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80% Of Young Girls In My Sec School Were Sexually Harassed By Nigerian Men / What Big Aunties Did To Us!! / These Eye-opening Stories By Men Who Were Sexually Assaulted Need To Be Heard (2) (3) (4)
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Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by Wisedove(m): 5:34am On Sep 06, 2018 |
80% of boys who are left in the care of a girl are been molested but just 5 percent of them tell people about it. I am saying this here because this is a faceless forum . My mum usually leave me in the care of a particular girl 4-6 years older than me I guess right from day one, she was the one that started taking care of me from birth, she's the one doing everything (bathing,feeding etc) because she loved me from birth ....i think around 6-9 she started doing a quickie on me in the bathroom. She's married with kids already. This is the first time I'm letting this out. A lot of men had similar experience back in the day 8 Likes |
Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by Crenzywilliams(m): 5:36am On Sep 06, 2018 |
toyflare:So sorry bru...yours is truly unique...I completely get you, it takes strength to go thru what you’ve been thru. I was also molested by an uncle when I was 7 and a much elder gal when I was 11-13... the babe even got pregnant and put the blame on me...big man pikin na, she b feel say she don hamet. to be honest, it has really affected every aspect of my life till this day, am so withdrawn and have no support group, ppl don’t know what to make of me, cos am a loner, I trust no one, and I don’t like ppl... I tend to see the world from my distorted view... But, I think you seriously need some Counseling man. You need to find someone you can confide in, pls don’t stop going to church, it helps me a lot, believing the words of the Bible has been a sure source of strength for me... Long story short, padi, sorry man...you’ve been thru a lot. 6 Likes |
Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by Kewtt: 5:36am On Sep 06, 2018 |
Wisedove:Your mum doing a quickie on you?
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Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by Kewtt: 5:38am On Sep 06, 2018 |
Crenzywilliams:How's the child now? |
Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by Wisedove(m): 5:44am On Sep 06, 2018 |
Kewtt:Do you even know how to read at all? Go over it again 18 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by Crenzywilliams(m): 5:44am On Sep 06, 2018 |
Boys get raped too, not just by other guys but by ladies too...I was, and I am deeply touched by some of the stories I have read here... some so crazy but yet unique. It’s such a crazy world, 1 Like |
Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by Dreyl(m): 5:49am On Sep 06, 2018 |
cococandy:Loretta will you keep on ignoring my mentions forever ![]() |
Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by Crenzywilliams(m): 5:51am On Sep 06, 2018 |
Kewtt:Was aborted, after much talk, fights and beatings Igot from my parents. It was the pregnancy that ended everything, and I think I still resist my parents for the beating, cos they didn’t even know the full story, she even said I raped her, came with her gran mama to make some trouble... 2 Likes |
Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by gaby(m): 5:54am On Sep 06, 2018 |
Meanwhile some of these aunties are here reading our stories o.. 7 Likes |
Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by Crenzywilliams(m): 5:55am On Sep 06, 2018 |
Kewtt:Was aborted, after much talk, fights and beatings I got from my parents. It was the pregnancy that ended everything, and I think I still resist my parents for the beating, cos they didn’t even know the full story, she even said I raped her, came with her gran mama to make some trouble... I keep it all within, how am I suppose to tell anyone how I was made to suck co*k when I was just 7? |
Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by Kewtt: 5:55am On Sep 06, 2018 |
Crenzywilliams:Your first born.. . take heart |
Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by Nobody: 5:56am On Sep 06, 2018 |
Hmm It took a similar thread sometime ago to make me realize the damage that was done to me. I was a serial victim, looking back now , I wonder why I was a target, I do have good looks but what's sexually attractive about a minor? .I First experience. I was 4 or thereabout. KG 2 or 3, Aunty E would come visiting during holidays. She was actually a cousin, I was the last born so I was everyones fav. She will play with me all day long, trouble started when she started bathing me, my memory kinda faint now , but I remember she would lock d bathroom.. Get naked and make me touch her.. I did not understand what was happening.. But she left and didn't visit until years later. She's close to her 40s now.. Unmarried , my mom keeps praying for her not knowing what she did to me.. She might have thought I forgot. Second experience I could remember was an aunty that rented in the same house as my Grand parents then. So whenever I am sent to stay with my Grand parents, she would take me into her room as per big aunt, and she would spread honey or sometimes milk on my palm to lick. After then she will get undressed and make me finger her and she will touch my little man till it got erect.. Make me suck her boobs. After everything, she will still give me honey .. And yes I began to enjoy it.. I was very young then.. When I was 6 or 7, there was this day we were at home and our neighbors started having sex, I think they were kinda related, it was just me, my elder bro, and my elder sis at home, so we caught them having sex and we took turns to peep and it aroused curiosity.. After that incident my sis will convince me to do what we saw them doing... It started little by little.. She would bring home hints and other porn magazines, after reading and getting horn.y , she would make us have sex.. I was beginning to enjoy it , but never new d damage it was doing to me. She later made me give her bj it went on till she got admission and left home, I think I was 8 or 9 by the time.. And was already very sexually aware of my self.. I had this pervert mind, I would sneak in with some female neighbors around my age and would have sex, play with each others genitals.. Back of the flower and all. I had my first and only 3 some at the age of 9, during a church retreat. They were twins , ah those girls go don grow fine now sha.. Since we were kids, we were allowed into d females hostel.. This particular year, my mom camped close to their sisters. Whenever there is a program, they would switch of lights in d hostel because they don't expect anyone to be there, so we just hid under a big blanket and did unimaginable things that night.. It was a destructive enjoyment. Fast forward age 10, I had my first 'real sex' with dee.. Dee was 11. She used to hawk for her mom. So there was a day she hawked pass our house and I was the only one at home. She came over and from play, we had real sex, she was fully aware and enjoyed it! She was later impregnated by someone younger when she was just 15. I could count many sexual escapades I went ahead to get from a very tender age. Because I was exposed too early. It made me to be sexually ahead of my peers. My sexual urge was too high for my age. I never knew d damage until I grew older.. The problem is that, when we've been exposed to sexual acts early on.. Guys start enjoying it and the society never gets to hear. 12 Likes |
Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by gaby(m): 6:01am On Sep 06, 2018 |
Osaze007: Not funny bro...its saddening. Stay strong.. I had been sexually active from age five and everyone kept wondering why I loved women so much growing up.. That I can vividly remember. Them give me "apple" chop too early.. 4 Likes |
Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by cyberguy72(m): 6:14am On Sep 06, 2018 |
VeeVeeMyLuv:its a crazy fantasy on their part.Just like when some adult Male desire underaged girls. |
Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by otherway: 6:22am On Sep 06, 2018 |
MYHUBBY: I guess I need to apologise for my earlier standview cos it seems not all of us have a shock absorber to cushion the possible aftermath cos I'm quite amazed that your experience made you hate boobs of all things,BOBBY. NAH WAH O. 6 Likes |
Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by otherway: 6:24am On Sep 06, 2018 |
VeeVeeMyLuv: My broda I tire o. Though they will give but not without serious battle but it's like it is a demonic fantasy in many women to take advantage of presumed innocent boys which is why m8st of the victims experienced it at very tender age. 1 Like |
Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by Nobody: 6:27am On Sep 06, 2018 |
This is crazy, I have heard about male molestations but I didn't know it was this bad....like the percentage is as high as that of the female folk too. Some people are just mental. What is attractive about a small peepee that their little finger can't handle? So, I guess people can see part of the reason why I advocate for mothers to be present in the formative years of their kids lives but some people will see it as a lazy wife doing nothing, watching Africa magic all day. Please women, no matter the financial situation you find yourselves, find time for your kids, ask them questions, actually listen to them and let them know you will protect them no matter what. That is your job when daddy is fully engrossed with work So many bad experiences...it is well 3 Likes |
Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by MYHUBBY: 6:27am On Sep 06, 2018 |
otherway: I swear. infact I've never dated a bursty lady and I won't get married to any lady with much breast. it sound irritating to me when I read guys making fantasies about boobs that ladies do beg me to suck 3 Likes |
Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by Dreyl(m): 6:28am On Sep 06, 2018 |
eosigwe:You should be ashamed of yourself for saying this gibberish. If you know how hurtful it is psychologically you won't spew that trash. I pray my son doesn't experience this nonsense, because if anything like that happens to him, I may do something bad. 1 Like |
Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by Oreofepeters: 6:33am On Sep 06, 2018 |
I was molested by my aunt when I was 8, she made me licked her anal and virginal countless times. so bad the memory linger on and on, it really affected my urge for sex. But my mom wouldn't believe me even if I tell her. 7 Likes |
Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by Crenzywilliams(m): 6:34am On Sep 06, 2018 |
otherway:Lol, this guy em, u just be monkey |
Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by otherway: 6:35am On Sep 06, 2018 |
MYHUBBY: I'm really scared because for a guy to have a phobia for BOoBBY cos of an episode of sexual molestation is unbelievable. Please get over it biko cos Boobby is bae. 4 Likes |
Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by aragon4realz(m): 6:36am On Sep 06, 2018 |
I was molested when I was 7 by our house help,7 by my sisters friend who is 25 pretty with big boobs, 10 by my lesson teacher but the truth is I enjoyed them all and asked for more like Oliver twist, don't hate me for this 7 Likes |
Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by Sigmabond(m): 6:39am On Sep 06, 2018 |
One BAD THING I've noticed on this thread is the DEAFENING SILENCE of all these self-acclaimed FEMINISTS on Nairaland that do not even know the real meaning of feminism. Say no to molestation of all sorts. Let the insults start! 24 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by otherway: 6:40am On Sep 06, 2018 |
Crenzywilliams: My brother call me whatever I no send. This is getting scary,that a guy will hate to suck boobby because of wettin? Boobby wey I no dey take eye see especially the one wey firm come get BIG nippi. 4 Likes |
Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by Nobody: 6:40am On Sep 06, 2018 |
tomdon:so much weakness in the world now. Everyone is seeking sympathy |
Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by inereunwa1(m): 6:40am On Sep 06, 2018 |
zinnyzee:my dear open your eyes o it happens both ways!!! I too was molested by my maternal aunty but I will share my experience later! |
Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by otherway: 6:42am On Sep 06, 2018 |
Sigmabond: Don't mind them, foolish and hopeless hypocrites wey dem be. If it is a thread for ladies who got molested they would have poured their frustrated lives on the thread. Stupid hypocrites they are. Feminism kee them.nzuzu ndị mmadụ 5 Likes 2 Shares
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Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by Nobody: 6:47am On Sep 06, 2018 |
inereunwa1:Hmm. |
Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by Nobody: 6:47am On Sep 06, 2018 |
otherway:it leave me wondering how can"toto" cause depression. How? they should seek treatment. Such experience is not the cause of their sexual problems. But na dem dey rush you ooo |
Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by Nobody: 6:49am On Sep 06, 2018 |
tomdon:LMAO...so toto itself is now one of the leading cause of depression. Wonderful 1 Like |
Re: How Nigerian Men Were Sexually Abused By Their Mothers, Sisters & 'Aunties' by Nobody: 6:50am On Sep 06, 2018 |
pcguru1:That's terrible. I never knew houshelps could be this terrible. |
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