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seems he is talking to aisha about jubril

Ranchhoddas:
How do you know?
He probably has four wives.

Once you see one kitten, you've seen them all

Ranchhoddas:
You are doing it again.
My daughters will make their choices

I know you'll teach/you've taught them to make wise choices

Ranchhoddas:
Muttley's nuggets.

Does the truth bother you

Ranchhoddas:
I don't know that. Some vegans might disagree.

Everyone loves the kokoko, vegans are not an exception
Talking of organic honey, have you eaten it straight off a honeycomb?

Ranchhoddas:
Love is an intoxicant, and like all intoxicants it wears off -- Alan Shore.

Which of the loves wears off?
How many expression of love, the types, exists in your local tongue?

Ladyhippolyta88:

And the men that are psychologically capable of marrying more than one wife how have they fared?
Or are you telling me that these men have been able to bring peace to their homes and that some of them have not had to die untimely due to the troubles that come with polygamous homes.


@topic,the cleric is an idiot and no sane woman shouldn swallow his rubbish if the alfalfa can agree to share his wives 25% with other women then they can have a conversation.You should not be giving this kind of backward advise in this time and age.

You can keep on feigning ignorance of the fact that polgyny (which is the appropriate word not polygamy which is the marriage of having more than one partner) has been practiced since time immemorial by our forefathers and women of that time never saw anything wrong it, and where happy having such even some were diabolical.

Now contextualise it with the modern day fervour for monogamy which has created more rate of infidelity and abuse of trust and all the ills we have been battling with everyday.
Because whether you like it or not man's taste for variety can't be quenched by one woman no matter what.
little wonder even your so called monogamist men have several strings of mistresses outside, but a man making such relationship legitimate is seen has abusing or oppressing women.

You can keep lying to yourselves that today's women were better than our grand mothers who practiced and appreciated polgyny.
I am speaking of reality not some fictitious Nolly-hollywood drama you people have been brainwashed with.

Will men (Muslim men) abuse this kind of relationship? Yes.
Will today's woman feel cheated by their husbands haviing more than one wife? Yes.
But remember, this is Islām and for Muslims NOT for Christians so don't break a sweat over an issue which was never your business in the first place.
So sister, face front!

Omudia11:
Lmao..... Your comment is reflective of a very docile brain honestly. Listen and listen good. That a woman is married to her husband does not rule out the possibility (or the lack thereof) that her kids may or may not be his. Even your wife who you may think is monogamous to you may have been knocked up by another man. Only a DNA test can verify the true paternity of a child.

I understand you very well. Because my brain can only be docile when it does not conforms to your standard but when it does ,it becomes enlightened.
Wack standards.

DNA or not, that should be the worry of a people who see free mixing as nothing hence the uncertainty of the real progenitors of their offspring.
I am not denying that fact that such could happen, but it is very less likely to find such with a core Muslim community than in a Christian community.

I can't but enumerate the benefits of polgyny as Islām instituted not what westerners or whoever is saying.
The Islāmic approach to polgyny that is what's the cleric is emphasing not your type of polgyny.

This is why religion is absolutely nonesense! Could some ask the idiot if he can share his wives with other men?

Omudia11:
Women in Taiwan, India and some Eastern Asian countries and even some African countries marry multiple husbands and they're coping just fine. It's all over the internet. Don't sit in your house and argue what you don't Know.

Even if they such, that is their standard and they can deal with it as they like .

The Islāmic standard remains that a woman (a Muslim woman in particular) should be willing to share her husband not because some over night moralist or confused and delusional 21st century thinkers think it is wrong.

Our forefathers who made such practice were and are still better than us in terms of building a disciplined family, but today what do we have?

In the end,the message was meant for Muslim women not for all and sundry nor for every Jane and Susan to air their dislike because the message was not meant for them.

Friend01:


You can keep on feigning ignorance of the fact that polgyny (which is the appropriate word not polygamy which is the marriage of having more than one partner) has been practiced since time immemorial by our forefathers and women of that time never saw anything wrong it, and where happy having such even some were diabolical.

