ColdPizzas:


The two articles I posted actually had academic sources. Maybe if you had read the entire document you would have seen it. One of the sources is a book by Stephen Murray and Will Roscoe titled: Boy wives and female husband's - studies in African Homosexualities.

Back to my question which you have done a poor job at evading. Where is your source to refute the prevailing academic literature on this subject? If your response is that "you are African and you know the mood," then that's not a very sufficient or coherent response.

No insults please. Else I will ignore you.
I read. A lot. More than you probably.
The article was written by a Nigerian gay man. And I actually read some of the cited sources.
Nothing substantial.

He was just trying to justify his gay behaviour.
In the boy wife stuff, he was talking about Hausa words and how they label some people boy wife due to their behaviour. Not homosexuality per se.
Inference.

I am on mobile. If time and situation permits, tomorrow on PC we will trash this out.

Better still. I will create a thread for it and seek for other people's opinion.

ColdPizzas:


The two articles I posted actually had academic sources. Maybe if you had read the entire document you would have seen it. One of the sources is a book by Stephen Murray and Will Roscoe titled: Boy wives and female husband's - studies in African Homosexualities.

Back to my question which you have done a poor job at evading. Where is your source to refute the prevailing academic literature on this subject? If your response is that "you are African and you know the mood," then that's not a very sufficient or coherent response.

those are authors trying to sell their book. I have books about africa before and there was no single mention of homosexuality..

Reading through the article. I noticed its political tonation. THey are trying hard to justify homosexuality just because of african stance against it

thebosstrevor:


those are authors trying to sell their book. I have books about africa before and there was no single mention of homosexuality..

Reading through the article. I noticed its political tonation. THey are trying hard to justify homosexuality just because of african stance against it

Exactly. Don't mind the guy

ComputerOperato:


The article was written by a Nigerian gay man. And I actually read some of the cited sources.
Nothing substantial.

He was just trying to justify his gay behaviour.

How about the book I mentioned that's an actual academic source? Did you read it too?

Again, I am willing to change my opinion completely if you provide me with a source that refutes these academic sources. All you have done since is just dismiss any research negating your view without even basing your dismissal on any verifiable historical information. You aren't a historian neither are you an anthropologist. You are just a handwaving, uninformed dismisser of information that doesn't support your worldview.

ColdPizzas:


How about the book I mentioned that's an actual academic source? Did you read it too?

Again, I am willing to change my opinion completely if you provide me with a source that refutes these academic sources. All you have done since is just dismiss any research negating your view without even basing your dismissal on any verifiable historical information. You aren't a historian neither are you an anthropologist. You are just a handwaving, uninformed dismisser of information that doesn't support your worldview.

And you are a rude, uninformed individual trying to justify your awkward sexual orientation.
Now I know two things
1) You don't read. I told you about discussing without insults.
2) You are gay hence trying to justify your behaviour

I am am academician. This is a public forum so I won't say more than that.

Finally, since you are uncouth, I will ignore you henceforth.

ColdPizzas:


What's a propaganda? The research material is fake or that homosexuality isn't biological?

what brought homosexuality talk here na?

ComputerOperato:


And you are a rude, uninformed individual trying to justify your awkward sexual orientation.
Now I know two things
1) You don't read. I told you about discussing without insults.
2) You are gay hence trying to justify your behaviour

I am am academician. This is a public forum so I won't say more than that.

Finally, since you are uncouth, I will ignore you henceforth.

I'm not a homosexual but I certainly don't discriminate on the basis of someone's sexual orientation as long as they aren't inflicting harm on anyone.

Let's say that I don't read. Okay. You are the one that reads. Now from all your reading give me a verifiable source that states that in precolonial & prechristian African societies homosexuality was proscribed as it is today.

If stating the obvious is tantamount to insults then so be it. Who cares what you are. I couldn't care less if you were an academician or a morgue worker. What matters to me is how well you can defend your claims. And you have done a very terrible job at that.

