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Re: My Teenage Sister Already Having Sex With Yahoo Boys & My Father Is An Extremist by nedubest(m): 12:50am On Dec 28, 2018 |
nawa oo |
Re: My Teenage Sister Already Having Sex With Yahoo Boys & My Father Is An Extremist by DedeNkem: 12:51am On Dec 28, 2018 |
IamPlato: Your father didn't handle it well, he in fact, made it worse. 1 Like |
Re: My Teenage Sister Already Having Sex With Yahoo Boys & My Father Is An Extremist by MycoleA(m): 12:55am On Dec 28, 2018 |
So funny how everyone is judging the poor girl, I think your sis is in lack of love..your father's love |
Re: My Teenage Sister Already Having Sex With Yahoo Boys & My Father Is An Extremist by GeniusDavid(m): 1:00am On Dec 28, 2018 |
All these could have been avoided with proper parenting. Best to cut your losses, move on and probably pray for her safety daily (if prayer is your thing). There's really nothing you can do anymore, she controls her destiny. |
Re: My Teenage Sister Already Having Sex With Yahoo Boys & My Father Is An Extremist by harry2sexy(m): 1:10am On Dec 28, 2018 |
IamPlato:I usually do not comment on Nl but let's see how it goes. Here's my own story. I have a younger brother who,well,used to be good and when he got into school,got missed up with bad boys and became smoking indian hemp. Now,my family happens to be quite religious and there was one time he came home for hols,and out of the blues was smoking imside the house and my mum caught him. Everyone cried,pleaded,bla bla,everything seemed not to work. Anyways my pops registered him in a rehan centre and he was able to open up to the therapist. Kids like my brother and your sister have a knack for attention and when outsiders give it to them,they feel that they are in love. Now,have you ever had a family meeting where everyone just sat together to express feelings?lemme answer that for you,No,why,cause you're shy Bros,i don't know you,but can you sit everyone together and tell them to say what's on their mind,that's what those therapist usually advice,not judgemental eyes,no hate,just gather everyone together to express themselves. If you need help along the way,feel free to pm. God bless your family cos in the end,that's all we have eventually 6 Likes |
Re: My Teenage Sister Already Having Sex With Yahoo Boys & My Father Is An Extremist by D1zion: 1:11am On Dec 28, 2018 |
A day is coming when she will give her life to Christ completely, that is an experience of near death will make her repent if she live to tell the story.but don't relent in praying for her over her being lost to the world. |
Re: My Teenage Sister Already Having Sex With Yahoo Boys & My Father Is An Extremist by bigcasava1(m): 1:16am On Dec 28, 2018 |
IamPlato:then why calling ur father extremist? men can't bear shame so let him act as please to him. 1 Like |
Re: My Teenage Sister Already Having Sex With Yahoo Boys & My Father Is An Extremist by Willgates(m): 1:18am On Dec 28, 2018 |
UyaiIncomparabl: You obviously just wanted to make a comment. |
Re: My Teenage Sister Already Having Sex With Yahoo Boys & My Father Is An Extremist by Elliot2(m): 1:23am On Dec 28, 2018 |
IamPlato:Look bro,u,ur pops man n mallie r overacting. Although it is a good thing u guys r shown ur displeasure,it will only hurt u guys d more while she rots more. so,my advice is that u guys let her be. truth is,she go explore did life wet dey sweet am until na she go tire,but funny enough life go still remain. |
Re: My Teenage Sister Already Having Sex With Yahoo Boys & My Father Is An Extremist by othenok(f): 1:36am On Dec 28, 2018 |
You're focusing more on the symptoms and not the cause. Your sister needs to see a therapist that will help her. This not a beating issue. She needs psychological intervention. Please get her help asap 3 Likes |
Re: My Teenage Sister Already Having Sex With Yahoo Boys & My Father Is An Extremist by Nobody: 1:53am On Dec 28, 2018 |
emmyid: Bikers carnival with about 10 toy bikes lol. |
Re: My Teenage Sister Already Having Sex With Yahoo Boys & My Father Is An Extremist by Nobody: 1:55am On Dec 28, 2018 |
It is obvious your sister is a Nymphomaniac. She needs sex rehab asap. |
Re: My Teenage Sister Already Having Sex With Yahoo Boys & My Father Is An Extremist by LordofNaija: 2:01am On Dec 28, 2018 |
Please let me have your sister's phone number. I want to talk with her 2 Likes |
Re: My Teenage Sister Already Having Sex With Yahoo Boys & My Father Is An Extremist by otokx(m): 2:10am On Dec 28, 2018 |
Are there good REHAB centres in Nigeria? |
Re: My Teenage Sister Already Having Sex With Yahoo Boys & My Father Is An Extremist by cbrass(m): 2:10am On Dec 28, 2018 |
Simplep: Your pf looks scary |
Re: My Teenage Sister Already Having Sex With Yahoo Boys & My Father Is An Extremist by solz007(m): 2:42am On Dec 28, 2018 |
People Usually Don't Learn From People's Mistakes Until It Happens To Them!! Just let her live her Life, her sense go soon come back nah she go locate house shap shap... Keep Praying For Her! 1 Like |
Re: My Teenage Sister Already Having Sex With Yahoo Boys & My Father Is An Extremist by crackerspub: 2:58am On Dec 28, 2018 |
IamPlato: Take her to TB Joshua, she needs deliverance. She's possessed a sexual demons. |
Re: My Teenage Sister Already Having Sex With Yahoo Boys & My Father Is An Extremist by touchplay(m): 3:02am On Dec 28, 2018 |
IamPlato:I'm having same kinda dad too. i feel ur pain bro. |
Re: My Teenage Sister Already Having Sex With Yahoo Boys & My Father Is An Extremist by fortune1894(m): 3:05am On Dec 28, 2018 |
take her to the barrack make soldiers drill am trust me the fear of going back there will bring about a change but mind you she may abscond after the drilling due to fear |