Now contextualise it with the modern day fervour for monogamy which has created more rate of infidelity and abuse of trust and all the ills we have been battling with everyday.
Because whether you like it or not man's taste for variety can't be quenched by one woman no matter what.
little wonder even your so called monogamist men have several strings of mistresses outside, but a man making such relationship legitimate is seen has abusing or oppressing women.

You can keep lying to yourselves that today's women were better than our grand mothers who practiced and appreciated polgyny.
I am speaking of reality not some fictitious Nolly-hollywood drama you people have been brainwashed with.

Will men (Muslim men) abuse this kind of relationship? Yes.
Will today's woman feel cheated by their husbands haviing more than one wife? Yes.
But remember, this is Islām and for Muslims NOT for Christians so don't break a sweat over an issue which was never your business in the first place.
So sister, face front!

I am too intelligent to engage in the balderdash you wrote up there but let me tell you that women also have high sex drive like men I am sure you are familiar with infidelity cases committed by women.So why try to justify that of men and forget women.You are comparing todays world to the time of old and you forget that in those times women were not allowed to explore their sexual tendencies or fantasies as men.You think polygamy ends infidelity so why then did men of old still have concubines.
You can continue to preach tolerance and justify the lack of self control and discipline your men lack it is left for the women who chose to tolerate poor from men to swallow it hook line and sinker.
And yes todays women are better than the women of old if you don't like it you can take a time machine and head back to 1112 and leave 2018.
I hope that one day the age of enlightenment would come to Africa where people especially women would begin to question religion which has held them back continually.The truth is many religions especially Islam does not fit with the current day reality of things hence why Africa needs enlightenment.

Friend01:


You can keep on feigning ignorance of the fact that polgyny (which is the appropriate word not polygamy which is the marriage of having more than one partner) has been practiced since time immemorial by our forefathers and women of that time never saw anything wrong it, and where happy having such even some were diabolical.

Now contextualise it with the modern day fervour for monogamy which has created more rate of infidelity and abuse of trust and all the ills we have been battling with everyday.
Because whether you like it or not man's taste for variety can't be quenched by one woman no matter what.
little wonder even your so called monogamist men have several strings of mistresses outside, but a man making such relationship legitimate is seen has abusing or oppressing women.

You can keep lying to yourselves that today's women were better than our grand mothers who practiced and appreciated polgyny.
I am speaking of reality not some fictitious Nolly-hollywood drama you people have been brainwashed with.

Will men (Muslim men) abuse this kind of relationship? Yes.
Will today's woman feel cheated by their husbands haviing more than one wife? Yes.
But remember, this is Islām and for Muslims NOT for Christians so don't break a sweat over an issue which was never your business in the first place.
So sister, face front!

I am too intelligent to engage in the balderdash you wrote up there but let me tell you that women also have high sex drive like men I am sure you are familiar with infidelity cases committed by women.So why try to justify that of men and forget women.You are comparing todays world to the time of old and you forget that in those times women were not allowed to explore their sexual tendencies or fantasies as men.You think polygamy ends infidelity so why then did men of old still have concubines.
You can continue to preach tolerance and justify the lack of self control and discipline your men lack it is left for the women who chose to tolerate poor from men to swallow it hook line and sinker.
And yes todays women are better than the women of old if you don't like it you can take a time machine and head back to 1112 and leave 2018.
I hope that one day the age of enlightenment would come to Africa where people especially women would begin to question religion which has held them back continually.The truth is many religions especially Islam does not fit with the current day reality of things hence why Africa needs enlightenment.
Adios.

Friend01:


You can keep on feigning ignorance of the fact that polgyny (which is the appropriate word not polygamy which is the marriage of having more than one partner) has been practiced since time immemorial by our forefathers and women of that time never saw anything wrong it, and where happy having such even some were diabolical.

Now contextualise it with the modern day fervour for monogamy which has created more rate of infidelity and abuse of trust and all the ills we have been battling with everyday.
Because whether you like it or not man's taste for variety can't be quenched by one woman no matter what.
little wonder even your so called monogamist men have several strings of mistresses outside, but a man making such relationship legitimate is seen has abusing or oppressing women.

