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Re: With These Discoveries, Can I Continue With Her?? by sandra50(f): 12:16pm On Nov 14, 2018 |
mtngloetiartel:Mumu..real women abhor your type.small boy claiming a man.i will never tell any man my secrets..let him also keep his.whats the use?the break the relationship when we know secrets are not pleasant to the ears. |
Re: With These Discoveries, Can I Continue With Her?? by Dollypizzle13(f): 12:30pm On Nov 14, 2018 |
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Re: With These Discoveries, Can I Continue With Her?? by freeman95(m): 12:41pm On Nov 14, 2018 |
Grupo: Bro please tell me What beer or wine do u drink ? Lemme order one for u for this your post |
Re: With These Discoveries, Can I Continue With Her?? by ify1237: 12:45pm On Nov 14, 2018 |
Don't put all your mind 100% in the relationship. Give the relationship time. study her seriously. plus if things work out and you want children, make sure she is pregnant before marriage (natural or assisted reproduction) because the womb or Fallopian tube might be absent. Remember you aren't perfect also. treat her with love so she can pour her heart out to you. She might have had a rough beginning, rape, single parent wahala, no friends, no caring neighbors, or maybe youthful exuberance etc. I wish you well sir. Nice one... God bless you |
Re: With These Discoveries, Can I Continue With Her?? by nady94: 12:46pm On Nov 14, 2018 |
EricBloodAxe:not all ladies in their early twenties act like that, some are very decent and some old ladies in their late 20's do worse, so it's not a thing of age but something of a way if life, which can actually be changed. |
Re: With These Discoveries, Can I Continue With Her?? by BlackPantherCri: 12:53pm On Nov 14, 2018 |
enshi: You don't need to know these answers. So don't ask if you can't handle what you hear. Also she's very young. People do stupid things when they were younger. Doesn't mean they are bad people. I got married at 24. Ive never cheated in almost 15 years of marriage. I did crazy things when I was younger. Do I regret them, NO! Because they were mistakes and I learnt from them and it made me a better person and has fashioned the decisions I make. Big deal she dated a married man? Question you should ask is has she repented? One night stand? Big deal? Him without sin cast the first stone. I had suitors left right and center since I turned 16, it got into my head. Recently, I've had the opportunity to talk with some of my exes and they told me they left because I was not serious. It was the prime of my life, I went clubbing every weekend, I entered night bus to go and visit strangers. Hell I took a flight halfway across the Atlantic to visit a guy I met randomly. Young girls are adventurous, it is part of growing up. If she didn't do those things when she was younger, she may want to try them when she's older out of boredom and curiosity. And by 22, I was tired and realised this was too much energy. I needed to get my priorities straight. I met an older, even more crazy guy in what we called raves in London. Doped up parties with spiked drinks and people throwing up all over the place clearly an immoral place. He also had done even more crazy things when he was younger than I could ever imagine (like the party, dated sisters, dated his father's friends wife, tried drugs like coke, played girls) and was also tired of that kind of life. Hell it was his prime and should I have judged him when I am not his God? The most important thing is genuine repentance. We both settled down to create a future together. I cannot beat my chest and swear he hasn't cheated. That is between him and his creator, but me, I have never cheated since we started dating when I was 22, and I will never cheat. I double dated in the past, I didn't enjoy it, I can't endure that hell again. Life is better when your hands are clean. No guilt shame and doubt. I learnt it from my past. We talk of those crazy things we did in our past like war scars and tease each other about it. Sometimes he is like what the hell, did I tell you about that? And somethings I did, like him rescuing me from stalker exes, I'm like shhhhhiiiiit! Can't believe you haven't forgotten that. I wasn't the domestic type, my husband taught me how to be a wife, in love and patience. He didn't ban me from clubbing, we clubbed together for a while till a baby was coming and for 10 years, I keep postponing the day we will club again because there is simply no time with 3 children all over my hair and I'm hoping to sleep one extra hour before all the madness starts again. He didn't stop me from working, I decided to be a housewife so I won't collapse from exhaustion. Anyone who knows me won't believe I became a housewife so I can be a better wife. It is all about choices. We are better Christians, we go to church, pay our tithes, fast and pray, teach our children the way of the Lord now So bro! Figure out if she has repented and mould her into the wife you want her to be. She's young, this is the best time to make her into the woman you want to spend the future with, if you really want to marry her. 5 Likes |
Re: With These Discoveries, Can I Continue With Her?? by BlackPantherCri: 12:56pm On Nov 14, 2018 |
samysmoothfresh: I'm telling you. Early twenties is a crazy age for a girl |
Re: With These Discoveries, Can I Continue With Her?? by Magicdon(m): 12:56pm On Nov 14, 2018 |
Bluehill1051: hahahahahahahahahaha |
Re: With These Discoveries, Can I Continue With Her?? by BlackPantherCri: 1:01pm On Nov 14, 2018 |