Re: My Teenage Sister Already Having Sex With Yahoo Boys & My Father Is An Extremist by Decryptor(m): 3:22am On Dec 28, 2018 |
Allylic: It won't work. High oestrogen levels are at play. She is sexually active and there is nothing that can be done until she learns the hard way by becoming pregnant and denied by all the boys whom she frolicked with. Her eyes will clear then |
Re: My Teenage Sister Already Having Sex With Yahoo Boys & My Father Is An Extremist by propsvila: 3:26am On Dec 28, 2018 |
Sometimes their problems are spiritual they don't do all those things with plain eyes. Just love and prayer using harsh way will result to another thing which might lead to regret. My neighbour use to have this 12 years old girl that will make her cry out tears. The mother will tell you that she is very wicked, she will cook soup and the girl will deliberately pour it away and will talk to the mother any how, she has given her all kinds of beating still to no avail. When I looked into the lite girl eyes I told her mother she is possessed and will only need deliverance not physical beating. Today the girl is cool headed and one of her monther's favourite daughter |
Re: My Teenage Sister Already Having Sex With Yahoo Boys & My Father Is An Extremist by victorazyvictor(m): 3:46am On Dec 28, 2018 |
IamPlato: Your mother sha! |
Re: My Teenage Sister Already Having Sex With Yahoo Boys & My Father Is An Extremist by MChaze25(m): 3:46am On Dec 28, 2018 |
It's a hereditary trait that most parents ignore before marriage. Between your mum or Dad, one of them lived that kinda life and is sitting down there pretending he/she is holy under the cover of marriage. There is no smoke without fire! It's only grace of God that turns things around for good. I know many male friends I distanced myself from years ago just because they 're extreme womanizers with high sex libido. The worst is that they are always the ones to rush into marriage. No rehab or medical counselling. No spiritual attention. You want to tell me they married women with low libido? One even swore he must marry from a particular tribe in Nigeria because of the high sex libido known with the women from there. Now imagine what they will produce as children? Angels abi?...I don't want to laugh. OP you sister needs Jesus and a good deliverance. Sought out a true man of God. Another solution is to give a carefully articulated thunder slap once she walks in from any of her waka waka. Just take your time with the slap. Don't kill her o 5 Likes |
Re: My Teenage Sister Already Having Sex With Yahoo Boys & My Father Is An Extremist by crisycent: 4:01am On Dec 28, 2018 |
Let your sister be...there’s very little you can do to savage the situation....she’s already a child of the world. However, she will soon realise that you don’t call father and mother the same way. |
Re: My Teenage Sister Already Having Sex With Yahoo Boys & My Father Is An Extremist by MaziOmenuko: 4:27am On Dec 28, 2018 |
IamPlato: Lol...peeps don't understand waddup; she's not as terrible as your family is making her look. Shes having sex, yes, that's waddup. Sex has destroyed good families; women has abandoned their husband, children and good homes just to follow one Street boy becuase of sex. Responsible men have lost their work/family/careers because of sex. Trying to stop a teenager from having sex is trying to work against nature. She's started it, what your family needs is damage control. You think it's worse now? Nope! Think of what happens if she gets HIV? Or pregnant? Or tries aborting a feotus and damages her womb? Those are the permanent scars that could ruin her totally. So try and compare where she is now to the scenarios I just painted, then you will realize that chasing her out of the house was a bad move. Well, you are not the decision maker in your house, your dad is and as such, you have little or no influence in the matter. Just talk to your dad to losen up. His uptight ars'e will ruin that girl. Burning her properties does not mean nada. If/when she gets belle, the home-boy riding her now will definitely push her away and guess where she will come to? Same house you guys chased her off. Whether una like am or not 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Teenage Sister Already Having Sex With Yahoo Boys & My Father Is An Extremist by saucemanny(m): 4:29am On Dec 28, 2018 |
IamPlato: child of the world...that thing don sweet the gal but she get belle she go come too her senses. |
Re: My Teenage Sister Already Having Sex With Yahoo Boys & My Father Is An Extremist by MaziOmenuko: 4:33am On Dec 28, 2018 |
othenok: Xda59: Guys calm down, Na naija family be dis no be jand things. How you wan take her go rehab even if they find one? You bundle her inside the trunk of the car and head down to rehab? She doesn't see her lifestyle as a problem. She probably have friends of the same age doing it so why would hers be any different. Moreover, she's enjoying it. |
Re: My Teenage Sister Already Having Sex With Yahoo Boys & My Father Is An Extremist by phinter: 4:38am On Dec 28, 2018 |
Prayer is a solution. No matter how it may sound to some people here. Keep praying for her and take her back in. Its better she is going out from home and she is being talked to daily, followed by prayers. One day God willing, she will change. |
Re: My Teenage Sister Already Having Sex With Yahoo Boys & My Father Is An Extremist by KingThreatzz: 4:44am On Dec 28, 2018 |
You all need to sit down together and make an intervention that will save her life. Take her to a church camp or something. One with strict rules, no phones and the rest. She will adjust. 1 Like |
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