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Re: ........ by mysticgal(f): 9:19pm On Sep 22, 2018 |
Joyfulgal: hello, I run an errand service that basically caters for most of the needs you are worrying about in this thread and trust me,it is more effective and stressless. we provide services like making delicious meals,cleaning up your house and office spaces,going shopping and even picking and dropping your laundries at a small cost. And no,you don't have to worry about health expenses and all. just a call and we are at your doorstep. if you reside in lagos what i am suggesting could be a good option to consider. see my siggy for more details. thank you 2 Likes |
Re: ........ by Stellamariss(f): 9:57pm On Sep 22, 2018 |
Joyfulgal:madam pls am interested in dis kind of job,,I just finish my ND and I need where I will work so I can get enough money and continue my HND pls if u still need a nanny or house help am available.. so I can continue with my education.pls reply me,,thanks |
Re: ........ by yvelchstores(f): 10:12pm On Sep 22, 2018 |
Joyfulgal:op, I took time to read through, even your previous thread. It helped me understand your situation better. Like many have said, you can be kind to your worker without attaching sentiments. Work should be professional even if it's in your home. This particular lady, you may have to let her go because of her attitude. It's not really the best. She can't take corrections and that is a problem. Take things easy. I will not come and start advising you, you are double in married years compared to me. I pray for you, that you shall carry this child to term and laughter shall be heard in your dwelling. Life is spiritual, we are spirits in bodies, don't let your body dictate your life, hold that baby in, from the realm of the Spirit till the time is right. Don't stop declaring words of faith. I just returned from an awesome program and will paste my note below. Kindly go through. God bless you 3 Likes |
Re: ........ by yvelchstores(f): 10:13pm On Sep 22, 2018 |
Global miracle faith seminar Living victorious Everyone who believes must accept that he is who God says he is. Heb11:6 God has your true identity. Believe what he says abt you. God left us with faith to win in this life. It doesn't matter what comes against u, u can change it! God doesn't respond to Ur tears, HE MEETS YOU AT YOUR POINT OF FAITH. 1john3:8- rom8:37-we are more than conquerors. How do we live victoriously? 1)we have to live victoriously by the word. God's word is life,is power. God's word is a revelation of who u truly are. If you don't respond rightly to the word of God, it will not produce in you what it talks abt u! No body can believe on your behalf. Rom10:9-10 with thy mouth, confession is made not only unto salvation but also unto divine health, prosperity! God's word is truth and capable of making you free! Free from facts, facts like medical reports,facts from bank reports Talking is Ur life, if u stop talking u die! Talk and release spirits in Ur life. The words that I speak, they are spirits and life 2cor4:13- Away with tears and fear, you can change that condition. What do you believe Jesus said, u shall have whatsoever u say! because u are not ordinary! 2) living victoriously by the spirit. We are not ordinary people. Rom8:11-if he that raised Jesus from the dead dwells in u, he shall quicken Ur mortal bodies. Your life is sustained by the spirit, born of the spirit and sustainex by d spirit. Mark 16-these signs shall follow them that believe.... 1 Like |
Re: ........ by 1Sharon(f): 3:35am On Sep 23, 2018 |
victorian: Haha... a 50 year old in any workplace is the same. They can't stand being told what to do by much younger employees who achieved much more than them. It's not ur ur employees fault, you are older than them. If they don't want to be told what to do, I don't know why they don't just stay at home and become self employed. |
Re: ........ by Eketem: 3:38am On Sep 23, 2018 |
