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80% Of Young Girls In My Sec School Were Sexually Harassed By Nigerian Men / What Big Aunties Did To Us!! / These Eye-opening Stories By Men Who Were Sexually Assaulted Need To Be Heard (2) (3) (4)
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Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by Adakintroy: 12:28am On Sep 06, 2018 |
MISEDUCATIONS: Wait men. This is not even a male topic ok. This is a feminine topic. For a start. I have dealt with crazier stuffs in my life tHan me loosing my virginity to a woman. I have long pass that point. Their are many issues like rent, job happiness and relationship to tinker on I only joined the conversation because it had happened to me once. Surely you get the point. People get injured and the wound heal that is life. Poke that place all you want you won't hear a scream. That's why they call it healing. 7 Likes |
Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by blingxx(m): 12:29am On Sep 06, 2018 |
meanwhile I was 6yrs when my parent bought me this doll she sexually molested me for months before I decided to rip her head off 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by Injiggerwolf(m): 12:29am On Sep 06, 2018 |
All these stories are real and still happening, I believe we should start projecting more on child molestation- for both sex, and seek out relevant & lasting remedies to such. ..... Parents will have to play a significant role here to combat it 2 Likes |
Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by nairalanduseles: 12:31am On Sep 06, 2018 |
yeye men me i loved every moment of it 2 Likes |
Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by dasparrow: 12:31am On Sep 06, 2018 |
Nigeria: A nation crawling with pedophiles and rapists. Nigerians will know no peace until they stop sexually abusing children. This applies to both male and female pedophiles and child molesters. 3 Likes |
Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by MISEDUCATIONS: 12:32am On Sep 06, 2018 |
Adakintroy:its not about you losing your virginity to a woman. its about you being raped as a boy. just coz it was easy sex doesnt mean it was OK. you were a young boy what if she gave you HIV/AIDS? would you still be celebrating the sex act? 8 Likes |
Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by MISEDUCATIONS: 12:32am On Sep 06, 2018 |
dasparrow:its everywhere. im from Zimbabwe and even that happened to me 10 Likes |
Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by Adakintroy: 12:33am On Sep 06, 2018 |
MISEDUCATIONS: He healed me..made me whole. You know as though it had never happened. 2 Likes |
Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by MISEDUCATIONS: 12:35am On Sep 06, 2018 |
nairalanduseles:in America a lady raped a boy and became pregnant, when the boy became a working man his salary started getting child support deductions to support that child. its fun until such things happen to you. 5 Likes |
Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by MISEDUCATIONS: 12:36am On Sep 06, 2018 |
Adakintroy:is that the advice you can give to female rape victims? 1 Like |
Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by sweetilicious(f): 12:36am On Sep 06, 2018 |
Kimcutie:Oh my God! |
Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by MISEDUCATIONS: 12:38am On Sep 06, 2018 |
GOOD NIGHT.... |
Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by Nobody: 12:38am On Sep 06, 2018 |
nwanneni: He füùcked an older woman against his wishes! Are u okay? Do you think it's funny when someone tells you to have sex with them or they make an allegation of rape against you? Do you have a working brain? GTFOH !! 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by anyimontana(m): 12:38am On Sep 06, 2018 |
blingxx:its past midnite bro,Its not normal for me to laugh to dis 1 Like |
Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by otherway: 12:42am On Sep 06, 2018 |
eosigwe: I totally agree with you. I happen to be an extremely good looking guy and all my life I have been "molested" even till my 40s but I don't understand the correlation between loss of sexuality and being molested especially for a guy. Just two years ago one lady was just using me as a intimacy gadget but me sef just commot face. At 17 I was practically raped by a calabar girl, at 19 ladies will just come to me and just find a way to get me laid and I will even enter my room in my uni days and see naked girl in my bed,at 21 two sistas wanted to tear me apart,at 25 two ladues were taking their turn on me on a regular basis not mentioning rape threats and so on. I can't continue to write all the funny experience I had and even till date in my mid 40s i still run from ladies who just want to take advantage but it has never affected my sex life. 12 Likes |
Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by Nobody: 12:43am On Sep 06, 2018 |
