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Re: My Stammering Issue Is Depressing Me by dotun4luv(m): 9:06pm On Dec 20, 2018 |
Hey bro... Let me share this! Been a stammer isn't a sin or a crime. Back in my school days, a colleague successful finished his Msc as a stammerer, we call him a successful stammerer and today, he is the currently the HOD of a mathematics department in one of Nigeria Polytechnics. Why this short story? Been a stammerer isn't a short coming. Some people will love you for who you are and some will not even care no matter what. All you need to do is to see your deficiency as an advantage and make good thing out of it. 3 Likes |
Re: My Stammering Issue Is Depressing Me by chijioke17(m): 9:06pm On Dec 20, 2018 |
Stammering is a natural phenomenon that happens to everybody but it is more pronounced in some. It is caused by the brain processing a lot of thoughts at the same time so that the mouth finds a hard time speaking or voicing out those thoughts. You said you are always scared that you'll embarrass yourself when in public. Actually that is where the problem is. Due to your anxiousness you tend to increase stress in speaking. The normal person stammers when they are anxious ..... I believe you understand where I'm going to with this. When you want to speak and you discover you are anxious, take a pause and then take a deep breath. Count one to five in your mind and then speak out slowly but comfortably. Keep on doing that and with time you will stop stammering. The cure to stammering is speak slowly, do not be anxious, keep relaxed when you feel tensed. NB. Stammerers are more intelligent than the average human as their brains process thoughts faster 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Stammering Issue Is Depressing Me by Nobody: 9:07pm On Dec 20, 2018 |
Drock49:. |
Re: My Stammering Issue Is Depressing Me by studM(m): 9:07pm On Dec 20, 2018 |
Drock49: B strong bro..suicide is never an option ok..will advise u seek help medically or beter still talk to master Jesus d all solution provider |
Re: My Stammering Issue Is Depressing Me by Joybringer: 9:07pm On Dec 20, 2018 |
Drink a glass cup of pregnant woman urine in the morning, afternoon and evening consecutively for 9 months. Thank me later. |
Re: My Stammering Issue Is Depressing Me by solochris(m): 9:07pm On Dec 20, 2018 |
U are considering suicide? Oga live ur life happily jare. Life is too short to worry urself 1 Like |
Re: My Stammering Issue Is Depressing Me by jude33084(m): 9:07pm On Dec 20, 2018 |
Alexk2: God bless you Alex ![]() |
Re: My Stammering Issue Is Depressing Me by Kidaholic(m): 9:07pm On Dec 20, 2018 |
I don't know much about stammering but i do stammer when i'm shy or in an awkward position, and believe me its no fun... So just try to relax your nerves, feel free around people, don't concern yourself too much about your stutters when you speak. I believe it might help a little but sometimes a little is just enough for greater things.. Sorry bro, just stay strong ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: My Stammering Issue Is Depressing Me by Nobody: 9:07pm On Dec 20, 2018 |
mmadu5:shut up |
Re: My Stammering Issue Is Depressing Me by Nobody: 9:07pm On Dec 20, 2018 |
Swargu:BEST ADVICE |
Re: My Stammering Issue Is Depressing Me by AremoOG(m): 9:10pm On Dec 20, 2018 |
thornapple:So ![]() |
Re: My Stammering Issue Is Depressing Me by Cvomovers: 9:10pm On Dec 20, 2018 |
Drock49: Hi, you should watch this video from Steve harvey, he was a stammerer, but now he is a popular tv show host, the video below shows him advicing a lady who asked him how to overcome her own stammering condition, i hope it helps. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zZ4XNEDSKWY 6 Likes |
Re: My Stammering Issue Is Depressing Me by Nobody: 9:11pm On Dec 20, 2018 |
Talk slowly. Calculate your speech. I've never really had real contact with a stsmmerer though 1 Like |
Re: My Stammering Issue Is Depressing Me by calmnquiet(m): 9:11pm On Dec 20, 2018 |
Drock49: When you read the Bible which I suggest you start doing daily. Read it aloud slowly, then teach or preach to yourself what you understood by saying it out, slowly. Your confidence level begin to grow, and your speech pattern will be healed. Walk up to people without fear, be full of confidence, as time goes on it will become normal. 4 Likes |
Re: My Stammering Issue Is Depressing Me by Sexyolori(f): 9:11pm On Dec 20, 2018 |
Try to relax, don't be too self conscious when you speak it will make you fidget and stammer uncontrollably. practice in front of a mirror, take deep breaths before you speak,if you are about to stutter stop and continue. if you have access to a speech therapist please see one. don't let it get to you, everyone has one flaw. live your life and let the world see the best in you. 1 Like |
