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80% Of Young Girls In My Sec School Were Sexually Harassed By Nigerian Men / What Big Aunties Did To Us!! / These Eye-opening Stories By Men Who Were Sexually Assaulted Need To Be Heard (2) (3) (4)
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Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by otottootooto: 3:00pm On Sep 05, 2018 |
hmmmmm |
Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by funstufz(m): 3:02pm On Sep 05, 2018 |
hmmm... What else is left... 2 Likes |
Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by luckygeee: 3:12pm On Sep 05, 2018 |
zinnyzee:now u know 3 Likes |
Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by Fourwinds: 3:19pm On Sep 05, 2018 |
QueenSekxy:just imagine...who is arguing with u and u have become defensive.... these are people that just stated what happened to them when they were young... everybody knows is vice verse but these ones are least reported.... 19 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by Nobody: 3:19pm On Sep 05, 2018 |
luckygeee:Yeah. |
Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by luckygeee: 3:21pm On Sep 05, 2018 |
zinnyzee:have you molested any young child before? talk true make devil shame. you have looked at and played with their winky before. 7 Likes |
Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by Nobody: 3:23pm On Sep 05, 2018 |
luckygeee:Shut up. 3 Likes |
Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by Fourwinds: 3:26pm On Sep 05, 2018 |
QueenSekxy: zinnyzee( f ): 2:45pm Heh... This is a new one on me. I always thought the molestation and abuses were one sided. This is an eye-opener. |
Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by luckygeee: 3:27pm On Sep 05, 2018 |
zinnyzee:well at least you have learnt that you will be destroying that little boy's life so stop playing with his winky while bathing him 11 Likes |
Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by Nobody: 3:27pm On Sep 05, 2018 |
A friend of mine( a guy) was molested by their maids. they had 3 of them and they all used to take turns to molest him, and he was 6 when it started until he left for boarding school at 11. he was molested for 5 years. too many sexually frustrated humans. 15 Likes |
Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by Fourwinds: 3:29pm On Sep 05, 2018 |
nelsonebby:she must have been pregnant out of wedlock 1 Like |
Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by Nobody: 3:29pm On Sep 05, 2018 |
luckygeee:Shut it already, ass-hole. 6 Likes |
Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by luckygeee: 3:45pm On Sep 05, 2018 |
zinnyzee:hmmmmm ass hole, i guess thats where you like touching the little boy 24 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by Kwonder(m): 3:45pm On Sep 05, 2018 |
eosigwe:You're the Epitome of Stupidity 19 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by Nobody: 3:59pm On Sep 05, 2018 |
luckygeee:Enough of this please.... It's sickening, not a thing to joke about. 3 Likes |
Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by luckygeee: 4:06pm On Sep 05, 2018 |
zinnyzee:its ok, was just kidding, at least Nigerians are more enlightened that such social vice against the vulnerable little male children does exist and should be kicked against |
Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by odinmachi: 4:06pm On Sep 05, 2018 |
arthurwillia:drop contact |
Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by luckygeee: 4:08pm On Sep 05, 2018 |
odinmachi:what do u gain by watching porn, it only heightens your crave for sex and masturbation 9 Likes |
Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by SirToothBrush: 4:19pm On Sep 05, 2018 |
I think there was a thread about male molestation last year. Men have always been abused as children more than the female folk. I had my first party at the age of 6 or eight. It's not that I knew what I was doing then until I was 11 years 14 Likes |
Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by SirToothBrush: 4:20pm On Sep 05, 2018 |
ndy87:lol wait av just seen this post lol ndy87:the experience seem so similar to mine. |
Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by Nobody: 4:21pm On Sep 05, 2018 |
Warning! Long post alert! Men get molested, and we hide it because it's either unbelievable or sounds ridiculous. My life as a kid until adulthood wasn't funny at all. First, it was the neighbor's housemaid, I was about 7 at that time and my parents were busy with work so I had to stay at my neighbor's house after school till our house maid is back from school. One day I went there, the maid called me into the kid's room and took away my clothes, made me lay down and did things I didn't understand as a child. It was confusing, and I really didn't understand what she was doing but I remember she was on top of me unclad swinging back and forth. This continued after a while, then I told mom. She didn't understand me, so I stopped going there myself and