ExposedWicked:


I want her to see me as a friend and a nice person. I want her to come around and talk to me but this, all these are not making sense...

Admin401:


"I took advantage of her when she was drunk and needed a safe place to stay, but I swear I'm a nice person"

This is what your post sounds like when you remove all the other bullshiiit.

chigoziri2403:
welcome to the league of baby daddies, expect pregnancy test result soon.

ITbomb:
Leave her alone, if the sex was good, she will come to you.
Otherwise, respect her distance. Don't even bother talking to her

merahki:
Imagine if you had let her stay without allowing what happened 5 hours later to occur
Picture this- she sleeps, wakes up and you make her some tea or cocoa and bread, or whatever
You talk to her while getting ready for your own morning runs (lectures I suppose?)
You ask her if she is okay and how she got into that state (nicely)
You then let her go with a "be safe" or something close

Are you done imagining this?
Now try to get the kind of immeasurable gratitude and appreciation, likeness(fondness) and trust she would have for you
You would score highly even with neighbours and your school people because she would tell everyone what an angel you were to her
You would have made a loyal friend (with or without sexual (consciously made and willing) benefits
Your relationship would become stuff of legend (well, of gist and stories)
My point? You could have come out smelling of coffee and vanilla essence from this story, instead of the is it skunksmell?Is it vanillasmell?curtain hanging over this story forever
(Cos I think you took advantage of her, even if you did not mean to)

Talk to her like you would have someone to do to your sister or friend if this happened to them- from your heart. Ask her about that night, talk to her
You have shared body secretions, sharing mere words should be easy then
Go ahead, redeem yourself
Good luck

ExposedWicked:
I talked to her this evening. Seems like she hates me now... I called her into my room and she started saying funny stuffs like " i know we had sex but who started it. I know i didn't cos i knw myself, so u had me by ur own will .."
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To be honest bro. Am kinda messed up ryt now. Drama life is what av been trying hard to avoid and it seems this is merely the beginning.... My room mate even mentioned that the girl was planning to blackmail me.... For wat exactly ?... I av no idea...
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This is totally messy... I think a deep blow is coming my way now.
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Pls help me

merahki:
Imagine if you had let her stay without allowing what happened 5 hours later to occur
Picture this- she sleeps, wakes up and you make her some tea or cocoa and bread, or whatever
You talk to her while getting ready for your own morning runs (lectures I suppose?)
You ask her if she is okay and how she got into that state (nicely)
You then let her go with a "be safe" or something close

Are you done imagining this?
Now try to get the kind of immeasurable gratitude and appreciation, likeness(fondness) and trust she would have for you
You would score highly even with neighbours and your school people because she would tell everyone what an angel you were to her
You would have made a loyal friend (with or without sexual (consciously made and willing) benefits
Your relationship would become stuff of legend (well, of gist and stories)
My point? You could have come out smelling of coffee and vanilla essence from this story, instead of the is it skunksmell?Is it vanillasmell?curtain hanging over this story forever
(Cos I think you took advantage of her, even if you did not mean to)

Talk to her like you would have someone to do to your sister or friend if this happened to them- from your heart. Ask her about that night, talk to her
You have shared body secretions, sharing mere words should be easy then
Go ahead, redeem yourself
Good luck

bumeks:
just imagine someone doing the same to your sister , how Will u feel?

ExposedWicked:
I talked to her this evening. Seems like she hates me now... I called her into my room and she started saying funny stuffs like " i know we had sex but who started it. I know i didn't cos i knw myself, so u had me by ur own will .."
.
.
To be honest bro. Am kinda messed up ryt now. Drama life is what av been trying hard to avoid and it seems this is merely the beginning.... My room mate even mentioned that the girl was planning to blackmail me.... For wat exactly ?... I av no idea...
.
This is totally messy... I think a deep blow is coming my way now.
Pls help me

ExposedWicked:
I escorted my ex gf out when she came for a visit . The time was somewhat 8.. When i finally got back, i found a girl lying on my bed. She was drunk, i could sense the stench of alcohol from a distance. I was shocked because i wasn't expecting anyone that evening and i don't mingle with any of the hostlers.

At first i was rude enough to asked her out. She was staggering when she was about living and was uttering gibberish. When i saw the way she was messed up i finally decided to accommodate her for few hours to allow the alcohol go down..

I gave her excessive milk to drink. I later found out she was drugged from a party she attended that evening... She slept well and because i was fully satisfied i wasn't getting myself into jamboree, i decided to lay down too..

Towards the middle of the night, one thing led to another and we had sex . In the morning, she left so early that i didn't even notice when she left.

I made enquiring about her and found out she was a chronic keep-to-myself(introvert) and she barely hanged out with the peeps around.... Ever since that night, she has been away from me. ... I actually saw her today in our school campus walk way and i wanted to talk to her but she just zoomed off....

I want her to see me as a friend and a nice person. I want her to come around and talk to me but this, all these are not making sense...

Please what would you advise a brother to do...

PS- Pardon typing and grammatical errors...

ExposedWicked:

I did not take advantage of her situation... We had sex about 5hours after she slept, so she was/supposed to be completely normal by then... Let just forget about the sex part. Just advise me on what to do now