You can keep lying to yourselves that today's women were better than our grand mothers who practiced and appreciated polgyny.
I am speaking of reality not some fictitious Nolly-hollywood drama you people have been brainwashed with.

Will men (Muslim men) abuse this kind of relationship? Yes.
Will today's woman feel cheated by their husbands haviing more than one wife? Yes.
But remember, this is Islām and for Muslims NOT for Christians so don't break a sweat over an issue which was never your business in the first place.
So sister, face front!

Nonsense.I could careless about your opinion.

davodyguy:
interesting. I was just having a discourse with a lady about the subject. We are both married.

The question the cleric failed to answer or speak about is whether married women too should give 75% of their bodies to other men to.

It's such a shame, the Alfa didn't speak about that. I hope he comes back to speak about women too, except if what he believes in is partial and lopsided

He said the men dey do women favour, you no read that part? By the way it shouldn't bother you if you are not a Muslim. Those women who remain muslims despite knowing this fact shouldn't complain. I don't think they will knowing it is a choice that comes with being a Muslim. In Islam, women are purely objects of sexual gratification for men. That's how the prophet preached and practiced it.

Islam is just an avenue to give perverse males the permission to fully explore their greediness using women (who are willing to subject themselves to slavery in all forms), fellow males, children and animals. That's why they banned circumcision.

Its like a hippie cult.

hmmmmm.

Ladyhippolyta88:
Nonsense.I could careless about your opinion.

Thanks for the time.
I really appreciate your effort you put in to navigate beyond what is what your mental faculty is still confused to come to terms with.

And again, your opinions are well noted and articulated and immediately disregarded.

Jazakallahu khayra ya ustaz. We know ratio of females nowadays is very high compare to males,that is why some of them are resulting to baby mama because no husband to woo them. Marrying more than one wife if one is capable is a good way to go. All those abusing ustaz doesn't know anything until when they also have three daughters without a son.

Friend01:


You can keep on feigning ignorance of the fact that polgyny (which is the appropriate word not polygamy which is the marriage of having more than one partner) has been practiced since time immemorial by our forefathers and women of that time never saw anything wrong it, and where happy having such even some were diabolical.

Now contextualise it with the modern day fervour for monogamy which has created more rate of infidelity and abuse of trust and all the ills we have been battling with everyday.
Because whether you like it or not man's taste for variety can't be quenched by one woman no matter what.
little wonder even your so called monogamist men have several strings of mistresses outside, but a man making such relationship legitimate is seen has abusing or oppressing women.

You can keep lying to yourselves that today's women were better than our grand mothers who practiced and appreciated polgyny.
I am speaking of reality not some fictitious Nolly-hollywood drama you people have been brainwashed with.

Will men (Muslim men) abuse this kind of relationship? Yes.
Will today's woman feel cheated by their husbands haviing more than one wife? Yes.
But remember, this is Islām and for Muslims NOT for Christians so don't break a sweat over an issue which was never your business in the first place.
So sister, face front!

Were you there to know how it works for them? Aside of nollywood don’t we have grandma that share how polygamy destroys so many homes then? Step mother killing their step kids for inheritance. You want to tell me how sweet it was when I live there for 25years of my life? Did you guys even imagine how irresponsible that make you? Having many wives to give birth to children you could not care for just cos of your own satisfaction? How selfish? Do you think about the woman satisfaction also or you just don’t care about anyone than your self? The children will be left to suffer just cos their father chooses sex. The women involved will be left to cater for their children and the man will just be there rotating women as if that is the only thing he is here for. There are so many things to do if you want to do sunnah. Sex part of it should not be considered especially if you are not financially, mentally and psychologically capable to handle it.

olayinka63:
Jazakallahu khayra ya ustaz. We know ratio of females nowadays is very high compare to males,that is why some of them are resulting to baby mama because no husband to woo them. Marrying more than one wife if one is capable is a good way to go. All those abusing ustaz doesn't know anything until when they also have three daughters without a son.

Show me an average man in Nigeria today that is capable of even a wife and 4-5 kids not to talk of two wives. Epele, problem solver, that is the only solution you have for the social problem right? How about the other social problems this usually cause? How do we solve those?