If i were raped by a woman that looks like Eniola Badmus i will be emotionally scarred for life but lf the woman looks like daniella okeke.. I have no reason to be traumatised. 4 Likes |
Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by VeeVeeMyLuv(m): 12:43am On Sep 06, 2018 |
Funny enough this females will hardly give it to adult male 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by Adakintroy: 12:43am On Sep 06, 2018 |
MISEDUCATIONS: Now listen friend before you back me up against the wall like we are going toe to toe with one another. We are men. That means we are the stronger of the two species. Mentally emotionally, psychologically and spiritually. It's a fact. If you read my initial post, I wrote how we have always shielded them. It's because I knew they are capable of what we are capable off. They are weak. Not because they do it, But because they hardly ever admitt. Instead they make us look like the only monster in the play. That's why I said its OK for this event to pup up every now so often so we look ourselves in the eye to judge. Not unto condemnation, but in the truth that everyone is capable of mutual weakness. Because maybe then the right humility will come. We are not going to chestise anyone yet..seeing that both parties are capable of similar feats. 2 Likes |
Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by Nobody: 12:46am On Sep 06, 2018 |
dasparrow: Exactly. We have many pedophiles and rapists. They won't go after people hurting innocents people that can't give consent, but once you mention two grown people of same sex that can give consent ehh, see them coming to preach to you. What a hypocritical nation!! 3 Likes |
Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by tomdon(m): 12:47am On Sep 06, 2018 |
eosigwe: No mind them. They have ED. I am vehemently opposed to defiling a girl child. But men coming to talk about depression because of toto as a boy. Nonsense. They're mad!!! 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by johnhood(m): 12:49am On Sep 06, 2018 |
[quote author=toyflare post=70929349]Warning! Long post alert! Men get molested, and we hide it because it's either unbelievable or sounds ridiculous. My life as a kid until adulthood wasn't funny at all. First, it was the neighbor's housemaid, I was about 7 at that time and my parents were busy with work so I had to stay at my neighbor's house after school till our house maid is back from school. One day I went there, the maid called me into the kid's room and took away my clothes, made me lay down and did things I didn't understand as a child. It was confusing, and I really didn't understand what she was doing but I remember she was on top of me unclad swinging back and forth. This continued after a while, then I told mom. She didn't understand me, so I stopped going there myself and our maid told my mom she met me outside when she came back from school. I guess this made her believe me, so I had to wait in school then. Then I was molested again by my own friend f4cking best friend turned gay! I was 10 then, and my friend was 6 years older. He was enrolled in a boarding school, I guess he learned the shit from there. When he came back he would always come to the house as usual when I noticed when we play, he touched my genitals and I wasn't comfortable with it. One day I went to his house, he was alone and locked up the place, said he wants to show me something in the room and I followed him. He went to the kitchen and brought a knife, told me to take off all my clothes or he will stab me. I was like haha very funny and he started swinging the knife and told me he joined a cult group and I shouldn't dare him. I was scared as fvck, took my clothes off with speed, he ordered me to lay on the bed and started the thing (can't go into detail cause it makes me sick) but I cried so much. Then after it he was like don't worry, you will start enjoying it soon. So I stopped going to his house but he kept coming to my house and I would lock my self inside the room and my dad will come knocking that my friend is here and I should come out. Then he started begging me that his not in any cult group, but was attracted to him. I didn't care to listen to him! So one day he came with a fancy toy and told my Lil bro he got it for him, but won't give it to him unless I followed him home. So my Lil bro asked me to go get the toy for him and I refused so he started crying, I couldn't tell him what was going on. He was very little at that time and wanted his toy, so I agreed to go, but my plan was to take the toy and fight with my friend if he tried anything stupid , so I went with my brother (my friend lives across the street) but when we got there he insisted I come in alone or he won't give it to me. My brother was like okay I'm going home . So I went in and he locked the door, I asked him for the toy and he said he won't give it to me unless I let him touch me again, I said