our maid told my mom she met me outside when she came back from school. I guess this made her believe me, so I had to wait in school then. Then I was molested again by my own friend f4cking best friend turned gay! I was 10 then, and my friend was 6 years older. He was enrolled in a boarding school, I guess he learned the shit from there. When he came back he would always come to the house as usual when I noticed when we play, he touched my genitals and I wasn't comfortable with it. One day I went to his house, he was alone and locked up the place, said he wants to show me something in the room and I followed him. He went to the kitchen and brought a knife, told me to take off all my clothes or he will stab me. I was like haha very funny and he started swinging the knife and told me he joined a cult group and I shouldn't dare him. I was scared as fvck, took my clothes off with speed, he ordered me to lay on the bed and started the thing (can't go into detail cause it makes me sick) but I cried so much. Then after it he was like don't worry, you will start enjoying it soon. So I stopped going to his house but he kept coming to my house and I would lock my self inside the room and my dad will come knocking that my friend is here and I should come out. Then he started begging me that his not in any cult group, but was attracted to him. I didn't care to listen to him! So one day he came with a fancy toy and told my Lil bro he got it for him, but won't give it to him unless I followed him home. So my Lil bro asked me to go get the toy for him and I refused so he started crying, I couldn't tell him what was going on. He was very little at that time and wanted his toy, so I agreed to go, but my plan was to take the toy and fight with my friend if he tried anything stupid , so I went with my brother (my friend lives across the street) but when we got there he insisted I come in alone or he won't give it to me. My brother was like okay I'm going home . So I went in and he locked the door, I asked him for the toy and he said he won't give it to me unless I let him touch me again, I said no!!! And headed for the door, he grabbed me and pushed me to the chair I tried pushing him off but he was very much stronger than I was. Long story short, he did it again, gave me to the toy, I went to him, gave it to Lil bro and he hugged me. I went into the room and cried seriously asking God to forgive me. But it didn't stop here, it continued for years until I got older and strong enough and fought him one day before it all ended. Up till now, I still haven't told my brother what really happened. Then again 3 years ago I was raped by my church group leader! I won't mention the church. This woman is married and older than my own mother! All her 3 kids are schooling in the UK! Her husband is a manager in one of the top oil companies ( Name withheld). At my workplace, I was working in the customer care sector and meet clients daily. Lots of sugar mummy's wanted me to be there son, some told me directly others where hiding about it but opened up later. This woman was just good to me and at the same time always preaching to me about Jesus so I didn't suspect her in any way. She invited me to her church because I just moved to the state recently and didn't have a church at that time. So I started worshipping at her church, so one day she invited me to her house fellowship and I went, after the fellowship she asked me to wait behind so I could help her tidy the place and I did before I left she gave me 4k for TP, I refused but she insisted so I took it. I kept going for house fellowship every week and she always gave me TP (4k, 6k, 10k). Every time I asked her why she gave me so much just for transport, she will say she's encouraging me because she knew I wasn't earning much. So one day I went for house fellowship, as usual, I stayed behind to arrange the place, then took the plates to the kitchen. I noticed someone walk into the kitchen and turned off the light I was like, ma did you off the light? She said yes. I said okay... But I'm still using it, she didn't answer me and kept walking close to me then suddenly hugged me. I just stood, and was like ma is there any problem, she said no! And kept hugging me. After a while she let me go and I rushed off the kitchen and started gathering my stuff to go home. But when I wanted to open the door, I noticed it was locked! I searched for the keys and it wasn't where it supposed to be. I started calling for her and told her I couldn't find the keys, she said she kept it in her daughter's room I should go there and take it. I went there to look for it but couldn't find the keys, so I told her and she said she's coming to get it but she didn't come out, she was inside her room and refused to answer me. I stood there thinking of what to do next, then my girlfriend started calling me! I told her I just left the fellowship and she was shouting at me that it's almost 11 pm and I'm not back yet, I pleaded with her that we had a meeting blah blah