Tbaby4real:


Show me an average man in Nigeria today that is capable of even a wife and 4-5 kids not to talk of two wives. Epele, problem solver, that is the only solution you have for the social problem right? How about the other social problems this usually cause? How do we solve those?

Your opinion stays with you likewise mine. I am from polygamous home, we didn't beg for food nor go on debt for our social needs. We are all educated, no social problem cause. Once you think you're capable do it. If you think you're not then stay with one. Even if you are not capable of maintaining one then don't marry atall. I'm still saying again, your orienatinn about polygamy will change once you, your neighbours have three, four daughters each without a son.

Ladyhippolyta88:

I am too intelligent to engage in the balderdash you wrote up there but let me tell you that women also have high sex drive like men I am sure you are familiar with infidelity cases committed by women.So why try to justify that of men and forget women.You are comparing todays world to the time of old and you forget that in those times women were not allowed to explore their sexual tendencies or fantasies as men.You think polygamy ends infidelity so why then did men of old still have concubines.
You can continue to preach tolerance and justify the lack of self control and discipline your men lack it is left for the women who chose to tolerate poor from men to swallow it hook line and sinker.
And yes todays women are better than the women of old if you don't like it you can take a time machine and head back to 1112 and leave 2018.
I hope that one day the age of enlightenment would come to Africa where people especially women would begin to question religion which has held them back continually.The truth is many religions especially Islam does not fit with the current day reality of things hence why Africa needs enlightenment.
Adios.

Had it been we could have a one on one chat so that I can sit you down and explain to you the benefit of having more than one wife.
Do. I blame you when all what most of your youths of this generation see and think when a man is engaged in matrimony with a woman is sex, sex, sex and more sex as if other responsibilities are not there.

The responsibility that comes with taking care if a wife is so enormous that sex might be a secondary or tertiary reasons for being married for most people.

I am a realist and I hope you will be able to come to reality with me.
What hope does a young widowed woman have with kids if we were to implement wholesale monogamous marriages.

I want you to give me a solution that would respect such woman's dignity?

What will look after her kids if her husband left nothing substantial for her and her kids?

And who will cater for her emotional needs when she needs to be intimate (since you said some woman also have high libido such as men which I agree with) ?

And again,lest I forget what about a man whose wife is medically incapable of bearing children :What solution do you have for such a man?


Please,I want you to tell me with proofs what other solution can be there other than polygny and please leave sex out of this for now,since some of you have been so yoked into it that is it as if it is the be all or end all of marriage. .

Remember I am not talking about baby mama here oh, I am talking about a morally acceptable standard.

The floor is yours.

MuttleyLaff:
Once you see one kitten, you've seen them all

I'm thinking of a suitable meme for this.

I know you'll teach/you've taught them to make wise choices

What constitutes wisdom these days is a matter of opinion

Does the truth bother you

What is truth?
We all have our truths.

Everyone loves the kokoko, vegans are not an exception

I am sure there are ways of gaining stamina without breaking the vegan code of ethics

Talking of organic honey, have you eaten it straight off a honeycomb?

Probably. I don't remember anymore. Is there a point?

Which of the loves wears off?
How many expression of love, the types, exists in your local tongue?

Pidgin English is the closest thing I have to a local tongue.

Tbaby4real:


Were you there to know how it works for them? Aside of nollywood don’t we have grandma that share how polygamy destroys so many homes then? Step mother killing their step kids for inheritance. You want to tell me how sweet it was when I live there for 25years of my life? Did you guys even imagine how irresponsible that make you? Having many wives to give birth to children you could not care for just cos of your own satisfaction? How selfish? Do you think about the woman satisfaction also or you just don’t care about anyone than your self? The children will be left to suffer just cos their father chooses sex. The women involved will be left to cater for their children and the man will just be there rotating women as if that is the only thing he is here for. There are so many things to do if you want to do sunnah. Sex part of it should not be considered especially if you are not financially, mentally and psychologically capable to handle it.

