jonathanOz:
See fuc.k up! Just kill her now you still have time. Poison her simple

milemimi93:
Do nothing.

That's her way of life.

There is freedom of expression (emotional and physical).

Allow her to live her life.

Live yours.

Kolombz:
You just advise people to do something you won't do if you were in their shoes.It is people like you who make a bad friend.
So if you were to discover that your son/daughter is into homosexual acts, You will do nothing but allow her to live her life while you go about yours because there is freedom of expression?To think that homosexuality is frown at in our society even makes your comment more unrealistic and stupid.

milemimi93:


Homosexuality is been frown at?

Is it worst than ritualists and killing fellow humans that is going on in your society everyday?


Bro/sis, if I have a child and he/she engages in such act, the best I can do is to tell him/her the side effect of it then leave him/her to do what pleases.

For fvck sake u won't be with your child 24/7.

I grew up to realized that children whose parents were so strict when it comes to sexual matters like keeping boyfriend/girlfriend ended up doing the worse. Most of them returned home with unwanted pregnancies.

Kolombz:
To answer your first question,Homosexual practices is frowned at in our society.It runs foul to our cultural values.That explicate the law passed by our government which probihit homosexual practices.
There is no need comparing homosexuality with ritual killing because they are both punishable by the law in this country.
In response to your last statement,You told you that parenting has to be strict when it comes to sexual matters?.Sex education can be communicated to a teenager in an amicable and cooperative manner.That most of our parents are strict in that regards does not give the right to jump into hasty generalization that all our parents are strict in sexual matters.That is a fallacy
Your last three statements just exposed your slapdash and distorted approach to how parenting should done.
Pls do well to jettison this shallow minded approach for the sake of your unborn children to prevent stories that touch in the future.
Gracias.

IamLEGEND1:
You have no idea how ironic your last sentence is.
You, the guy who doesn't see anything wrong in forcing everyone to conform to your idea of what is right or wrong.

I could be describing ISIS with that last sentence and it'll fit perfectly. so, what does that say about you?

Kolombz:
To answer your first question,Homosexual practices is frowned at in our society.

Yes it's frowned at. But more frowned at than ritual killings. Ritual killings is almost like a normal thing in Nigeria today

It runs foul to our cultural values.That explicate the law passed by our government which probihit homosexual practices.


There is no need comparing homosexuality with ritual killing because they are both punishable by the law in this country.

people's reactions towards homosexuality and ritual killings in Nigeria is very different making the former looks more worse than the latter.

In response to your last statement,You told you that parenting has to be strict when it comes to sexual matters?.

Read my post again. I never said parenting has to be strict. I only said "children whose parents were strict"

Sex education can be communicated to a teenager in an amicable and cooperative manner.

Unfortunately most African parents don't educate their children on sex. 70% of African children know about sex from their peers and watching movies. Make research you’ll see that most African mothers do not talk about mensuration with their daughters before those children start experiencing it. Some get to know from friends while some, on their first day of mensuration it was a surprised to them


That most of our parents are strict in that regards does not give the right to jump into hasty generalization that all our parents are strict in sexual matters.

read my post again. This time slowly.
I said "CHILDREN WHOSE PARENTS WERE STRICT WHEN IT COMES TO SEXUAL MATTERS"
I don't see how that statement means "all parents"

That is a fallacy
Your last three statements just exposed your slapdash and distorted approach to how parenting should done.
Pls do well to jettison this shallow minded approach for the sake of your unborn children to prevent stories that touch in the future.
Gracias.

naijanewstv:
My dearest, please don't allow water swallow your fellow woman. My daughter is in her SS2, they are the one to get into SS3 once school resumes.

She has a phone and 2 days ago, I almost caught stroke where I was going through her phone. I sent her to buy me some toiletries at the super market down the road and her phone was in her room charging. When she left, it started ringing and I went to pick up the Call, it was one of her school mates.

So I told her to call her back. The phone wasn't on password. What made me start assessing the phone was her fine profile picture, how beautiful it was.

I opened the gallery and saw hell. N!aked v!agina, lesb!an videos.Her and her friends snapped n!aked . I felt I have failed on my part.

Help me on what to do ? She is 15 years. Should I stop her from boarding because her school have day student who go and return home. It's just paying for school bus which will cost me 55k per month.

I am finished. I have ceased the phone, what else should I do ?

SOURCE: https://www.naijanewstv.com.ng/2018/09/my-15-year-old-daughter-is-practicing-lesbianism.html

jonathanOz:
See fuc.k up! Just kill her now you still have time. Poison her simple

IamLEGEND1:

I am a Nigerian and I have seen a group of 30 yearly old men publicly beat a 6 year old to within an inch of his life for handling things with his left hand. why? because culture.

milemimi93:



Homosexuality is been frown at?
Is it worst than ritualists and killing fellow humans that is going on in your society everyday?



Bro/sis, if I have a child and he/she engages in such act, the best I can do is to tell him/her the side effect of it then leave him/her to do what pleases.

For fvck sake u won't be with your child 24/7.

I grew up to realized that children whose parents were so strict when it comes to sexual matters like keeping boyfriend/girlfriend ended up doing the worse. Most of them returned home with unwanted pregnancies.

milemimi93:
Do nothing.
That's her way of life.
There is freedom of expression (emotional and physical).
Allow her to live her life.
Live yours.

consultancy:
First, let her stop schooling in totality. This is to show her your disapproval with her way of life and give you ample time to monitor her closely while she undergoes rehabilitation under you. At 15, she is not damaged yet, you can still redeem her if you play your motherly roles right. Goodluck

chukxie:
Dear Op:
Ignore the first and second commenters. Now back to the matter. Lesbianism is rampant in boarding schools for girls as are covet homosexuality acts in boarding schools for boys. Your daughter's quite young, naive and susceptible to vices that may appear appealing to her, but in fact are detrimental to her overall wellbeing. As a father with a four year old daughter these are my suggestions to you.
1: Aporoach your daughter with love; and talk to her about the dangers of the path she's begun to thread on. Hold her hands gently while talking with her. Don't be too stern while talking to her.

2: Tell her you understand she's at her period of puberty. Tell her it's normal for her Hermes to start acting up at this stage of her life. If possible talk about your own puberty stage, and how your managed it.

3: Don't tell and scream at her because doing so might push her further away from you. Show some degree of empathy.

4: Delete all the indecent photos on her phone, then take the phone from her. If it's possible buy her a normal grandma's phone.

5: Visit her at school, and invite her partner for some pep talk.

6: Prayerfully commit your daughter into God's hands.

All the best, ma'am. And good luck to your daughter. She's going be fine.

Wiseandtrue:
Spare the rod and spoil the child!

Cane sometimes work wonders!!

When next she sees L she won't even wait to read the remaining

Punish her but not in anger! Let her know what she did was wrong

Many boarding schools these days are initiation centres! Some of these students from good homes are forced or intimidated into joining these groups

Pull her out of the school ASAP if you can

Whatever it may be Erase the idea of boarding from your mind completely !!!

Prayer is also VERY IMPORTANT!

I don't know what you do for a living whatever it is your daughter needs more attention now less you lose her to this modern age immorality!!!