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Re: Why Can't I Have A Simple Wedding Like This? #3.2 Million Is Just Unnecesary by AntiWailer: 5:32pm On Oct 18, 2018 |
Re: Why Can't I Have A Simple Wedding Like This? #3.2 Million Is Just Unnecesary by Yinxies(f): 5:32pm On Oct 18, 2018 |
Its your wedding. Do it according to your pockets |
Re: Why Can't I Have A Simple Wedding Like This? #3.2 Million Is Just Unnecesary by PHIPEX(m): 5:33pm On Oct 18, 2018 |
famousbowale:I did a good traditional wedding and invited my pastor to witness and pray for us, afterwards I headed to the court. Why spend a fortune to impress people who don't care about you. No matter how much you spent, your wedding will be forgotten in less than a month, be wise. 6 Likes |
Re: Why Can't I Have A Simple Wedding Like This? #3.2 Million Is Just Unnecesary by Koolking(m): 5:34pm On Oct 18, 2018 |
Simple but classy. My perfect idea of marriage events |
Re: Why Can't I Have A Simple Wedding Like This? #3.2 Million Is Just Unnecesary by akaahs(m): 5:35pm On Oct 18, 2018 |
The ops 3.2m budget dey give me nightmare. My budget is between. .5-.8m |
Re: Why Can't I Have A Simple Wedding Like This? #3.2 Million Is Just Unnecesary by Icon79(m): 5:36pm On Oct 18, 2018 |
Mek I hear word, jor! For a woman, your wedding day is the happiest day of your life so go for it if you can afford it! O pari chiommy123: |
Re: Why Can't I Have A Simple Wedding Like This? #3.2 Million Is Just Unnecesary by Nobody: 5:38pm On Oct 18, 2018 |
If me my spouse have 3.2million naira budgeted to feed some people that didn't ask to be fed, asswearugod we're investing 3million to our GROWTH, let the 200k cater to whatever it can. With Both families (highly important ones) in attendance, the rest people can watch from my whatsapp and IG story. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Can't I Have A Simple Wedding Like This? #3.2 Million Is Just Unnecesary by Constantiney: 5:39pm On Oct 18, 2018 |
flyca:I don't even know how to reply such a senseless post like this. They brought education, you people copied it. They brought religion and democracy, you people copied it. But when it comes to weddings, "we" should not be like them? SMH. What the **** is my business, blow money like a drug dealer on your wedding, it's your life. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Can't I Have A Simple Wedding Like This? #3.2 Million Is Just Unnecesary by TonyeBarcanista(m): 5:41pm On Oct 18, 2018 |
[s] flyca:[/s] 2 Likes |
Re: Why Can't I Have A Simple Wedding Like This? #3.2 Million Is Just Unnecesary by Chukazu: 5:43pm On Oct 18, 2018 |
Ask your village people |
Re: Why Can't I Have A Simple Wedding Like This? #3.2 Million Is Just Unnecesary by ogbong: 5:44pm On Oct 18, 2018 |
It's a question of personal choice. One can decide to stand out. Wedding is even easier compared to burial expenses that are mandatory as required by certain traditions. I think it is high time these unnecessary practices are reviewed |
Re: Why Can't I Have A Simple Wedding Like This? #3.2 Million Is Just Unnecesary by Ray1251(m): 5:45pm On Oct 18, 2018 |
highchief1:who love help Abeg forget that thing 2 Likes |
Re: Why Can't I Have A Simple Wedding Like This? #3.2 Million Is Just Unnecesary by TonyeBarcanista(m): 5:45pm On Oct 18, 2018 |
haconjy:You mean you, a teacher, gave your fiancée a whopping 90k to buy shoe and bags? 1 Like |
Re: Why Can't I Have A Simple Wedding Like This? #3.2 Million Is Just Unnecesary by sacajawea(m): 5:50pm On Oct 18, 2018 |
princfred:Compare Humans with Humans. Not with Rabid Dogs! |
Re: Why Can't I Have A Simple Wedding Like This? #3.2 Million Is Just Unnecesary by chikk(f): 5:50pm On Oct 18, 2018 |
The moment you start living your life to please people, you start planning your downfall. If it had been you alone who wanted a simple wedding and your wife wishes otherwise, then that'd be a different issue. But since you and your wife are of similar opinion, screw everyone else. But wait, 250 people you say? They say 3 is a crowd, that should make 250 a congregation. Uncle, if you had 250 in mind, then you weren't planning small at all. Try 50 for a 'small' figure. 100 max 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Can't I Have A Simple Wedding Like This? #3.2 Million Is Just Unnecesary by sacajawea(m): 5:52pm On Oct 18, 2018 |
flyca:Really? |
Re: Why Can't I Have A Simple Wedding Like This? #3.2 Million Is Just Unnecesary by twosquare(m): 5:55pm On Oct 18, 2018 |
It simply shows that you have not really cut down the expenses and excesses. When you get really serious, you will cut it down to 500k-1m. We have lesser wedding expenses. famousbowale: 1 Like |
Re: Why Can't I Have A Simple Wedding Like This? #3.2 Million Is Just Unnecesary by Rstc: 5:55pm On Oct 18, 2018 |
Most ladies in Nigeria already started dreaming of their wedding day right from the womb. Any thing less than superflousity, and they will not forgive you. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Can't I Have A Simple Wedding Like This? #3.2 Million Is Just Unnecesary by Business123: 5:56pm On Oct 18, 2018 |