My sister, marrying more than one wife is part of what Allāh Himself has allowed for men capable of doing it and will not be brow beaten into not accepting.
If it did not work in your family it does not mean we throw out of the window because some people are abusing such rights.
We will continue to encourage it as long as it is a option which Allāh has granted men who CAN cope with such responsibilities that come with it.

If sex was not part of it, will it be okay for a man who let's say whose wife just put to bed and will have to wait another 40 days for his wife to be come clean before he engages her then he should wait; when he is financially and psychological fit to handle one extra wife than commit adultery?

The Shari'ah is so wide that it can accommodate everybody as afar as its boundaries are respected and we'll guarded.

mathānalization(2 wives), Thalalization(3 wives) and Arb'alization(4 wives) are well recognised and allowed and no kuffar can make me say otherwise.

Stop Telecasting ur strain of mania

LuciferGospel:
Islam the religion of preeqs.

Friend01:


My sister, marrying more than one wife is part of what Allāh Himself has allowed for men capable of doing it and will not be brow beaten into not accepting.
If it did not work in your family it does not mean we throw out of the window because some people are abusing such rights.
We will continue to encourage it as long as it is a option which Allāh has granted men who CAN cope with such responsibilities that come with it.

If sex was not part of it, will it be okay for a man who let's say whose wife just put to bed and will have to wait another 40 days for his wife to be come clean before he engages her then he should wait; when he is financially and psychological fit to handle one extra wife than commit adultery?

The Shari'ah is so wide that it can accommodate everybody as afar as its boundaries are respected and we'll guarded.

mathānalization(2 wives), Thalalization(3 wives) and Arb'alization(4 wives) are well recognised and allowed and no kuffar can make me say otherwise.

Show me a family it ever work in. The truth is it never work!!! Any average man in Nigeria today that is capable of two wives�.

If the man is busy taking care of his new born baby, I bet sex will be the last thing on his mind. You guys encourage irresponsible men to just have sex and give birth cos Quran allows it. How about the social problems caused by this polygamy? Who is gonna fix that?

Men should be more self discipline to give all for the children they brought to this world without any plan to take care of them just cos they are busy thinking on when to bring in the next wife. Take care if you kids, be a good role model. Life is beyond sex.

olayinka63:

Your opinion stays with you likewise mine. I am from polygamous home, we didn't beg for food nor go on debt for our social needs. We are all educated, no social problem cause. Once you think you're capable do it. If you think you're not then stay with one. Even if you are not capable of maintaining one then don't marry atall. I'm still saying again, your orienatinn about polygamy will change once you, your neighbours have three, four daughters each without a son.

As we have people with daughters so we have family with boys only, so that is not even the issue. The issue is you denying the social problems caused by polygamy cos you just wanna justifies your point. That is not been truthful.

Friend01:


Thanks for the time.
I really appreciate your effort you put in to navigate beyond what is what your mental faculty is still confused to come to terms with.

And again, your opinions are well noted and articulated and immediately disregarded.

Same here likewise.
Adios.

As for your earlier mention you type like as if women do not work and are not financially capable or survive without men.
Since polygamy is the solution how well have the men with more than one wife including the widows have the able to cater for all the women and children if not through street begging which is mostly done by the children who ought to be in school.These men and women deny their responsibilities and heap it on their children and continue to breed like chickens.

Please and please. I am a Muslim and i will advise. Not all the clerics say is sensible. So don't listen to all. And not all news a truthful.

Tbaby4real:

Show me a family it ever work in. The truth is it never work!!! Any average man in Nigeria today that is capable of two wives�.

If the man is busy taking care of his new born baby, I bet sex will be the last thing on his mind. You guys encourage irresponsible men to just have sex and give birth cos Quran allows it. How about the social problems caused by this polygamy? Who is gonna fix that?

Men should be more self discipline to give all for the children they brought to this world without any plan to take care of them just cos they are busy thinking on when to bring in the next wife. Take care if you kids, be a good role model. Life is beyond sex.

You. are preaching discipline based in your own personal. experience whereas, I currently have a uncle with a average means who has two wives and six children.
I also have two men who brothers one has four wives and the other has two wives and they are my that rich but are living well.
You don't brush an option aside simply because it didn't work for you.
like they say, different strokes for different innit?
I understand your pains and maybe regrets, but we can't substitute this for something human which can not truly solve our problems.