no!!! And headed for the door, he grabbed me and pushed me to the chair I tried pushing him off but he was very much stronger than I was. Long story short, he did it again, gave me to the toy, I went to him, gave it to Lil bro and he hugged me. I went into the room and cried seriously asking God to forgive me. But it didn't stop here, it continued for years until I got older and strong enough and fought him one day before it all ended. Up till now, I still haven't told my brother what really happened. Then again 3 years ago I was raped by my church group leader! I won't mention the church. This woman is married and older than my own mother! All her 3 kids are schooling in the UK! Her husband is a manager in one of the top oil companies ( Name withheld). At my workplace, I was working in the customer care sector and meet clients daily. Lots of sugar mummy's wanted me to be there son, some told me directly others where hiding about it but opened up later. This woman was just good to me and at the same time always preaching to me about Jesus so I didn't suspect her in any way. She invited me to her church because I just moved to the state recently and didn't have a church at that time. So I started worshipping at her church, so one day she invited me to her house fellowship and I went, after the fellowship she asked me to wait behind so I could help her tidy the place and I did before I left she gave me 4k for TP, I refused but she insisted so I took it. I kept going for house fellowship every week and she always gave me TP (4k, 6k, 10k). Every time I asked her why she gave me so much just for transport, she will say she's encouraging me because she knew I wasn't earning much. So one day I went for house fellowship, as usual, I stayed behind to arrange the place, then took the plates to the kitchen. I noticed someone walk into the kitchen and turned off the light I was like, ma did you off the light? She said yes. I said okay.. Guy no vex oo when is part II coming out? 2 Likes |
Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by Adakintroy: 12:49am On Sep 06, 2018 |
MISEDUCATIONS: Has jailing the offenders even for a lifetime healed anyone? |
Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by Nobody: 12:49am On Sep 06, 2018 |
tomdon: Shebi you go marry born pikin, both boys and girls! May they be severely raped and molested by friends and family!! 3 Likes |
Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by otherway: 12:52am On Sep 06, 2018 |
Arondizuogu: Very hypocritical. |
Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by otherway: 1:07am On Sep 06, 2018 |
ndy87: Many ladies are sexually frustrated even the very attractive ones. I won't forget the one I experienced 2 years ago. She is a 37year old lady,pretty with a backside that will turn a man's head. Her hubby dey abroad and she found me very attractive so she approached me stylishly but when I realized she is married I said NEVER. Then she begged me to just massage her body and finger her even if I won't make love to her and I still refused. The day she told me she hasn't been laid for over 4years I felt a strong pity but not enough to make me commit adultery. But surprisingly,her husband died and she had to travel to mourn him but when she came back she came with full force. To cut the story short,yes with my consent but totally against my will and desire she really molested "raped" took advantage and in fact she made me her intimacy gadget and will just use me whenever and however and I was like... 4 Likes
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Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by akdjr(m): 1:18am On Sep 06, 2018 |
I was molested at 25 |
Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by otherway: 1:30am On Sep 06, 2018 |
AdaAde: I love your outward natural beauty. 2 Likes |
Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by flexyrule(m): 1:32am On Sep 06, 2018 |
MISEDUCATIONS:This got me cracking out loud!!! 1 Like |
Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by Queenserah26(f): 1:38am On Sep 06, 2018 |
Odikwa serious o 1 Like |
Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by Nobody: 1:41am On Sep 06, 2018 |
grossintel:happy with his life? How did he get close to the woman in the first place?it's the peanuts the woman was throwing at him that brought them close,doesn't sound like he was doing OK to me. Now when the floodgates opened,what did he do?chickened out. You don't get anywhere in life by being a fool. I guess you are another inferior man! 2 Likes |
Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by Nobody: 1:45am On Sep 06, 2018 |
Arondizuogu:it's not ok,but he whining about it is my problem in his shit.talking about depression bla bla bla.... I despise weakness and lack of strong will.if you are like him,please do change or travel to the USA. Inferior men! 3 Likes |
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