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Re: Should I Continue Giving Money To My Friend's Wife? by queenfav(f): 7:58pm On Dec 07, 2018 |
DBestDoc:can i hug you? I am amazed at the level of some people's entitlement mentality. 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Continue Giving Money To My Friend's Wife? by donshady(m): 7:58pm On Dec 07, 2018 |
FATHER Christmas |
Re: Should I Continue Giving Money To My Friend's Wife? by tabithababy(f): 8:03pm On Dec 07, 2018 |
Re: Should I Continue Giving Money To My Friend's Wife? by Chuksmonika(m): 8:05pm On Dec 07, 2018 |
queenfav:leme borrow an expression that my Brother and Friend Antiriot uses frequently,I Put it to you that you are the wisest Lady in Nairaland 4 Likes |
Re: Should I Continue Giving Money To My Friend's Wife? by queenfav(f): 8:06pm On Dec 07, 2018 |
Chuksmonika:lol abeg o. That one pass me. I am just a humble realist.. 3 Likes |
Re: Should I Continue Giving Money To My Friend's Wife? by TheCongo2: 8:09pm On Dec 07, 2018 |
bucho8888: What was your story of you don't mind me asking. Please kill the CAPS. |
Re: Should I Continue Giving Money To My Friend's Wife? by obinna58(m): 8:10pm On Dec 07, 2018 |
alimaa: Render help to people if you think it worth it, it gives a peaceful mind, if you really think she needs help and you're in position to, forget the ones you've done before and do more for her. Remember if only it worth it |
Re: Should I Continue Giving Money To My Friend's Wife? by delpee(f): 8:10pm On Dec 07, 2018 |
Why don't you give your friend and let him give his wife? Consistent direct communication with and payments to her without involving your friend could lead to trouble. Also be careful. It's wiser to assist your friend by assisting to set him or his wife up in a viable business if he's unemployed. You'll get tired of giving someday if they don't relent. Giving is great and attracts amazing blessings but one should give those truly in need. The Bible says a man who can not provide for his family has denied the faith. 1 Timothy 5:8. It also says a woman must be a homemaker (in summary) by being a valuable helpmate for her husband. Prov.31:10-31 She's not expected to be totally dependent on her husband. Give by all means but plan your own life too. 3 Likes |
Re: Should I Continue Giving Money To My Friend's Wife? by juneman: 8:13pm On Dec 07, 2018 |
Shibaraba: |
Re: Should I Continue Giving Money To My Friend's Wife? by bleskid: 8:18pm On Dec 07, 2018 |
nothing bad about it....bro |
Re: Should I Continue Giving Money To My Friend's Wife? by negbike(f): 8:19pm On Dec 07, 2018 |
HarunaWest: Very stupid comment. My take is help them if you can but through her husband. This isn't proper. 3 Likes |
Re: Should I Continue Giving Money To My Friend's Wife? by Ehinmola(m): 8:23pm On Dec 07, 2018 |
If care is not taken, she will soon end up in your bedroom. Much as I appreciate your guestures, you still need to be very careful. Let her husband know so as to avoid issues. 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Continue Giving Money To My Friend's Wife? by Chiefochiefo(m): 8:25pm On Dec 07, 2018 |
With your question bro, I think you are pompous and always seek public attention you must be greedy and selfish in your giving. Am sure you must have also told your wife that you are doing good to your friend and you know pretty well that women talks anyhow Try and be conservative next time. ....Chiefo.... 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Continue Giving Money To My Friend's Wife? by negbike(f): 8:25pm On Dec 07, 2018 |
Oyindidi: Very STUPID comment. The issue is that she's a MARRIED woman and asking behind her husband's back. Not proper. He's asking for advice to protect himself. 3 Likes |
Re: Should I Continue Giving Money To My Friend's Wife? by negbike(f): 8:27pm On Dec 07, 2018 |
Chiefochiefo: Another DUMB comment. The issue is that she is MARRIED and going behind her husband's back. That's wrong. 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Continue Giving Money To My Friend's Wife? by Oyindidi(f): 8:29pm On Dec 07, 2018 |
negbike:Hey! I don't care if you disagree with my post. What is he protecting himself from? |
Re: Should I Continue Giving Money To My Friend's Wife? by Princezibk: 8:29pm On Dec 07, 2018 |
Honestly,some women lack shame... or do you look like Santa clause? |