Even those practicing monogamy are we not still hearing of one form of abuses or the other.
The highest rate of abuse,infedility and divorce are more from monogamous marriages than in polygynous marriages.
This is the fact

Ladyhippolyta88:

Same here likewise.
Adios.

As for your earlier mention you type like as if women do not work and are not financially capable or survive without men.
Since polygamy is the solution how well have the men with more than one wife including the widows have the able to cater for all the women and children if not through street begging which is mostly done by the children who ought to be in school.These men and women deny their responsibilities and heap it on their children and continue to breed like chickens.

You like quarrel oh.
Or do you want me to marry you as my second wife?
I was only joking oh.
I never even marry half how much more one.

Stop using what is happening in the north as a yardstick. The north is not the total sum. of what Islām is or permit they have their own peculiar challenges and we also have too.

My uncle has two wives and his second wife is an Igbo lady who bore him three children and he is not that rich but at least can feed his family.
I know of two brothers in my community who have more than one wife. The eldest has two wives, the younger one has four and they are doing relatively well.
I have never heard of spousal abuse, or children not well fed and all that.
A female cousin of mine is married to the younger one as the third wife so what are we not saying.

like I said, I am a realist I don't just argue what I can't backup from reality.

Even the monogamy has its own challenges, but we don't want to mention them because it is so soothing that perfectly suit the narrative women want everyone to hear whereas it is otherwise.

I have a mother and a sister, I don't hate or despise women, but anything that will help to preserve their dignity I am all for it especially polgynous marriages. lol..
No vex.

Friend01:


You. are preaching discipline based in your own personal. experience whereas, I currently have a uncle with a average means who has two wives and six children.
I also have two men who brothers one has four wives and the other has two wives and they are my that rich but are living well.
You don't brush an option aside simply because it didn't work for you.
like they say, different strokes for different innit?
I understand your pains and maybe regrets, but we can't substitute this for something human which can not truly solve our problems.

Even those practicing monogamy are we not still hearing of one form of abuses or the other.
The highest rate of abuse,infedility and divorce are more from monogamous marriages than in polygynous marriages.
This is the fact

It depends on what you mean by ‘living well’. You do not live with them so you may not be in a right position to say this categorically.

I’m not just using my experience alone. I know lots of men that do not even know how their wives manage the resources available to them but still get the second wife anyway. Their excuse, Quran permits them and they expect the woman to just be cool with it cos they are doing sunnah.

I have an uncle that I just told my brother not to send kobo to him again. I do not know he already married the second wife until I visited naija last year. He will always be on our neck for the children’s school fees and food. I had to tell him 3 years ago when he told me he just gave birth agin after 5 children to just stop having children obviously he couldn’t take care of them. He went ahead to report me to everyone that is ready to listen. I got home last year and realized he got another wife after 6 children from the first wife.

In my opinion, there is nothing different from a monogamy man that has concubines and a polygamy man that could not take care of what he acquired. They are both irresponsible and lack self discipline.

What nonsense!!! Confused set of people

Tbaby4real:


It depends on what you mean by ‘living well’. You do not live with them so you may not be in a right position to say this categorically.

I’m not just using my experience alone. I know lots of men that do not even know how their wives manage the resources available to them but still get the second wife anyway. Their excuse, Quran permits them and they expect the woman to just be cool with it cos they are doing sunnah.

I have an uncle that I just told my brother not to send kobo to him again. I do not know he already married the second wife until I visited naija last year. He will always be on our neck for the children’s school fees and food. I had to tell him 3 years ago when he told me he just gave birth agin after 5 children to just stop having children obviously he couldn’t take care of them. He went ahead to report me to everyone that is ready to listen. I got home last year and realized he got another wife after 6 children from the first wife.

In my opinion, there is nothing different from a monogamy man that has concubines and a polygamy man that could not take care of what he acquired. They are both irresponsible and lack self discipline.