Your ignoring me is respite from the frustrating experience of responding to a handwaving homophobic sissy who argues without facts.

Amakababe:
what brought homosexuality talk here na?

I was responding to someone that brought the subject up. Ask him.

ColdPizzas:


I was responding to someone that brought the subject up. Ask him.

shut up.
Don't derail this thread with homo arguments pls.

Amakababe:
shut up.
Don't derail this thread with homo arguments pls.

Is this your version of being deliberately rude to a guy to gain his attention?

Try harder.

newdawn2017:
They still stay with abuser cos they ve lost d strength 2 leave due d fact d@ they got accustomed 2 d abuse & began seeing d abuse as a norm.

Please, you just admitted to my last comment. Some women -- i said some women -- are super turned on by abuse.

Thanks to porn, there is definitely a lot of sexual madness going on.

There was a girl I was using to oil engine last year.
One day while we were chilling she said she has been thinking about trying out a fantasy of hers.

I said what?

She say she feels hot whenever she watches porn that involves a woman using a strapon on a man.

That was the last night I called her over to my house for any kind of fuckery.
Make persin no do one night and one small girl starts talking bout "my turn "....as in what the actual fawk?

Admin401:
Please, you just admitted to my last comment. Some women -- i said some women -- are super turned on by abuse.

Cos they consider it as fun, gangster loving, which leads 2 mad sex afterward. But soon they learn pains deeply, while violent death crouches @ d door step. Dey face imminent doom, although some make it out alive but badly damaged. Sadly some women doesn't.

ColdPizzas:


There is quite a difference between human behavior and human sexuality. Culture and environment has a way lesser effect on the later and this effect is mainly on how it's expressed in public. Human sexuality pertains to our sexual preferences - this is primarily biologically mediated and since lots of human sexual activities are done in private, culture doesn't play that much of a role. There were female masochists in sub-saharan Africa before the advent of the internet.

Anthropological research has confirmed that homosexuality was prevalent in ancient African cultures. The current opposition to homosexuality in African countries is a consequence of the spread of Christianity post colonization.

Abeg manage this beer, no vex say e small.

luizpippo:
My ex would lie on her tommy and ask me to pin her waist abi na hips down and penetrate the kuntus from behind(not anal ), she would be screaming harder, faster, deeper and all sorts, meanwhile i will only be thinking how not to hurt someone's daughter because i won't want to end up in jail.

lols that style is kindoff dif 2 do! But sweet

newdawn2017:
Cos they consider it as fun, gangster loving, which leads 2 mad sex afterward. But soon they learn pains deeply, while violent death crouches @ d door step. Dey face imminent doom, although some make it out alive but badly damaged. Sadly some women doesn't.

Well, I don't care what happens to them afterwards. I'm just of the notion that some girls 'like' extreme violence. It doesn't take a genius to figure out the outcome.

ColdPizzas:


I'm not a homosexual but I certainly don't discriminate on the basis of someone's sexual orientation as long as they aren't inflicting harm on anyone.

Let's say that I don't read. Okay. You are the one that reads. Now from all your reading give me a verifiable source that states that in precolonial & prechristian African societies homosexuality was proscribed as it is today.

If stating the obvious is tantamount to insults then so be it. Who cares what you are. I couldn't carless if you were an academician or a morgue worker. What matters to me is how well you can defend your claims. And you have done a very terrible job at that.

Your ignoring me is respite from the frustrating experience of responding to a handwaving homophobic sissy who argues without facts.

Well said

luizpippo:
My ex would lie on her tommy and ask me to pin her waist abi na hips down and penetrate the kuntus from behind(not anal ), she would be screaming harder, faster, deeper and all sorts, meanwhile i will only be thinking how not to hurt someone's daughter because i won't want to end up in jail.