blah. I ended the calling and started calling madam to come open her door let me go home for christ sake. The woman no gree, I called my roommate and told him the situation of things and he told me not to worry, I shouldn't answer my girlfriends call again, he will call her and tell her my phone was stolen and they beat me up but I'm home sleeping. I was there waiting in the sitting room till past twelve before she opened the door almost unclad and was smiling at me. At this moment I was already angry asked her to open the door let me go and she started shouting at me before I knew it she slapped me! And my body went cold instantly. She said I should forget about going home today except I do what she says. Then the next minute she started begging me that she's sorry, she's lonely and needed someone to talk to. I couldn't say anything, as she was begging her hands were already going inside my Jeans. I was like Ma please I beg you in the name of God please stop let me go. I started preaching to her that she's married and this is evil the woman stood up and started crying that she's sorry it's the devil's hand work. At that point, I thought everything was fine but I need to leave immediately! She told me the key is in her child's room and where to get it. I didn't trust going into that room alone, but I went anyway, the key wasn't where she said it was. And I as I was about leaving the room to go tell her, she's already at the door, then walked in and closed the door. She told me I can't go, and she hasn't had sex in a long time, so If I don't want her to tell her husband I raped her I should allow her do what she wants or she will call her husband and scream on the phone. My eyes flashed before my eyes again, I tried talking to her again and she started calling him on the phone and put it on speaker phone so I can see she's not playing about it. I thought of going to prison and losing my job and worse ending up in the news. Then I accepted on the condition we use protection, she already had everything with her, even a lubricant! Then I knew she planned the whole thing. The sad truth is at that time I was still a virgin and never had sex with a woman. Again sorry for the long post, but before you ask what's the name of this movie I really don't care if you believe it or not! And if you think it has no physiological effect then you're very wrong. I'm very withdrawn and find it extremely difficult to trust anyone. I have no friends! I don't ever near a church or want to hear anything about churches. (she attends a big church and I see her on TV sometimes singing praises). The moment I see an older woman I look at you in disgust, and before you say anything I'm already hating you. It's been years and I'm battling depression, so I need sleeping pills to sleep properly. At some point, I turned to drugs and later stopped because of its effects physiologically. Being forced against your will to have sex is rape! And men get raped too and I don't think it's fun when it's a woman your mother's age and if that's a fantasy for you then you need to get your brain examined. 123 Likes 31 Shares |
Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by Nobody: 4:21pm On Sep 05, 2018 |
luckygeee:You had this sense, yet you were acting like a gigolo just minutes ago? Actually, I for one never thought such things do happen... But then, human minds can be damn creative when it comes to masterminding evil. 2 Likes |
Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by ecstasy357(m): 4:23pm On Sep 05, 2018 |
I don't feel comfortable sharing 3 Likes |
Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by luckygeee: 4:26pm On Sep 05, 2018 |
ecstasy357:please do, its a faceless forum and you could be letting the world know that this evil practice does exist |
Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by ecstasy357(m): 4:34pm On Sep 05, 2018 |
toyflare: I'm sorry bro. I used to think that I was unique. Stories like this are so difficult to tell. 25 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by Nobody: 4:57pm On Sep 05, 2018 |
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Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by luckygeee: 5:28pm On Sep 05, 2018 |
ndy87:do you know anyone who was sexually molested as a little boy? |
Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by Nobody: 5:33pm On Sep 05, 2018 |
luckygeee: yes, by 3 maids one after the other. he was 6years old when it started and only stopped when he was 11 because he left for boarding school. |
Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by Nobody: 5:36pm On Sep 05, 2018 |
SirToothBrush: all right! I hope you are fine. 1 Like |
Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by Arthurwinner(m): 5:46pm On Sep 05, 2018 |
I got molested too |
Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by killsmith(f): 5:53pm On Sep 05, 2018 |
eosigwe:you just exhibited a rare type of foolishness. 13 Likes 4 Shares |
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