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Re: My Teenage Sister Already Having Sex With Yahoo Boys & My Father Is An Extremist by Allylic(f): 11:59am On Dec 28, 2018 |
Decryptor:I don't want her to tow that path..she might not be able to recover again.. |
Re: My Teenage Sister Already Having Sex With Yahoo Boys & My Father Is An Extremist by ponti93(m): 12:01pm On Dec 28, 2018 |
Free her... Let experience be her best teacher |
Re: My Teenage Sister Already Having Sex With Yahoo Boys & My Father Is An Extremist by cyrilvibez(m): 12:03pm On Dec 28, 2018 |
experience is the best teacher, don't worry when she is done hoeing, her mind will now teach her that family is the best team you can have. |
Re: My Teenage Sister Already Having Sex With Yahoo Boys & My Father Is An Extremist by ONY3KAH(m): 12:09pm On Dec 28, 2018 |
Better use her buy benz before another person |
Re: My Teenage Sister Already Having Sex With Yahoo Boys & My Father Is An Extremist by lolipopandy(f): 12:10pm On Dec 28, 2018 |
You have no right to judge her if you ain't a virgin . |
Re: My Teenage Sister Already Having Sex With Yahoo Boys & My Father Is An Extremist by CheedyJ(m): 12:10pm On Dec 28, 2018 |
IamPlato:Bro,we re having d same issue oo..my 19 yr old sister is miles ahead of ur sister, worst is she refused to come home despite ASUU being on strike & she no longer picks any member of d family's call not even our mum's... I need advice ooo cos it's causing huge quarrel BTW our parents.. I pray ur sister changes for d better.. |
Re: My Teenage Sister Already Having Sex With Yahoo Boys & My Father Is An Extremist by harsysky(m): 12:13pm On Dec 28, 2018 |
Now , I fully understand what my mum used to tell us , her children. when she gave birth to my sister at a tender age of 18, the nurses were wondering how she would take care of her child since she was actually too young. she smiled and said, " it is not in my hands to take care of her. i will tell her the truth and let God do the rest." My mum stopped at standard five during her schooling but I learnt alot from how she was able to raise us all. in summary, no one can raise a child the right way. in all you do, ask for wisdom from God to raise children cos they are the hardest thing to control--the hardest! 1 Like |
Re: My Teenage Sister Already Having Sex With Yahoo Boys & My Father Is An Extremist by cyrilvibez(m): 12:15pm On Dec 28, 2018 |
experience is the best teacher, don't worry when she is done hoeing, the rigours of her escapades will remember for her that family is the best team you could have. the only thing you will be praying for is that she should not come back worse than the way she left. 1 Like |
Re: My Teenage Sister Already Having Sex With Yahoo Boys & My Father Is An Extremist by Decryptor(m): 12:18pm On Dec 28, 2018 |
Allylic: It's a path she has chosen...let her tow it! 1 Like |
Re: My Teenage Sister Already Having Sex With Yahoo Boys & My Father Is An Extremist by Nobody: 12:21pm On Dec 28, 2018 |
alexmaye: People hardly say I love u mom or I lve u dad in nigeria household, d only way to express such a word is when a calm prayer section is held every morning, ,,,no matter how stuboon a person is e go calm down, ,,check all your friends cycle d ones dat hold morning devotion and see how discipline they live, ,,,just a few dat may still decide to b wayword 3 Likes |
Re: My Teenage Sister Already Having Sex With Yahoo Boys & My Father Is An Extremist by Nobody: 12:31pm On Dec 28, 2018 |
IamPlato: You may want to fund out the genesis of the change. School? Was she molested? Bullied? Talk to your sister on her own. Don't mention your parents just talk to her. She's rebelling to draw attention....there's typically an underlying cause |
Re: My Teenage Sister Already Having Sex With Yahoo Boys & My Father Is An Extremist by Conestone(m): 12:37pm On Dec 28, 2018 |
Get her to read these comments. But actually if u really love your sister take her to see the Bishop of the Whole World for that is the solution |
Re: My Teenage Sister Already Having Sex With Yahoo Boys & My Father Is An Extremist by goldman777: 12:37pm On Dec 28, 2018 |
I think your sister has a two medical problems if the spiritual solutions has failed.1. she may have abnormally high estrogen levels a medical condition which is usually overlooked in Nigeria which gives her high urge for sex.2. she may need to see a shrink or therapist because she is going through psychological problems with herself or at home |
Re: My Teenage Sister Already Having Sex With Yahoo Boys & My Father Is An Extremist by Ugosample(m): 12:38pm On Dec 28, 2018 |
Many of you have not mentioned the real problem here.... The real problem for this young woman is PEER PRESSURE. And the messed up part of the 21st century is that peer PRESSURE is both in physical form "Omo wobey" friends AND virtual peer pressure, which is pressure from social media. These things are messing a lot of women up these days. But this is what I'll do if this was my sister. one of these days we will have a long friendly chat, and whole chatting, I'll tell her point blank, in a non judgemental way the consequences of such rough lifestyle, and of course make myself available ifshe has anything to talk abt You need to do that. As for your dad, smh He should know that the tactics of the devil have changed to ruin young folks, and as parents,we need to change out own tactics to be one step ahead of the machinations of the devil. Beating, sending out of the house and all that stuff may work 45 years back, but these days, it's ineffective It will only make her fall into the wrong hands more |
