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Re: Reality Not Just Opinion: Advice For Young Single Women by highpriestess: 3:43pm On Dec 17, 2018 |
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Re: Reality Not Just Opinion: Advice For Young Single Women by Nobody: 3:44pm On Dec 17, 2018 |
Is the man pursuing the woman or is it the other way round? Is the woman putting the ring on the mans finger or is it the other way round? What I’m trying to say is that, the man is the one who chases the woman. He goes out of his way to impress and choose the woman he wants. You may not understand this, but each to their own. 1Sharon: 3 Likes |
Re: Reality Not Just Opinion: Advice For Young Single Women by HardMirror(m): 3:46pm On Dec 17, 2018 |
1Sharon:what is even the big deal in having sex? How many ladies are virgins at the time of their marriage. Why deny the one guy you want to marry just because you think it would make him hurry up as if sex is all he wants to marry her for |
Re: Reality Not Just Opinion: Advice For Young Single Women by HardMirror(m): 3:49pm On Dec 17, 2018 |
WORDWORLD:loj hahn capslocked you need to watch this video. So funny 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Not Just Opinion: Advice For Young Single Women by YUNGLURD(m): 3:55pm On Dec 17, 2018 |
highpriestess:If that's ur point, don't u think it will be better u rub off this "I think they will hasten up with whatever plans they have or leave the relationship" |
Re: Reality Not Just Opinion: Advice For Young Single Women by MichaelBukamzy(m): 3:57pm On Dec 17, 2018 |
Did someone just said that a man can decide to propose and marry a woman just for sex? madam/oga, such marriage does'nt last.we have gone past that age.these days marriages ends becbuse of inadequate sex or disatisfaction.what if after the long wait,they eventually have sex and the pussy that he have been denied for so long gets to him,and during sex he finds out that the pussy is a perfect example of "many were called but you were chosen",then, it aint worth it.or the other way round,she is the type that craves for good sex and his joystick is ciga size or that he underpeformed.apparently cheating might ruin such union. sex before marriage aint bad jaree. 1 Like |
Re: Reality Not Just Opinion: Advice For Young Single Women by AryEmber(f): 3:59pm On Dec 17, 2018 |
You see? They all say virginity is over rated but when you say to them, let's stop sex for a while or till marriage, they ask you, are you a virgin? What a screwed up world we are in! 2 Likes |
Re: Reality Not Just Opinion: Advice For Young Single Women by CAPSLOCKED: 4:00pm On Dec 17, 2018 |
HardMirror: MAYBE 1 OUT OF EVERY 100,000. WE SHOULD EXPECT THE NUMBERS TO BE HIGHER CONSIDERING HOW THEY TRY TO BLACKMAIL MEN WITH SEX, AND CLAIM "MEN LOVE SEX". THEY GO AS FAR AS CLAIMING THEY THE WOMEN DON'T LIKE SEX, AND MOSTLY DO IT JUST TO PLEASE THEIR MALE PARTNERS. THERE SHOULD BE MORE VIRGINS AROUND IF THAT'S THE CASE, DON'T YOU THINK? EVEN THE VIRGINS WE HAVE THESE DAYS DO ANAL, AND RUB THEIR CLĮT TO CLIMAX.. WHILE CRITICISING NON-VIRGINS. IDĮOTS. 4 Likes |
Re: Reality Not Just Opinion: Advice For Young Single Women by 1Sharon(f): 4:01pm On Dec 17, 2018 |
Saffi: I do understand, it's just that I feel you no- sex crew are hypocritical. Only a minority of ppl get married as virgins |
Re: Reality Not Just Opinion: Advice For Young Single Women by HardMirror(m): 4:11pm On Dec 17, 2018 |
AryEmber:abegi. Guys are getting married everyday 99% of those girls you see getting married everyday are not virgins and we marry them all the same and love them as they are. Stop all this childishness only kids are looking for virgins. Men even assume u aint a virgin until you tell them you are 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Not Just Opinion: Advice For Young Single Women by pocohantas(f): 4:12pm On Dec 17, 2018 |
I honestly do not think having sex with a man will make him not to propose. If there is one thing I have come to realise recently, it is the fact that...a man knows what he wants. A man can delay commitment for years with his gf, meet another girl next week and marry her in a month. It is not by sex, it is not by wifely or husband duties (whatever that means). He just sees you and it clicks. Most likely the way you complete him. When you meet that man, you'll know that, when a man is in love...another mumu is born 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Not Just Opinion: Advice For Young Single Women by 1Sharon(f): 4:16pm On Dec 17, 2018 |
pocohantas: This is so true |
Re: Reality Not Just Opinion: Advice For Young Single Women by Nobody: 4:39pm On Dec 17, 2018 |
pocohantas: [b]I HOPE YOU FIND YOUR MUMU VERY SOON. 1 Like |
Re: Reality Not Just Opinion: Advice For Young Single Women by highpriestess: 4:41pm On Dec 17, 2018 |
YUNGLURD:A man that has good intention for you won't leave cos of sex, if he leaves ; then, it's safe to say that he's just their for the cookie. So, I didn't make a mistake. |
Re: Reality Not Just Opinion: Advice For Young Single Women by HardMirror(m): 4:47pm On Dec 17, 2018 |
highpriestess:wrong. What if sex was on his most important things list? Or it is wrong also to have sex as on of those things you wld want in a relationship that wld lead to marraige? Dont worry sef. Close ur legs well he will propose because of that |
Re: Reality Not Just Opinion: Advice For Young Single Women by pocohantas(f): 4:50pm On Dec 17, 2018 |
