Lovelypet28:

Thank you, I learnt all these the hard way, there is no karma anywhere, if there was OBJ and IBB would have been dead,they are alive and kicking.

victorian:
She must have gone through alot of lack and poverty for her to be grateful having a married man taking care of her needs.
There is no real difference between her and a man who married openly more than one wife. Look at Alafin of Oyo, he married so many wives and he's taking care of them well, none is complaining. They all have houses built on their names, buisnesses here there. The wives are happy, nothing like divorce in his home, all minding their own buisness but all taking good care of the king. Look at Mayweather, the boxer he has many wives And concubines abroad. None of them is complaining, none has divorced him. The Op should let the married man marry her properly and she will become second wife and stay on her lane. As long as the man still loves his wife at home and taking care of both their needs. I see nothing wrong in it. The men that married only one wife, no be divorce tomorrow, divorce today? Ordinary food sef, some cannot provide. Beating today, beating tomorrow.
Babe enjoy your life jare. There is no karma in this one, as long as she doesn't plan evil to his wife.

pocohantas:


E weak me o. Shebi men are polygamous in nature. Men can cheat and love their wives.

Isn't that the same thing this lady is saying?

victorian:









If he marries her, there is nothing wrong in it. There are lots of women in the society married to married men. Alot of them.
My office neighbor, she was single til 35years.. Looking for a single man to marry but none fits her bill. Even her married boss wanted to marry her, back then. But she refused, saying she can never marry a married man. Now she is married to a married man, she got tired of waiting . She has three kids, she dress to kill.. Lol.. She looks very happy. She wears gold, when u see her with her children, u will just love them and respect her husband.
Shes been married for the past 5years. Working, doing well for herself. Even looking more prettier and more responsible.
My dear not every woman is destined to marry a single man
Time is going.. Biological clock is ticking.

I have another friend, she will be 50years, next month. Single , no kid and still waiting for a single man to marry her. Although she looks 42 but she's 50years old, still making Shakara.
I look at this lady and I marvel.

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There is absolutely nothing wrong in it. My mum married my dad, a married man. They were together with other wives but different locations for the past 30years, before my dad passed away at age 90years . She didn't remarry until she passed away at 70years old. She was the most successful woman amongst her two other sisters that married single men. Her two younger sisters died of heart break, one was used for ritual by her single husband whom she loved with all her heart and The second sister died of suffering and poverty from her own husband.

They were all loyal to their husbands. But my mum lived longer than the two of them and lived life well, rosy than her two sisters who married single men.

Am not saying marrying single men is bad. But if your destiny falls on a married man, that sincerely loves u and stand by you? Go ahead, marry him for more respect than doing hide and seek games.

This life is not black and white.. It has so many colours attached to it with various curves.

stars2018:
Please note: what goes around must surely come around.
Karma is realll

cruchenutii:


Question is, how do we know our Girlfriend is sleeping with a married man?

LegendVibes:
A young Nigerian lady wrote an Instagram message to psychologist, Joro Olumofin saying there's nothing wrong in having an affair with a married man.

See her reasons;

https://www.torimill.co/viral/9803/nothing-is-wrong-in-having-an-affair-with-a-married-man-if-he-takes-care-of-his-family-lady.html

stars2018:
Please note: what goes around must surely come around.
Karma is realll

djfabmusik:
women like this are very jealous and curious when they get married cos they know what they did before getting married

stars2018:
Please note: what goes around must surely come around.
Karma is realll

chukzyfcbb:
Do I blame her, no

Its the men I blame, I mean she has a House, a Job and a car all in exchange for what?
Sex!

The same sex that the man would be the one doing all the Job.


same sex that's as cheap as a bottle of roll on in this country is what a man has exchanged for a house a car and a job.

I no blame her las las, na the sugar daddy I blame

IbnAbdullah1:



Believe me if we don't start naming and shaming some of these anomalies in our society now, our children will be worst .
This why I say,polygyny is better than having multiple girl friends if you know your can't control what is between your legs.
Monogamy is a scam.
Not all men can be monogamous let's accept this fact even the hormones inside us gives a lie to that often touted church driven cliche of one-man-one-wife taaaaa!
If you can keep and take care of one woman no problem. If can't, abeg, forget all these society bottlenecks and, responsibly and legally marry a second wife or even more as you see fit (Muslims maximum of 4)and take care of both(or all) without any qualms.

4Mea:

To be fked is not a job...then if so kudos to the kidnappers, ritualists, scammer and so all.
If u don't know that's lady is on act of covetousness.

LegendVibes:
A young Nigerian lady wrote an Instagram message to psychologist, Joro Olumofin saying there's nothing wrong in having an affair with a married man.

See her reasons;

https://www.torimill.co/viral/9803/nothing-is-wrong-in-having-an-affair-with-a-married-man-if-he-takes-care-of-his-family-lady.html

pocohantas:


E weak me o. Shebi men are polygamous in nature. Men can cheat and love their wives.

Isn't that the same thing this lady is saying?

Ugosample:


I wonder why some men pay so so much for sex

it's dumb and stupid, and is due to lie self esteem

Shikena:

They are actually not paying for sex. Most are paying for peace of mind as many go through lots of stress at that stage of their lives at home/work/business & somehow ran into this caring lady on the plane or the bank or supermarket then one thing leads to the other. It is complex but life is complex.

Ugosample:


hmmmm


That may be a point

a lot of women don t give a Bleep about their husband's when they are done having kids
all the attention goes to the kids

That's how a lot of conservative /most African girls were raised....


So that may be a factor


But still, playing away match is not my style

franchasng:
Nigerian men are hypocrites, what they had been desiring they got, but see how they are cursing the lady that's campaigning for them

If ladies say Naija men should never cheat, or that their wives should divorce them if they catch them cheating, they will still come here to whine and fight the ladies, na wa o....what do u Nigerian men even want

Hmmm Nigerian ladies are in a big mess o, they are dealing with ghosts that has no face, just here and there