Na wa sha, poster came to ask for straight forward advise but people have turned it into a bash festival and unsolicited advise. You all assume that everybody's situation is the same. Poster tried to get pregnant for 8years. She tried so many fertility treatment Finally she is pregnant but because it is so easy for some of us to get pregnant people are here shouting on how she is lazy because she is pregnant and not doing chores. Smh. Everybody is different ohhhhhhh Poster please don't feel bad about all the insults. The maid is not a nice person she would have paid back your kindness with kindness not take it for granted. Set ground rules and watch if she will obey them till October She is an employee not your mother don't be crossing boundaries 10 Likes |
Re: ........ by victorian(f): 6:14am On Sep 23, 2018 |
1Sharon: Honestly I wonder too. No matter their pity story, I don't employ such age bracket, 50 upwards? Nope. |
Re: ........ by ifyalways(f): 7:13am On Sep 23, 2018 |
egojeny1:lol Funniest thing is that if you are as clean as you want to claim ( by mopping your house twice every freaking day) , you actually don't need to clean your house twice daily . It's just slave driver mentality. I pay the maid 35K so he will sweep and mop till his back breaks. Shiooooor 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: ........ by ifyalways(f): 7:16am On Sep 23, 2018 |
Joyfulgal:I had Afang a few times in my breeding days, no effect whatsoever on me or foetus/baby but it seems yours is kinda high risk/IVF so perhaps you should ask your GYN. Happy bumping 4 Likes |
Re: ........ by ifyalways(f): 7:42am On Sep 23, 2018 |
KanwuliaExtra:I hope she listens. There's no child/baby to keep the mama busy or occupied. She's probably had a rough life (men/marriage heart breaks , child rearing sufferings, business set backs, religious imprisonment etc) and the OP expects her to be happy working for her even with all the comfort and gadgets in the house ? The woman in her mind will be seeing the OP as a lazy woman with a mumu husband spoiling her and see no reason to adapt to the oga-madam situation. . . She will eat everything eatable to her heart content, cross her legs and watch tv 》》》》》 obesity plus all the other old age diseases. Best bet is to let her go and bring her back, if she must, after having her baby. 4 Likes |
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Re: ........ by mysticgal(f): 10:56am On Sep 23, 2018 |
Joyfulgal: oh ok..thank you |
Re: ........ by wonyi: 11:00am On Sep 23, 2018 |
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Re: ........ by dunasy(f): 12:33pm On Sep 23, 2018 |
Joyfulgal: Happy Sunday Second trimester starts from week 13 depending on how long gone you are.... so you can calculate how long you both are going to be together hopefully without issues. Ask yourself if the few days/weeks she has spent with you have been without any issues at least for a day...so you can divert your energy to the appropriate place even if it is sleep only.. A non-live in help can do all the food you want as well and of course someone you can correct easily when she is wrong |
Re: ........ by Stellamariss(f): 2:07pm On Sep 23, 2018 |
Joyfulgal:OK thanks |
Re: ........ by Seahawk: 2:19pm On Sep 23, 2018 |
I respect u so much the reason why I will stop here, had it been u were younger, I would have hit u real hard for all these u have said. This was so out of line omg. OP you have issues And your househelp has issues as well. In fact she has a lot of issues and I don’t think she is ready for the job |
Re: ........ by Seahawk: 2:26pm On Sep 23, 2018 |
1Sharon: Helpful husbands. That’s how women in the West cope. Not the ones waiting to be served hand and foot. I totally understand why Nigerian women go for maids. 2 Likes |
Re: ........ by Seahawk: 2:29pm On Sep 23, 2018 |
Please pay her more realtalk19: 2 Likes |
Re: ........ by Seahawk: 2:31pm On Sep 23, 2018 |
Always looking for an excuse to hate on women and justify infidelity Acidosis: 4 Likes |
Re: ........ by Seahawk: 2:32pm On Sep 23, 2018 |
1Sharon:They are not entitled They have big babies called husbands that can’t lift a finger lest their ego deflates 5 Likes |
Re: ........ by Seahawk: 2:47pm On Sep 23, 2018 |
Acidosis: He didn’t just say that. |
Re: ........ by Seahawk: 2:52pm On Sep 23, 2018 |
Yea I heard that nurses in the UK aren’t paid their worth. It’s unfair. You ladies and gentlemen need to ask for what’s your due. Nurses are too valuable for that shiz 1Sharon: 1 Like |
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