Re: My Stammering Issue Is Depressing Me by Lexusgs430: 9:12pm On Dec 20, 2018 |
Drock49: Fast talking helps put stammering under control..... You just need to be calm and composed, while talking fast..... If your stammering is causing you to feel suicidal, how do you expect dumb people to feel? 1 Like |
Re: My Stammering Issue Is Depressing Me by monimekaz(m): 9:13pm On Dec 20, 2018 |
Bros na wa ooo....do you know Mr Bean is a stammerer and don't even argue it ,he makes more money than many comedians who don't stammer ..Britain Got Talent 2018 was won born a comedian who completely lost his speech ..As in he can't talk at all ..Always see positivity in every thing ..find a way to turn your uniqueness to money .Abi na radio station u wan work ?? Brother I bow to you self ,ordinary stammer wey guys dey stammer na in you come turn big deal? 2 Likes |
Re: My Stammering Issue Is Depressing Me by Nobody: 9:14pm On Dec 20, 2018 |
Drock49:Do stomach exercises. Speak more from your stomach region than from your neck region 2 Likes |
Re: My Stammering Issue Is Depressing Me by pele12(m): 9:15pm On Dec 20, 2018 |
u jst hv to attend the up coming '5 night of glory' Salvation ministry Port Harcourt....many hv bn healed of d same issue... 2 Likes |
Re: My Stammering Issue Is Depressing Me by Offpoint: 9:16pm On Dec 20, 2018 |
thornapple:lol, after them don bash alot of people you wan dem make dem use dia original monicker? impossible |
Re: My Stammering Issue Is Depressing Me by Toks2008(m): 9:16pm On Dec 20, 2018 |
Drock49: Stammer confidently...some ladies find it sexy. 1 Like |
Re: My Stammering Issue Is Depressing Me by sisisioge: 9:16pm On Dec 20, 2018 |
Relax dude, just relax. It is not that bad biko...I once dated a stammerer. Na kisses I take finish the bobo. Relax, don't take life too seriously. Concentrate on self improvement that will lead to money for you...when you get money, even queen Elizabeth will fall for you ![]() 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Stammering Issue Is Depressing Me by sharpwriter(m): 9:17pm On Dec 20, 2018 |
thornapple: Yes nau.....no trace and nobody knowing it's yu ![]() ![]() |
Re: My Stammering Issue Is Depressing Me by tellwisdom: 9:17pm On Dec 20, 2018 |
Foolish boi... U should be worried why you are poor, not being a stammerer. |
Re: My Stammering Issue Is Depressing Me by Nobody: 9:19pm On Dec 20, 2018 |
Drock49: Make a style of talking from it. Find the way to talk that won't make u rush. If you could sing without stammering, then be talking like u are singing. E.t.c. Make a style of talking that won't make u stammer. Don't mind how it sounds to pols hearing. Just practice and be consistent. |
Re: My Stammering Issue Is Depressing Me by NathanAnomaly: 9:19pm On Dec 20, 2018 |
op inbox me and whole heartedly follow what I will tell u |
Re: My Stammering Issue Is Depressing Me by Nobody: 9:19pm On Dec 20, 2018 |
I think you've been experiencing anxiety. That could be the cause. Besides what others have suggested, I'll advice you download and watch 'the king's speech'. Its a true story based on queen Elizabeth's father what happened to be a stammerer. Be happy and healthy. 2 Likes |
Re: My Stammering Issue Is Depressing Me by forzarush(f): 9:21pm On Dec 20, 2018 |
Drock49:No need to be frustrated dear,speak more , keeping quiet won't help and ignore negative vibes. Sing often when you are alone,it will help. |
Re: My Stammering Issue Is Depressing Me by PDPGuy: 9:21pm On Dec 20, 2018 |
sisisioge:He was lucky. Not every guy, who stutters, can find a woman. |
Re: My Stammering Issue Is Depressing Me by MaestroJosh: 9:22pm On Dec 20, 2018 |
What makes the matter worse is because you're being controlled by people's opinion concerning your life. Calm yourself down, inhale nd exhale then say to yourself ; i can overcome this. Be positive nd relax, communicate with your friends as you always do, don't think too much, do what you love most and most importantly, try to keep it simple by speaking softly, not too fast, and with relaxed mind.. You'll surely overcome. The lord is your strength. 1 Like |
Re: My Stammering Issue Is Depressing Me by Offpoint: 9:22pm On Dec 20, 2018 |
Drock49:Dude take it or leave it... the best way to stop stammering by not giving a f++k about the shitz they say about you. say that word with confidence, the moment you stop worrying about what the person you're talking to will think, that moment you'll stop stammering. Don't just a f++k 2 Likes 1 Share |
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