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Re: My Parents Chased Me Out Of The House Because I Am Dating A Disabled Man by Ogaga87(m): 3:51pm On Dec 23, 2018 |
Shay na because the person involve nor be Dangote or Otedola abi.. Your parents get sense well, well.. Dem try for still thinking say you be baby.. All these parents won't stop |
Re: My Parents Chased Me Out Of The House Because I Am Dating A Disabled Man by firstolalekan(m): 3:52pm On Dec 23, 2018 |
Carrywent:This is criminal here I don't advice criminals ![]() |
Re: My Parents Chased Me Out Of The House Because I Am Dating A Disabled Man by Nobody: 3:53pm On Dec 23, 2018 |
Pls marry him. |
Re: My Parents Chased Me Out Of The House Because I Am Dating A Disabled Man by AmazingELixir: 3:53pm On Dec 23, 2018 |
![]() Wow Diswan naa serious matter. |
Re: My Parents Chased Me Out Of The House Because I Am Dating A Disabled Man by Richy4(m): 3:53pm On Dec 23, 2018 |
He is not disabled but physically challenged stop using the word disabled.. It sounds some how to the ear.. 1 Like |
Re: My Parents Chased Me Out Of The House Because I Am Dating A Disabled Man by laivwire(m): 4:01pm On Dec 23, 2018 |
One of my half brothers had polio from childhood. Its quite bad as both legs were affected and he uses a pair of crutches. His waist downward is also thoroughly underdeveloped. He should be around 40 years now and married to one of the most beautiful 'able bodied' women I have ever seen. He has 2 masters, a politician with APC and about to run for office by 2023. He's also got 4 beautiful kids, girls and boys. Disability is never a barrier but marriage is a serious issue. There's no backing out especially if you are a christian. Its easy to look at surviving in the short term but imagine being with him for years unending. Like someone said above which I can confirm, in marriage love is important but common sense and logic is importanter. Is he equally crazy over you or likely to look outside after he hammers especially in the music world of today. My parents didn't support my marriage either but they later gave their consent with a grain of salt. My mind was prepared for the worst case scenario and I'm thankful I wasn't disappointed with my decision but I'm happy and blessed with pleasant surprises. Its all up to you. 5 Likes |
Re: My Parents Chased Me Out Of The House Because I Am Dating A Disabled Man by mikejj(m): 4:01pm On Dec 23, 2018 |
good one i celebrate you..but ask yourself the bitter question...can you live with a disable person for the next 100 years of your life...?? |
Re: My Parents Chased Me Out Of The House Because I Am Dating A Disabled Man by Nobody: 4:06pm On Dec 23, 2018 |
Carrywent: Nothing left to say. Listen to the man that first commented. He said it all.... |
Re: My Parents Chased Me Out Of The House Because I Am Dating A Disabled Man by lordimmaogidi(m): 4:06pm On Dec 23, 2018 |
Serious!!! If those Men On wheel Chair F*ck you ehhhh,You will be in heaven... |
Re: My Parents Chased Me Out Of The House Because I Am Dating A Disabled Man by Nobody: 4:07pm On Dec 23, 2018 |
sounds like you really love him and he loves you too. if you leave him you might not find another love like him again and you're going to regret it. |
Re: My Parents Chased Me Out Of The House Because I Am Dating A Disabled Man by Nobody: 4:08pm On Dec 23, 2018 |
Carrywent:If it's love, you can't fight love. Beg your parents for their consent if they still do not agree( in which they'll eventually), then... For me all I can say is search the scriptures, because I don't want you disobeying your parents. Disobeying your parents can bring a curse. Settle the matter with God first, he'll give you the path to follow and if it's your will( because God loves his children's will) he'll surely make your parents to agree with it. The scripture( the Bible) is the answer. |
Re: My Parents Chased Me Out Of The House Because I Am Dating A Disabled Man by Nobody: 4:09pm On Dec 23, 2018 |
Ogaga87: But the Reality is that the Person is not Dangote or Otedola na... |
Re: My Parents Chased Me Out Of The House Because I Am Dating A Disabled Man by INDUSTRIALFAN(m): 4:11pm On Dec 23, 2018 |
1StopRudeness:stop it man. I have a disabled cousin who is married. He never needs help for anything not even to go up the stairs. He drives himself. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Parents Chased Me Out Of The House Because I Am Dating A Disabled Man by tabithababy(f): 4:11pm On Dec 23, 2018 |
Listen to your parent or else you will regret it |
Re: My Parents Chased Me Out Of The House Because I Am Dating A Disabled Man by Ogaga87(m): 4:12pm On Dec 23, 2018 |
Noel1: I dey drink garri now.. When I'm done I go reply you 1 Like |
Re: My Parents Chased Me Out Of The House Because I Am Dating A Disabled Man by Nobody: 4:14pm On Dec 23, 2018 |
Ogaga87: Merry Drinking! |
Re: My Parents Chased Me Out Of The House Because I Am Dating A Disabled Man by Ogaga87(m): 4:15pm On Dec 23, 2018 |
Re: My Parents Chased Me Out Of The House Because I Am Dating A Disabled Man by zicoraads: 4:16pm On Dec 23, 2018 |