...And please, ladies should note that the men who are really gonna marry women. The men who are truly searching for partners, they are not these neanderthals and juveniles running amok in this section. So, do not take their talk as the standard, then go playing silly mind games with a mature dude out there. What exactly is wifely duties in a relationship? Why don't we ever hear of husbandly duties in a relationship? All we hear is how real men do this and that. If you are good, you are good. The things you do for loved ones will come naturally to you. But then, if you have principles that are dear to you, abide by them. 3 Likes |
Re: Reality Not Just Opinion: Advice For Young Single Women by hahn(m): 4:55pm On Dec 17, 2018 |
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Re: Reality Not Just Opinion: Advice For Young Single Women by Nobody: 4:57pm On Dec 17, 2018 |
pocohantas: PLEASE LADIES ADHERE TO HER ADVICE SHE MUST HAVE GOTTEN PLENTY YEARS OF EXPERIENCE WITH DIFFERENT MEN ONLINE(NAIRALAND) AND OFFLINE TO HAVE BEEN ABLE TO COME UP WITH SUCH A PRECIOUS ADVICE . 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Reality Not Just Opinion: Advice For Young Single Women by Wuraola01(f): 5:09pm On Dec 17, 2018 |
I agree with Toks2008 100% @Op Why would a serious man date a woman for 3-5years. Biko, what're you guys doing for so long And the most painful part is that the guy might not even get married to the girl after dating her for so long. As for no sex before marriage- if the girl wants to have sex with you, it's fine! Don't make it a must for her in d relationship! Why would you even have sex with a lady for a year or so (depending on d duration)when u have no intention of settling down with her? Isn't it a man that would marry the one you've used and dumped? At the end of all, you'll come here and start calling women all sorts of names. 1 Like |
Re: Reality Not Just Opinion: Advice For Young Single Women by highpriestess: 5:16pm On Dec 17, 2018 |
HardMirror:So, what you are saying in essence is that relationship is all about "him and not about "us" The two parties should come to a cognitive understanding about their sexual orientations and if the guy refuses to adhere to the abstinence option, then, he should go find his match. Simple. |
Re: Reality Not Just Opinion: Advice For Young Single Women by DanDeeBoss(m): 5:17pm On Dec 17, 2018 |
Wuraola01:Thanks for the clarification... 1 Like
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Re: Reality Not Just Opinion: Advice For Young Single Women by pocohantas(f): 5:20pm On Dec 17, 2018 |
highpriestess: This is also very correct. They should both go find their match. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Reality Not Just Opinion: Advice For Young Single Women by MannieA(f): 5:30pm On Dec 17, 2018 |
HardMirror: guys are the ones who make sex so special.. you are saying girls have nothing to offer apart from sex,but a guy will meet a girl and the first thing on his mind will be his urge to f**k her..sex is always on y'all minds.You can't know wat a girl has to offer you when u Make sex a priority.. |
Re: Reality Not Just Opinion: Advice For Young Single Women by Wuraola01(f): 5:33pm On Dec 17, 2018 |
Re: Reality Not Just Opinion: Advice For Young Single Women by highpriestess: 5:35pm On Dec 17, 2018 |
MannieA:Remove sex from relationship and see them take to their heels. The way they say ladies have nothing to offer apart from sex would make you think they don't love sex. But when a lady offers to give them ; advice, prayer, peace, support, comfort and others then she tries to remove sex, that's when you will know that they can't do without the sex they talk as if they despise. Confused bunch. A good number of them will walk out the relationship because that's why they are in the relationship in the first place, to get laid but will be the first to make abhorrence announcement of it. |
Re: Reality Not Just Opinion: Advice For Young Single Women by mhizbel(f): 5:35pm On Dec 17, 2018 |
This is the conclusion of the whole matter: Fear God and marry a God-fearing man. |
Re: Reality Not Just Opinion: Advice For Young Single Women by MannieA(f): 5:47pm On Dec 17, 2018 |
highpriestess: you are very correct!!! a bunch of 'em be saying women are the sex freaks and have nothing to offer.. but how will they know wat a woman has to offer when they are dumb asf.very confused bunch!! 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Not Just Opinion: Advice For Young Single Women by AnonymousBee: 5:53pm On Dec 17, 2018 |
highpriestess:well said, If You observe very well, most guy that commented on this thread are playboys, They don't want to settle down. I pity young girls that will fall for their gimmicks. If you are a player meet your fellow player. Define your relationship, if you want a fuckmate, be fair enough to let your partner know. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Not Just Opinion: Advice For Young Single Women by Tallesty1(m): 5:58pm On Dec 17, 2018 |
HardMirror:Hardmirror said God bless you Well, it is the same mentality that they're doing guys a favor by given them sex, something you cannot give without receiving. 1 Like |
Re: Reality Not Just Opinion: Advice For Young Single Women by highpriestess: 6:12pm On Dec 17, 2018 |
AnonymousBee:Thank you. You noticed too. 1 Like |
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