Bunmijanet25:
which step

The step we take to help people in yo shoes.

shegzy0514:

You said here is not the best place to come for advice and you still gave her advice on the same forum

Don't mind the silly creature

Twizzy30:
The step we take to help people in yo shoes.

you can tell me without seeing my picture

Factfinder1:


Send me a mail or call 07054880241 the pm ain't going through

are you a psychologist

Bunmijanet25:
you can tell me without seeing my picture

lol.. i hope you're a fine girl. btw where's your school?

Bunmijanet25:
are you a psychologist

Nope...but I can atleast help or ask you out finally for real

I don't know much they're selling bag of cement, but i have 3 and half blocks to spare, na u know how u wan take get sand sha. . . Ehen don't forget bamboo, incase na two storey building u wan do.

Bunmijanet25:
Good morning nairalanders, I am new here and I want you to advise me. I am 19 years and I haven't being asked out before even though some said they love me. This has reduce my self-esteem when it comes to guys issue that I normally do crazy things to get their attention but at the end they don't even notice me; some of them do take advantage of me. I have a guy who was my childhood friend; he asked me out on fb and we do chat on whatsapp too. I think I am just plan B to him because he has only called me once and even when my phone got spoilt and I wasn't online for sometimes he still didn't call me. I am in 2nd year, I haven't been asked by guys to be friends with them except my coursemates. How can I stop having these thoughts that 'I am not destined for any guy' and build my self esteem so that I will concentrate fully for my studies. Thanks

See that's the thing, concentrate fully on your studies and you wouldn't be having thoughts about your self esteem.

In the alternative.

If you still want to know why no guy has asked you out, look at yourself in the mirror and ask yourself are you hot enough in comparison with the other girls in your school who are being chased by guys. If not, then put a plan in motion to become someone who would be chased around. But it ain't gonna be easy.

My dear don't search to much, allow your self to be found doing what you love. Trust me a guy is out there watching you and when he finally asks you out he is gonna meet the real you doing what you love, and love you for that.

And remember the Holy book Says
"none shall lack their mate"

Hope this helps

CJAYseven:
My dear don't search to much, allow your self to be found doing what you love. Trust me a guy is out there watching you and when he finally asks you out he is gonna meet the real you doing what you love, and love you for that.

And remember the Holy book Says
"none shall lack their mate"

Hope this helps

Which holy book talk this one?

Tamarapetty:
I don't know much they're selling bag of cement, but i have 3 and half blocks to spare, na u know how u wan take get sand sha. . . Ehen don't forget bamboo, incase na two storey building u wan do.

you see! this is the reason why I said nairaland is not the best place to receive advise they will just confuse you they offer you more criticism than help .you can imagine the comment by the fool above I know what am talking about when I had low self esteem I rearly found help here I went to foriengn websites where there are more civilized people and it waste really helpful.

Headlesschicken:
So yuh only problem at 19 x bout guys getting to notice u? U better snap out of that stupid thought n focus on more important things like hw to develop yuhself to face what's ahead...

your nose is as broad as the gate of hell

kollinzgee:


you see! this is the reason why I said nairaland is not the best place to receive advise they will just confuse you they offer you more criticism than help .you can imagine the comment by the fool above I know what am talking about when I had low self esteem I rearly found help here I went to foriengn websites where there are more civilized people and it waste really helpful.

Why pained?? Drink sniper if u cant take a joke dear.

Tamarapetty:
Why pained?? Drink sniper if u cant take a joke dear.

ninetiethcrown7:


See that's the thing, concentrate fully on your studies and you wouldn't be having thoughts about your self esteem.

In the alternative.

If you still want to know why no guy has asked you out, look at yourself in the mirror and ask yourself are you hot enough in comparison with the other girls in your school who are being chased by guys. If not, then put a plan in motion to become someone who would be chased around. But it ain't gonna be easy.

thanks

DanDeeBoss:

Lol, he should goan open SERIOUSNESS FORUM

Tamarapetty:
Lol, he should goan open SERIOUSNESS FORUM

He should have known you were joking....

CJAYseven:
My dear don't search to much, allow your self to be found doing what you love. Trust me a guy is out there watching you and when he finally asks you out he is gonna meet the real you doing what you love, and love you for that.

And remember the Holy book Says
"none shall lack their mate"

Hope this helps

thanks, I really appreciate

Tamarapetty:
Lol, he should goan open SERIOUSNESS FORUM

i need your advise too

Factfinder1:


Nope...but I can atleast help or ask you out finally for real

you don't need to ask me out, thanks

Twizzy30:
lol.. i hope you're a fine girl. btw where's your school?

why do you want to know my school

Bunmijanet25:
i need your advise too

Should i pm you?? Important

Bunmijanet25:
you don't need to ask me out, thanks

Ring me anyways... Something new,beautiful and different might jst spring forth

don't worry sisi, when you start getting the attention you will just see that u had low self esteem over nothing. sometimes I wish no one notice me when I go out. sometimes I dress in a way to avoid being noticed. I thought it was low self-esteem on my part but I just realized its my kind of person. I hate walking in d street and guys will be asking me for number