Re: Should I Continue Giving Money To My Friend's Wife? by Oyindidi(f): 8:29pm On Dec 07, 2018 |
negbike:Advice the op wise man |
Re: Should I Continue Giving Money To My Friend's Wife? by melodyogonna(m): 8:32pm On Dec 07, 2018 |
oloriLFC: And she might also try to ruin OP's marriage with this. |
Re: Should I Continue Giving Money To My Friend's Wife? by Childofaking: 8:33pm On Dec 07, 2018 |
brodalikeme:"Life is like a pendulum. You dont know which direction it might swing tomorrow" This your word got me. Very true. And the fact is that life is not a straight line. It moves in waves. The one receiving today may be the giver tomorrow and vice versa. He who has ears to hear should better hear now o. 3 Likes |
Re: Should I Continue Giving Money To My Friend's Wife? by AuroraB(f): 8:33pm On Dec 07, 2018 |
brodalikeme:God bless you for this wisest comment so far. You are wise. He wrote the husband isn't working yet previous poster's are calling on the husband? Wow! 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Continue Giving Money To My Friend's Wife? by Lomprico2: 8:34pm On Dec 07, 2018 |
alimaa: Don't give her again without her husband's consent! Because if you do, you are belittling your friend, its like he is not man enough to take care of his wife. And if she have a quarell with her husband, she might use it against him to hurt him which will definitely affect the relationship with ur friend. 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Continue Giving Money To My Friend's Wife? by Beavalue: 8:34pm On Dec 07, 2018 |
if you can continue to help her,pls do.You never know where your act will take you to tomorrow. you mentioned that your friend sometimes asks you for help......well maybe things aren't going so well n he's tired of asking you for help all the time.thats y his wife is doing the asking |
Re: Should I Continue Giving Money To My Friend's Wife? by nnaeyes6: 8:37pm On Dec 07, 2018 |
I think there is something or a picture that is missing here! Is ur wife aware of these helps before u start explaining itself to nairaland on how women are wicked. please tell ur wive that ur guys wife needs antenatal care for her approval. then let ur guy know what his wife is demanding from u for his own approval. Remember how women do their DEFAULT SETTING. Ur friends wife may have fallen in love with u because u have, or she might be demanding all these things thinking that it is her right in Nigerian Constitution as amended 1999, section 5, subsection 2c. 6 Likes |
Re: Should I Continue Giving Money To My Friend's Wife? by maisauki: 8:39pm On Dec 07, 2018 |
U can now since u want d relationship wit ur friend to end |
Re: Should I Continue Giving Money To My Friend's Wife? by alimaa: 8:39pm On Dec 07, 2018 |
AuroraB:Her husband has a good job. |
Re: Should I Continue Giving Money To My Friend's Wife? by Evagbosoria: 8:39pm On Dec 07, 2018 |
HarunaWest:Shey na op give am belle? Rubbish. No give am Shishi abeg. Greedy woman 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Continue Giving Money To My Friend's Wife? by fykes(m): 8:42pm On Dec 07, 2018 |
It's a no no... As a principle, I don't give money or financial assistance to any married lady... Except of course she is my sister. Thats how my colleague has been pestering me for money even though I know her hubby. That woman is only trying to make money the only way she knows how to... Sex appeal to men and lies. Don't be surprised even in his state her husband still sends her money. Some women are shameless. 4 Likes |
Re: Should I Continue Giving Money To My Friend's Wife? by Nobody: 8:43pm On Dec 07, 2018 |
alimaa:first I will say you are extremely nice, not many people will respond to other people's needs no matter the kind of relationship they share. Having said this, I will encourage you to help her in any way you can knowing that if she or her husband had the money, they wouldn't bother you with their problems. Life is all about seasons, you might be their rock today and tmr, they might be yours |
Re: Should I Continue Giving Money To My Friend's Wife? by DBestDoc(f): 8:44pm On Dec 07, 2018 |
queenfav: Hahaha. e-hugs my dear. |
Re: Should I Continue Giving Money To My Friend's Wife? by semyman: 8:46pm On Dec 07, 2018 |
Counselors without any certification everywhere |
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