Mygoldie:

it is more preferable  that the woman move into the man's house,instead of the other way round,but it is different in the west though,cos some men move into their lady's house and when they have a fight,the men get their as s chucked out by the women,lol. funny but true.

@ Goldie for Some lazy azz that are still getting it for free or hoping to get somethings for free does that** Mr FOC  

Mrs, Eve:

Yes, Mygoldie that is true. I asked Osama why he stand firm on the belief that the WOMAN should move in with the man.

Here a curveball, what if the woman has a house BOUGHT AND PAID FOR? The man doesn't own a home and stayed with roommates. Do the woman leave her HOME to move into a house not bought and paid for?

Osama10:

Like I said earlier on its the ideal thing that is the standard procedure.

Al-tho I know in the west anything goes.As for me I can't move into a woman's apartment.

Mrs, Eve:

Aww! It the ego thing with men huh? Interesting.

Mrs, Eve:

Aww! It the ego thing with men huh? Interesting.

Carolece:

In today's world, women are stronger. Gone are the days when a woman had no choice but to shack with a man or move in his house upon marriage. We are given great opportunities, bigger jobs, bigger pay checks, so we are "equal" to men interms of income. Most of us do better because most of us know how to manage our monies, even though we may tend to be shopaholics as per the unclothed eyes. But infact, most men spend far more than women as they engage in more unecessary spendings, going out to parties, having expensive drinks, and having multiple families. (am derailing a bit I know)

But in shacking, I did that with my last ex for 6 yrs, I collected rent from my home (nope, didnt split) but I contributed to bills, food and necessary spending thats to be done in the home. Today, people should have their own homes, because shyt does happen, if or when, or should I say when it does happen, you have yours to go back to.

If I should shack in the future, its going to be @ my place, he cant be coming to my place and be talking loud, I have ALL control in that shyt.

Chrisbenogor:

When will women ever get it into their heads to stop fighting for "equality", men and women can never and will never be equal. This western idea has ruined marriages and homes in Africa, true if you find yourself in a situation where you have to shack with your girl to save costs and all that fine, but the primary role of a man is that of a provider. We all have roles to play in this world and we should do it without feeling degraded.

Chrisbenogor:

When will women ever get it into their heads to stop fighting for "equality", men and women can never and will never be equal. This western idea has ruined marriages and homes in Africa, true if you find yourself in a situation where you have to shack with your girl to save costs and all that fine, but the primary role of a man is that of a provider. We all have roles to play in this world and we should do it without feeling degraded.

Carolece:

Its scary the way some of these "tribal" people still live in today's world. Women have no say but to be a man's slave. All people are equal, man woman, try learn that by now and get into the civilized world. Women should wise up by now aswell.

D-sense:

^^^You can join the wome race to castrate men

Carolece:

I dont think yall need any help, as most of yall are hanging yourselves by the d!cks and balls already. Loosers!
Most of you just hate when a woman is strong. Good Lord.

Chrisbenogor:

My dear there is no wising up here, I am not saying humans should be discriminated against, I am saying we have roles. One of the roles of a woman is to produce children and a man cannot do this. The man on the other hand traditionally has to provide for the woman, thus in a biological sense the man tends to be the "Head" of the home. Civilized world or not women can never and will never be able to do what a man does without ultimately sacrificing a lot, this is not tribal but common sense. I beats me how it escapes women.

Carolece:

Its clear you are stuck in the early 1800ths and in the bushes.

Mrs, Eve:

Dsense,

You want to move in with me? I have an extra room.

Mrs, Eve:

Greetings!

Who [b]DECIDES the housing situation?[/b]  In each regions, there are different housing customs that one's follow because of tradition.  In some regions, a woman leave the family's home for the husband's familial home.  Those traditions remain current while some withers away. If the woman does not provide children or submit to the rules of the man's home she is banished and something worse happens, you figure it out.

Now the question for the MEN, would you leave your familial home and move into your wife's home?  The question for the single guys, would you [b]SHACK[/b]with your girlfriend just to save money? 

In the West, women are owning their own homes and often time the men who do not own homes move in with the woman.  Go to show how the tables are turn and one false move the man could be homeless. 

Mrs, Eve:

I don't want you to wash my undies no way because [size=2pt]I don't wear any.[/size]