Bunmijanet25:
Good morning nairalanders, I am new here and I want you to advise me. I am 19 years and I haven't being asked out before even though some said they love me. This has reduce my self-esteem when it comes to guys issue that I normally do crazy things to get their attention but at the end they don't even notice me; some of them do take advantage of me. I have a guy who was my childhood friend; he asked me out on fb and we do chat on whatsapp too. I think I am just plan B to him because he has only called me once and even when my phone got spoilt and I wasn't online for sometimes he still didn't call me. I am in 2nd year, I haven't been asked by guys to be friends with them except my coursemates. How can I stop having these thoughts that 'I am not destined for any guy' and build my self esteem so that I will concentrate fully for my studies. Thanks

I think you need to calm down a little. Read wikihow articles a lot, i tell you that website has helped me build ma self esteem, my courage and talents.
See you got to appreciate and take care of yourself as you are. It is not others job to like you. Its your job to like yourself.
Every one has his/her own beauty point. I might not be beautiful facially but i am beautiful intellectually or oratorily. Or maybe talent beauty is what you have.
Find your beauty point and exploit it to the fullest.
I am also a 200l student and i got much self esteem. How did i do it?
1. Joined the departmental football team. I met alot of guys and socialised.
Whenever it comes to sports even a 60year old man will look like your agegrade and a friend. I just had fun myself.
2. Got some cartels who watch my back. Going out with good friends boosts ego and esteem.
3. Now i do practice good communication skills and eye contact maintenance infront of the mirrow. This always gives me confidence. Talking to your reflection in the mirrow why you are the best girl in the world.
I usually blow my trumpet to a reasonable extent on the other me in the mirrow.
It makes me feel good.
4. Being good academically.
Your self esteem will boost if you are a high pointer <4.0 and above>
it gives a kind of superiority and esteem. With guys dragging who will be my roomie and who sits near me in the exam hall is quite intriguing to watch.
5. Have fun. Do what you like best. Just a little dose of singing Bruno mars "just the way you are" can have a good effect on you.
When things get bored i start writing a song. It keeps me occupied instead of comparing myself to one cute guy in the lecture hall.
6. Take care of yourself. Buy skin toning lotions and cream. Wear a moderate makeup, keep a clean set of teeth so that you can give a guy that catching smile.
Fix a good hair that fits your physique not what is trending.
I just cut a neat round cut hairstyle, wear my glasses, a long sleeved body hug manually folded to the elbow, a pair of skintight trousers and a neat black sandals. Its my signature clothe style, and some of ma coursemates are imitating already.
No eyelash fixing.
Wear something good. You dont need to dress like Kim khadarshian tho. Just something smart.
I personally love smart dressing ladies.
There you go.
I do tell myself this
"No matter how ugly i am i know there is someone who is dieing for me and thinks am the most handsome guy out there."

Factfinder1:

Ring me anyways... Something new,beautiful and different might jst spring forth

thanks

Tamarapetty:
Should i pm you?? Important

yes

peacezy555:
don't worry sisi, when you start getting the attention you will just see that u had low self esteem over nothing. sometimes I wish no one notice me when I go out. sometimes I dress in a way to avoid being noticed. I thought it was low self-esteem on my part but I just realized its my kind of person. I hate walking in d street and guys will be asking me for number

same here too, thanks

sparkle6:

I think you need to calm down a little. Read wikihow articles a lot, i tell you that website has helped me build ma self esteem, my courage and talents.
See you got to appreciate and take care of yourself as you are. It is not others job to like you. Its your job to like yourself.
Every one has his/her own beauty point. I might not be beautiful facially but i am beautiful intellectually or oratorily. Or maybe talent beauty is what you have.
Find your beauty point and exploit it to the fullest.
I am also a 200l student and i got much self esteem. How did i do it?
1. Joined the departmental football team. I met alot of guys and socialised.
Whenever it comes to sports even a 60year old man will look like your agegrade and a friend. I just had fun myself.
2. Got some cartels who watch my back. Going out with good friends boosts ego and esteem.
3. Now i do practice good communication skills and eye contact maintenance infront of the mirrow. This always gives me confidence. Talking to your reflection in the mirrow why you are the best girl in the world.
I usually blow my trumpet to a reasonable extent on the other me in the mirrow.
It makes me feel good.
4. Being good academically.
Your self esteem will boost if you are a high pointer <4.0 and above>
it gives a kind of superiority and esteem. With guys dragging who will be my roomie and who sits near me in the exam hall is quite intriguing to watch.
5. Have fun. Do what you like best. Just a little dose of singing Bruno mars "just the way you are" can have a good effect on you.
When things get bored i start writing a song. It keeps me occupied instead of comparing myself to one cute guy in the lecture hall.
6. Take care of yourself. Buy skin toning lotions and cream. Wear a moderate makeup, keep a clean set of teeth so that you can give a guy that catching smile.
Fix a good hair that fits your physique not what is trending.
I just cut a neat round cut hairstyle, wear my glasses, a long sleeved body hug manually folded to the elbow, a pair of skintight trousers and a neat black sandals. Its my signature clothe style, and some of ma coursemates are imitating already.
No eyelash fixing.
Wear something good. You dont need to dress like Kim khadarshian tho. Just something smart.
I personally love smart dressing ladies.
There you go.
I do tell myself this
"No matter how ugly i am i know there is someone who is dieing for me and thinks am the most handsome guy out there."

thanks,i really appreciate

Ranchhoddas:
Which holy book talk this one?

the Bible ISAIAH 34:16

Bunmijanet25:
we are on holiday and I am the only one at home

Are they no people in your neighborhood you can mingle with?