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Re: Why Can't I Have A Simple Wedding Like This? #3.2 Million Is Just Unnecesary by twosquare(m): 5:57pm On Oct 18, 2018 |
akaahs:For what? What you should use to balance your new family and the new child... Stop impressing people who don't give a damn. They will still laugh at you if things get awry or you can't pay bills or rent. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Can't I Have A Simple Wedding Like This? #3.2 Million Is Just Unnecesary by Nobody: 5:59pm On Oct 18, 2018 |
You never start to dey watch Nigerian wedding on fox life? Na wetin dem know us for now 1 Like |
Re: Why Can't I Have A Simple Wedding Like This? #3.2 Million Is Just Unnecesary by Nobody: 5:59pm On Oct 18, 2018 |
ImaIma1:The blame should be on the couple not in-laws. If couple can stand their ground on having small wedding, the families of the bride or groom will obliged. But when they are swayed by what their parents feel or need it becomes a problem. I blame ladies most times for putting men in stress to get married. They make men to perform two weddings whereas in developed countries it is just one.They are good at copying the whites but they wouldn't copy well 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Can't I Have A Simple Wedding Like This? #3.2 Million Is Just Unnecesary by safarigirl(f): 6:00pm On Oct 18, 2018 |
Just do your traditional wedding and go and rest It is church wedding that eats up the bulk of people's funds, not the traditional wedding. It is you people that insisted that you must honour the white man's tradition and wed in his ways, so, increase your budget to appeal to the ways of foreigners or maintain your low budget and marry on the ways your ancestors did. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Can't I Have A Simple Wedding Like This? #3.2 Million Is Just Unnecesary by myettiallah: 6:00pm On Oct 18, 2018 |
flyca:That is why u are single.. Evening newspaper 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Can't I Have A Simple Wedding Like This? #3.2 Million Is Just Unnecesary by safarigirl(f): 6:02pm On Oct 18, 2018 |
yettymuse:na so everybody day talk until their mama or MIL hijack the wedding E sweet to talk sha 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Can't I Have A Simple Wedding Like This? #3.2 Million Is Just Unnecesary by Nobody: 6:02pm On Oct 18, 2018 |
twosquare:Many Nigerians never wake to reality. Partners and couple that realize OYO is their case are living happier 1 Like |
Re: Why Can't I Have A Simple Wedding Like This? #3.2 Million Is Just Unnecesary by Nobody: 6:04pm On Oct 18, 2018 |
safarigirl:It is easy said than done. Would you accept just traditional wedding? If yes would you do low key traditional wedding? If yes would you allow persuade your family to reduce bride price because your are not a commodity? If yes would you love your husband for who he is even if he is poor? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Can't I Have A Simple Wedding Like This? #3.2 Million Is Just Unnecesary by Nobody: 6:06pm On Oct 18, 2018 |
myettiallah:You kind of mean |
Re: Why Can't I Have A Simple Wedding Like This? #3.2 Million Is Just Unnecesary by twosquare(m): 6:06pm On Oct 18, 2018 |
safarigirl:MIL is free to do whatever she so desires as long as the funding is coming from her or her husband.... |
Re: Why Can't I Have A Simple Wedding Like This? #3.2 Million Is Just Unnecesary by chikk(f): 6:06pm On Oct 18, 2018 |
highchief1: Heigod!... I dont even understand why this man is lying like this. Even if he's not, Uncle its your money, your wedding, your expenses, enjoy it all, but please allow other people express themselves jor. The man has a valid point abeg. All fingers are not equal. Stop showing off. 1 Like |
Re: Why Can't I Have A Simple Wedding Like This? #3.2 Million Is Just Unnecesary by safarigirl(f): 6:09pm On Oct 18, 2018 |
asuustrike1:i am not poor, so, why will I accept a poor man? I am not rich, so, what am I doing with a rich man or a fancy wedding? If trad is all we can afford, fine. I don't even like seeing people, so, the fewer people I have to see on my wedding day, the better for me The bride price in my village is #5, surely anybody I am marrying ought to have #5.....i don't come from a big family, I barely even know members of my extended family, so, who is my husband paying to? People that are not in Nigeria? I have no business with a poor man, especially one who is not only financially poor, but also mentally poor. I cannot be with anyone who has no ambition, no plans to better himself and no gifts whatsoever with which he can better himself. So, what do you mean "if he is poor"? Because even my father would not collect bride price from any man who has no promise 5 Likes |
Re: Why Can't I Have A Simple Wedding Like This? #3.2 Million Is Just Unnecesary by safarigirl(f): 6:12pm On Oct 18, 2018 |
twosquare:of course That is what most Nigerians don't put into consideration. Truth is, nobody really cares what the couple wants when it comes down to it. It's your marriage, but the families' wedding 2 Likes |
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