% |
Re: Help: Breaking Up A Distance Relationship -- Peacefully by AntiIncognito: 7:12am On Sep 05, 2018 |
nanauju: I never did edited my post.. His advise is to Bleep and dump her which I can't do Thanks for ur words anyway |
Re: Help: Breaking Up A Distance Relationship -- Peacefully by nanauju(f): 10:45am On Sep 07, 2018 |
AntiIncognito: Alright.. Just follow what your heart says, its actually the right thing,so that u don't turn her to a bítch and then the next guy suffers for it |
Re: Help: Breaking Up A Distance Relationship -- Peacefully by nanauju(f): 10:47am On Sep 07, 2018 |
elyna: There's no need. He said he never fell much in love with her |
Re: Help: Breaking Up A Distance Relationship -- Peacefully by Nobody: 10:56am On Sep 07, 2018 |
Op, Believe me when I type this, you will miss her, you may end up regretting your decision. You are distracted. that's the deal. However, be kind enough to break up with her face to face. Don't have sex with her, just do it maturely and leave. But trust me a woman like her is hard to come by these days. |
Re: Help: Breaking Up A Distance Relationship -- Peacefully by AntiIncognito: 10:11pm On Sep 07, 2018 |
MariaLavina: You are right bro.. I actually have missed her to the brim such that I no longer feel it no more.. And yes,, its hard to find one like her, but what's the point of staying in the relationship wen I know I dont want a future for us... It hurts so much to loose her! |
Re: Help: Breaking Up A Distance Relationship -- Peacefully by AntiIncognito: 10:14pm On Sep 07, 2018 |
MariaLavina: You are right bro.. I actually have missed her to the brim such that I no longer feel it no more.. And yes,, its hard to find one like her, but what's the point of staying in the relationship wen I know I dont want a future for us... It hurts so much to loose her! |
Re: Help: Breaking Up A Distance Relationship -- Peacefully by Nobody: 6:51pm On Sep 08, 2018 |
AntiIncognito:You don't want a future with her? Why? If I may ask. Is another lady pregnant for you? I'm a lady BTW, not brother. |
Re: Help: Breaking Up A Distance Relationship -- Peacefully by AntiIncognito: 1:09am On Sep 09, 2018 |
MariaLavina: Well.. One major reason is:... Shes older than I am |
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