If your friend is confused for a mere issue like this, please use him for money rituals

He has brand new brains he has never used before

No

Administration1:
No need of too much stories,
I have a friend who works with a multinational firm, he has a matured girlfriend in her second level in the University, she resigned her job two years ago to get a degree.
They have been dating for over a year now and he intends settling down next year with her, presently, the guy pays her fees and gives her monthly upkeep cash, money to make her hair etc. but the problem is that the young man complains that she rarely washes his clothes, even boxers. Sometimes the guy spends 7 days in a week at work with no time to wash his clothes. And he doesn't like giving his clothes to drycleaners as they usually ruin the colours. He prefers hand-washing them, which he does any night he returns, sometimes, into the night, 1:00AM when you call my guy, he is still washing his clothes, bedsheets etc.

When asked the girl says "I am not washing your clothes, if i start washing your clothes now, what will I do when we get married, you'd better give them to the drycleaner.

My guy is totally confused, knowing that a character exhibited during a relationship will definitely come into play in marriage. Please what should he do.

If she doesn't want to wash his clothes.

He should log out from paying her dues.

He might have to log out permanently. She's sounding like the batshit crazy feminist type.

My gwad not again������

Your gf isn’t obligated to wash your clothes Boy!

Btw, my fiancée help me was mine yesterday! She was just helping!

When was the last time she washed her father's clothe.

We just continue to waste our time biko

Ask your friend if his girlfrd is of Cownu decendants( na dem dey behave like dat) and revert back to me b4 i give him my uncommon advice.

Bleep your thoughts, my fiancee is a full time sexy european and she washes my cloths. btw, she was one time miss "her state".
we talking of a beauty queen here fuckers

I don't blame her. Some of you men abuse the privilges a humble and domesticated woman gives you.

straight women dey try o. Thank God I don't have to deal with all these heteronorms. women wash , cook , clean, bla bla.

In my relationship tho, if we stay together, we have a laundry basket and who ever is up to it, does the laundry.

sometimes, one person washes while the other rinses and dries them.

your friend has a job, and the girl has school too so he should stop being a lazy ass and schedule a time when they can both wash together mbok. case solved. she doesn't owe it to him to wash so he should stop sulking about it.

The most convoluted story I have read in awhile! She won’t wash his clothes because she is waiting to be his wife? He won’t find other ways to have his clothes washed because he is expecting her to do it? What did he do before they met?
This situation is doomed already.
Ps stay out of your friends relationship if he can’t resolve such a straight forward issue he has no business getting married.

tell ur friend to stop paying her schoolfee and use the money to buy a washing machine if she ask why let him tell her that "he is not paying her schoolfee anymore that if he continues paying it when they get married what would he be doing, that should better start paying because he isn't her dad" u can't be helping someone that can't help u nahh!!! a relationship should be a 50/50 thing.

Benekruku:
If your friend is confused for a mere issue like this, please use him for money rituals

He has brand new brains he has never used before

lmao

tellwisdom:
How many Nigerian gurls can wash cloth clean? None

Careful with your accusations.....you met all Nigerian women?

That girl is an ingrate , atleast help him with the boxers ,

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. hit like if you think this gal is washing another guys boxer for school , share if you diagree

Administration1:
No need of too much stories,
I have a friend who works with a multinational firm, he has a matured girlfriend in her second level in the University, she resigned her job two years ago to get a degree.
They have been dating for over a year now and he intends settling down next year with her, presently, the guy pays her fees and gives her monthly upkeep cash, money to make her hair etc. but the problem is that the young man complains that she rarely washes his clothes, even boxers. Sometimes the guy spends 7 days in a week at work with no time to wash his clothes. And he doesn't like giving his clothes to drycleaners as they usually ruin the colours. He prefers hand-washing them, which he does any night he returns, sometimes, into the night, 1:00AM when you call my guy, he is still washing his clothes, bedsheets etc.

When asked the girl says "I am not washing your clothes, if i start washing your clothes now, what will I do when we get married, you'd better give them to the drycleaner.

My guy is totally confused, knowing that a character exhibited during a relationship will definitely come into play in marriage. Please what should he do.

Should a girlfriend ask for money from her boyfriend?Lazy generation girls.

Feminists, oya.