Uchimah: Does the OP have Jesus in his life first of all so that he can lead someone else to Christ? |
Re: With These Discoveries, Can I Continue With Her?? by Grupo(m): 1:07pm On Nov 14, 2018 |
freeman95: Hahaha. The doctor said I should be drinking nowadays. |
Re: With These Discoveries, Can I Continue With Her?? by meobizy(f): 1:09pm On Nov 14, 2018 |
What should matter the most in your relationship is YOU. If you are not comfortable with the realization now, those doubts will only grow larger in future when the two of you are in a deeper stage of courtship. If you can cope, continue. However you creating this thread shows you are not willing to. My friend dive out now before you end up doing something you regret or she may do something you'll find difficult to recover from. |
Re: With These Discoveries, Can I Continue With Her?? by izy4all(m): 1:11pm On Nov 14, 2018 |
Feranchek: Guy finish the story na, what happened next..cos i dont believe a fish can be given to a cat without the cat testing it.. bad guys every where. lol |
Re: With These Discoveries, Can I Continue With Her?? by Nobody: 1:16pm On Nov 14, 2018 |
Dollypizzle13: Ok. He should go to Amazon site, type the book's name and get it without using that link. Affiliate kor, liateaffi ni |
Re: With These Discoveries, Can I Continue With Her?? by Mysine: 1:26pm On Nov 14, 2018 |
Reverse roles. Answer your questions truthfully, thereafter ask for comments. |
Re: With These Discoveries, Can I Continue With Her?? by antojack: 1:26pm On Nov 14, 2018 |
chiommy123:I swear |
Re: With These Discoveries, Can I Continue With Her?? by CharlesJok3r: 1:34pm On Nov 14, 2018 |
Another insecure pig. A wiseman once told me "never ask a question to which the answer you never want to know". You truly don't wan't to know these answers before in the first place, then why the fu<k did you went ahead to ask these questions ? all the questions you asked just show the type of person you are. wondering if sexual intercouse is the only topic in the world for you to discuss about. The fact that she gave you honesty replies to your questions shows you too should do the same by telling her how uncomfortable and insecure you are with her past and present and baid her goodbye so that you can just continue your search for a virgin and holy house wife material. |
Re: With These Discoveries, Can I Continue With Her?? by Fourwinds: 1:36pm On Nov 14, 2018 |
mysticgal:nawa for you ooooo |
Re: With These Discoveries, Can I Continue With Her?? by djon78(m): 1:38pm On Nov 14, 2018 |
BlackPantherCri: Wow this your story made my day!!! Nothing is as sweet as someone who lived a rough life Turning new leaf!!!! Your story is very inspiring!!! Kudos!!! |
Re: With These Discoveries, Can I Continue With Her?? by Fourwinds: 1:52pm On Nov 14, 2018 |
sandra50:Okokobiokor |
Re: With These Discoveries, Can I Continue With Her?? by Feranchek(m): 1:57pm On Nov 14, 2018 |
izy4all: Baba the babe still dey form good geh na. As I bring out jumanji sey make I start, na then she remember sey she be 'Virgin' . Should kon say make we stop. @slikbae omo no be sey I no wan straff ooo.... Buh she nor green and I didn't bother pushing cos I was already irritated buh thought I should go the extra mile and let her be the one to say No. @Iannathan oga boss tankyu sar !! |
Re: With These Discoveries, Can I Continue With Her?? by misaacdelight(m): 1:57pm On Nov 14, 2018 |
My Brother If I Would Have My Way I Will Tell U To Continue Ur Plan Date With Her, But Ask Yourself Can U Stand The Heat? It Ur Choice That Matter. |
Re: With These Discoveries, Can I Continue With Her?? by Magicdon(m): 2:01pm On Nov 14, 2018 |
What questions did she ask you? What replies did you give her? [quote author=enshi post=72949466] |
Re: With These Discoveries, Can I Continue With Her?? by freeman95(m): 2:03pm On Nov 14, 2018 |
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Re: With These Discoveries, Can I Continue With Her?? by misaacdelight(m): 2:05pm On Nov 14, 2018 |
enshi: |
Re: With These Discoveries, Can I Continue With Her?? by aojully: 2:34pm On Nov 14, 2018 |
what is 3some? |
Re: With These Discoveries, Can I Continue With Her?? by Nobody: 2:34pm On Nov 14, 2018 |
Hm na wao but the babe is sincere oo i wont lie. There are babes who have done worse but they will portray themselves as a mother theresa to u. But u op why stress urself asking her these questions wen u not planning to get married to her. |
Re: With These Discoveries, Can I Continue With Her?? by Nobody: 2:40pm On Nov 14, 2018 |
babra19:ahha this one is a very good point. It could really be the babe is not really interested in the op and she said all that jus to discourage him. Most babes tend to hide their ugly secrets from a guy they really like. They might hint to u that they aint saints but they will never tell u wat they did. 1 Like |
Re: With These Discoveries, Can I Continue With Her?? by musa7m(m): 3:09pm On Nov 14, 2018 |
selfwife:no vex.....you be Yoruba.... I meaning afonja..... na una dey do pregnant be4 marriage |
Re: With These Discoveries, Can I Continue With Her?? by drskyfly007(m): 3:25pm On Nov 14, 2018 |
enshi:my bro I think you are safer with someone who tells you the truth and is real than a fake person claiming innocent..You are the reason why girls pretend a lot! |
Re: With These Discoveries, Can I Continue With Her?? by sweetilicious(f): 3:39pm On Nov 14, 2018 |
You spoke well.Your kind got wisdom and understanding which is rare. selfwife: 1 Like |
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