Re: My Teenage Sister Already Having Sex With Yahoo Boys & My Father Is An Extremist by Ugosample(m): 12:40pm On Dec 28, 2018 |
salsera: Exactly @OP talk to her in a friendly manner, develop a relationship with her and all, with time she will open up No judgement |
Re: My Teenage Sister Already Having Sex With Yahoo Boys & My Father Is An Extremist by INDUSTRIALFAN(m): 12:54pm On Dec 28, 2018 |
emmyid:she is still 16 and not yet 18 which is her age of legality. Technically, she is still under his and her parents care and he has every right to go through her phone as she isn't of legal age yet. |
Re: My Teenage Sister Already Having Sex With Yahoo Boys & My Father Is An Extremist by abbey621(m): 12:55pm On Dec 28, 2018 |
NoToPile: I think the economic sistuation and the rise of Western influence is contributing to this. We are constantly being taught that African tradition is backwards and the Western tradition is good or divine. Kids no longer want to identify as African, parents are no longer in charge because most are technologically backwards, they don't know what their children are doing on Facebook, Snapchat and so on, it's a disaster! 1 Like |
Re: My Teenage Sister Already Having Sex With Yahoo Boys & My Father Is An Extremist by INDUSTRIALFAN(m): 12:58pm On Dec 28, 2018 |
Buharimustgo:lmao.. did you read that she is just 16? Isn't it this same Nigeria that any marriage under 18 is blamed on the government? Besides, she's a hoe and you want an innocent boy to marry her with all the trashy attitude and hoeism? Really? Will you advice your cousin, brother, nephew or son to marry such a girl? |
Re: My Teenage Sister Already Having Sex With Yahoo Boys & My Father Is An Extremist by Fourwinds: 1:27pm On Dec 28, 2018 |
ojun50:hmmmmm.. Dat girl don dey bang well well.... Dicck dey sweet her die.... Na special deliverance remain |
Re: My Teenage Sister Already Having Sex With Yahoo Boys & My Father Is An Extremist by mechanics(m): 1:33pm On Dec 28, 2018 |
That's not the solution, how will he know that the next woman he will bring won't also behave like her, the best solution is to pray for your parents and siblings. |
Re: My Teenage Sister Already Having Sex With Yahoo Boys & My Father Is An Extremist by jeph19(m): 1:34pm On Dec 28, 2018 |
The sex The affluence The designers The clubbing The iPhone The flamboyance The different hotels in choice locations The cuisines... Just name it ... Those are the things blowing her mind away, All you can do is pray for her, the only way she can learn is when she gets pregnant and probably puts to bed.... Thats if it's not aborted. ... Come to some parts of warri on Sunday evenings and see worse cases. Teenage girls these days are like tooth ache |
Re: My Teenage Sister Already Having Sex With Yahoo Boys & My Father Is An Extremist by Fourwinds: 1:40pm On Dec 28, 2018 |
lolipopandy:just imagine the way u attacked the OP....what nonsense is this...OP still stays in his father's house and he still follow his parents instruction...he is talking about his sister who leaves home and sometimes refuses to come home or come late....i think u need education badly |
Re: My Teenage Sister Already Having Sex With Yahoo Boys & My Father Is An Extremist by cherriex(f): 1:41pm On Dec 28, 2018 |
IamPlato: I understand how u feel, pls don't hate her, instead show her love, pls remove that feeling of disdain even though it might be hard, something good may still become of her, maybe she needs a counsellor and I am a counsellor and good at adolescent counseling, pls do email me or give me her number and social media handle, I will assist in bringing her back to reality. |
Re: My Teenage Sister Already Having Sex With Yahoo Boys & My Father Is An Extremist by Fourwinds: 1:43pm On Dec 28, 2018 |
Allylic:that is the reward of a wayward child |
Re: My Teenage Sister Already Having Sex With Yahoo Boys & My Father Is An Extremist by FILEBE(m): 1:45pm On Dec 28, 2018 |
UyaiIncomparabl: Pesky. Pesky. Like it is your latest discovery in the dictionary. Typical of dim wits always being defensive. Your comment on the topic was a rubbish one. A very rusbish and disgusting thing to come out of a lady. A lady who claims to be mature. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Teenage Sister Already Having Sex With Yahoo Boys & My Father Is An Extremist by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 1:47pm On Dec 28, 2018 |
FILEBE: Ok darling. Be good and stay out of trouble. |
Re: My Teenage Sister Already Having Sex With Yahoo Boys & My Father Is An Extremist by Fourwinds: 1:56pm On Dec 28, 2018 |
Allaboutkatiee:her problem is dicckk...she wont know Mathematics again since she has tasted it.... Hmmmmm |
Re: My Teenage Sister Already Having Sex With Yahoo Boys & My Father Is An Extremist by onegig(m): 2:01pm On Dec 28, 2018 |
Sterope: Exactly. She is over pampered and needs to learn the hard way jare. Their mum seems to be doing more damage than favour to the girl. Corrections has to be balanced not one sided. You are setting the kids up to fail |
Re: My Teenage Sister Already Having Sex With Yahoo Boys & My Father Is An Extremist by Fourwinds: 2:03pm On Dec 28, 2018 |
UyaiIncomparabl:ok now...remember those who refused to change were changed to BENZ.... |
Re: My Teenage Sister Already Having Sex With Yahoo Boys & My Father Is An Extremist by Fourwinds: 2:08pm On Dec 28, 2018 |
sparkle7:heheheheheheeeee |
Re: My Teenage Sister Already Having Sex With Yahoo Boys & My Father Is An Extremist by Fourwinds: 2:34pm On Dec 28, 2018 |
pocohantas:come closer,,, |
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