You're supposed to shut her up by fucking her very hard

newdawn2017:
Cos they consider it as fun, gangster loving, which leads 2 mad sex afterward. But soon they learn pains deeply, while violent death crouches @ d door step. Dey face imminent doom, although some make it out alive but badly damaged. Sadly some women doesn't.

You seem to be writing from experience

Admin401:
It's not weird, some ladies get turned on by extreme violence that only a man can provide. Why do you think girls don't leave guys that abuse them? Why do you think they like that kind of men so much?

When you yell at a girl;
Her head is like

Her pusy is like

Your very right about this
Some girls get really turned on when they are been yelled at by a lover or lemme say abused
They find it hard to leave that particular guy.

nifemi25:
Unbelievable. How would a lady be beating before you have an intercourse with her ? Its weird.

beaten

Allaboutkatiee:


Your very right about this
Some girls get really turned on when they are been yelled at by a lover or lemme say abused
They find it hard to leave that particular guy.

Wonderful!

luizpippo:
My ex would lie on her tommy and ask me to pin her waist abi na hips down and penetrate the kuntus from behind(not anal ), she would be screaming harder, faster, deeper and all sorts, meanwhile i will only be thinking how not to hurt someone's daughter because i won't want to end up in jail.

I don't think her sexual behavior is weird cos she's using that position to make her g spot more accessible for you to hit the spot. you can tell her that my room is also the g spot.

thebosstrevor:


the research material is fake.

I have read some research by western researcher about africa and many of them are wrong.

Pls post ur link to the research about homosexuality in african society before christianity came.

I studied anthropology.

the research is bloody fake.

Nigerians. are so gullible once a white men comes up with an opinion, and they add the word "study" or "survey" to it, boom !!


it automatically becomes a valid truth to Nigerians without them making finding of their own.

NathanAnomaly:




Nigerians. are so gullible once a white men comes up with an opinion, and they add the word "study" or "survey" to it, boom !!

Why don't you come up with your own version of what the truth is? Oh wait, you can't. You're just going to nagg over a concept that has been adopted since the days of early men, and then try to act like it's only Nigerians that believe such concept. Try convincing a white person without showing him a study or survey that has been done. You people can be so ignorant and twisted sometimes. lel.

Admin401:
Why don't you come up with your own version of what the truth is? Oh wait, you can't. You're just going to nagg over a concept that has been adopted since the days of early men, and then try to act like it's only Nigerians that believe such concept. Try convincing a white person without showing him a study or survey that has been done. You people can be so ignorant and twisted sometimes. lel.

ur understanding is skewed I swear,

what u don't know is that surveys can be manipulated to pass across a message.

na bloody lie, the research is not accurate, I am telling u with all certainty

NathanAnomaly:




na bloody lie, the research is not accurate, I am telling u with all certainty Trust be bro, I'm a very certain guy. Just believe me. I have no proof, but just believe me.

hahahaha okay bro. I believe you.

NathanAnomaly:


I studied anthropology.

the research is bloody fake.

Nigerians. are so gullible once a white men comes up with an opinion, and they add the word "study" or "survey" to it, boom !!


it automatically becomes a valid truth to Nigerians without them making finding of their own.

dont mind them, that is how i read one research done by three european women (so called researchers) about the uses of palm oil in Africa ritual practise, if you see what they wrote, total bull shit but some people will take it as the truth

Ritual uses of palms in traditional medicine in sub-Saharan Africa-
(https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/25056559)

i had to email those "researchers" about the rubbish they wrote, they didnt reply, i am planning of writing their school

in their so called research, they wrote that in Nigeria we see tortoise as a symbol of "prostitute", i won laugh die

many of western researchers dont understand anything about african culture, they just write nonsense to make western people think we are so primitive which is not true and many gullible africans will be believing those nonsense.

Admin401:

hahahaha okay bro. I believe you.

u edited my comment, I never said that

See as una use homo talk spoil this sweet thread

kelvinrhs:

You seem to be writing from experience

Walayi! My brother