Going against one's parents concerning life time decisions like marriage can be very difficult. But sometimes, it isn't always a bad decision. |
Re: My Parents Chased Me Out Of The House Because I Am Dating A Disabled Man by Nobody: 4:16pm On Dec 23, 2018 |
Re: My Parents Chased Me Out Of The House Because I Am Dating A Disabled Man by Ogaga87(m): 4:18pm On Dec 23, 2018 |
Re: My Parents Chased Me Out Of The House Because I Am Dating A Disabled Man by obowunmi(m): 4:21pm On Dec 23, 2018 |
Carrywent: Follow your heart. Love with the right person is beautiful. |
Re: My Parents Chased Me Out Of The House Because I Am Dating A Disabled Man by Notatribalist(m): 4:25pm On Dec 23, 2018 |
MissRaine69:don't mind those selfish guys posting rubbish.. No one knows tomorrow. The able body man today can become disable tomorrow.. 1 Like |
Re: My Parents Chased Me Out Of The House Because I Am Dating A Disabled Man by Nobody: 4:31pm On Dec 23, 2018 |
Carrywent:It shows. It's written all over your post and it's heartwarming. Forge ahead with the relationship, girl. Cheers. 2 Likes |
Re: My Parents Chased Me Out Of The House Because I Am Dating A Disabled Man by Berankis: 4:39pm On Dec 23, 2018 |
MissRaine69:May God bless you! |
Re: My Parents Chased Me Out Of The House Because I Am Dating A Disabled Man by AmeLonRo(m): 4:40pm On Dec 23, 2018 |
Love. You need to follow your parents sometimes. they know more than you. Hope your eye will not clear later. https://newkokoro.com/2018/12/23/why-men-need-sex-more-than-women/ |
Re: My Parents Chased Me Out Of The House Because I Am Dating A Disabled Man by berrystunn(m): 4:41pm On Dec 23, 2018 |
What do you know about love? You love him or you feel sorry for him, that driver your emotions What challenges have you cross with him ? What fight? What argument? What level of satisfaction? My friend listen to your parents Young star lovers. If you know, you will say yes |
Re: My Parents Chased Me Out Of The House Because I Am Dating A Disabled Man by AreaFada2: 4:41pm On Dec 23, 2018 |
MissRaine69:Plenty Amstel Malt or whatever you drink my dear. ![]() ![]() Her parents are more concerned about "what people will say". Not really about whether the guy is independent or not. Society that is largely superstitious, ignorant (even the educated) and biased cannot see beyond parochial inclinations. Does everybody have to climb many stairs daily even? Shouldn't we start thinking of the physically challenged when designing houses and offices to ease their movement? 3 Likes |
Re: My Parents Chased Me Out Of The House Because I Am Dating A Disabled Man by DavidEsq(m): 4:44pm On Dec 23, 2018 |
Carrywent:Where is part of the story where ur parents chased u out of the house? 2 Likes |
Re: My Parents Chased Me Out Of The House Because I Am Dating A Disabled Man by DavidEsq(m): 4:44pm On Dec 23, 2018 |
Carrywent: |
Re: My Parents Chased Me Out Of The House Because I Am Dating A Disabled Man by Berankis: 4:47pm On Dec 23, 2018 |
I have a brother, in fact the eldest son of my Dad who is disabled. In spite of his disability he is now a PhD holder, now lives in the United States with wife and 3 Children. He has a coaching centre in California and has a foundation in Nigeria which helps disabled people like him. He gives money to able bodied people like me. Even with my able body am yet to complete my MBA since 2014. What more can I say...? Life is life! Just be convinced within yourself and make your decisions. It will be well! 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Parents Chased Me Out Of The House Because I Am Dating A Disabled Man by goodmorning40: 4:47pm On Dec 23, 2018 |
It is not advisable to go into marriage without the consent of both families. If your family does not agree delay the marriage until u get their consent through gentle persuasions. Getting pregnant like some people adviced here will only make things worst. Marriage is not as blissful as you are viewing it now, it is a long rough road, u will need all the support u can get, being abandoned by your family through marriage is like travelling on a long road of emotional torture and pains. That is not to say that marriage success depends on family consent but love is truly not enough for marriage. Your parents have been around much longer, they have seen it all so their fears might not be unfounded. Consider their advice very closely. Marrying a disabled man is not a ticket to bad life after all many married able bodied men but still live as ones with disabled husbands becos they do virtually everything by themselves alone. You just have to be sure you are ready for the challenges |
Re: My Parents Chased Me Out Of The House Because I Am Dating A Disabled Man by able1993(m): 4:52pm On Dec 23, 2018 |
Sorry about that, it is just another dimension of life, pick up pieces and face it, I wish you well on your journey..... Anyway, if you wish to be motivated about what you are doing or want to read life stories to learn from, success strategies.....then visit www.motivate.com.ng |
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