Truth is, if you like (I dont want to say "loves" because the word is abused) wash your boyfriends clothes. You never can tell his thoughts. Besides, he pays your fees.

NuhRegular:
Lol.. I only did this once and til today I've always regretted it

Never doing it again

I don't even feel comfortable having gf wash my clothes.

MrSensor:
Tell your friend to tell his girlfriend to start washing those clothes with immediate effect. Lazy girl.

But wait o, before you go there, why are you meddling in your friend's relationship? You better stay away from other peoples relationship before you break it, focus on your own [mind your own business].

don't mind that guy he is telling his own story but trying to confuse himself by saying is his friend

The decision to continue dating that girl depends on your friend and I think you want good wife for your friend but he knows what is OK for him presently and future ...///

I think you just be observing and do not interfere in their relationship but you can advise him systematically as the truth is - that young lady is not a wife material that has no conscience of reciprocating good gesture for kindness and caring who only thought the only way to reward her lover is just opening of her laps when requested by the boy friend.

MrSensor:
Tell your friend to tell his girlfriend to start washing those clothes with immediate effect. Lazy girl.

But wait o, before you go there, why are you meddling in your friend's relationship? You better stay away from other peoples relationship before you break it, focus on your own [mind your own business].

Are you sure he is not the "my friend"?

The long story isn't even necessary.She's already exhibited how she'd behave once she gets married. If the guy doesnt want to have headache, the best time to let her go is now because her refusal to wash clothes is just one of the worse things to come. Whats the big deal about that? When i was courting my wife, shed come, wash all my clothes weekends. When we got married, i bought her a laundry machine. By the time she begins to display those cards one after the other, the guy would regret ever being married. He may continue sponsoring her regardless of whatever his decision is because he's going to be rewarded by God. I've paid girls school fees countless times and we didnt have any affection towards each other. I did it for God and He rewarded my bountifully for it. Many men have left this world untimely because of bad marriages. You go to work early, come back late only to meet stress at home caused by your wife. It's not worth it. You see some men looking so old due to stress.

ednut1:
Works in a multinational but cant afford washing machine

Would washing machine go get the clothes from the wardrobes, fix them in itself, wash, dry and iron them, and then hang them back to the wardrobes

Xaos:
So he works even on weekends?

What kind of work will keep him away for 7 days without even that little time to wash his own clothes? Lies Abeg.

But just so you know, your partner can only decide to help at her own discretion. After all it's not an obligation.

Bro just be thankful on ur own, i recently resigned from a job that take my time 24/7 i hardly sleep, i hardly have time for myself, i had to resign when they wouldn't even let me go for my day off, stupid jobs dey this country

I stopped giving my girlfriend Tfare when she refused to be washing my clothes with the excuse that I haven't marry her, in fact, I stop giving her any form of help, I put her in side chick position where I think ought to belong, she came back to her senses doing house chores ,running errands when she noticed she is loosing me.

Washing of a boyfriend's clothes is not slavery, thou it depends on how serious the relationship is.

He might be telling the truth.
My work also requires me to be present 7days a week.

Xaos:
So he works even on weekends?

What kind of work will keep him away for 7 days without even that little time to wash his own clothes? Lies Abeg.

But just so you know, your partner can only decide to help at her own discretion. After all it's not an obligation.

vingeophysicist:
lol, she is not domesticated, probably she is the career type. Everything depends on what your friend value more in a woman. A career-oriented lady lack ability in carrying out simple house chores, they spend more time pursuing their dreams.

Not in all cases. I know of a career lady with opposite disposition to your claims

Tamarapetty:
I guess she's not reasonable enough to help him out SOMETIMES, use the money to buy washing machine when jumia black friday reach.

Lazy olosho! All you women know how to do is to eat food your 6th generation can never afford!
Asking for a washing machine like your father has one!

IamD18:
Tell your friend to buy a washing machine with the money he's been using to pay her school fees.

Simple.

If I keep paying your school fees and upkeep without getting laundry help , wetin I gain?

Perfect, coincise and not loopsided. Oya take am. 2crates

He pays her school fees, plus monthly upkeep, she should wash more than cloths sef. Some women

Nigerian women are useless, All they know how to do is sleep and suck the Di.ck of the highest bidder.
Marry a white woman and enjoy civilization!
Say no to black women!