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Re: Help! My Wife Has A Flaccid Boobs by Nobody: 1:42am On Dec 29, 2018 |
Who are the mods in the section? @MrBrownJay1 Nothing to do with you. I am tired of the psycho following me around from section to section. |
Re: Help! My Wife Has A Flaccid Boobs by MrBrownJay1(m): 1:44am On Dec 29, 2018 |
Mindfulness: Ok you are the one who seems to be focussing on the plastic surgery part, while all along my issue has been WOMEN EXPECTING MEN TO STILL BE SEXUALLY ATTRACTED TO THEM, EVEN WIH DEFLATED CHEST. |
Re: Help! My Wife Has A Flaccid Boobs by ZIMDRILL(m): 1:47am On Dec 29, 2018 |
MrBrownJay1: getting a new wife is never the solution, if the overweighty or soggy breast is the only issue this what i have seen in african, being overweight is celebrated as sign of good leaving, especially gaining weight after marriage then some customs fat feed girls to overweight before she officially marries the husband (i dont see the point of doing it when we know that she wasnt like that naturally ) some of these things comes with age, the older yoy get the more you realise that there is more to life, marriage and love 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Help! My Wife Has A Flaccid Boobs by Nobody: 1:49am On Dec 29, 2018 |
MrBrownJay1: You have no issue with men expecting women to remain the same after child birth? If I got the OP correctly, he said his wife had a double dd. Her boobs would become saggy even without child birth. No rocket science. Anyway. For better, for worse. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Help! My Wife Has A Flaccid Boobs by MrBrownJay1(m): 1:56am On Dec 29, 2018 |
ZIMDRILL: True but who are we kidding?! majority of these men don't mount their fat wives any longer, and often have their ways to get their "groove on", on the side. Also, a lot of these women put on weight because after marriage they don't believe they NEED to be beautiful/appealing etc since the ring is around their fingers. Some men do like bigger women, but they generally go after them BEFORE MARRIAGE. The ones who go after the fine sexy succulent ones will be disgusted to see that wifey turned into a baby whale. 2 Likes |
Re: Help! My Wife Has A Flaccid Boobs by MrBrownJay1(m): 2:03am On Dec 29, 2018 |
Mindfulness: Why should there be an issue if a man wants his woman to be as he met her.....now men shouldn't expect wifey to be the same RIGHT AFTER CHILDBIRTH, but she certainly should do her best to get back to normal...if she doesn't then sexual attraction will be affected, thus sex at home will be different, and just a matter of time before family life affected. YES double DDs would sag regardless, but that's irrelevant to the issue at hand. When he met her they were full and plump, and that's what made their sex life exciting and desirable.we certainly can't expect deflated chest to bring the exact same reaction here. 3 Likes |
Re: Help! My Wife Has A Flaccid Boobs by Yuceeluv(f): 2:08am On Dec 29, 2018 |
..says a 'john doe' that means absolutely nothing to my existence ![]() ...Mr wise! You're sighted. Elder0001: 9 Likes |
Re: Help! My Wife Has A Flaccid Boobs by Nobody: 2:09am On Dec 29, 2018 |
MrBrownJay1: I am happy to say: NOT MY F*CKING PROBLEM. ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Help! My Wife Has A Flaccid Boobs by Jennifer89(f): 3:36am On Dec 29, 2018 |
bamirotola: You are beginning to fall out of love with her How is your mother's breast looking now is it still standing? Oga, a child has sucked that breast so you don't expect it to be like the way it was. Don't begin to make your wife feel insecure or body shame her. Her body has gone though a phase so accept it. If you had looked for a child for 10 years and eventually have it would you be thinking of the state of her breast? Going for plastic surgery is a risk but it is up to you that is if she want it and you are financially capable. Accept and love her body because even those girls you admire outside will still have their breast facing SOUTH when the time comes. |
Re: Help! My Wife Has A Flaccid Boobs by ZIMDRILL(m): 4:43am On Dec 29, 2018 |
MrBrownJay1: women body changes especially when one gives woman gives birth, eg c section scar, boobs, weight, strench marks etc, some can be worked out to what she used to be but boobs what can she do when 2 things play a role 1 custom she must breast thats she would be told by elders 2 the family can not afford baby formula, so the breast feeding is the only way |
Re: Help! My Wife Has A Flaccid Boobs by uboma(m): 4:53am On Dec 29, 2018 |