Responsibility is greatly emphasized in the Shari'ah as it based one's carrying capacity.
A man carrying more what he can is injustice which Allāh has warned us severely against.
I agree with your opinion to an extent, but not to the extent of equating both a known fornicator to one who wishes to avoid it despite his financial incapability knowing Allah will provide with extra hard work.

The few or maybe many examples you are willing to cite does not still give room for us to just throw polygynous marriages out as an option.
A man maybe facing a temporal financial challenge does not mean it will last forever.
If he seeks assistance in taking care of his family there is nothing wrong in that ,if you know your are capable of helping not shaming him.
I also have an uncle who had somewhat similar experience like what you just narrated, but he was able to pull through and almost all is children are well to do now.
I have always had this problem of people comparing themselves with the Joneses.
Everyone has its own path he has been destined to thread willy nilly we just have to understand this and cut away this yardstick.

This life as you know is so complex that the one who is rich today might become poor and the poor might become rich and the cycle continues.
I as a Muslim I do not see anything wrong in having more wives if your intention is to avoid adultery or help a lady in need -depending on the situation if you know your can shoulder such responsibilities because you believe Allāh t is the one that enriches not humans.

And also know that no matterour human calculations no matter how close our permutation maybe ,but there is one thing for sure which is : you can't tell the outcome of your plans when it comes who might make it and who might not.

CAPSLOCKED:


IT'S THEIR RELIGION AND THE WOMEN ONLY SMILE IN IT, SOMETIMES I THINK IT'S BECAUSE THEY HAVE VERY LITTLE OPTIONS, OTHER TIMES I THINK THEY'RE JUST PLAYING FOOLS. I'LL NEVER UNDERSTAND HOW WOMEN SUPPORT AND ENJOY THESE SICK RELIGIONS/TRADITIONS AND SHUT THEIR EARS TO WHATEVER YOU HAVE TO TELL THEM AS A THINKER.
YOU MUST HAVE BEEN SEEING MY POSTS CONCERNING RELIGIONS, PARTICULARLY ABOUT WOMEN IN RELIGIONS.
AFTER ALL WE'VE KNOWN I'VE TRIED TO TALK ABOUT RELIGIONS WITH WOMEN. I'VE WATCHED DOCUMENTARIES AND INTERVIEWS OF WOMEN AND I MUST SAY THAT RELIGIOUS INDOCTRINATION IS DEATH ITSELF.
INDIAN WOMEN (SOME) WILLINGLY GIVE THEMSELVES TO BE BURNT ALIVE DURING THEIR HUSBANDS FUNERALS. SOME WOMEN SUBMIT TO HONOUR KILLING. MANY OF THEM PRESENT THEMSELVES WILLINGLY FOR THE WHIPPING RITUALS, AND THEY ALL SMILE IN ALL OF THIS TORTURE.
YESTERDAY I WATCHED A CLIP WHERE SOME ALGERIAN WOMEN TALKED ABOUT HOW THEY SO LOVE IT WHEN THEY RECEIVE BEATINGS AND INJURIES FROM THEIR HUSBANDS, AND HOW THEY ENJOY IT BECAUSE IT HELPS THEM NOT TO MISBEHAVE. I WAS STUNNED.
DOWN TO OUR COUNTRY MANY WOMEN ARE TOTALLY AGAINST EQUALITY AND THEY BACK IT UP WITH SCRIPTURAL VERSES. SOME WOMEN ARE FOR FGM, AND OTHER OBVIOUSLY RIDICULOUS JARGONS WHICH THEY BACKUP WITH THEIR HOLY BOOKS OR SOME CULTURAL PRINCIPLES. SO TALKING TO THESE WOMEN CAN BE A WASTE OF TIME. THEIR MOTHERS (AND FATHERS) ALREADY RUINED THEM FROM CHILDHOOD, THAT'S WHY I UNDERSTAND THE IMPORTANCE OF GETTING YOU A PARTNER THAT SHARE YOUR IDEAS, TO AVOID LEADING YOUR CHILDREN TO CHAOS, AND MAKING THEM GROW UP INTO THE KIND OF MØRONS WE ARE TODAY COURTESY OF OUR OWN PARENTS.

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