On your first post on this thread, you claimed that you do not want to loose your wife......... This is why the women here have taken their time to put you in your shoes. Thumbs up to them. Heed their advice, even if your ego is hurt, and you will be the better for it. The plastic surgery you are considering comes with its own hazard which could be life threatening if not properly managed. And again, you won't even enjoy the feel and taste of it. silicones can never feel and taste like the real thing. Someone here advertised herbal remedies. Please be careful that you do not give your wife herbal concoction to take as you truly do not know the source and it's content. As you are 'sure' of making your wife pregnant again, be informed that the breasts will get more flaccid and her vagina may get loose. I hope you won't open another thread to rant when these happens. Learn to appreciate your wife. Nature isn't fair to women. There is really no need to complicate matters by complaining..... bamirotola: 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help! My Wife Has A Flaccid Boobs by uboma(m): 5:01am On Dec 29, 2018 |
Yuceeluv: Asides from the push-up bra, her breasts looks more silicones than the real deal. |
Re: Help! My Wife Has A Flaccid Boobs by MMotimo: 6:33am On Dec 29, 2018 |
I like this topic OP, I wish you the best and I don't blame you for your concern. If I were male, I don't think flaccid boobies would do it for me so I understand where you are coming from. The deed is done now, I don't see any viable solution besides plastic surgery and I would not recommend doing that in Naija even if you could afford it. Ladies,a reminder that gaining and losing a lot of weight on a regular basis can slacken breast tissue. Space your pregnancies, maintain your weight within a 10 pound fluctuation when not pregnant. All these, I found on Google. Educate yourself, do not give up on your body. God made Eve before he made their kids, don't sacrifice your boobss on the altar of excessive breastfeeding, the breasts are also for sexual pleasure. Genetics can also play a role, look at the females in your family to see if you are predisposed to the condition. 2 Likes |
Re: Help! My Wife Has A Flaccid Boobs by CAPSLOCKED: 7:15am On Dec 29, 2018 |
Mindfulness: SO YOU MEAN TO SAY WOMEN THAT TRY TO ENHANCE THEIR PHYSICAL APPEARANCE EITHER THROUGH SURGERY, DIET, OR WORKOUT DO SO FOR SOMEONE ELSE'S (MEN'S) SEXÙAL GRATIFICATION? BUT YOU... THAT SPEND HOURS PAINTING YOUR FACE ALL RAINBOW COLOURS AFTER SPENDING MORE TIME IN SELECTING YOUR DRESSES AND WIGS, DOING YOUR NAILS AND EYEBROWS... IS SUPPOSED TO BE WITHOUT BLAME. YOU'RE A DIRTY CONFUSED HYPOCRITE, AND I'M DISAPPOINTED WITH MY FRIEND ELDER0001 FOR ROLLING IN MUD WATER WITH YOU ALL DAY. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help! My Wife Has A Flaccid Boobs by darlenese(f): 9:07am On Dec 29, 2018 |
dear lord. in my next life I want to be a MAN , but not a stupid egocentric selfish MAN. nature is not being fair to women men are not being fair to women. after a woman gives birth her husband wants her body to be perfect isn't this enough to cause depression . 2 months after I had my first child, my brother inlaw asked me why I had a big tummy , I haven't forgiven him till today, some people can be very disgusting 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help! My Wife Has A Flaccid Boobs by Nobody: 11:25am On Dec 29, 2018 |
darlenese: They grow pot bellies for no reason at all but gluttony and will come and tell you to have your body cut open so that you remain f*ckable to them. And they will compare it to make-up and wigs because surgeries are not painful and leave no scars behind, there are also no risks involved. 8 Likes |
Re: Help! My Wife Has A Flaccid Boobs by Nobody: 11:31am On Dec 29, 2018 |
Seun, your mods are not doing their job here. Is it deliberate? |
Re: Help! My Wife Has A Flaccid Boobs by darlenese(f): 12:10pm On Dec 29, 2018 |
Mindfulness: I pity any woman that will undergo surgery just to please a man, 5 Likes |
Re: Help! My Wife Has A Flaccid Boobs by Yuceeluv(f): 1:52pm On Dec 29, 2018 |
Re: Help! My Wife Has A Flaccid Boobs by NoToPile: 2:22pm On Dec 29, 2018 |
I have read so much annoying statements on this thread sha ![]() No longer red pant and bra its surgery abi ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Help! My Wife Has A Flaccid Boobs by Oyindidi(f): 2:34pm On Dec 29, 2018 |
darlenese:Only stupid men reason like your brother in-law and this op. 6 Likes |
Re: Help! My Wife Has A Flaccid Boobs by frozen70(f): 3:28pm On Dec 29, 2018 |
bamirotola: I understand how you feel about it and decides to share it with us Given birth to a child from conception to delivery changes somany things in a woman's body Thank God that it became flaccid due to breast feeding no that it just happened Embrace your self to the work of nature The only option is suggery But before you think of that consider if you still wan more kids or you are ok with just one Consider the cost and the affect effects Consider your wife too if she starts feeling bad about your worries and it starts affecting her hormones which in turn will affect her egg production Would you had wanted her to have a pointed breast but not being able to carry pregnancy, Would you have being more worried that she wasn't able to carry pregnancy as you are worried she bow has a sag boob Boobs are elasticatng, it streaches with pregnancy and age Relax your self, be happy and fundle those boobs to stimulate her, those boobs are still as sensitive as you met it Even you a time will come because of age you might not get quick erection to have great sex unless you use an enhancing drugs, all she would do at that time is to cooperate with you because nature is doing his job Your major concern is to satisfy her, sag boobs or no sag boobs No matter how firm a boob is, it will get sagged one day Enjoy yourselves 3 Likes |
Re: Help! My Wife Has A Flaccid Boobs by bamirotola: 5:34pm On Dec 29, 2018 |
Thank you! , I really appreciate frozen70: |
Re: Help! My Wife Has A Flaccid Boobs by psycoanalyst(f): 9:23pm On Dec 29, 2018 |
Get Fenugreek Powder Let Her Take It, Let See How It Goes, If No Improvement,Then I Will give You Some Home Made Tips That Can Revive The Boobs. |
Re: Help! My Wife Has A Flaccid Boobs by JoannaSedley(f): 9:47pm On Dec 29, 2018 |
Society sees women as sex objects from time immemorial and I am ashamed to acknowledge that women are trying so hard to live up to that degrading tag. Women of nowadays are walking corpse. I mean the body of an average woman is already a walking corpse. Is it the external chemicals they apply to look good, a mild and nice way of trying to appeal to the menfolk or the internal ones we ingests to mess up our hormones and reproductive system just to stop pregnancy? As if that is not enough,now women are intentionally and oftentimes being cajoled to insert, remove and augment their physical attributes to look more presentables by partners, peers and society. This guy is looking for ways to guilt trip his after one wife into getting a boob job for his fvcking pleasure. Better save up cos she is also getting a vaginoplasty before she clocks 35 and probably a d!ck enlargement for you after the 4th child. What do I know? 4 Likes |
Re: Help! My Wife Has A Flaccid Boobs by Mustay(m): 5:09am On Dec 30, 2018 |
This has been a very interesting topic and no need to add more. I don't think it is a gender thing but more about maturity and wisdom. Pregnancy is a death experiment mothers survive after childbirth. Whatever decision we want to take, let us weigh the options very well. There is a difference between making love and having sex. One is functional and a transaction, the other is a connection. 1 Like |
Re: Help! My Wife Has A Flaccid Boobs by boldconfidence: 8:36am On Dec 30, 2018 |
Sometimes the breast bounces back after like a year and half. I am speaking from experience. Before you do anything, give it that amount of time. Then she should wear good bras 1 Like |
Re: Help! My Wife Has A Flaccid Boobs by Chelseafan1: 9:01am On Dec 30, 2018 |
Originalsly: Bro, after child birth, is it possible for the wife not to breast feed at all so that it won't sag, if yes? What will happen to the milk in her breast, won't it affect her negatively and again, if the child isn't breastfed at all, won't it affect him later in the future? Cc Ifyalways...i won't allow my wife go thru surgery but I'm thinking of ways to make the breast stay attractive after giving birth to my intended two kids. My wife must remain hot for me. I am determined to help her. |
Re: Help! My Wife Has A Flaccid Boobs by darlenese(f): 9:43am On Dec 30, 2018 |
Chelseafan1: please forget about marriage . *assignment* take a look at all the female relatives who have given birth in your family , from your mothers ,aunt ,siblings etc. study their boobs , what u see is what u will get for the records , boobs will eventually sag even without having kids ... 5 Likes |
Re: Help! My Wife Has A Flaccid Boobs by Nobody: 10:09am On Dec 30, 2018 |
MrBrownJay1:If my husband turns broke, and remains below average in the financial department, should I tolerate this, because I’m honestly not attracted to church broke rats? I thought marriage is through thick and thin? Let a wife cheat on her husband or leave him because of his broke ass and his lowest point. You all will will be quick to dehumanise her. But now, men can’t accept the changes that occur in a woman’s body, or they will leave? It’s a shame. Life happens, shit happens and if you can’t accept this, then you’re not ready for marriage. 7 Likes |
Re: Help! My Wife Has A Flaccid Boobs by darlenese(f): 10:37am On Dec 30, 2018 |
with the comments coming from the men here , I think women should start cheating without remorse , if u feel u are no longer sexually attracted to your wife because of her boobs, do u men know what we women , endure just to keep our marriage ? even pot bellied men and people with awful looks will still come here and body shame women . rubbish 1 Like |
Re: Help! My Wife Has A Flaccid Boobs by tunde82seidat(f): 12:57pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
Chelseafan1: Its pregnancy hormones that causes sagging not neccessarily breastfeeding |
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